MATCH PARTS OF THE STATEMENTS

Match items 1-10 with options A-J. Use each option only once.

HOW TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

1. Don't use
directive
language
with phrases
like "you
should" or
"you can't".

D. Relax and let things happen.

3. Follow through on your promises.

E. Don't view it as an entirely altruistic act,

it's something you're doing for both of
you.

4. Take care of yourself.

5. Trying to control a situation or
person will only leave you feeling
out of control.

F. Don't expect that he or she should read

your mind, and don't rely on hints.

6. Accept that conflict happens.

7. Always ask yourself whether you're
better off in the relationship than
out of it.

9. Sometimes, all your partner wants

is for you to lend an ear and be
sympathetic about one of their
problems.
10. Offer encouragement

B. If you think your relationships have

problems, then you should probably
have a serious discussion with your
partner.
C. You and your partner are equals, and
neither one of you should have the
authority to give orders.

2. If you expect your partner to do

something, say it.

8. Remember who forgiveness really

benefits.

A. When you say you're going to do

something, do it.

G. If your partner is trying to make a

positive change, start a new hobby, or
undertake a difficult challenge, be his or
her biggest supporter.
H. Remember that one argument isn't the
end of everything, and there's no person
on earth that you'd agree with all the
time.
I.

Being a good listener is all about paying

attention to what they're saying and not
blowing it off.

J. Treating yourself with respect and love

is as important as respecting and loving
your partner.

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Key: 1. C, 2. F, 3. A , 4. J , 5. D, 6. H, 7. B, 8. E, 9. I, 10. G

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