Debate is endless. No side can win in debate. If someone, then other side is lacking content.

Love Marriage

2 types of love marriages. Love marriage 1st is not

marrying a girl or boy for girls whom you would been
spending time
On Love --

Mutual understanding, feelings for someone.

1. Independency of person to choose his/her life partner
freely i.e in love marriage.
In arrange marriages when things don’t go right ahead,
people blame their families.
2. Love “generally” happens over a period of time. So you
better know a person whom you are marrying, all of
his/her goods and bads and accept them with who they
are before marrying or you have a choice you can leave.
If it does happen in secs, we accept other person with
In arrange marriage you learn
about other person over a period of time after marrying.
Then you need to accept them, you are left with no
option but to repent. In foreign countries people even
get divorces easily. But in Indian culture it’s uncommon
we are presetted by families and society to keep moving
in a relationship that’s not worth off and our judiciary
system is so bad that decisions come over decades.
 Even in foreign countries In divorces children suffer a
lot.

3. Caste system – Arrange marriages had always been

taking place in same caste due to constrains our old
believes.
Love marriages have shown us a new dimension, have
freed us of this caste system “Upper caste and lower
cast”.
4. Again Love marriages bridge the gap of classes “Of
riches and poor”, upper class and lower class.

Marriage is a connection two people that should be filled

with love

You would like to see someone in life who can just take you
vansh ahead, can take your responsibilities, or someone who
loves you a lot.
Obliviously 2nd one that takes place in love marriages while
arrange marriages happen bcz we just have to marry as it is a
part of life.

Generally boys look for a partner who is beautiful, hot and

sexy And girls for someone handsome, smart and intelligent
to love… To Love Even in arrange marriages 1st we reject
people with their photos without knowing them.
But again it’s love which vanishes all the outer appearance
and differences in between two people And leaves a message
to society that we are not mere this but we are something
more.
Pre feelings of acceptance

Love marriages, people treat each other equally which is a

good symbol for society while is arrange marriages there is
supremacy of husband seen generally or where There
husbands are not is empowerment.

And All the fake case like Dowrey asking, mental tourturing,
physical violence charged by a woman again husband and
their family takes place in arrange marriages.
If in love marriage it has to happen then why
would a girl will marry to a poor guy, won’t she marry a rich
guy. Then she can’t file a case of dowrey to a rich guy..bcz
what is her need of money.

Love marriage teaches us to keep our ego aside bcz without

doing so love can’t reach up to marriage.

Love marriage changes a person’s personality, in love we try

to look at our best for a person, Enhances our dressing sense
and style.
We

Falling in love is one of the most magical parts of being alive.

The thrill of courtship and the feeling of your heart skipping a
beat can never be replaced.
And the most important thing is ---
A love marriage can be arranged but a arrange marriage can’t
be make love because love is a feeling that comes naturally
for someone you can’t forcibly generate a feeling to love
someone.
Thank You very much
Love is unconditional.

Arrange marriages against

1. In arrange marriages judgements are made on the basis

of dowrey. Family abuse is more even after dowrey.
2.
You have fall for a person who is not right, drunkard,
characterless and can physically harm you. You say you are in
love, people take advantage of that, Cheat, but you still love
them you persist, you can’t take them out. And people give
up their lives.

Love has destroyed many families, children have to suffer.

When this love takes place after marriage. People instead of
taking their responsibility, run away with their loved once.
Where are our duties towards society, family.