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Carlin Smith
Wilcox
Section 104
25 November 2019
In the 1970s, the cohabitating union was a relatively abnormal and unconventional family
structure. According to Michael J. Rosenfeld and Katharina Roesler, premarital cohabitation has
become increasingly popular over the past several decades, jumping from a mere 10% of first
marriages following cohabitation in 1970 to over 60% of first marriages after 2000 (see Figure
1). In the United States, the effects of this family unit are widely contested in the areas of marital
quality and economic benefit. For some, cohabiting is an attractive option that allows a “trial
period” before marriage and thus improves the eventual marriage; for others, cohabiting
entrenches the idea in couples that relationships are “impermanent and disposable” and worsens
that suggests that a family structure marked by cohabitation is widely predictive of various types
of abuse perpetrated towards children. In focusing on household composition and its role as a
risk factor for abuse towards children, cohabitation emerges as one primary familial arrangement
marked by prevalent abuse, specifically when compared to other structures (Sedlak, 2010).
Firstly, familial structures involving a single parent and cohabiting adult will be evidenced as the
primary family structure associated with child abuse and neglect. This will be done through a
comparative analysis of the prevalence, type, and severity of child abuse across different family
structures. Next, the possible reasons behind the prevalence of child abuse in this category of
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family structure will be explored, notably the experience of intimate partner violence (IPV) and
the authoritarian parenting style commonly associated with homes constituted by a cohabiting
familial unit. These findings will serve to denounce cohabitation as a good alternative to
marriage in terms of its possible negative effects on children, specifically because it occasions a
higher prevalence of abuse towards kids than any other familial unit (Sedlak, 2010). Other
familial structures that avoid the perpetration of child abuse and better support the safety and
well-being of children will be explored, so as to emphasize them as better routes for couples’
There is an array of evidence that suggests the living arrangements and family structures
of children play a vast role in their potential for abuse perpetrated by an adult. In the Fourth
National Incidence Study of Child Abuse and Neglect in 2010, six different types of familial
structures were compared to evaluate which had the highest incidence of abuse across three
categories (physical, sexual, and emotional). This study showed that children are at a
comparatively higher risk for all three categories of abuse when they are in a household with one
single parent and cohabiting partner, as compared with any other type of family unit (see Figure
2). Meanwhile, kids belonging to family structures with two married biological parents were at
the lowest risk for experiencing abuse in the home. This is not to say that child abuse is
completely removed these homes with two married biological parents, but rather that the
prevalence and nature of the abuse is often different. According to Sedlak (2010), only 1.9 per
1,000 children living with two married biological parents suffer physical abuse, compared with
19.5 per 1,000 kids in the category of kids with a single parent and a cohabiting partner (see
Figure 2). Additionally, according to this study, the rate of emotional abuse suffered by children
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in cohabiting families was more than eight times that of children in households comprised of two
Furthermore, the type of abuse varies depending on the structure of the family. According
to the Fourth National Incidence Study of Child Abuse and Neglect (2010), sexual abuse is
particularly common for kids in households with a single parent and a cohabiting adult; “more
than two-fifths (42%) of the sexually abused children were sexually abused by someone other
than a parent (whether biological or nonbiological) or a parent’s partner, whereas just over one-
third (36%) were sexually abused by a biological parent” (p. 14). In this finding, it is shown that
sexual abuse has less prevalence in families with married biological parents and remains a
particularly common form of abuse for kids with single parents who are cohabitating with
unrelated adults.
Another factor that differs in comparison between families with married biological
parents and those comprised of cohabiting unions is the severity of harm experienced by the
child in abuse situations. According to Sedlak (2010), “…severity of harm from physical abuse
varied by the perpetrator’s relationship to the child. A physically abused child was more likely to
sustain a serious injury when the abuser was not a parent” (p. 14). This evidence posits the
assertion that there are particularly risky factors about the presence of unrelated adults in the
home, who are frequently serving as parts of a cohabiting union, that endanger children and
After discussing the familial structure of cohabitation and its high association with child
abuse, the possible reasons behind prevalence of child abuse in this category must be examined.
In Child Deaths Resulting From Inflicted Injuries: Household Risk Factors and Perpetrator
which they hoped to “determine the role of household composition as an independent risk factor
for fatal inflicted injuries among young children and describe perpetrator characteristics” (p.
687). In this study, it was found that most perpetrators of inflicted-injury death were male and
actively resided in the child’s home when the injury occurred. In fact, “more than 80% of the
households with unrelated adults consisted of the child’s mother and her boyfriend” (p. 690). The
study suggests that male caregivers, who were often cohabiting with the child's mother, had a
higher likelihood to submit children to abuse than female caregivers (see Figure 3). Schnitzer
states, in the context of cohabiting unions, “...in these high-risk households, the boyfriend was
typically responsible for caring for the child at the time of the fatal-injury event and was the
On the one hand, Schnitzer (2005) emphasizes that the cohabiting boyfriend is frequently
the direct perpetrator of violence towards the children in the familial unit. However, mothers
may also be at a higher likelihood of abusing their children if they currently experience or have
married counterpart. According to a study conducted in Hong Kong by Ko Ling Chan (2011),
mothers that are victim to IPV are at an increased risk of physically abusing their children,
perhaps in response to their victimization. Chan (2011) states, “Such behaviors may be explained
by the abused mother’s efforts to protect her children from a more aggressive father, as well as
by the possibility that the battered mother may have learned to use violence to take control over
her own children under stressful conditions”, evidencing the cascading effect that abuse has on a
family despite the children’s biological ties to the adult (p. 533). It is also important to note that
frequent aggression and violence in household argumentation is likely to take the form of control
What factors then are likely to occasion intimate partner violence? In a study by
Catherine A. Taylor, she asked, “is maternal IPV victimization associated with risk for maternal
child maltreatment even after control for potentially confounding maternal risk factors such as
parenting stress, depression, and consideration of abortion?” (p. 177). It was subsequently found
that intimate partner violence may also be more likely to occur by or against mothers who are
pregnancy (Taylor, 2009). Additionally, it is useful to look at a comparison of the “usual” levels
of child maltreatment in the US as they overlap with violence and/or non-violent homes.
According to William J. Oliver (2006), “In a review of 42 studies spanning 1967 to 1996, it was
concluded that the rate of concurrence of abuse of mother and her children in the United States to
be 6% for any given year. Within a stratified group of violent homes, the total concurrence of
abuse appeared to be about 40%” (p. 113). This statistic evidences the strong correlation between
household violence, perhaps between partners, and the likelihood for child abuse to occur. Chan
(2011) forwards this assertion, highlighting that negative marital interactions are likely to vastly
affect children, even to the point of endangering them, as the “parent–child” relationship is
The parent–child relationship is also affected by the style of parenting that partners
choose to engage. According to Wilcox in lecture (11/13), authoritarian parenting implies little
affection and strict, inflexible rules in a household where the parents have total power and allow
no room for negotiation. Wilcox also stated that the authoritarian parenting style is most
common in the homes of lower socioeconomic classes, which are commonly made up of
cohabiting unions. This link is important to understand in recognizing the intersections between
family structure, socioeconomic class, and parenting style. In relation to the authoritarian
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parenting style’s effect on the likelihood for child abuse to occur, Christina M. Rodriguez (2010)
states, “An authoritarian parenting style may involve psychological aggression tactics that
precede and escalate into physical discipline encounters” (p. 738). This claim is supported by
Kristin Valentino (2012), who recognized that physical forms of discipline towards children are
delinquency” (p. 173). Valentino’s study, however, commits itself to exploring the interactions
between community, race, and parenting style to understand the prevalence of child abuse in
certain contexts.
beneficial for certain groups than others, specifically for African American families. Rodriguez
(2010) found the same for Chinese families. Valentino (2010) states, “An authoritarian parenting
style may increase parental monitoring, which has been associated with positive child
developmental outcomes among African American families” (p. 174). This lends significance to
the idea that community influences and risk factors on a child’s safety and well-being may shape
the parenting style best for them. Valentino (2010) contends that although authoritarian parenting
is seen as “dysfunctional” and links to child abuse in many social contexts, it is increasingly
effective for children in neighborhoods with high-risks of violence. She states, “For low-income
African American parents, among whom there are heightened perceptions of danger, distress,
and concern for their children’s futures, the protective nature of authoritarian parenting may be
especially true. Heightened awareness to potential dangers may motivate stronger authoritarian
attitudes and beliefs about parental control and subsequently facilitate greater protection against
childhood abuse” (p. 175). In this sense, authoritarian parenting might actually provide a defense
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against child abuse, emphasizing the relevance of socioeconomic context when comparing
parenting styles.
In analyzing the relationships between child abuse prevalence, intimate partner violence,
and parenting style, all frequently occasioned by a particular family structure, it is critical to
account for selection effects and risk factors. For example, Ko Ling Chan (2011) states, “The
relations between child maltreatment and IPV may be understood by examining the risk factors
commonly associated with them, including family-related factors such as poverty, life stressors,
neighborhood violence, parental history of severe punishment, marital problems, marital conflict,
poverty, social isolation, and other negative aspects of family life, including unemployment and
insufficient income” (p. 534). This statement is important in recognition that not all incidences of
child abuse can be attributed solely to the mechanisms played out by a particular family
structure, like the cohabitating familial unit. Other aspects of the children’s socioeconomic
environment might place them at greater risk for abuse than children in other conditions.
child abuse or even death due to the actions of an adult perpetrator. In fact, according to
Schnitzer and Ewigman (2006), a preschool child living in a household with an unrelated adult
has a likelihood of dying that is approximately 50 times greater than a child living with
his/her/their two biological parents, even after controlling for confounding factors (see Figure 4).
Which family structures might better support the safety, well-being, and positive development of
children and protect them from abuse? How might the support of specific institutions steer the
patterns of maltreatment towards children entrenched by certain familial units, behaviors, and
practices?
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According to the Fourth National Incidence Study of Child Abuse and Neglect (2010),
“Children living with two married biological parents had the lowest rate of overall Harm
Standard maltreatment” (p. 19). In regard to this statistic, couples should opt for marriage before
having children to reduce the risk of relationship dissolution and dispute in the midst of growing
their families. It has been shown that couples who commit to marriage rather than cohabiting are
less likely to place children at risk for abuse; the biological ties between children and their
parents lessen the likelihood of sexual and high severity abuses (Sedlak). For this reason, parents
who are single or divorced should have serious hesitancy regarding the introduction of unrelated
adults into the home with their children, specifically if those adults will assume a caretaking
position. To ameliorate this risk for children from single-parent homes, Schnitzer (2005) states,
“Educational programs, policies, and resources directed toward providing young children with
safe, protective environments including quality day care for single, working mothers should be
considered important strategies for preventing inflicted-injury deaths among young children” (p.
693). Support for the institution of marriage before child-bearing, advocation for policies,
programs, and institutions that mitigate risk factors of abuse for children of single parents, and
acknowledgment that family structure shapes child maltreatment prevalence are all critical
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Figure 2. Incidence of Harm Standard Abuse by Family Structure and Living Arrangement
Source: Sedlak (2010)
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Figure 4: Preschool Children’s odds of dying at the hands of an adult in U.S. (2006)
Source: Schnitzer and Ewigman (2006)