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Table Of Contents
Nondisclosure Agreement 06
Preface 07
Introduction 09
Acknowledgments 10
How To Use This Book 11
1. Getting Started 14
Why MySpace? 14
Characteristics Women Screen For 18
Beliefs 23
2. Prole Design 26
3. The AIM Method 37
4. Attract 41
First Things First 41
Messaging Fundamentals 47
Messaging 50
Transitioning To Ofine Interaction 67
5. Interact 86
Phone Interaction Fundamentals 87
Interacting 93
The Phone Call 96
Locking Down The Meeting 98
6. Meet 103
Meeting For The First Time 103
Social Fundamentals 111
In Closing 120
Appendix:
Nondisclosure Agreement / Terms and Conditions 122
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VII
Preface
Youll never guess what happened last night
Race calls me up and those are the rst words out of his mouth.
It had been a while since I had hung out with my good friend and
someone I would call a mentor. Race called me up to tell me he had
been perfecting a new technique for meeting women on MySpace.
Haha, riiight. Ok, this is probably the rst time hell realize that I
didnt completely believe him (sorry Race), but I am usually pretty
skeptical about the latest and greatest idea. Race goes on to tell me
how last night he had something like six women come over just to
chill and watch The Hillson a Monday nightwomen whom he
had never met before. Hmm, ok. Tell me more. So he did. Over the
past several months he and Kelly had led a crazy life where they
have met strippers, porn stars, regular girls who are really freaks (in a
good way), and more! I almost didnt believe it; I was intrigued. I had
to try it out to see if it really worked. Well, I was actually so excited
from talking to Race, that one Friday afternoon I decided to drive up
to his house in a different city and see things rsthand. That weekend
was crazy. Every night a new batch of girls came over to party. And
party we did! Lo and behold, the system workedfor him.
But would it work for me? That weekend I began crafting my
messages and learning in-depth about Race and Kellys new MySpace
system. It took a little while, but after a few days I nally got my rst
MySpace number. And she was a HOTTIE. As I started getting more
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practice and learning the ropes, things started to catalyze and soon
I had my rst party. Ill spare all the details, but let me just say the
rst time I had girls over from MySpace there were two strippers,
one girl who was totally trying to get everyone into a huge group
orgy, and a model whose last boyfriend was an NFL football player.
Im not talking about your ugly, fat girl from MySpace with the
angles. These were genuine hotties that all came to my place to
meet me for the rst time.
It is an honor for me to not only write this preface but to be one
of the people who helped tweak and rene the system set here
before you. My own process of learning these techniques has been
eye opening, and as you read through these pages know that I have
tried and used these techniques myself. Yes, there will be a slight
learning curve, but its really not that steep. Best of all, you can
practice as much as you want, when you want. I would encourage
you to try out these techniques word for word, step by step as they
are laid out for you. There is a method to the madness, and it will
only help you out at rst to do things our way. Over time, you
will get in a rhythm and try something different here and there, but
you should know that even I still copy and paste my responses from
the same pool of knowledge that youre reading from.
Good luck to you as you read and learn these secrets for meeting
women online. My guess is that within a week or two you will have
the rst of many numbers waiting for you in your inbox!
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IX
Introduction
There is no perfect method. Nothing will work on all girls all the
time. Becoming good with women is more about personal change.
You must become the type of man women are attracted to. Once
you become that man, almost any method you use will work for
you. This is not to say that all methods are created equal. The method
we have developed here has been proven to work for a wide range
of guys. In fact, the underlying principles are universal.
We have spent countless hours developing and perfecting this
method. We have studied many different elds including: social
dynamics, NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming), evolutionary
psychology, the science of persuasion, seduction, hypnosis,
relationship management and even Cosmopolitan! In addition, we
have been lucky enough to study under some of the most brilliant
minds in the pickup community today. Applying all these ideas and
principles to the world of MySpace has brought us amazing
opportunities, friends, adventures, and countless magical nights
with incredibly beautiful women.
Through our trials, mistakes, and eventual successes, the method is
yours. Now the fun we have had and are still having, is within your
grasp. Here is the method. Enjoy :)
Kelly Kellam & Race de Priest
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As fun as the bar/club scene can be, Im sure you have gone out
hoping you would meet someone, hit it off, and have an incredible
night only to come out empty-handed by the end of the night.
Just like the saying, A bird in the bag is worth two in the bush,
wouldnt it be much more rewarding to go out knowing you already
have three to ve women coming to meet you? Or even better, have
them meet you at your house!? These are women whom you have
already had an ongoing interaction with, you know (for the most
part) what they look like, and have a good idea what they are all
about. It takes the worry and wonder out of meeting new women
while allowing you to quickly build new social circles and manifest
new life opportunities.
By stepping out of your comfort zone and trying your hand at online
dating, you will have exciting new opportunities to meet people
you would have otherwise never met. This book provides you with
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tried and true methods for meeting people who you nd interesting
and by extension helps to improve your overall social life.
MySpace is the #1 social networking site on the planet. Lets review
a few statistics and see what they mean for you.
This means only one thing: lots and lots of beautiful women. Its like
shing in a lake that is constantly being stocked with new sh!
MySpace Statistics (as of April 2007)*:
185 million registered users
50.2% female / 49.8% male
Primary age demographic: 14 - 34
Over 45 billion page views per month over the last 5 months. The
second biggest site was Yahoo at around 35 billion. MSN, Google,
e-Bay and Facebook were all way behind at under 15 billion
350,000 new registrations each day
1 billion images on the site, 80 terabytes of space, 150,000
requests per second
Millions of new images per day
4.5 million people on site at any one time
*http://scottelkin.com/archive/2007/05/11/MySpace-Statistics.aspx
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These are the same hot girls you see every night at the bars and
clubs. Except when you approach them online, they are in a totally
different mindset. The shields they have up at the bars and clubs to
protect them from boring guy after boring guy are disengaged when
they are sitting at home relaxed on their computer. This instantly
puts you at an advantage!
This is not to say that girls using MySpace have no ltering process.
They certainly do! In this book you will learn to understand this
process and use that knowledge to your advantage. Furthermore,
meeting women on MySpace removes a large element of doubt
commonly associated with meeting them in person. When
approaching a girl for the rst time, you may worry if she is going
to nd you attractive, be fun to talk to, slap you in the face, ignore
you, have anything in common with you, laugh at your jokes, etc.
Through the magic of MySpace we can ip the roles and bring
about a rst physical interaction where she is well aware of her
attraction to you and where she is hoping you like her. How does
this work?
By using our method you build comfort, trust and some history
with her which means that by the time of your rst meeting she
already feels like she knows you. This process works in the guys
favor due to differences in the principles of attraction that govern
men and women. Men base attraction for the most part on physi-
cal appearance, sexual desirability, and some personality, whereas
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females base it on things like social standing, ability to provide for
a mate, sense of humor, personality and some looks (i.e. dont be
grotesquely overweight or have a third eye on your forehead).
Before ever meeting you she can get to know how cool and fun
you are, and based on her principles of attraction be attracted to
you. But you wont know if you are entirely attracted to her until
you satisfy your biggest standard for attraction: seeing how she appeals
to you in person. Up to that point, you are really just hoping she is
as attractive as her prole portrays her to be, whereas she already
knows she is attracted to you when you plan the meeting. Since
one of our distinct advantages on MySpace is using techniques that
appeal to womens principles of attraction it helps to understand
what characteristics they screen for.
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Before we begin contacting beautiful women on MySpace, we must
understand what the majority of them are screening for. When you
send a message to a woman on MySpace, she is going to subcon-
sciously pick up on little clues that when put together in her mind
will determine if she is going to respond to or delete your message.
We have narrowed it down to the most essential characteristics and
attributes that most women must nd present in order to consent to
starting and continuing an interaction with you a total stranger:
SENSE OF HUMOR
Nothing brings a womans guard down like humor. When she is
laughing she is relaxed, comfortable and associating you with a
good time. When this occurs, she is no longer judging or analyzing
you. When asked what they nd most attractive in men, women
consistently rank a sense of humor as the top nonphysical attribute.
Why is this? Humor indicates that you take neither yourself nor the
interaction too seriously, and seriousness is the exact opposite of the
types of emotions we are trying to elicit in order to build attraction.
In fact, there are many examples of where a woman is not initially
attracted to a man, but because she nds his sense of humor so
irresistible, ends up falling hard.
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She is going to subconsciously pick up on little clues that when put
together in her mind will determine if she is going to respond to you
or DELETE your message.
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SOCIAL PROOF
This simply means you must have (quality) friends and be accepted
by both men and women in a social environment. She will scan
your comments for what people say about you. She will look at
your pictures to see what type of people you hang out with. She
needs to see that other people have a great time around you and
that others approve of you. As social creatures, humans have a
strong tendency to follow the motto: if others are doing it, then it
must be ok. This is the psychological principle behind social proof.
We will show you how to build the type of social proof women nd
very attractive. One of the biggest elements of social proof is where
a woman screens you based on what other women think of you
(especially ones similar to her and/or higher on the social scale than
her). If another woman likes you, it validates you in her eyes and
makes her comfortable with having feelings for you.
COMFORT, TRUST AND SAFETY
One of the most important aspects of contacting a woman online
is that she perceives you as safe. This is one of the major stigmas of
meeting people online. There is always the fear that someone is not
really who they say they are. She needs to be condent that you
are not some creepy stalker old man. This is accomplished through
a variety of methods covered in this book.
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Your prole says a lot about you. From your prole alone, a girl can
gure out if you have any attractive qualities, what kind of job you
have or what you do, what type of lifestyle you have, your hobbies,
your interests (i.e. favorite movies, books, and music), what kind of
friends you have, if other women are attracted to you, what you
look like, and somewhat of how popular you are. This is huge!
COMMUNICATE YOUR LIFESTYLE AND PERSONALITY
Have several pictures of you doing interesting, adventurous, and 1.
amazing things. If you dont have any pictures that fall in these
categories, dont you think its time to do something about that
anyway?
Have comments from friends, men and women, regarding cool 2.
things you are doing, have them post pictures of you doing
something wild, etc. If you are just starting and dont have many
friends, dont worry. Well teach you how to instantly get sexy
comments from hot girls.
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Have an interesting background that pertains directly to you. 3.
Create your own, if need be. There are hundreds of sites that are
set up specically to help you personalize your MySpace page.
HELPFUL TOOLS
These sites offer many good pre-made prole layouts along with
generators to create your own style:
www.pimp-my-prole.com www.myspacemaster.net
www.freeweblayouts.net
These are sites which make it simple to host pictures and create
slide shows for your prole:
www.photobucket.com www.rockyou.com
BORROW SUCCESSFUL TECHNIQUES
In our opinion, it is better to use a generator to create your own
style instead of using a pre-made layout. So many of them are
cheesy and are a sure way to repel the types of women you are
looking for. Dont make your prole too busy with random stuff
everywhere or psychedelic colors that would succeed only in
distracting or overwhelming her. When in doubt, nd proles of
guys who look like they are doing well with women, who have lots
of pictures with and comments from hot women, and just copy
their style. This is what we did when we rst started out, and it
helped us tremendously. Another idea is to go to a hot girls prole
and copy her wording. This is called stealing her frame.
You can nd
additional resources
and guidelines
for creating an
attractive prole on
our website at
www.myspacepickupschool.com
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We have spent the last two years of our lives messaging thousands
of beautiful women on MySpace. Over time, we began to gure
out a pattern of what works and what doesnt. Through this we
developed and rened the AIM method to guide you through how,
when and what types of things to message girls. If you do things
out of order, the girl simply loses interest and stops responding. If
this keeps happening to you, dont worry, it happened to us a lot
in the beginning too. But now that we know the pattern, we can
get almost any girl to not only respond to our messages but give us
her number and be excited about meeting up with us. We literally
have new girls showing up at our doorstep every week!
The AIM method revolves around three primary principles of online
dating: building attraction, continuing the interaction, and transitioning
to meeting. When used correctly, you will effectively transition women
from girls on MySpace to girls who are sexual partners, girlfriends,
friends, or whatever you are looking for.
The AIM method
revolves around three
primary principles of
online dating: building
attraction, continuing
the interaction, and
transitioning to meeting.
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Here is a brief outline of the AIM method:
ATTRACT
This section covers the MySpace interaction from start to nish including
how to write an opening message, set hooks, use role-playing, play
games, and ultimately get her number.
INTERACT
This section covers how to successfully transition from online messages
to ofine texting/phone interactions and techniques for setting up the
rst meeting.
MEET
Your First Physical Encounter With Her
She shows up, now what? It is important to re-afrm her attraction
to you by upholding the same personality you had throughout the
Attract and Interact stages. We will show you how to do this by
level-setting comfort within the rst ve seconds, beginning physical
contact, reviving your role-playing, and making arrangements for a
second meeting.
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Attract
Interact
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Social Fundamentals
Here we introduce a few essential principles to ensure a successful
in-person interaction including: using time distortion, telling stories,
isolating to build comfort, and escalating physical contact.
In the following chapters, we will break down each component of the
method, give you examples you can use today and explain the mechanics
behind why they work. Once you get comfortable with the underlying
principles you can create your own material. You can also nd more
examples on our website at www.myspacepickupschool.com.
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You must be different
When you are approaching a girl in person or online, your social
value, intentions, and some of your pre-selection value (i.e. do other
girls want you?) are easily perceived by what you say, how you say
it or phrase it, and your body language (only in person obviously).
On average, women are approached or hit on in person about 10-
25 times per day. On top of that, they get home to MySpace and
receive up to 40 random messages! Out of 40 messages, 2-4 guys
will actually get a reply, and maybe one of those guys will be able
to hold a conversation with the girl to the point of meeting. Every
single one of those guys doesnt realize that he is lling her inbox
with the same message 38 other people already sent that day.
ITS A NUMBERS GAME. Although the AIM method is highly effective, nothing will work on
every girl all the time. Just as in person, online dating is a numbers game. Try not to message
more than 20 at a time when you are rst starting, 5-10 a day should be ne and message
a variety of girls in all different age ranges to get the best results. You will get signicantly
better as you master the system, and you dont want tap out your area before that occurs.
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For example:
or even the nice guy method,
LAME LAME LAME!
If this sounds like the messages you have been sending out, dont
worry. That is how we started too! This is why you are here: to
learn from our failures.
WHO ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?
Ok, now you have created your prole and are ready to start look-
ing for women on MySpace. The easiest way to start looking is
to click on the Browse section in the main navigation bar. Here is
where you can choose the attributes you wish to search for. How-
ever, before you can logically look for a girl, whether it is online
or in person, you must dene what you want. Get out a piece of
paper and list ten qualities the girl you want must have.
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Youre hot. We should hang out sometime.
Youre pretty hot. Do you have any sexy pics?
I just wanted to let you know you look interesting, and Id like to meet you.
It looks like we like the same movies. We should get together sometime.
Before you can
logically look for
a girl, whether it
is online or in person,
you must dene
what you want.
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Succeeding in getting a girls number online is a major indication that
she is interested in you. It means she is comfortable and attracted
enough to accept you as a normal part of her everyday life. Now it is
up to you to maintain that interest and meet her as soon as possible!
It is best to meet her within a week of getting her number. The target
is to meet her within two to three days, but sometimes people are
legitimately too busy and you need to continue interacting with her
to maintain the excitement about meeting up. When she sent you
her number, she wanted to meet you. If you let too much time pass,
she will no longer be excited about meeting you, and you might as
well forget about her. Always keep the momentum and excitement
you have built up going, or another man will. You have to remember
that the women you are interested in have more men after them
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Always keep the momentum and excitement you
have built up going, or another man will.
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than you can count. This is why you must continue to differentiate
yourself through the beliefs you hold, the attitudes you portray and
the words you use.
Phone Interaction Fundamentals
MAINTAINING ATTRACTION THROUGH PHONE
GAME UNTIL MEETING
This stage of the AIM method is not very different from the Attract
stage. Each stage of the method is more intimate and immediate than
the last and you will use many of the same principles learned in the
Attract stage to reafrm her attraction and continue moving forward.
So how do you transition from online communication to the rst
meeting? Your new weapon is your phone. Most modern phones
provide a text messaging feature which we recommend using rst
for several reasons:
Its a more natural transition from messaging online;
Its not as intrusive as a phone call;
Youre not as likely to freeze up or come off as needy or too
strong because you have more time to formulate your responses
without the pressure of realtime conversation.
We recommend you add unlimited texting to your phone plan, as
you will quickly be sending and receiving hundreds of texts. If your
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Meeting For The First Time
You have successfully engaged a girl on MySpace and made her
comfortable and attracted to you enough to meet you. So you did
everything right up to this point.
This stage is a little different than the previous two because it
incorporates many more principles of attraction, such as: body
language, vocal tone, congruence, true social proong, push-pull,
time distortion, bouncing, cocky funny, Kino, and story telling. We
cover these in the Social Fundamentals section.
You will use these principles to validate the feelings she wants to
have for you. You have been a really cool guy up to this point, now
its time to lock in her comfort and continue to build her attraction
to you.
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You have been a really cool guy up to this point,
now its time to lock in her comfort
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HER ARRIVAL AT THE MEETING LOCATION
The Environment
The environment that she is exposed to, the one you invited her
to, must be exciting, comfortable, and fun. If you have a bunch
of boring people there and nothing going on when she arrives, it
will translate to you being boring. Even if you need to start out by
doing group activities at events that are already taking place (i.e.
concerts, festivals, other peoples parties), that is ne.
If the initial meeting is taking place at your house there are
additional things to consider. Everything that she experiences and
encounters in your home will reect positively or negatively on you.
Take care to invite the right kind of people there, set the appropriate
mood with activities, and ensure that the house is clean and has a
decent smell throughout. The following is a list of some activities
and mood enhancers we use at our house:

Hookah and tobacco (used in association with the Hookah Method
this is very powerful; this method, and others mentioned in this list
are explained on our website at www.myspacepickupschool.com)
Everything that she experiences and encounters in your home will
reect positively or negatively on you. Take care to invite the right
kind of people there, set the appropriate mood with activities, and
ensure that the house is clean and has a decent smell throughout.
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