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The Ultimate Guide To Text Game
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About This Guide
This is a guide for text messaging game, it!s a summary of various recent posts on the
issue. I would like to give credit to all those who have contributed with posts on the forum,
PM!s and text msgs, all were very helpful and much appreciated.
Since the follow up between day one and day two, depends so much on which direction
the initial interaction went, I have broken it down between comfort based game and
sexually direct game.
It is essential that the follow up is totally congruent with what went down during the set
itself.
Between day 1 and day 2, the only job for you as a man is to make her feel good about
herself.
You cannot do Negs / IOD!s / Takeaways / Freezouts etc, via text. If you make her feel
uncomfortable with text, why on earth will she meet you for a day two?
You can be C&F but make sure it comes off right, remember it is text, it has its limitations
and unlike phone calls it!s harder to recover from errors, so the fact that it!s a tease has to
spring off immediately from the text including any emicons available.
This guide is broken up into two distinctive parts... texting concepts and texting contents.
1) Texting concepts are how you should be acting.
2) Texting content is what you need to say.
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Texting Objectives
It!s important to understand the objectives of texting before actually following through,
otherwise you run the risk of not getting out for a day two.
Making her laugh
It!s great for using call-back humour (referring back to a funny experience you shared with
her) including creating new funny mental images in her mind.
Creating validation
Tith over the top compliments, which are actually not IOI!s, since it would be obvious you
use it for every girl, but nonetheless makes her feel good about herself, in the same way I
like it when a girl calls me Handsome whilst I know she says it to everyone, I still like it.
Escalating properly
Never reply to static stuff, always be escalating. If during set it was sexual, ramp it up big
time, if not don!t start going all sexual via text, she!ll be scared to meet you.
Frame control
Ensure your agenda is leading the text exchange. Logistics for getting together etc.
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Texting concepts
This is how you should be acting when you!re texting a girl. It!s the mindset behind text
game that makes it so much more powerful. So take it seriously!
Never answer right away
Don!t answer right away and give a genuine reason as to why u were busy. It!s all about
timing it right, at the beginning give her at least as much time she took to respond to you
and even more.
You set the agenda
Once a certain rhythm of text ow has been developed, then YOU should set the agenda,
sometimes replying quickly, sometimes slowly - never becoming predictable.
Because you ALWAYS end your texts with a simple question she can and should answer,
the onus is on her all the time to come back to you!
Avoid looking needy
She won!t have the discipline to do that so you will be able to drop her and pick her up as
you chose. Initially very fast answers = needy, on the other hand unpredictability is great,
therefore it should be introduced into the dynamic pretty fast.
Attraction spiking
Keep the line alive starting right after the day 1 all the way through, become part of her life
immediately, can be done easily via small attraction spikes texts.
On the other hand stop texting at a high note, get your message across and STOP, don!t
text her to death, she should always be wanting more.
If you want to just stoke the re with a little spike, you can just re off a spike text, but if
you target is for her to answer your text, ensure one question per text, always place
questions at the end of text.
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Keep it short and sweet if you can and throw in a funny snippet of your life right now with
an emotion attached.
Dont react emotionally
Be unreactive, you live in your own world, often she!ll write something and you!ll feel
compelled to answer right away and this is where mistakes happen, don!t be impulsive,
review before sending off, make sure you stay on message.
Don!t care about her not responding, disregard and start the next day another thread. This
is easier said than done, but works incredibly well.
Use a little cocky and funny
Be very careful with cocky funny in texts, remember you are not there smiling & kinoing
her, thus letting her know it!s only a tease! It should be jumping out of the text.
Get on the phone if need be
Notice how she answers her texts, is it long and elaborate? Then keep at it.
If it seems like the texts are not hitting the right spot with her, there are long time lapses or
short answers, move swiftly over to phone before a negative no ladder is built up.
Also note, for foreign girls sometimes it!s easier for them than talking over the phone,
because they have the text right there in front of them, but sometimes, if they don!t get it
it!s better to talk, need to gauge that on a case by case basis though.
Mirror her messaging
It!s good to mirror the style of your correspondent.
If she!s brief, be brief. If she!s chatty be chatty.
But always stay one energy level above her. If she doesn!t ever use smiley!s or lol!s don!t
use them. Use punctuation and haha!!!!
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If she never xs you only x when she!s been good. Choose a word she uses in her text
and use it back, pick up on subtle writing styles, notice, does she use punctuation's at all,
is there a gap between one sentence and another or does she write like this, without any
gaps at all.
Establishing a concept
Our goal is to establish the concept that we are alike.
In fact using we is very powerful. Whenever you can, it!s good to use we instead of you
and I.
It establishes a connection in a very powerful and subtle way. when can we get together?
says something very different to when are you free? it assumes that we both are
participating in mutual process of getting together. She!s not being asked out.
Put yourself in her shoes
Think of it this way, before you send a text try to put yourself in her shoes and look at your
text and say is that funny? Is this different? is this crazy? Is this someone I denitely think
can brighten up my life? if it!s a yes to any of those, send, if it!s lame don!t do it.
This is an art form and being lazy with texts will get you nowhere, fast.
IODs and takeaways
There are a few things you can do, by way of IOD!s / takeaways, but this has to be only
once she is quite invested in the interaction, since you can only do a takeaway if there was
something there to start off with.
Take a longer time than normal to reply and totally ignore what she said, if you don!t like
her last response.
Send her a txt that says you!re very busy and can!t meet her this week (whether or not
you had offered to before or whether you are busy) and don!t propose anything else