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I. Eastern VS Western
The West is understood primarily as an autonomous ego whose existence is distinct from that of others.
In the East, it is often argued that there is no meaning of self that is independent of our relationship to others. The self is
irreducibly social.
Eastern Western
Focus on other's feeling Focus on self and needs
Marry first, then Love Love first, then Marry
Accept what is Seek change
Value rest and relaxation Value activity
Western Thought
Individualistic Culture - focus is always looking towards the self
- looks at the world in dualities
- loose association or loyalty to the group
- emphasize more on the value of equality even if they see the individual
can rise above everything else
Personal Attributes
Highlights their personal achievement
Eastern Thought
Collectivist Culture - sees the other person part of yourself
- looks after the welfare of their groups and values cooperation
- emphasize the hierarchy to achieve harmony and order
Social role / social situations
Keeping a low profile
Social Instructions
- meanings, notions, or connotations that are assigned to objects and events in the environment
- idea or notion that appears to be natural and obvious to people who accept it but may or may not
represent reality, so it remains largely an invention or artifice of a given society
Western World: Independency - the state of being free from the control of power of another
Individualism
- the habit or principle of being independent or self-reliant
- a social theory favoring freedom of action over collective or state control
Confucianism
- can be seen as a code of ethical conduct, of how one should properly act according to their relationships with
other people
- focused on having a harmonious social life
- self-cultivation – seen as the ultimate purpose of life but the characteristics of a Chun-tzu, a man of virtue or
noble character, is stil imbedded in this social relationship
Every person is born with four beginnings:
Jen - Heart of Compassion
Yi - Heart of Righteousness
Li - Heart of Propriety
Chih - Heart of Wisdom
Taoism
- would prefer a simple lifestyle and its teaching thus aim to describe how to attain that life
- the ideal self is SELFLESSNESS but this is not forgetting about self
Buddhism
- the self is seen as an illusion, born out of ignorance, of trying to hold and control things, or human-centered
needs; thus, the self is also the source of all these sufferings
- to attain the state of Nirvana, one must forget about self, forget the graving of the self, break the
attachments with the world, and renounce the self which is the cause of suffering
The Four Noble Truths of Buddhism are stated in simple terms as:
1. Suffering, pain, and misery exist in life
2. Suffering arises from attachment to desires
3. Suffering ceases when attachment to desire ceases
4. Freedom from suffering is possible by practicing the Eightfold Path
II. Dimensions of self
PHYSICAL SELF
- refers to the body, this marvelous container and complex, finely tuned, machine with which we interface with
our environment and fellow beings
- the concrete dimension, the tangible aspect of the person that can be directly observed and examined
Elaine Nicpon Marieb - explains that the gonads begin to form until about the eighth week to embryonic development
• Gonads are the reproductive glands that produce the gametes.
• Gametes, a mature haploid male or female germ cell which is able to unite with another of the opposite sex
in sexual reproduction to form a zygote.
TESTES – Male OVARY – Female
Pseudohermaphrodite - individuals having accessory reproductive structures that do not match their gonads
Hermaphrodite - individuals who possess both ovarian and testicular tissue
PUBERTY - aging between the ages of 10 and 15 years old, a period during which adolescents reach sexual maturity
and become capable of reproduction
Male:
testicles get bigger and the scrotum begins to thin and redden
pubic hair also starts to appear in the pubic area, axillary and face
increase in the size of the reproductive organ. and continues to grow for two years until sexual maturation
marked by the presence of mature semen in the testes
Female:
most girls gain weight (which is normal) as their body shape changes – girls develop more body fat along
their upper arms, thighs and upper back; their hips grow rounder and their waist gets narrower
budding on their breasts usually occurring at the age of 11
Menarche is the first menstrual period of females which happens two years after the start of the puberty
Erogenous Zones
- applies to people of all genders
- simply refers to the parts of the body that experience heightened sensitivity and/or signal sexual arousal of
some kind
- these zones are found all over the body, and are far more complex and intricate than just the genitals
[ Mouth, Breasts, Genitals (Vagina-Female, Penis-Male), Anus, Thighs, Abdomen, Neck, Feet ]
Types of Behavior:
Human sexual behavior are usually classified according to the gender and number of participants.
Solitary Behavior ¬– includes only one individual
Self-gratification means self-stimulation that leads to sexual arousal and generally, sexual climax.
Most self-gratification takes place private as an end in itself, but also be done in a sociosexual relationship.
Sociosexual Behavior – includes more than one person
Heterosexual behavior is the greatest amount of sociosexual behavior that occurs between only one male and
female. It usually begins in childhood and may be motivated by curiosity, such as showing or examining
genitalia.
MATERIAL SELF
Social Self
- Self as reflected through your interactions with others
- A variety of selves that respond to situations and roles
- References to interactions with others that reflect who you are
- Ex. “I am a member of Chess Club.”
Spiritual Self
- Introspections about values, morals, and beliefs
- Your concept of self based on your thoughts and introspections about your values and moral standards
- Ex. “I believe in a higher supernatural being”
Pure Ego
- Most puzzling aspect of the self
- Provides the thread of continuity between our past, future, and present
Material Self
- Primarily about our bodies, clothes, immediate family and home
- Deeply affected by these things because we have put much investment to them
Body – we do have certain preferential attachment or intimate closeness to certain body parts because of its
value to us.
Clothes – we choose and wear clothes that reflect our self.
Immediate Family – we place huge investment in our immediate family because we see them as the nearest
replica of our self.
Home – an extension of self, because in it, we can directly connect our self.
SEXUAL SELF
Human sexual behavior - is defined as any activity– solitary, between two persons, or in a group– that induces sexual
arousal. (Gebhard P.H. 2017).
SEXUAL PROBLEMS
Physiological - due to abnormal development of the genitalia or that part of the neurophysiology controlling
sexual response.
Psychological - caused by socially induced inhibitions, maldaptive attitudes, ignorance, and sexual myths held by
society.
Premature emission of semen - this is not the consequence of any psychological problem but the natural result
of excessive tension in a male who has been sexually deprived
Ejaculatory impotence - results from the inability to ejaculate in coitus, is uncommon and is usually of
psychogenic origin.
Vaginismus - a strong spasm of the pelvic musculature constricting the female reproductive organ so that
penetration is painful or impossible. It can be due to anti-sexual conditioning or psychological trauma that
serves a defense against coitus.