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101 Ways To Break The Ice Ebook
101 Ways To Break The Ice Ebook
TABLE OF CONTENTS
101 Ways to Break the Ice
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My name is Adam Lyons and over the last few years Ive become recognized as
one of the worlds top 3 experts in dating and attraction. I was a regular
columnist for the worlds leading online mens magazine Ask Men as well as an
advisor and contributor, for newspapers, magazines, and TV shows across the
world.
This is a far cry from my scrawny 15 year-old self who was voted Least Likely to
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13. You happen to know anywhere around here I can get a good cookie?
14. Would you be so kind as to direct me to the most pretentious club in the
area?
15. I'm trying to show my friends something fun but I need a book of matches,
you happen to have any?
16. My friend wants to smoke but has no lighter, can I borrow one?
17. Do you know what time this place closes?
18. Do you happen to know if there are any afterhours bars or clubs around
here?
19. Pardon me, where is the best place to see boobies at this time of night?
20. Do you happen to know if there are any eighties bars around here?
21. Maybe you guys can help me, I seem to have lost my friends, have you seen
anyone who looks like....
22. I'm looking for hot Goth girls, do you know if they exist?
23. Where around here has the cheapest beer?
24. Do these sunglasses make my butt look big?
25. You guys have any idea what's good here?
26. This is kind of strange, but you guys look cool, so I thought I'd ask. I really
want to talk to that girl, and I have no idea what to say. What do you think I
should go with?
27. Where's the best place near here to get a good steak?
38. (If you see a scarf with skulls) Excuse me, that's a great scarf. Is it Alexander
McQueen?
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53. Your hair is so shinyyou look like you stepped out of a shampoo
commercial.
54. I couldn't help notice how you just (whatever cool thing they just did). You're
like the honey badger, you don't give a shit.
55. I hope I'm not bothering you but... You look like someone I was afraid I'd
never meet.
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68. (Next to a girl who is really dressed up) Wow, who are you trying to impress?
69. Interesting decor in here, I wonder what period it is!
70. (At a birthday or New Years party) I wonder how many
candles/balloons/hats there are in here. I need to find a rain man.
71. This is a great songI wonder who the artist is.
72. (Based on what song is playing) Omg... Do you guys love Lady
GaGa/Ke$ha/Beyonce as much as I do?
73. (Girl in produce section) How do I know when <insert fruit> is ripe?
74. (If you see a birthday girl) Happy birthday!
75. (In a library or a loud environment, type on your phone) Hello, my name is
<insert your name> (then hand her the phone, go back and forth. Also works
well with the deaf)
76. (In a very old place) I heard this place is haunted.
77. (If you see a girl looking at guy) I think he's wearing Spanx.
78. (If you see a girl looking at flamboyantly dressed guy) That guy is...
FABULOUS!
79. (In an art museum) I heard they have an exhibit of art done by animals.
(When she says "really?" Stare at her, and then slowly shake your head)
80. (If you see a girl looking at trashy girl) She looks like she's looking for a guy
to take her to TGI Fridays.
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81. (If you see a bored looking girl) You look like you'd rather be anywhere but
here
82. (If you see a girl alone and looking around) Your friends wander off?
83. (If you see a classy group) My friends are all talking about sports, so I
thought I'd come meet you since you are classy and intelligent looking. I hope
that's not too weird.
84. (If you see a big group) You guys look like a lot of fun, what's the occasion?
85. (If you see a girl who obviously dislikes another girl) You think shes wearing
anything under that skirt? My moneys on herpes.
86. (If you see a classy girl in high heels) You look like you should be holding a
Cosmo.
87. (If you see a girl texting while friends talk) Hey! No texting your boyfriend
during girls night.
88. (If you see a girl looking at guys) Which one is your favorite?
89. (If you see a bored looking girl with fun friends) Are you the DD? You look
like your friends are several drinks ahead of you.
90. (If you see a girl who has just been approached) Do you think that line works
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on anybody?
91. (If you see a girl looking at badly dressed girl) What do you think she was
thinking when she bought those shoes?
92. (If you see a girl who is getting eye contact from guys) I think he likes you.
93. (If you see a tiny skinny girl) You're so tiny and delicate. You go to
steakhouses and order salad, don't you?
94. (If you see girl looking sad) You look like your unicorn died.
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100. What's the best pickup line you've ever heard, because I want to meet you,
and I'd like to use that one.
101. (If you see a cute friendly looking girl) I choose you Pikachu!
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CHAPTER 6:
WHAT THE HELL DO I DO NOW?
By now, 101 Ways to Break the Ice has given you some ideas on how to get the
conversations started.
However, successfully luring her in is only the first step theres so much more
to learn, especially if you want to:
- Get her to respond positively to your calls or text messages
- Have women genuinely want to be around you and spend time with you
- Ensure a second date!
For example, its important to know how to avoid the 3 most common mistakes
most men make when chatting up ladies.
Over the years, and through thousands of failed attempts and dismal
conversations, Ive honed my skills to teach men the secrets of attraction. When
you understand the principles of dating and attraction, you can turn it on
whenever you want. Not only will you never be alone, but you will also be able to
get the kind of girlfriend youve always wanted.
Ive narrowed down the top 3 reasons for failure when chatting up the ladies,
using this simple acronym, ICE:
Interrogation,
Centering the Convo on Yourself, and
Exaggerating the Truth.
Mistake #1 Interrogation
Youre innocently asking her questions in an attempt to keep the conversation
going and to find out more about her. When you notice that the welcoming,
intriguing girl who loved your opening line has suddenly turned cold and a little
dismissive.
So what happened??
A common mistake most men make is that they inadvertently turn a natural
conversation into an inquisition, bombarding the poor girl with question after
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question.
A conversation needs to be naturalit needs fluidity, and once you know this
and can do it naturally without making her feel like shes being cross-examined,
youll find her a lot more receptive and inviting.
Mistake #2 Centering the Conversation Around You
While its great to share your interests, your likes and dislikes, beware of
hijacking the conversation and talking almost exclusively about yourself. This
makes you look a little selfish and can alienate the lady.
Example (Bad):
Guy: So, what's your favorite food?
Girl: Oh, I like Italian.
Guy: Me too. I prefer Chinese food though, especially from the Szechuan region
the spiciness has just the right kick. Its my favorite
food to cook actually.
Example (Good):
Guy: So, what's your favorite food?
Girl: Oh, I like Italian.
Guy: Me too. I love Chinese though. Have you been to any good Italian
restaurants around here?
By focusing on some topics that she enjoys, without crossing into Mistake #1,
youll find that the conversation has a much more natural flow to it, thus greatly
increasing your chances of success.
Mistake #3 Exaggerating the Truth
People frequently lie about themselves in order to keep the conversation going
and make a good impression. While this may seem like a good idea it isn't.
With a little practice and by using the tips and strategies in this book, youll have
greater success and will feel more comfortable simply being yourself.
Remember, shes far more likely to be attracted to the real you!
Meeting and talking to new people, especially good-looking, elegant women, can
be tough.
But having the skills and confidence to do itand do it rightcan be lifechanging!
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If youve found the book to be an incredibly useful tool, then its time to take the
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But time is limited: your discount code expires 15 days after the purchase of the
book.
Remember! Talking to a beautiful girl is easyonce you know how!
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