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 WHAT IS RAPPORT?
Rapport is a relation of relatability.

It’s a situation when you both have a connection of any

topic and can relate to one another.

If you get introduced to a girl by your homie, you

ALREADY have rapport with her because you have a
common connect- YOUR HOMIE.

When you add TRUST to RAPPORT, you create

COMFORT.

TRUST + RAPPORT = COMFORT

The girl you met has rapport with you without speaking
a single word out, but there might not be comfort built
yet.
 Here are some easy ways to build comfort:

Matching and mirroring their body

language (and an advanced version is,
WHAT IS RAPPORT?

after them responding better to you,

changing your body language to a better
level and taking them with. you)

Maintaining good eye contact and

smiling.

Asking Charismatic Questions.

All of which are in the Seduction Bible you

own.

Rapport sounds amazing, doesn’t it?

So why am I telling you to break it?

 THE IMPORTANCE OF BREAKING
RAPPORT
1. Every dude desperately tries to build rapport with
her all day

2. What kind of people break rapport with each other?

PEOPLE WHO ALREADY HAVE AN ABUNDANCE OF IT

(people who have known each other for a long time)

Mindfuck- when you break rapport with a girl, you send

a signal to her brain “we’ve known each other for a long
time, we already have comfort.”

That’s why I often tell guys to break rapport within the

first few seconds of meeting a girl.

Breaking rapport builds rapport. POWERFUL STUFF.

THE IMPORTANCE OF BREAKING Now, obviously you don’t keep breaking
rapport or that will make her go “he’s right.
I’m not worthy of him.”

she will check out sexually.

The goal is to agree on some aspects,

RAPPORT

disagree on others, do some light teasing,

while still maintaining the comfort.

Don’t worry, by the time you’re done

reading this guide, you will know this on
the tip of your tongue.

GOLDEN RULE:

After a Break in Rapport

(Disqualifying/BR) it is important for you
to build some kind of comfort afterwards
(BC)
THE IMPORTANCE OF BREAKING

Some good ways to do this-

Saying “I’m just kidding”

RAPPORT

Pulling her in for a hug

Laughing with her

Complimenting her about something

very specific “I like the fact that you
know so much about style”

Now that you know the basics and

advanced stuff of rapport and
breaking rapport, let's dive deeper!
1 | QUALIFYING AND DISQUALIFYING
What is Qualifying & Disqualifying?

Most guys have a vague idea of these concepts, but

they can’t verbalise it with examples

Simply put, qualifying is when you make her jump

hoops to show that she’s worthy of your attention
and time.

The same way a dog is made to shake hands to

receive a “treat”

The same way a circus master makes the lion

jump through rings of fire at the circus.

Disqualifying (or Breaking Rapport) is when you convey

that she’s not worthy of your attention. Breaking
rapport & then qualifying creates the SPARK of
attraction.
 This is when you stand out from ALL the sea
of simps that orbit around her.
QUALIFYING AND DISQUALIFYING

None of them have the balls to tell her “No,

you can’t have the treat”

When done correctly, she will initiate touch

with you, flirt and invest more into the
interaction.

Before I give you the exact lines, a word of

caution:

Too much of breaking rapport breaks the

elastic band. You have to balance these out
with comfort building questions which I will
lay out as well.

Remember that the underlying tonality should

always be that of fun, playfulness, and self
amusement. Women are DRAWN to that
energy.
THE 7 WAYS OF BREAKING RAPPORT:
1) PHYSICAL

2) TEASING

3) VERBAL

4)TAKEAWAY

5) DISMISS

6) UPPER HAND

7) SEXUAL
1 | PHYSICAL
Playfully push her away

Touch her with something very cold/very

hot for a second

Play thumb war and press her thumb down

HARD.

Tell her to put her palm in your hand. Then,

tap her on the hand. Like you're smacking
a kids hand, since she has displeased you.
Get’s the dominance-submissive
compliance going.
 Have your eyes wonder,
looking into the distance, like
you’ve become lost in
thought
PHYSICAL

Lean out and away from her

Check a text message and

start replying for 2 minutes
during your interaction

Tell her “I don't know if I want

to hug you or fight you”
2 | TEASING

give her a silly nickname- “Sweetie, Sparkles,

Candy, Buttercup, etc

Loudly say “No I will not make out with you”

Introduce her as “This a Julie,… and can you

believe she’s never had sex?”

I bet you’re one of those girls who spends 25

hours in a day of her iPhone

You know, you're cool, but you're in my friend

zone.

Oh, you couldn't even handle me, you're totally

the missionary style, like lights out, sex only on
your birthday girl
3 | VERBAL
Ask this if she tells you to do something. “Ok,
only if you can answer this question correctly-
which sentence is correct, “The yolk of the egg
is white,” or “The yolk of the egg are white.”
When she answers explain that the yolk of the
egg is yellow. make her do something for you as
revenge. (Builds compliance)

If a girl tries to shit test or tease you, just look at

her unimpressed and say, “weak.”

Observe something negative and point it out, i.e.

“You kind of mumble a lot.”

You know what, you're blond/brunette

(whichever she is basically) so I'll speak really
slowly
 4 | TAKEAWAY
We call it takeaway because you’re taking away part
of your validation from her, letting her know that
she can’t get too fresh around you.

Tell her to get out of your "bubble” (personal

space).

Say she seems like a good girl and you don't

want to corrupt her. (future pacing)

Oh you have a great smile. It's the best smile I

saw all night. Oh wait a minute, that girl over
there actually has a better smile than you (as
you look at that girl and point her out)
 When you run into an "old friend"

I’ll just talk to you for a little bit until

some blondes actually show up.
TAKEAWAY

If she's too innocent-

You know what, you're like honestly

too young for me. Women are crazy
until they're 25.
5 | DISMISS

Not playing around here. She fucked up or

irritated you and you let her know.

Cancel a plan you made. Something as

simple as replying "Something important
came up, i'll have to cancel"

[After she says she likes something, say

that you don’t, with a brief explanation,
preferably hitting her value) "I don't
respect people who do x. The question is,
are you one of those?

Where is your off button? (Homage Hank

Moody)(when she keeps on going lmao)
 Say, “I bet you can't dance” (or
whatever activity is going on).

”Are you like a typical Vegas party girl?"

If she says yes: "Oh god, another one of

you?"
DISMISS

If she says no: "Oh, so you're just kind of

like a nerd, right?"

You’re not going to talk to me for an

hour now about [crossfit, veganism, or
some other hobby she has]
(This Asserts your Dominant Frame in the
interaction) Along with it, you don't
 6 | UPPER HAND
This is where you make her jump through a hoop to give
her what she asks for.

She asks you to go to XYZ place, but you reply with

“First, we’re going to ABC place”

If she asks you to buy a drink,

you reply simply, “You get this round and I’ll get the
next”

Or “I don’t buy random girls drinks. tell me about your

story and I’ll take it from there”

Cut her off when she’s speaking

Take a sip of her drink without asking

If she says something boring say "Amazing" and

7 | SEXUAL
Hats down my favorite because it gets her really
turned on. I use these at house parties and
clubs- nighttime environment basically.

“I don’t even want to know what dirty

thoughts are going through your mind right
now”

“It should be a crime to put clothes on your

body”

“Gosh, stop undressing me with your eyes”

After your first kiss, Squeeze her ass tightly

and say “You’ve been waiting for this all
night, haven’t you”

“Stop fucking me with your eyes”

 | ACHIEVEMENT UNLOCKED:

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THE BR KING
Now that you have 101 ways to break rapport in any
situation, you must follow it up with QUALIFICATION.

Breaking Rapport is the attraction spark, and

qualification is the attraction WILDFIRE.

It is the BEST WAY to get her investment.

Take the example of Tom Cruise. When he meets a new

person, do you think he talks about how many movies
he’s did, how many fighter aircrafts he’s flown?

No.

He talks about the guy/girl sitting across him.

He’s interested in YOU.

 | WE'RE NOT DONE YET ;-)

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People of high-value don’t try to impress people.

Instead, they use these qualifying questions to get

others to PROVE themselves to them.

And if you seriously think about it, OF COURSE you

should qualify.

Let’s say you want a religious girl who believes in

god.

You should say “Every girl I know believes in god,

and I really respect that in girls. What’s your
relationship with god like?”

To not do that is to sell yourself short and settle for

someone who’s not even your type.
 PERSPECTIVE FOR
QUALIFYING QUESTIONS
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Remember, the point isn’t to MEMORIZE these.

The point is to give you IDEAS and lay a strong

foundation so you can create your own.

Because the qualifiers you use must actually have

meaning to you.

Consider this the framework.

Also, you can use these qualifiers just the same with any
Man you want to network with,
strike a business deal with,
especially one who’s higher value than you.
Flip the fucking script.

I’ll use the word “them” and it can just as easily be

replaced with him or her because it works on both
genders.
THE 4 TYPES OF QUALIFIERS

1) STATEMENTS

2) SMALL HOOPS

3) MEDIUM HOOPS

4) LARGE HOOPS
I | STATEMENTS
This is sort of FRAMING them as how you want them to
be.

“Hey, you seem like an adventurous girl. I wanted your

opinion on this really adventurous thing you’re gonna
do”

This sets the tone for the interaction and gives them
an image to “live up to”

These are great to use in the opening few lines

because they require low compliance to agree with.

Do you notice how these are also great ways to “pull

her in” after a breaking rapport move? Cocky Love.

See the next page for examples-

 You’re adorable.

You seem to have big ambitions.

You seem like the type of girl that likes

to live in the moment.
STATEMENTS

I can tell you’re someone who’s very

positive.

It’s great to finally meet a girl who’s

humble and not stuck up.

It’s great how you don’t take yourself

too seriously

You have this really primal energy

about you.
 You’re the type of girl that
always keeps the party going.
STATEMENTS

I really respect the fact that

you trust your own decisions.
Most girls have to rely on her
friends.

I like how down to earth you

are.

You really know how to keep a

conversation going. It’s so
easy to talk to you.
 II | SMALL HOOPS
Think of Hoops are those Circles of Fire that Lions
have to jump through at the circus to get the meat
as a reward.

No jump = no reward.

A small qualification hoop is a question that only

requires a yes/no answer. It’s to test the waters.

Example- “Do you party?” Notice how these are

short, direct, to the point. You’re not asking her if
she “likes to” party, you’re simply giving her a
choice.

If she gives a simple “yes/no” answer, you haven’t

teased (breaking rapport) her enough because a
girl who’s invested will NEVER give yes/no
answers.
 But if she starts saying

“I mean I often party but I like to attend house

parties where you can sit and actually talk
with the other person”
SMALL HOOPS

Then you know she’s invested and you’re on

the right path.

Other examples-

“Do you cook?”

“What’s your go-to hobby?”

“Do you consider yourself an open-minded

girl?”

“Do you rate yourself as a good kisser?”

III | MEDIUM HOOPS

This sort of piggybacks from the small ones, and you

want a more than yes/no, a detailed response.

Often you can skip from Statements to Medium hoops

directly, if she is responding well to your breaking
rapport statements.

Simply add a “What” or “How” to turn it into a medium

hoop.

“How do you like to party? Are you the clubbing type

or the house party type?”

or, you can continue her response to the previous

question-

“What is it about house parties that you love the

most?”
 Some more medium hoops for you-

What do you value most in a person?

If you could one anything in the world,

what would you want to be?
MEDIUM HOOPS

How good/bad of kisser are you?

What do you enjoy cooking the most?

What’s the most charming thing about a

guy?

What’s the most interesting thing you can

done all week? Apart from having this
conversation with me, of course (smirk)

When was the last time you actually did

something you really enjoyed?
IV | LARGE HOOPS
These are close to charismatic questions but
more with the intent of justifying themselves
to you.

The word “Why” is what turns a medium hoop

into a large one.

A good flirt line I like to use is

“Why do you like me so much right now?”

“If you could pack your bags tomorrow

and move anywhere for 6 months, where
would it be and why?”

What’s your favorite spot on your body to

be kissed on?
 What’s one date idea nobody uses?

What are your thoughts on soul

mates?

There are many beautiful women in

here, what sets you apart? (Do this
LARGE HOOPS

one while holding her hand so she

knows you appreciate her but you still
aren’t completely sold yet)

What’s a quality of yours that you

wish people appreciated more?

What do you think of girls who

automatically assume every guy who
speaks to them is hitting on them?

At what moment/ How do you know

you’re in love?
 "HOLY SHIT". I KNOW :-)
If breaking rapport is the spark of attraction, then
qualifying is the wildfire.

What you read is so amazing, that I myself go through it

often. Revision. Practice. 10,000 hours.

These two principles will help you master push and pull,
better than 99.99% men on the face of the planet ever do.

Watch as her eyes gleam and pupils dilate, thinking "Wow,

i've never felt this way before. How does he know so
much?"

Remember to act nonchalant. Women don't want perfect

guys, they want *almost* perfect men who have a major
flaw that they're not afraid of displaying.

Looking forward to hearing your feedback of this latest

addition!

- MR.