Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Before you begin watching any of the videos, take the time to print a copy of
this workbook.
While you watch each session, follow along in the workbook and write in your
responses when directed by the video. There is also space for recording your
homework experiences, as well as for jotting down notes about what you are
learning.
Attention!
This workbook is an essential part of your process of transformation. In
order to get the results you want, you must do the exercises within.
What?
What do you really want?
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What is the story you are telling yourself about why you cannot have it?
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What will it give you? How will you feel about yourself and your life?
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The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it,
and enjoy the dance.
- ALAN WATTS
What did this version of you think of other peoples opinions? Was he
worried about whether others would like him?
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I advise you to say your dream is possible and then overcome all
inconveniences, ignore all the hassles and take a running leap through the
hoop, even if it is in flames.
- LES BROWN
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It is almost impossible for anyone, even the most ineffective among us, to
continue to choose misery after becoming aware that it is a choice.
- WILLIAM GLASSER
Our decisions determine our direction, our destination, and ultimately our
destiny.
- ANTHONY ROBBINS
Why dont you already have what you want? List your reasons here below.
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2. Body how you hold yourself, move your body, and breath.
3. Self-Talk what you say to yourself in your own mind, including the story
you tell yourself.
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Limiting Beliefs
Limiting Beliefs, or Limiting Ideas, are negative statements we regularly tell
ourselves about who we are and how other people see us. These ideas can be
incredibly life restricting and can block us from moving towards what we
really want.
Brainstorm some of your most limiting beliefs in the section below. You can
use some from the list above and discover your own:
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The only limits to the possibilities in your life tomorrow are the buts you
use today.
- LES BROWN
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What is the consequence of this belief? What has it cost you in your life?
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What is the consequence of this belief? What has it cost you in your life?
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What is the consequence of this belief? What has it cost you in your life?
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A belief becomes much stronger and more believable when we have evidence
to support it.
Below, write out each of your new empowering beliefs. Underneath, write out
3 pieces of evidence for the belief 3 ways it is already true. Search your
memory, your recent and distant past, and discover the evidence to support
this new belief.
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During the week, actively search for evidence for your new beliefs. The more
you actively search, the more you will find. Write your new evidence below as
you find it.
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Social Power: The ability to do what you would like in social settings. This
can include starting conversations, saying what is on your mind, sharing your
honest feelings, asking someone out, and anything else that you would do if
you were free to be yourself around others.
One powerful way to shift our attention during a social interaction is to ask
ourselves a more empowering question.
Create your own use the elements of the questions above and create your
own empowering question below:
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In order to get what you truly want in your life, you must move from passive
to active.
1. Ask Questions
2. Make Statements
3. Listen
Questions
What are you drinking? What does your drink taste like?
Restatement This involves repeating back some or all of what you heard
the other person say. This does not mean repeating everything they said
word for word like a parrot, but rather summarizing key points that you
heard them say. At first, it might seem strange, as if they will pause, look at
you and say yes, I just said that. But in reality, people feel heard and seen
and greatly enjoy when someone reflects back to them what they heard.
Listening is an active process it is not simply waiting for the other person to
stop speaking. The key to listening is being able to slow your mind down, take
deep breaths into your belly and focus on what the other person is saying.
Indicating that you are listening can be incredible helpful as well. This
includes nodding, holding eye contact, and giving subtle verbal cues that you
are paying attention, such as oh, mmhmm, yes and so forth.
Not only is this type of interaction exhausting, it also does not give you the
freedom to be who you are. Playing it entirely safe might keep people from
being offended, but it also keeps them from knowing you and being attracted
to you. Few people are attracted to overly nice and polite people who only do
what they think others want them to do.
Be bold, turn your filter down! Ask what you are really curious about, share
information about yourself, make jokes.
Spend 20-30 minutes walking in a busy area noticing everything you can about
the people around you (what they are saying, what they are wearing, how they
are sitting or moving, etc.). Focus all of your attention on the present moment
and the environment around you.
What did you notice? What did you see around you? What did you learn about
social interactions, other people, or yourself?
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Find person and ask them: Excuse me, do you know what time it is?
How do you imagine it will go? What do you anticipate will happen?
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For the entire day, whenever you interact with people, be sure to hold eye
contact with them.
How did it go? Was it difficult to do this at first? How did it feel once you
kept doing it?
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Find 5 different people and ask them a basic question of your choosing.
How do you imagine it will go? What do you anticipate will happen?
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How did it actually go? How did the other people respond? Were your
predictions accurate?
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Walk down a busy street and make eye contact with as many people as you
can. As you walk by people, simply smile and say hello. Keep track of how
many positive responses you get and how many negative responses you get.
How do you imagine it will go? How many positive responses do you think
you will get? More than 50% or less?
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Go to a real restaurant (not a fast food joint) and enjoy a meal alone. Do not
bring your cell phone, a book, magazine, computer, or any other distraction.
Instead, simply be present, enjoy your meal, and notice the stories and self-
talk that might be going through your mind. If youd like, you can bring a
sheet of paper and pen and write some of these stories down to challenge
later.
How did it go? What did you notice? What did you learn?
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Go to a store and find a clerk and ask them: Excuse me, where are your
condoms?
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What did you learn about how you can handle embarrassment?
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Experiment 8: High 5s
Walk down a busy street with an exuberant bounce in your step. Repeatedly
offer your hand to people to get them to give you a high-five.
How did the experiment go? How many people did you have to engage
before you got 5 high-fives?
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How did it go? How did they react? Did they give you a bite?
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Summary:
What did you learn from doing all these experiments? How did it change your
perception of yourself? Do other people generally respond positively to you?
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Over the next weeks and months to come, see if you can incorporate these
experiments into your daily life especially the ones you found particularly
challenging or scary. Each time you do on you are increasing your level of
social fitness and social freedom.
All of these are stories we tell ourselves so we do not have to face our
deepest fear of being rejected and feeling like we are not enough.
Remember how to reframe rejection, and find the courage and strength inside
of yourself to take action and success is inevitable.
This is your old story the ideas and explanations that you had for why you
could not approach a woman.
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My New Mindset:
What is your new story? What beliefs about yourself will empower you to take
the next step?
Examples:
I am a powerful man.
I am a leader.
I am the shit!
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Find an attractive woman and ask her: Excuse me, do you know what time
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How do you imagine it will go? What do you anticipate will happen?
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How did it go? How did she respond? Were your predictions accurate?
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Find an attractive woman and ask her: Excuse me, do you know of a good
coffee shop around here?
How do you imagine it will go? What do you anticipate will happen?
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Throughout the day, whenever you see an attractive woman pay careful
attention to her. Notice what shes wearing, her accessories, how she moves.
Observe and think about things that you could comment on or ask her about,
if you wanted to.
What did you notice? What are some of the things you could comment on?
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For the entire day, whenever you see a woman, hold eye contact with her until
she breaks it. This includes every woman any age, size, color, and level of
attractiveness.
How did it go? Was it difficult to do this at first? How did it feel once you
kept doing it?
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Find a beautiful woman and notice something you can complement her on
(an article of clothing, an accessory, her hair, anything about her). Do not
stop and do not start a conversation with her.
Pay attention to her as you give the compliment. Notice her body language,
her facial gestures, and anything she says in response.
How did this exercise go? Did she seem to receive the complement or did she
get uncomfortable? What did you learn from this experiment?
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Similar to the last exercise, in this one you will find a beautiful woman and
give her a drive-by compliment. However, this time, you will follow that up
with a question. You can ask her about the thing you complemented, for
example:
How did it go? How did she respond to you after you gave her a compliment?
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When youre in a relationship, what percentage of your time should you spend with your
partner?
When you are attracted to a hot guy, how do you initiating with him?
Do you believe people should be completely honest all of the time in relationships? (this one
can get a fun, heated conversation going!)
When you go on a first date, do you think the man should pay?
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Find an attractive woman and tell her directly that she is beautiful. Before you
do this exercise, practice by looking at yourself in the mirror and saying:
I noticed you from over there and I had to come tell you you are
absolutely beautiful.
Be sure to hold your eye contact in the mirror and repeat this phrase until you
can say it easily and playfully. You can adapt the phrase and make it in your
own words, but it must contain the direct statement: You are beautiful (or
gorgeous).
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Find an attractive woman and walk directly up to her. Ask her the following
question in a slightly accusatory tone as if you are playfully suspicious of
her: Excuse me, are you single?
Pay careful attention to how she responds. Her saying yes or giving you her
number is not the point of this exercise. The key here is to ask the question,
regardless of the response.
How did it go? Were you scared? What did you learn?
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What did you learn from doing all these experiments? How did it change your
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Just as with the previous set of experiments these are designed to help
you transform shyness into confidence through taking action. The more you
can see these experiments as daily activities, or ways of living, the more
rapid your results will be. Continue to practice these exercises regularly, and
see if you can enlist a friend to do them along with you.
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Masculine presence is being able to look a woman directly in the eye and say
to her through your body language I am here, I am listening, and Im not
going anywhere.
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Sex is not a performance and is not about impressing your partner with your
amazing techniques. The truth is sex is about deeply connecting with another
human being, with all of their fears, desires, and wants.
This includes being able to communicate what you are feeling, wanting, and
desiring. It also involves talking about challenging or uncomfortable topics,
and being able to listen to your partner when she does the same.
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Your comfort zone is made up of all the parts of your life that are familiar and
easy for you. These are the things that we do because were used to it, because
that is what is habitual for us, because it is not scary and comfortable.
In order to get what you want in any area of your life, you must push yourself
to grow beyond the edge of your comfort zone. You must try new things,
challenge yourself and face what you are scared of in order to reach a new
level in your life.
Step 2 Self-Compassion
Bonus step Share with someone. Nothing can help soothe shame or reduce self-
attack like sharing openly and vulnerably with a person you trust. This can be
a family member, good friend, or counselor/coach.
Once a day for the next week, take several moments to write a compassionate,
supportive letter addressed to yourself. It does not have to be long, eloquent,
or perfect. It is simply about practicing speaking to yourself in a new way,
which might seem unfamiliar or strange at first.
For example:
Dear Aziz,
Hey buddy, Im sorry your body is hurting today. Its frustrating to be putting
more attention and energy on it, doing so much more, and still feeling pain. I
think youre doing an amazing job of taking more care of yourself. You have
so much dedication, determination, and discipline!
Hey buddy, I love you. You are doing such an awesome job juggling all of the
things in your life! You are prioritizing your health, creating a deep loving and
passionate relationship with Candace, running your own business, and
continuing to learn and develop yourself. Its amazing really!
No wonder you are feeling a bit tired and drained today. You are doing so
much. I really admire and respect how much you are desiring to create in
your life and the world around you.
Love,
Aziz
Each day for the next seven days, record 3 successes from your day. These
can be significant achievements, or the most minor accomplishments, such as
choosing a healthy option at lunch, or enjoying a conversation with a friend.
Below you will find space in your workbook to record both your success and
your self-compassion letter for the next week. As with anything you are
learning in this program, the more you condition it, the more impactful the
shift will be.
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Tony Robbins is one of the worlds most effective coaches. He has a powerful
ability to help people release negative beliefs and replace them with more
empowering ideas about themselves and their lives. I highly recommend
attending his introductory seminar. The UPW experience is highly influential
and is a must for anyone who wants to overcome the obstacles in their lives.
One of the leading figures in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dr. Burns guides
you through the maze of your own negative beliefs and helps you realize that
much of what you have been telling yourself is false. He uses humor,
anecdotes, and his vast experience to help liberate people from limiting
beliefs.
The title of this book says it. It helps you realize that everyone feels fear
even those who look confident and fearless on the outside. The major
difference is these people understand that fear is a natural part of growth, and
do they do not let it hold them back from what they want.
This book provides a roadmap for how to be more direct, assertive, and
honest in all of your relationships. She takes big concepts, such as honesty
and breaks them down into practical steps to apply in your life. This is a must
for those who strongly want to be themselves across all situations.
This book is written for men who are struggling with shyness and social
anxiety. It explores the major obstacles men face, the source of their anxiety,
and provides dozens of practical solutions to help shift from social anxiety to
social confidence.