Debate is a formal way of communicating that the two teams
present their arguments to persuade one another. According to
Kristine Joyce Agustin, debate made her to step out to her comfort zone. As being a person to her, she always said over issues and societal problems. She cares much about what is going on in the society. Debate is a way to express her ideas, beliefs, her stand and most importantly herself. But she also said that it’s not always about expressing herself. She added that debate is a two way of gain, first is she was able to express herself and secondly, she also learning at the same time. She admitted that she’s not always right, and through listening the arguments of her opponents, she made her learned more about the matter. For her, those issues made her to strengthen her beliefs and stand. Sometimes, she made her realized that she was wrong and there are better ideas than her. And also, she said that it’s okay to be wrong because on that point, she learned something and at least she can now see and act on matters more efficiently by all the ideas she gained.
She gave me an advice that, don’t be ever afraid to stand up and
speak up. She said that leaning on how to debate starts on with fear and nervousness that will not be going to be good and will cause of embarrassed. And also failing to her is always part or learning. It’s okay to be wrong, it’s okay to be embarrassed; at least you tried and to her trying means learning. Hence, use every experience to improve self, even the bad ones, but she added that never commit the same mistake twice. She also gave me her favorite line from a poem “If you compare yourself with others you may become vain or bitter, for always, there will be a better person than yourself”. She also said that, don’t ever be intimidated, and don’t feel bad because someone is better. You’re going to be good just by trying. She also remind me the “audentes fortuna iuvat” it means “fortune favors the brave” This advices that ate Kristine gave to me, enlighten me to a positive thinker and motivated me more that I will become an attorney someday. It makes me realized that no matter what is going, just continue of trying because it is not bad, it is more better than you didn’t try at all. And in simple words, “Don’t be afraid in failure but rather fear not trying”.
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