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INTJ personality
The INTJ personality type is one of the rarest and most interesting types
comprising only about 2% of the U.S. population (INTJ females are especially
rare just 0.8%), INTJs are often seen as highly intelligent and perplexingly
mysterious. INTJ personalities radiate self-confidence, relying on their huge
archive of knowledge spanning many different topics and areas. INTJs usually
begin to develop that knowledge in early childhood (the bookworm nickname
is quite common among INTJs) and keep on doing that later on in life.
When
someone
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INTJ
personality has mastered their chosen area of knowledge (INTJs can find their
strengths in several fields), they can quickly and honestly say whether they
know the answer to a specific question. INTJs know what they know and more
importantly they are confident in that knowledge. Unsurprisingly, this
personality type can be labelled as the most independent of all types. INTJs are
very decisive, original and insightful these traits push other people to accept
the INTJs ideas simply because of that sheer willpower and self-confidence.
However, INTJ personalities do not seek nor enjoy the spotlight and may often
decide to keep their opinions to themselves if the topic of discussion does not
interest them that much.
INTJ personalities are perfectionists and they enjoy improving ideas and
systems they come in contact with. As INTJs are naturally curious, this tends to
happen quite frequently. However, they always try to remain in the rational
territory no matter how attractive the end goal is every idea that is generated
by the INTJs mind or reaches it from the outside needs to pass the coldblooded filter called Is this going to work?. This is the INTJs coping
mechanism and they are notorious for applying it all the time, questioning
everything and everyone.
managerial positions if they do, this is probably because they need more
power and freedom of action, not because they enjoy managing people.
Every personality type has many weak spots and INTJs are not an exception.
There is one area where their brilliant mind often becomes completely useless
and may even hinder their efforts INTJs find it very difficult to handle romantic
relationships, especially in their earliest stages. People with this personality
type are more than capable of loving and taking care of the people close to
them, but they are likely to be completely clueless when it comes to attracting
a partner.
The main reason behind this is that INTJ personalities are both private and
incredibly rational they find it very difficult to understand the complex social
rituals that are considered part of the dating game, especially in Western
societies. Things like flirting or small talk are unnatural to them; furthermore,
INTJs (especially females) tend to see typical attraction tactics (such as
feigning disinterest) as incredibly stupid and irrational. Ironically, INTJs are most
likely to attract a partner when they stop looking for them this is when their
self-confidence starts shining again. There are few things that are more
attractive than the unrelenting self-confidence that INTJs are known for.
You are not entitled to your opinion. You are entitled to your informed opinion.
No one is entitled to be ignorant.
Harlan Ellison
INTJ relationships and dating
INTJ personalities are likely to have significant difficulties when it comes to
relationships and dating. INTJs spend a large part of their lives in their heads
and consequently what they see and understand intuitively can be much more
advanced than a bland reality. As a result, someone with the INTJ personality
may find it challenging to merge that fantasy and high requirements with
reality. Unfortunately, their superior logic and imagination may actually hinder
the INTJ when they start looking for a partner.
People with this personality type are likely to apply a rational approach to
dating and relationships as well an INTJ is likely to have a checklist in their
mind long before they actually start thinking about a relationship. It is also
likely that he/she must be rational will be at the top of their list of criteria
and this is exactly what usually holds the INTJ back, especially if they are male.
There are certain rules (e.g. do not appear too interested) and types of
behavior (e.g. a girl should not start the conversation first) that a person
interested in finding a dating partner is expected to follow and unfortunately
for INTJs, the majority of people will follow those rules. Even those potential
partners who an INTJ would normally see as rational will probably yield to
exterior can be deceiving it is more than likely that the INTJ will feel very hurt
inside and spend extensive amounts of time figuring out what went wrong,
especially if they had devoted a lot of time to dating or making the relationship
work.
INTJs are bewilderingly deep and intelligent people, bringing a lot of stability
and insight into their romantic relationships but as already mentioned, that
extraordinary intelligence is their main enemy in this area. That being said, if
both partners manage to survive the rocky start during the dating phase, it is
very likely that the relationship will be very deep and strong and the INTJ will
do everything to ensure it stays that way, as long as the partner reciprocates.
Preferred partners: ENFP and ENTP types, as E and P outweigh the introvert
and judgemental tendencies of INTJs. INFJs are also a very strong match as the
intuitive connection between INTJ and INFJ is likely to be instantaneous.
We have prepared extensive INTJ relationship and dating guides that you
may be interested in. If you are single, you might also want to take a look at
our Dating section.
INTJ careers
This article will focus on typical INTJ careers, skills that people with this
personality type bring into the workplace, and their relationships with
colleagues and managers. Please feel free to leave your comments or suggest
other career paths below we will do our best to incorporate your suggestions.
INTJ personalities are known for their ability to digest difficult and complex
theories and principles relevant to their careers, and then convert them into
clear and actionable ideas. INTJs are excellent strategists, possessing intuition
and confidence that allow them to devise and implement challenging long-term
plans without many problems. These skills can be tremendously valuable in the
right career path people with this personality type are great at jobs that
involve planning, strategy and application of complex theoretical principles. For
instance, you could find many INTJs among project managers, system
engineers or marketing strategists. These are often their best career choices.
Typical INTJ careers also tend to put a lot of importance on independent
thinking. INTJs love difficult challenges and strongly detest routine, doing
whatever they can to avoid or automate mind-numbing tasks. It is difficult to
imagine an INTJ willingly choosing a strictly administrative or teamworkfocused role. They excel as lone wolves and best INTJ careers revolve around
this trait, giving INTJs enough breathing space to use their creativeness and
dedication without being constantly questioned by other team members.
People with this personality type put effectiveness and competence above
everything else. Consequently, best INTJ careers reward personal initiative and
determination. INTJs believe that everyone should do their best to complete the
task to the highest possible standard and loathe individuals who use social
activities and networking rather than merit to get ahead on the career ladder.
There is no easier way to lose the respect of an INTJ than to show that you
believe social skills and relationships are more important than professional
competence. INTJs have very high standards, especially when it comes to their
own work, and are likely to put an extraordinary amount of effort to get the job
done. Consequently, typical INTJ careers reward inventiveness, dedication and
insightfulness.
INTJs tend to be very strong introverts with excellent analytical and creative
skills. They are highly unlikely to choose or enjoy customer-facing or teamworkoriented careers these are definitely not the best choices for INTJs. As already
mentioned, INTJs are brilliant strategists and planners, but they do best alone
or in small teams. People with this personality type will gladly accept someone
elses authority and leadership, as long as they see that individual as
competent. These traits make INTJs excellent engineers, military strategists,
programmers, system analysts, lawyers or freelance consultants. These are
typical INTJ career paths and their performance in these areas is often very
impressive.
INTJ strengths and weaknesses
INTJ strengths
Quick and versatile mind. INTJs are very good at improving their
knowledge of (often diverse) topics and fields that interest them. People
with this personality type take pleasure in tackling intellectual challenges
and their natural curiosity pushes them forward as well.
Jacks of all trades. The most important strength of any INTJ is their
mind. Other personality types pride themselves in being artistic,
intuitive, convincing, athletic etc. In contrast, INTJs excel at being able to
analyze anything that life throws at them, uncovering the underlying
methodology and then applying it in practice. Consequently, INTJ
personalities are usually able to become what they want to become be
it an IT architect or a high-flying politician.
Independent and decisive. People with the INTJ personality type are
ruthless when it comes to analyzing the usefulness of methods or ideas.
They could not care less if that idea is popular or supported by an
authority figure if the INTJ believes that it does not make sense, only
overwhelming rational arguments will convince them otherwise. This
strength makes them efficient and impartial decision-makers, often at a
very young age. INTJs also tend to be quite resistant to conflicts, usually
remaining rational and calm in an emotionally charged situation.
Honest and direct. People with this personality type hate playing social
games and putting comfort or social expectations above honesty and
facts. INTJs tend to see these activities as pointless and irrational,
preferring inconvenient truth over a comforting lie.
INTJ weaknesses