WEEK 5

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
DIO, JAYMEE CLAIRE VALLES
11 - LIMA
 What's More
Situational Analysis
1.) How did you categorize the acceptable and
unacceptable teenage relationships?
- I will classify acceptable and unacceptable teenage
relationships in terms of infatuation, attraction and
real love or true love.
Attraction is what you see with same or opposite sex.
Infatuation is how you feel at the moment, and real
love is when you know about the other person.

2.) If you are in that situation how would you react?

- Right now, i don't know because i want to focus on my
studies. But, if i'm in that situation, i will make sure or
ask or ask myself if i'm ready to nter this stage in my
life.
3.) Why do we need to understand the acceptable and
unacceptabale teenage relationships?
- We need to understand so that we can make a decision
about finding the right one for us.

What i can do
SITUATION REASONS EFFECT REACTION ADVICE

Cheating Lack of Trust issues It will hurt and They should end the
satisfaction ruins relationship disappointing relationship first if they don't
love their partner anymore.

SITUATION REASONS EFFECT REACTION ADVICE

Controlling Wanting to be no.1, feeling Being controlling person Sad Be balance, don't be
like a boss can make you lose a controlling person.
important people in your
life
 SITUATION REASONS EFFECT REACTION ADVICE
Unrealiability Immature Trust issues Anger Don't rely too much, or keep
your promises.

SITUATION REASONS EFFECT REACTION ADVICE

Not sociable, too Awkward situation, Sad Don't be so shy to

shy. Busy miss out communicate.

Assessment
1.) TRUE 6.) TRUE 11.) YES
2.) TRUE 7.) TRUE 12.) YES
3.) TRUE 8.) TRUE 13.) YES
4.) TRUE 9.) FALSE 14.) NO
5.) FALSE 10.) TRUE 15.) YES
 Additional Activities
(Relationship Goals)
"Pull me from hell, bring me back again.

Play me the classics, something romantic.

Give him my all when I don't even have it.

• "I would not leave you in times of trouble.

We never could have come this far, hmm..

I took the good times, I'll take the bad rimes

I'll take you just the way you are."

"You are the peace I crave in this chaotic world". "Be with people
who make hours feel like minutes".
What i have learned
I know that it's important for us to know who love really is, and to
make everyone around us or that people who are Special to feel
what love feels like, because that can make
you feel valued and treasured.

I learned that love is a deep feeling and it has many meanings. I

also learned that you can feel attraction in many ways. And then
commitment is a choice and it's nos a easy process.

I realized that love has many meanings and that it can. be hurtful
but you will learn many things from IT. My plan is that I reached
then sacge in my life where I have someone I love. I need to make
sure that my feelings are true and that I am ready for what we have
to pace.
Additional Activities
Reasons of attraction
COMPONENTS OF
RANK REASON
ATTRACTION

PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS 3 I don't really base on the

looks as long as That person
knows how to respect and
treat other people right.

PROXIMITY 4 I don't really mind the

distance as long as the
feelings are mutual and
genuine.

RECIPROCITY 2 Having someone who can.

return the same feelings you
are giving them is very
attractive to me.

SIMILARITY 1 Knowing or having someone

who has similarities as you
are attractive to me, example
for that is when that person.
as the same taste to music
like me.