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What is savoring?

Savoring the past and future


A clear day in winter, when the sun warms you up better In addition to savoring the present, we can also savor
than any blanket could. The drive home after the the past and the future. Savoring the past is
celebration, when the sense of achievement finally hits called reminiscing;  savoring the future is
you. The moment when you sit down to a holiday dinner called anticipating.
with the whole family, the food prepared, ready to enjoy. We might reminisce when alone, daydreaming of a
The sunset on the beach, fading from golden to blue distant past that brings a quiet smile to our lips. But
before your eyes. reminiscing often involves sharing stories with others,
Happiness isn’t only about having positive experiences; like telling our children about our childhood or telling
it’s also about being able to notice them, to enjoy them, friends about how we met our partner.
to prolong them. Any of the experiences above could One study asked 180 college students and alumni about
pass by unappreciated. Savoring is the way to prevent how they reminisced. Researchers found that they were
that. more likely to reminisce when feeling sad vs. feeling
“Time is less likely to fly when one is aware that one is happy – reminiscence is actually a way to jolt us out of
having fun, that is, when one is savoring,” write Fred B. an unpleasant present and into a positive past. Many of
Bryant and Joseph Veroff in Savoring: A New Model of the participants also used mementos to recall the past,
Positive Experience. like old photos or music. The most successful
reminiscers were the ones who didn’t use props but
Introduction to savoring instead took a mental voyage into the past, imagining
Bryant and Veroff define savoring as the capacity to what happened in detail.
attend to, appreciate, and enhance the positive In addition to looking backward, we can anticipate and
experiences in your life. It’s the counterpart to coping, savor a happy future. We might picture our plans coming
which involves dealing with life’s negative experiences. to fruition, dream of love and riches, or indulge in
When we savor, we’re having positive feelings and we’re fantasies that may never come to pass. Anticipation
aware of them. It’s not just the warmth of being around requires imagination, and the more detailed our
friends; it’s the recognition of how special our connection imagination, the stronger our savoring. Perhaps for that
is. It’s looking around and delighting in their laughter, reason, people report that they are least skilled at
feeling grateful for their presence, noticing how relaxed savoring the future vs. savoring the past or present.
and accepted we feel. So savoring is mindful, but it’s not
the same as mindfulness – instead of being aware of 10 things that encourage savoring
whatever happens in the present, it involves deliberately Savoring can be deliberate, but it also happens
focusing on and retaining positive feelings. spontaneously sometimes. Here are some of the
That conscious awareness makes savoring a somewhat factors that encourage savoring:
complex process, yet even children in grades 5-8 report
being able to savor the past, present, and future. Bryant The context:
and Veroff believe we fully gain the ability to savor in  We’re focused. Distraction is the enemy
adolescence.  of savoring, because it allows positive
experiences and positive feelings to pass
4 types of savoring us by. The urge to eat, sleep, check
The different types of savoring are as varied as our email, or do anything other than what
emotions, but here are some of the most common: we’re doing will take attention away from
 Luxuriating (positive emotion involved: the present.
pleasure). When we think of savoring, we  We just finished something stressful. If
often think of luxuriating: easing into a we’ve just finished a stressful hour, day,
warm hot tub and feeling our muscles or month, whatever happens next – even
relax, taking that first bite of a flaky, just a quiet evening watching a movie –
buttery croissant. may seem all the more wonderful in
 Marveling (awe). Some experiences comparison. Some people actually delay
inspire savoring by their very nature. A pleasures until stressful work is over so
mountain range that goes on for miles, they can enjoy them more.
the quiet sacredness of an ancient  Other people are around. Not only can
cathedral, a Van Gogh-like sunset: these we savor our relationships with other
wonders urge us to stop and take notice. people, but savoring
 Basking (pride). When we enjoy the something with other people is powerful.
warm glow of praise or reflect happily on They can point out positive things to
past achievements, we are basking. We notice – look at that beautiful building!  –
only reach a particular goal once, but we and their savoring can be contagious.
can extend the gratifying feeling of Sharing a positive experience together
accomplishment with basking. then builds the bond between people.
 Thanksgiving (gratitude). No, not the
holiday – in a state of thanksgiving, we’re The type of event:
overwhelmed with gratitude and express  A longer event. The more time the
it outwardly. It can happen when experience takes, the more chance we
receiving a generous gift, like a loan have to savor.
given in a time of need, or it can come  A complex event. The more stimuli we
simply from reflecting on all the good in have to process, the longer we will be
our life. enthralled by an experience. For
The classic song “At Last,” sung by Etta James, is a example, setting foot for the first time in
musical expression of savoring a loved one. She finally an Indian food market – bursting with
sees the blue skies; life is like “a song” and “heaven.” sights, sounds, and smells – may
Even the slow, lingering pace of the vocals suggests a encourage savoring. The first New Year’s
desire to extend the joy and pleasure of a long-awaited after having a baby is also pleasantly
outcome: complex, full of rich memories and
poignant anticipation.
 An uncertain event. An uncertain event Type B Manager, advocating a quieter, calmer, more
– receiving a mysterious bouquet of reflective managerial approach... without fully realizing
flowers, watching an incomprehensible my thinking was sort of a second cousin to mindfulness.
meteor shower – can elicit more intense This is a big subject that deserves (and I hope to
savoring. Because there is something provide) additional treatment in the future, but now for
unknown about the experience, our this blog here are three qualities I'd consider
brains seem to attach to it and search for foundational attributes of mindful management.
its meaning. As a result, we’re more
focused and our emotions are more Self-awareness. I've said it before at different
powerful. times and in different places, and I'll say it again: Without
 A bittersweet event. Perhaps more than a reasonable degree of self-awareness, you can't be a
anything else, events that will happen highly effective manager.  Without some awareness of
rarely or never again inspire savoring – how you're coming across to others and how they
think birthdays, holidays, having a baby. perceive you, it's hard to thoughtfully exercise authority
Us: over the long term. Without an accurate idea of how your
 Our personality. People who are more employees are responding to you, you'll always be (avid
mindful, and people who enjoy novelty, fly fisherman speaking here) a trout swimming upstream.
effort, and uncertainty, may be prone to Meaning against the current.
savoring.
 Our gender. Women tend to report being Empathy. Studies have shown that empathy (the ability
more capable of savoring, perhaps to understand and share the feelings of another) is a
because they’re more emotionally aware. critical driver of successful management -- and that only
 Our income. Interestingly, people who 40% of "frontline leaders" are "proficient or strong in
are wealthier seem to be less able to empathy." This stat doesn't surprise me -- if anything,
savor. maybe sounds a little high. People are usually selected
for management more for reasons of authority than
How Mindfulness Can Make You A Better Manager empathy. Though as noted earlier, the ability to
  understand employees (what their issues are, what
My wife spent a good amount of time yesterday listening motivates them and what doesn't) is no doubt part of
to Jon Kabat-Zinn on videos giving lectures on managerial success.
mindfulness, so I listened to some of them too. I liked
them. I hadn't heard of Dr. Kabat-Zinn (a professor and Patience.  Amid the chronic deadlines and stress of the
leading teacher of mindfulness and stress reduction), working world, employees appreciate working for
though I had heard of mindfulness. managers who are patient, as opposed to say, those
Truth be told I didn't know much about mindfulness who are short-tempered. Why wouldn't they? This I can
(defined by Wikipedia as the psychological process of say with confidence: A management coaching style that
bringing one's attention to experiences occurring in the patiently supports an employee when he or she needs
present moment, and having its roots in Buddhist help will 9 times out of 10 (at least) be better received
traditions). But I'd thought about the term a lot related to than a traditional command-and-control style focused
management without being fully aware of its precise more on authority than assistance.
meanings and origins. None of this should be hugely surprising.
My general impression was that, whatever it meant, we Management is after all the practice of accomplishing
needed more of it in management. A lot more. work through others. How we treat those others is a key
For what it's worth, I don't believe I heard the word element in this workplace equation.
mentioned once in my 24 years in Fortune 500
management. Nor did I ever hear it while I was getting How to Use Mindfulness to Increase Your Team’s
an MBA. Creativity
For what its worth, we tend to have a certain skepticism There’s a fundamental contradiction when organizations
in management to anything that's hard to show pretty ask employees to maintain a fast pace of work and be
darn quick ROI on. creative. What often happens in hectic workplaces is that
Though I did notice there seems to be some growing use employees resort to autopilot or habitual ways of working.
of mindfulness in business, as Jeanne Meister wrote an When they don’t have the time or space to incubate novel
enlightening "future of work" article on how companies and clever ideas, they may miss out on opportunities to
including Aetna, Intel and Google, among others, were reframe a problem and see new possibilities for potential
starting to integrate mindfulness into their leadership solutions.
practices. How do you help your team develop their
Positive implications for management  creativity? Research has found that a short period of
This seems to me a really good thing. Anything that mindfulness training can have a positive impact on
makes managers more carefully and thoughtfully attuned creative output. To explore this idea further, we conducted
to those around them, including the employees they a study with a midsize U.S.-based real estate firm to
manage, should have positive implications for their examine whether a mindfulness training program could
management. It only stands to reason: The more you influence a team’s creativity.
understand, the better you can manage and motivate. In our study, we split up a team of 10 people into a
meditating group and a control group. To start, we gave
Navigating Graduate Admissions As A First-Gen, Low- all 10 people a creative task: to brainstorm as many
Income College Grad unusual uses for a brick as they could think of. Then we
With national employee engagement levels consistently administered a 10-minute mindfulness exercise and
mired around the 30% level, this suggests 70% of afterward asked them to continue brainstorming the
employees aren't emotionally committed to their creative task. We found that seven out of 10 people
companies. In short, not a ringing endorsement, in the increased the number of creative ideas they had in
aggregate, of management effectiveness. only 10 minutes. This experiment corroborates previous
I've long been intuitively sympathetic to what may be studies and went a step further to see how the team as a
called introspective approaches to people-management. whole was affected by a weekly mindfulness intervention
I wrote a whole book on this general concept called The and training. With this same group of people over the
course of five weeks, we administered a group creative
task and found that the meditating group identified double future worries aside until the meeting is over. This
the number of creative ideas as the control group. The contributes to developing an attentive mindset.
group process was noticeably different, where the You can also provide quiet places in the office where
meditating group was 121% more able to build on the employees can meditate. We call these “wellness rooms.”
ideas of others. When we create group dynamics that are Provide the proper resources. Offer employees
in flow, where one person’s idea spurs another person’s, resources for developing their creativity and mindfulness
the idea develops to a point that it wouldn’t have on its practice: webinars, meditation aids, lunch and learns,
own. speaker series, retreats, and so on.
Organizations have an opportunity here. Simple
With mindfulness techniques we have an opportunity to mindfulness practices can begin to shift their teams’ levels
strengthen the creativity of our work teams. We know that of creativity and can be a necessary tool for addressing
mind training can nurture key areas in the creative the complexities of today’s workplaces.
process. The burgeoning research suggests that people
who practice mindfulness have more cognitive flexibility, When it comes to the modern search for mindfulness,
are able to see beyond what they’ve already done, collective wisdom seems to say, “There’s an app for
and are better at solving problems requiring insight. This that.” After all, apps abound for finding pet sitters,
facilitates what creativity experts refer to as the incubation booking vacation rentals and creating investment
and insight stages of the creative process. Mindfulness portfolios. Why wouldn’t we expect to find inner peace
requires time and attention, or nonconceptual awareness, via our smartphones, as well?
where a person does not get stuck thinking about ideas
they have had in the past and observes everything as if With the proliferation of tools such as Calm, the
they are seeing it for the first time, which contributes to meditation app that topped App Store rankings last year,
turning off the autopilot driving thoughts and actions. everyone from Hollywood celebrities to ambitious
The research indicates that people are open to more- professionals seems to be swept up in the tech-enabled
original ideas after just a brief meditation practice. And mindfulness trend. Setting aside the fact that some apps
when we apply this to a team of people, we begin to are more scientifically grounded than others, however,
magnify this effect. an app-based mindfulness sort of misses the point:
Both the research mentioned above and our own
research suggests that to foster a culture of innovation, While tech platforms certainly make meditative concepts
leaders need to give greater attention to their employees’ more widely accessible, they can also foster a
mindsets and consider championing mindfulness shallowness of practice. Without a holistic understanding
practices throughout their organizations. By cultivating of what mindfulness means, practitioners will never
milieus where employees are encouraged to be creative, achieve the benefits -- personal or professional -- that
they’re able to move past a mere focus on organizational they seek.
efficiencies and to develop ways of working and thinking
that haven’t been seen before. Mindfulness in the workplace
Companies such as Google and Aetna offer corporate- Mindfulness is all about experiencing the present
based mindfulness programs to strengthen their moment. When you’re conscious of your thoughts
employees’ emotional intelligence and well-being. Other instead of letting them run amok, you can make
firms are following suit to either develop their own deliberate choices and refrain from impulsive and
mindfulness programs or hire a consulting firm to help potentially harmful statements. But, in my experience,
integrate mindfulness into their cultures. people can’t achieve mindfulness merely by practicing it
What else can companies do to develop mindful teams for a few minutes each day helped by an app. They must
and cultures? Here are some steps they can take: return to the practice's principles again and again, and
that requires a substantial commitment.
Connect mindfulness to corporate values.  Many big-name companies, such as Google and Aetna,
Demonstrate a deliberate intention to develop a mindful have embraced mindfulness in recent years. The goal of
culture by linking the mindfulness benefits to the increasing creativity and well-being, both good for
organization’s stated values. For example, if “embrace employees’ health, is also good for corporate
and drive change” is a value, as it is at Zappos, highlight productivity. It’s heartening that leading brands are
how mindfulness practice facilitates greater awareness of promoting what can be a life-enriching habit. But a
cognitive and emotional reactions to change. Through this mindfulness approach can have limited effects if it
awareness employees can become cognizant of their fear becomes half-hearted or inauthentic.
of the unknown, see more objectively, and react less
habitually to create greater opportunity for change. How to achieve group enlightenment
Create corporate-based mindfulness programs. Train Studies show that mindful teams experience fewer
employees in mindfulness practices and in how to apply interpersonal conflicts and are more results-oriented
the benefits to daily life. For instance, ask employees to than their more reactive counterparts. A drop in conflict,
consider: (1) which habits support efficiency and which for example, enables managers to focus on high-priority
habits get in the way of considering something new, and tasks instead of refereeing employee drama. By some
(2) how the creative process works and what estimates, in fact, managers spend up to 40 percent of
methods can integrate that process into the workplace. their time addressing interpersonal conflict. Imagine
what they could achieve if they could reclaim even a
Supplement in-house leadership development fraction of that wastage.
programs.  Offer a condensed version of the corporate- So, consider: Group yoga and meditation sessions could
based mindfulness program during routine leadership cultivate mindfulness throughout your organization and
training sessions. inspire colleagues to collaborate more effectively. When
people have the presence of mind to critique one
Allow for mindful moments. Offer opportunities for another’s output rather than their character, they’re more
employees to slow down, to incubate, and to see with likely to develop productive solutions.
fresh eyes. In meetings, for example, kick off with a brief Mindfulness could also help diverse colleagues at your
settling-in period. Offer people the opportunity to become organization respect one another’s differences without
fully present to the agenda at hand. By taking a deep rushing to frustration or judgment. There’s a clear
breath, invite employees to leave past concerns and financial benefit, as well. Aetna has seen productivity
increases worth $3,000 per employee after introducing
pre-meeting meditations and other mindfulness assumptions with reality. That awareness goes a long
offerings. way toward reducing unnecessary conflicts.
Again, though, mindfulness initiatives must be rooted in A recent study by University of British Columbia
authenticity. Companies that invite employees to engage researchers found that interpersonal conflict decreased
in meditation, yoga or other practices in this realm must when teams were more mindful at work. Team members
create environments that support genuine mindfulness. also were less likely to turn frustration with a task into
Here’s how your company can do that: personal conflict with a colleague. The reason:
Mindfulness allowed them to effectively detach and
1. Explain the why behind your company’s eliminate any strong emotions associated with that task.
mindfulness policies. Mindfulness can be incredibly powerful for building
Before every meeting, I center myself in my intentions conscientious teams who engage with one another (and
and in what my team and I are trying to achieve. Doing with clients) from a place of compassion and integrity.
so enables me to embody those values without having But, to be effective, it's something that must permeate a
labored discussions with colleagues about our goals. company's culture.
The concept of meditating to improve business
performance may seem alien at first. Leaders should
brief their teams on what mindfulness is and how it
corresponds to the company’s culture and long-term
ambitions.
Cultivating mindfulness takes time, so leaders should
offer employees support as they adjust to the new mode
of thinking. Explanation sessions and mindfulness-
centered activities are great opportunities to model the
types of interactions and attitudes desired within the
company.
In 2017, global consulting firm Accenture rolled out its
flagship Accenture Mindful Performance program, which
includes mindfulness training that emphasizes strategies
to improve attention and mental focus. To date, more
than 1,000 employees have participated in the program,
and 20 certified facilitators are available across the
company to help employees adapt the practice across
leadership and HR programs, team events and
webcasts. Overall, Accenture says the program has
increased focus, creativity and resilience while reducing
stress and distraction.

2. Give people the choice to opt out.


Forcing employees to adopt a mindfulness practice is a
bad idea. That only fosters resentment and stress -- the
exact effects mindfulness is supposed to reverse.
Companies should offer and promote meditative
activities on a voluntary basis. As long as employees
treat their co-workers with respect and thoughtfulness,
they can still be effective members of the organization.
For many people, seeing is believing, so participation in
mindfulness activities should always be open to all.
Those who shy away in the beginning may come around
when they see the positive effects meditation has on
their peers.
SAP, a German software company, provides employees
with a wide range of mindfulness activities, including
meditation micropractices, mindfulness challenges and
in-house meditations led by trained guides. 
As of this year, some 6,500 SAP employees had
participated in the company's two-day mindfulness
course, with another 5,500 on the waiting list. While
those numbers are impressive, it's likely that there were
skeptics in the group at the outset. Offering a variety of
mindfulness activities enables people to engage in the
ways that feel most comfortable to them.

3. Emphasize actions over intentions.


Too often, egos get in the way of meaningful
interactions. Mindfulness can help in this regard. I used
to become frustrated with a colleague who included me
only on certain email threads, and I assumed he was
trying to one-up me by excluding me from other
conversations. When I approached him about his
behavior, however, he had a rational explanation and no
ill will toward me.
Mindfulness prevents us from jumping to emotional
conclusions by enabling us to focus on another person’s
actions and our responses, rather than conflating our

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