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9 POINT REFERENCE MATRIX (sample)

PAST THOUGHT PRESENT THOUGHT FUTURE THOUGHT

He was staring at me. I want to solve the problem. I am in control


He was trying to start a fight.
He looked arrogant.

PAST FEELINGS AND NEEDS PRESENT FEELINGS AND NEEDS FUTURE FEELINGS AND NEEDS

I was angry. I am calm and no longer angry. I am happy because I avoided a


I felt challenged. conflict.

PAST ACTION PRESENT ACTION FUTURE ACTION

I punched the boy. I will say sorry to him I will avoid eye contact.
If provoked or confronted, I will
remain calm, walk away and inform a
teacher.
9 POINT REFERENCE MATRIX
PAST THOUGHT PRESENT THOUGHT FUTURE THOUGHT

PAST FEELINGS AND NEEDS PRESENT FEELINGS AND NEEDS FUTURE FEELINGS AND NEEDS

PAST ACTION PRESENT ACTION FUTURE ACTION

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