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Gustavo Frasco
Mr. Bowers
English 1011
5 December 2015
Perfection is inexistent
It has been said by many people that relationships are not perfect. Studies have shown,
couples will fight up to everyday a month over the littlest things possible. No one is perfect
which gives everyone the reason to complain and argue for anything and everything but at the
same time if it wasnt for arguing one would never learn from their mistakes and judgments on
the other person. And by these arguments relationship become stronger knowing they can
overcome a little debut. Every argument can either lead to separation of the couple or could lead
to building a stronger base for the two. For this reason no relationship is perfect in the world.
In the religious point of view on things, on an article on religion attitudes towards divorce
laws say, illuminate the scope and boundaries of connections between the institutions of
marriage and religion (Stokes). God himself knew, no one could ever become perfect. For this
reason when getting married by a church one swears to god that he/she will stay with their
significant other through the best and worst moments. Its at that point one agrees or disagrees.
Which if one to disagree then why get married? Also why should one get married if they cannot
stand by one another through everything a regular relationship goes through? What stokes tried
to show in his article, was people are now not caring on the vowels one sets or things they swear
to do until death to us apart, by doing this, theyre engaging themselves into not the top worst
sin but definitely a unwelcomed one. Which is getting divorced. They only way god can accept

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someone for getting divorced will be if the significant other is being mistreated or being put in
deadly situations. Other than that, god has no acceptance for such actions.
Another big factor in dating is coming to the end of things. Some people struggle the
most with telling the significant other, Its over. According to the studies done by
Hendy, Missing the Relationship, Social Embarrassment, and Fear of Harm (Hendy). Which
in short terms would mean, people arent sure how to finish a relationship in good terms. They
dont want to hurt ones feelings and dont want to become distant from one another. Also after
caring so much for one another they feel bad hurting someone they loved so much or cared so
much about. Also after being together for the amount time, some people make promise early in
the relationship not knowing what the future has in store for them. One couldve promised the
other to never leave and to always stand by each other side by side. After a while one tends to get
lonely and starts to the miss the days where one could claim someone else to be there significant
other and they could trust them with everything knowing they could accepted for who they are.
At the end of it not all relationships are perfect. Everyone struggles with big and little things, it
could possibly just be dont know exactly how to make them happy, could be his/hers first
relationship, they might have just got done with a long relationship and might not be ready to
start another one after being hurt so bad.
Relationships arent perfect and at the end of it, never will be. The reason is being that no
human being in the world is perfect. The only thing can be possibly be perfect is in their own
way. That would then be a perfect relationship in their own eyes. Which should truly matter and
not what others think of them because they arent the ones who will be supporting you or giving
you the love that one special person does. The best way to end this would be, just by telling you

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significant other, we can make this perfect, in our own way (Frasco). Also dont make
promises one cannot keep. Life isnt perfect, relationships are perfect, and no one is perfect.

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Work Cited-

-Hendy, Helen M.; Can, S. Hakan; Joseph, Lauren J.; Scherer, Cory R.
Measurement and Evaluation in Counseling and Development, v46 n3 p232-242 Jul 2013
-Stokes, Charles E.; Ellison, Christopher G.
Journal of Family Issues, v31 n10 p1279-1304 Oct 2010
-How often do normal couples fight? WebMD n.p.