Ethics refers to standards of right and wrong that prescribe what
counsellors ought to do in terms of rights, obligations, benefits to society, fairness or specific virtue (Stein 1990). Ethics are viewed in two ways: principle ethics and virtue ethics. Principle ethics: Principle ethics are obligations or action guides i.e. things a person does. What you do (principles) gives a picture of what you are (virtue or character). Principle ethics focus on the question of action i.e. ‘what shall I do?’ In this way principle ethics determine the conduct that is professionally acceptable. For instance, a counsellor who is guided by principle ethics is one who has a character of trustworthiness, self-control, faithfulness, truthfulness, honesty, respectfulness, prayerful, fairness, competence, confidentiality, humanness etc. Virtue ethics form the basis of our beliefs and values at personal, professional and societal levels. Virtue ethics focus on the question of character i.e. ‘what shall I be? For instance, in answering this question, one can become a Christian full of Christian values, a wife full of values relating to a married lady, one can become a church leader full of values relating to a leader as prescribed in the Bible. A counsellor full of virtue is one who is honest, truthful, righteous, loving, full of mercy, kind, patient, self controlled or fair. Remember virtue or character portrays a type of person one is. ETHICAL ISSUES IN COUNSELLING PRACTICES A general rule is that ethical practices benefit a client while unethical practices benefit a counsellor. So when you encounter a challenge in which to decide whether it is un ethical or ethical to do something, remember the question: ‘to whose benefit is it?’ If it benefits the counsellor, then its unethical and if it benefits the client, then its ethical. UNETHICAL ISSUES IN COUNSELLING PRACTICES Some of the unethical practices in counselling include: Sexual issues; sexual issues are further categorized in five practices as follows: Engaging in sexual contact with a client Engaging in erotic activity (kissing by mouth, emotional hugging) with a client Allowing a client to disrobe or undress Engaging in sex with a trainee counsellor. NB: Remember, you can not put coals of fire on your lap and except not to be burnt. Shun all appearances of evil in relation to sexual issues. Business issues; Three practices pertaining to business issues in relation to unethical counselling practices have been identified by Corey (1991) and include: Getting paid for referring clients to another counsellor Going into business with a client Borrowing money from a client. Issues of confidentiality: unethical practices in this context include: Disclosing confidentiality of a client, Discussing a client by name with third parties. Dual relationship: It is unethical for a client to have two counsellors on one case at the same time. It is also unethical for a counsellor to counsel clients where he/she has dual relations i.e. wife, children or in-laws. The difficult comes in when the counsellor is also emotionally affected. For instance, if your wife has been raped or insulted, it is practically impossible to be emotionally stable and counsel her. Your relationships being her counsellor and her husband will conflict each other. In fact both of you (wife and husband) at that moment need counselling. Hence, the need for another counsellor. Providing counselling services beyond one’s competence: It is unethical to provide counselling services in areas where one is not competent or has no training. Meeting one’s needs instead of those of the client: You must refrain from undertaking any counselling or guidance activity in which your personal needs are the ones to be met instead of the client’s. In addition, in case your personal problems are likely to lead to inadequate performance or harm to a client refrain from going in such a counselling relationship. Touching as part of client-counsellor relationship: Touching is a complex issue and counsellors need to be honest with themselves and their clients and they need to be aware of whose needs are primarily being met in their touching a client. In some cases, victims of incest, rape or defilement may be resistant to physical contact. They may be offended and frightened by counsellors’ well intended touch. Other clients because of their cultural background, may be very uncomfortable with any physical expressions of concern by a counsellor. A counsellor must therefore, be sensitive to the needs of a client.