50 Examples Of What To Text A Girl

Sure, there are lots of blog posts on what to text a girl, but none that reveal 50 things to
text a girl AND why they create so much attraction, until now!

And before I give you this incredibly long and pretty awesome list of what to text a girl
in specific situations, I just want to say that these are guidelines. These arent rules you
MUST follow dude

Because you dont have to use ALL my examples of what to text a girl to GET the girl.
Just experiment, see what works best for you, and keep doing what works.

And secretly?

I want to show you WHY all of these examples work so well, so you can invent many
more yourself and become a rock star of texting girls. But more on that later

Lets check out some examples of what to text a girl already!

What to Text a Girl When Youve Just Met Her

When youve just met her its important to keep the attraction going. To keep her
interested.

What does that mean when it comes to what to text a girl?

It means challenging her, teasing her, being picky, being mysterious, being hard to get,
being dominant and the list of things you can do via text to keep her interested goes on
and on.

Lets see what to text a girl to keep her interested is all about

1. Hey you. Yeah YOU! Can you keep a secret?

Of course when you text a girl like this shell be curious and say YES and ask why,
after which youll say:

Dont tell anyone, but I met this insanely cute girl the other day. Her name is NAME OF
THE GIRL YOURE TEXTING. It was a shame she didnt have bigger boobs though.

Now THAT is a great example of what to text a girl if you want to tease her. Dont look
at me that way man. This works because youll be one of the few guys whos not
impressed with an attractive girls looks and kissing her ass. That means youre hard to
get. Girls want that.
And if you still dont believe me, then Ill just go ahead and say: bad boys are attractive
to girls. And making a comment like that? Thats definitely being a bad ass!

So remember this when it comes to what to text a girl: it may not feel right to text
her that at first, but it will once you see the level of success youll achieve with these
samples.

2. Uhm heyyyy you? Who is this again? I have this new number in my phone but I
dont know who it belongs to!

This works well for the same reasons I gave you for example of what to text a girl #1.

3. You know what? Youre actually the first girl Ive met in ages that isnt stalking me
with texts after one day already. Then again, this super saintly saint always falls for bad
girls because I am sooo sweet and saintly and innocent

Instead of directly letting a girl know youre a bad boy by making a crude comment,
youre indirectly letting her know by over-emphasizing that youre Mr. Right so much so,
its unbelievable.

Its what to text a girl if you like to use a more subtle approach for coming across as a
bad ass.

4. Can I ask you something? Are you a thief, because you stole my heart

Stop right there! DONT think Im telling you to use a real cheesy pick up line when you
text a girl. Im telling you to use it and then immediately afterwards say:

Would it work? Would a cheesy pick up line like that work on you? Oh come on! Be
honest!

As you can see: Im mocking other guys in the dating game. And let me tell you: chicks
LOVE that! It shows them youre above and beyond slime balls who use stuff like that.

Dont ask me why girls think thats hot. They just do. Thats why I use it as an example
of what to text a girl.

5. Ok, lets pretend for a sec that youre a guy and Im a hot girl like you. What would
you do to try and pick me up?

This example of what to text a girl works in a similar way as the previous one, the
difference being that after she admits what she would use on you? You tease her by then
using it on her and asking if it worked.

6. Quick, quick! Wine or cocktail! Wine or cocktaillll!

When you text a girl that, shell be like: What the f*ck?

And then shell play along.

Then, depending on her answer, you ask her a follow-up question the same way: Red or
white wine! Red or whiteeeee. I think you get the picture.

Then you ask her to pick one of two foods and afterwards you say: Thanks! and youre
quiet. Now THAT is what to text a girl if you want to create attraction by being
unpredictable.

And its a very good way to ask a girl out too, but more on that later

7. You know, I just saw this smelly homeless guy with yellow teeth, these crazy looking
eyes, and the most raggedy pair of jeans Ive ever seen. He reminded me of you!

Dont force me to explain why this is a good example of what to text a girl if you
want to tease her

8. Im telling you a story right now and in the middle of the story, just before the moral
of the story rears its ugly head I just

Stop telling you. Whenever she asks for the whole story, the whole story of ANYTHING,
stop halfway through.

Shell tell you she only got half your message. Shell beg you to tell her more and
youll tell her she only gets to hear the rest if she gives you a little kiss, a drink. You
decide!

The basic principle behind all these examples of what to text a girl is simple: create
more tension. Sexual tension. And to do that long enough for her to want to go out
with you.

Id say sending 3-4 of these awesome texts to a girl is more than enough.
What To Text A Girl Who Likes You
These examples of what to text a girl are just to make a point, the point being that you
need to grow balls and cut to the chase if you know OR if you can say with 90% certainty
that a girl likes you.

9. Lets be honest. I know you like me and I know I like you. What are we going to do
about it?

10. Honestly? I like you. Youre a lot of fun to be around and youre pretty hot too, so
lets go somewhere together already!

Trust me when I say that girls LOVE it when youre direct, almost too direct, with them.

Why is it great to learn how to be direct when you want to learn what to text a girl?

Well, compare it with a girls male best friend who tells her that No! Im absolutely not
in love with you. Were just friends and who later admits that he does love her.

Other men beat around the bush, you dont. You get what you want, when you want
it. Thats what to text a girl who already likes you.

Lets keep going!

What to Text a Girl Who Stopped Responding

These samples of what to text a girl are for when, for whatever reason, she stops
responding to your text messages or calls. Theres a way around it that STILL gets
you the girl you know.

How? Just watch me text a girl:

11. You seem to be busy right now, so Ill leave you alone so you can do your thing!

This lets a girl know you wont waste time waiting on her, but also that youre not
desperate for her to get back to you.

And hey, its also a good way to know if shes really busy or just didnt bother to reply to
you earlier on because if a girl isnt busy and reads this text? Shell reply because she
doesnt want to insult you by making you think youre bothering her.

Pretty awesome trick if you want to learn what to text a girl, right? I know!

12. Wow! Youre playing hard to get already? Arent we moving a little too fast lady?
We havent even dated yet!
13. I have to tell you a little secret: even my grandmother types a text message faster
than YOU do. Damn girl!

14. Awhhh. Shes giving me the silent treatment. How cute! Love you too honey!

15. What is the epitome of boredom? Being so bored by yourself that you fall asleep
while watching yourself type a text message. Hint hint!

16. Youre not sending text messages via snail mail are you? Because even sleepwalkers
can move their fingers faster than you type text messages woman!

Here are my final thoughts on what to text a girl that stopped responding: what
makes you think it was because of YOU?

Maybe shes at work, sick, having a bad hair day, having her period, having a shitty day,
and so on. Girls are emotional creatures, so frankly?

There are six million ways to make her lose interest in talking to ANYONE. That can
include you, the guy she likes.

What to Text a Girl to Get A Date

I can give you so damn many examples of how to text a girl and get her out on a date. So
you know what? I will, damn it!

17. You know what? Weve been texting back and forth for a while now. But lets do
what normal people do and grab a drink somewhere to talk some more.

18. Hey, I know this great places where they have XYZ. Lets go there tomorrow!

Thats what to text a girl if you want to ask her out but dont want to be too obvious
about it.
19. You seem to be a person who has an opinion and likes to have fun, just like me. So,
lets have fun together by going to XYZ tomorrow!

20. You know what? If you promise youll be my tour guide tomorrow when Im in
XYZ, Ill give you some lessons in XYZ in return.

Here, you ask her to be your tour guide in her city or neighborhood, in exchange for some
lessons in whatever you do best like playing the guitar.

21. Youre bored? Well, if you play your cards right, I might take you to this awesome
place where they have XYZ later today!

This is what to text a girl when mentions shes bored.

22. Youre not doing anything right now? Then allow me to take you to XYZ, where
they have the best XYZ ever!

Use this one if a girl mentions she doesnt have much to do or ASK if she has anything to
do and then tell her this.

23. Hey, me and my friends are about to hang out at a buddys place. If you can make it,
youre invited.

Probably the most casual of all examples of what to text a girl, but it still works because
shell get to see how awesome you are when among friends. Girl are attracted to such
social proof

24. Party at my place at XYZ PM! Be sure to bring me my favorite liquor or you wont
get in!

Another widely used example. But widely used doesnt mean it sucks. It means it
probably works!

25. It was fun meeting you earlier today. You seemed to be a party girl so I just HAVE
TO ask: what are your plans for the evening you party animal you?

Just because you got her number earlier today doesnt mean you cant text her TODAY.
It depends on a girl-by-girl basis, so try your luck with this one and see what happens.

26. Tell me: do you have plans for the weekend? Or are you just going to sit around like
a true couch potato?

This is what to text a girl in a non-desperate way if you want to know if you can ask her
out or not.
27. Thank you for telling me what you would like to do on our date tomorrow. Ill pick
you up around, say, eight-ish?

Remember example #6 where you asked a girl to quickly choose one of two options
several times? Well, you can go out and buy the things she chose so shell drink and eat
what she prefers on a date with you.

And in case you were wondering: Ive used XYZ in several examples of what to text
a girl, but dont actually text a girl that dude! Fill in what you think is best there,
for example a movie theatre when telling her you want to take her to some place
nice.

One more thing: if youre unsure not about what to text a girl after reading so far, but
about WHEN to text a girl, and after how many times to ask her out?

Then dont worry bro! I got you covered! Ill give you all the tips youll ever need to
successfully text girls (and date them too) inside my Calling and Texting Newsletter.

Moving on on towards more examples of what to text girl that is!

What to Text a Girl When in Doubt

I can almost hear you think: What do you mean what to text a girl when in doubt
Dennis? In doubt about WHAT exactly?

Its simple, really. What follows are examples of things to text a girl if shes not sure she
can hang out with you or gives you ANY other kind of excuse about going on a date with
you.

28. Youre going to PLACE XYZ tomorrow? Wow! That sounds incredibly lame.
Come with me. You know Im much more fun than that place.

29. Great! When are WE going?

This is what to text a girl when she mentions shes going somewhere. To a party for
example.

30. Oh come on! Play nice. I promise I wont get drunk and embarrass you in public
(yet!)

31. Oh come on! Youre so boring! Ok, ok. You can pick the place well go to, but you
have to promise me youll by me a drink when were there.

32. Ahh dont worry about it. No is a good answer too. Just dont be surprised when you
find out that Im not the kind of guy who gives up when hes genuinely interested in a
girl!
Now thats what to text a girl if all else fails. Its playing the honesty card: straight
up telling her how you feel and that you wont stop trying to get what you want.

And you want her.

33. Ok, you know what? Have you ever heard of the Lemon Law? It works like this: we
go somewhere to get a drink. If we dont like each others company after five minutes,
were both free to leave. That way we dont hurt each others feelings and we also dont
have to stick it out until the end of the night if we hate each other.

You have to thank fictional womanizer Barney Stinson for that last one.

Guess what? It works!

And just when you thought you saw enough examples of what to text a girl? Im
giving you some more

What to Text a Girl After a Date

If you think youre done finding out what to text a girl, and with creating attraction in
general, after youve been on a date with a girl? Guess again!

I seriously thank GOD that youre not a general if you think that way, because it would
mean you would have thought weve won a war after winning the first battle.

THE way to guarantee yourself a second date, and possibly more, is knowing what to text
a girl AFTER the first date. And its this

34. I had so much fun today! We should do this again some time!
Another example of what to text a girl after a date:

35. I have to be honest with you. Today was one of the most boring, nightmarish, and
sleep inducing experiences Ive ever been through. Just kidding! It was great!

Decide for yourself if you have the guts to say example of what to text a girl #35, or not.

36. Youre lots of fun to hang out with. I just know were going to be the best friends
ever!

This works if you want to let her know you only want to be friends with her, but its also
what to text a girl if you want to make yourself hard to get. Because if she likes you?

Shell try even harder to make sure youll NOT be her friend, but her lover. Girls like a
challenge.

Neeext!

What to Text a Girl You Like If You Think Youre

Losing Her
Look, sometimes you do everything in your power to get the girl but you still feel like
shes out of reach. Out of your league.

And sometimes, you wonder what to text a girl you like because you feel like shes
losing interest in you. Heres what to use then:

37. Hi, this is me taking much longer than usual to respond to your text messages.

Of course this isnt what to text a girl word-for-word, but it is what you need to do: when
you feel a girl is losing interest, the worst possibly thing you could EVER do is chase her
more and harder than before.

Why?

Because it only makes you look desperate, so worse, than before. No good will come of
this.

Instead, what you should do is make yourself scarce. Make yourself harder to get than
you were. More difficult to understand. More difficult to keep.

Do that and a girl will realize she has to fight for your attention. Thats all it takes to get
her to work her ass off for you if she ever liked you, even if she only liked you a little bit.
So, the above example and the following 4 examples of what to text a girl are all
about how to make yourself harder to get (and keep):

38. Hi, this is me acting way more distant than usual when I respond to your text
messages.

Again, when you think youre losing her interest its all about making yourself hard to
get, so you can repair any damage you may have done.

And again, its advice for what to text a girl, not something you should literally text a girl

39. Hi, this is me texting you less often than I used to do.

40. Hi, this is me avoiding your questions with indirect answers for a while.

41. This is me texting you how much fun Im having without you.

Enough with the examples of how to turn things around when you THINK you screwed
things up already! Lets look at some examples of what to text a girl that will, 100%
guaranteed, screw things up for you.

In other words: check out what NOT to do when you text a girl below

What to Text a Girl If You Pray For a Fatality

Sorry. Got a little carried away there with my addiction to Mortal Kombat games. Ive
been a Scorpion fan for years! I know its wrong. I know those games are pretty violent. I
say: f*ck it. Whos with me!?

But what I mean is that you should NOT text a girl the following if you dont want
to do a fatality on attraction: if you dont want to KILL the attraction.
42. Are you a thief? Because you stole my heart!

Cheesy pick up lines dont work if youre dead serious when using them.

43. Do you believe in love at first sight? OR should I walk by again?

This was an example just to stress the fact that NO, cheesy pick up lines dont work.
Ever. Unless you make fun of them. Which is the pinnacle of awesomeness.

Please, please, pleeeease remember that cheesy pick up lines are NOT what to text a girl.

44. I dont know if Im your type, but

Dont you EVER say this if you DONT want to be seen as an insecure wussbag with a
capital S painted on it. That S stands for SUPER by the way. Super wuss.

45. Would you like to go out with me some time?

Could you make it even more obvious that youre insecure about yourself and/or her
liking you? Man up for a change and dont ASK her to go out with you. Tell her you
want to go out with her. Now that is what to text a girl to get her on a date with you.

46. Why arent you responding to my text messages? Are you ignoring me?

Getting angry doesnt solve a damn thing. Getting angry only scares a girl away from
you, even if she was attracted to you before. Anger stuff is not what to text a girl man.
Definitely not.

Trust me, Im a hot tempered guy so I had to learn this the hard way.

47. Hi! This is me sending you my 27th text message today!

Dont come across like you have no life of your own AT ALL. Thats a major turnoff.
Have fun while you text a girl and with what to text a girl, but always leave her wanting
more.

48. Hi! This is me responding to your text in less than 4 seconds!

Responding within a minute after getting a text from her says a lot about you. It could tell
her youre really interested, but mostly? Mostly, it says that you were waiting for her to
text you and that you have nothing better to do than just that: waiting for her.

That gives her one thing: a major desperation alert!

49. Hi, this is me responding to your message in a way that leaves nothing for you to
say.
One of the most fatal yet common mistakes when it comes to what to text a girl, is to
respond to questions she asks or to tell her stuff and then leave nothing for her to say.

If you said everything there was to say, then why continue? So, if you want to get enough
time to get a date with her, then ask questions and ask them often.

Keep her talking, so you give yourself a better chance of getting a date with her with one
of the examples of what to text a girl to date her I just showed you!

50. Hi, Im a guy who gives up at the first attempt to get the girl!

Of course, several of these last few examples arent things youll text to girls. That
doesnt mean I dont want to bring them up though, because heres the thing about giving
up on what to text a girl and when:

Just because girls, and people in general, take their smartphone with them wherever they
go doesnt mean theyll actually HEAR every text message theyll ever get.

Hell, I know I dont when Im driving with insanely loud music on, you know? Dont
take it personal when you dont get a reply from her.

Thats a long list with examples of what to text a girl, isnt it? Yet still, there are
many more moments when youll want to know something to freaking say. Moments
like

Birthdays, shitty days, holidays, when she just broke up with her ex. You name it!

And Ill share many more examples of what to text a girl and why inside my Calling
Women and Texting Women newsletter. You should definitely check it out, if you know
whats good for you.

I hope you liked these 50 examples of what to text a girl dude! Stay tuned to the Win
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