College of Teacher Education Department of Secondary Education
TLEd 313: CHILD AND ADOLESCENT DEVELOPMENT (Module 11: Activity 1)
Having learned the physical development of infants and toddlers, as a future parent or as a caregiver of children, reflect on: a. What you should do more often for infants and toddlers? Infants and toddlers are the most sensitive stage that the all children experienced, in this stage their physical body is not as stronger of the physical body that an adult has and their bones, eyes, most specially heads is not yet fully developed. Every day, week, months, and year passed there are changes and development happened in their body they can grasp, crawl, roll and many more with or without support of their parents. As a parent we should never stop guiding them when we see our children can walk or run without our support but we should double or even make it triple how we take care of them. As a future parents and caregiver to our future children I will do more often securing their safety and most specially their basic needs. Giving them a nutritious and healthy food such as vegetables and fruits, good clothes, and safety shelter for them to be fully developed because those basic needs has a big impact to one’s children development. I will support them at my very best and make sure that I always at their back on every fall they will encounter. Also, at this sensitive stage I will double the attention I will give to them, I will make sure their playing area or even their sleeping area are all safe that will not cause any unnecessary accident that will harm them. Lastly, the most important this is showing the love we have for them, the support and being responsible on the duties we chose, a choice to be a father and mother that they can do everything at their very best for their own blood. b. What you should refrain from doing to facilitate their growth and development? To be a parent is a great gift that our dear God gave to us and it is not just a choice but a responsibility that we should always remind ourselves that there are other people, our blood who are hoping from us. An infant and toddler that we should give more attention and tender love and care. As a future a parent I should refrain from doing to facilitate their growth and development. First is to avoid them from the other people who we know that has no capability to make their responsibility or being busy from another things. Second, I will not let myself focus or give more attention to the things that is less important than taking care my own child. Avoiding myself on any addiction such as smoking and drinking alcohol that will surely affect their health that may cause on their growing and development. Also, not making sure on the safety that the environment could give, I will not let the shelter who gives safety could be the one who can harm my child. And I will not let myself forget that an infant and toddlers should also experience some activities such as tummy time while you interacting with the them but never leave them alone when they are on their stomach. You can hold them and let them dance on the music you provided they can also swing colorful scarves in the air, dance or play maracas while the music is playing. And not letting them to experience kicking, catching, rolling, and bouncing balls because you are afraid that they will hurt always remember you are in their back to support and take care of them.