Professional Documents
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Mark Reynolds
Think the course as the application of the knowledge for local work.
- This might invade the mind of the preacher: Preaching gives a good opportunity for laziness.
- Despite the oversight of the elders you decide how hard of a worker you are as a gospel
preacher. You determine your own work.
Doctrinal soundness.
The new pluralism: no one has the right to force the beliefs but we should persuade men into the
gospel.
It is easy to get discouraged by the lack of numerical growth: just to stay in a one number involves
a great amount of work. Look at the individual to whom you have impacted.
2 Cor. 6:1: the privilege to be workers alongside God. There are some things that God can do only
through the agency of men: God uses us to fulfill his purposes.
Be compromised in preparing a good lesson and sermon every time that we preach and teach.
Preaching just what “we know” keeps us from growing in knowledge.
Col. 3:23-24: strictly speaking the preacher does not work for the elders. They oversight the work
but the final authority is God.
1. the preacher is called to a vocation (Eph. 4:1): a call to fulfill some functions.
1 Cor. 12:14-17: different functions that work together and none is less important.
The Christian call to Christian service: no more than that, but no less either.
- Clear knowledge that God wants some people to preach: do I feel that responsibility?
- The testimony of reliable friends and advisers as to the mental fitness for the work.
- Feel conscious about the responsibility.
- Women
- A preparation for both the learned and the unlearned: give both groups something from
the sermon.
- Continuous preparation.
- Wisdom: talk with older members’ form whom we can get that wisdom.
- You are not responsible for every wish of the congregation: please everybody.
- The difference between thinking of the sermon as pleasing the congregation and think of
the sermon as pleasing God: the latter should always be in our mind.
4. Goal setting.
- Sit down with the leaders: set goals for the congregation together: same expectations.
- Spiritual goals.
- financial goals.
- Examine your motives for preaching: why do I want to preach? Examine your preaching: *keep a
journal of sermons.
Help me have an unwavering faith in the Word of God and to show that faith in the way that I
preach and teach.
Help me never to cease hungering and thirsting for the Word of God.
Help me to have love for all and understand their needs and show them how you can meet those
needs.
Help me to be myself.
Specific characteristics
- Exemplary life
- Law of Spiritual success.
- Preaching the word: we cannot lose sight that this is the main purpose.
Work of evangelist.
- Ministry: service.
o All are called to be servants, but preaching is a special ministry.
- The preacher is a minister.
- The preacher is minister of the Lord.
o Humility: it is not about us.
o Making it all about us: makes harder the work.
- We are always servants but we can’t do it all.
o Train the congregation for them to do the job.
o Take away the pastoral system of the preacher.
Visitation
- It might be overwhelming.
- The main job is to please God: in order to do that we ought to use our time wisely.
- We can be busy every day and do nothing.
- Making the choice between the good and the good: prioritize.
- Make the congregation understand that concern for others is not just the preacher’s job.
- Sometimes the work of the preacher is apart from the work of the Christian.
- We must not spend all the time in non-imperative work
- Phil. 3:13-14: maintain our focus and concentration.
- Office hours:
o Not a place to be separated from the church.
o Not a place for lament or to boost my ego.
o Set up how much time you can spend outside the office: there is a need for time
away if this does not affect the work.
How to narrow down the most important things that I can do as a preacher?
- Do not put too much pressure that they end up resenting the church.
- Let them know they are more important than the job.
o One can go to heaven without preaching, but not by being a bad husband or
parent.
o Try to keep all promises to your children.
- Do not put down the church in front of the children
o This for all Christians
o The preacher knows more negatives about the church than most members.
- Have bible studies with them.
- Engage them in the work so they can see the value of it.
- Be a good father.
- Make a budget.
- Make an emergency fund.
- Work to pay your debts.
- Make plans for the future.
- Plan for reality
PASTORAL COUNSELING
Counseling
- Infuse theology unto almost everything that we do, but in counseling you add the secular
counseling into the religious setting.
- Holistic: all the dimensions of a person: body, spirit and soul.
- We are generalists, we see all the aspects and problems of the person.
- Handbook for pastoral counselors.
o Religious cultivation of the individual
o Psychology: why people do what they do?
The psicoanalitical reasons.
o Therapy: healing: the ultimate goal of the pastoral action.
- First priority: be a faithful Christian, Care, do not just be there.
Important terms
Where do we begin?
- Exhibiting attending and caring behavior - frequent eye contact, hospitality good facial
expressions.
- Invite the person to talk about significant issues by reflecting responses, open ended-
questions. And brief questions comments and gestures.
- Listening carefully and observing nonverbal questions.
- Follow the person’s lead by staying with the here and now dialogue.
- Responding and clarifying by summarizing in paraphrased form, the high points that have
been communicated.
- Exploring potentially significant areas that the person has not discussed by asking focusing
questions.
- Helping the person when the problem isn’t in charge so that He or she can see strengths
and agency for the life that pretends to live.
- Confronting or challenging the person as needed.
- Invite the person to think about and take next steps based on the person’s understanding
of the future of her or his life.
*The care receiver is the most important person, but we have to be the quarter back*
Family counseling
- Healthy families
o Communicate and listen
o Affirm and support them one another and teach respect for others.
o Develop a sense of mutual trust.
o Have a spirit of playfulness and humor
o Exhibit a shared responsibility and teach values of right and wrong.
o Respect one another’s privacy.
o Value and practice service to others
o Foster family conversations and table time and share leisure time
o Admit and help for problems.
Biblical counseling.
“Life is transformed when a mission worthy of carrying out is uncovered”. – Victor Frankl.
Weddings
III. Make sure that the couple talks with the elders.