5 Innocent ‘Ice-Breakers’ That

Let You Start A Conversation

With A Pretty Girl
by Mike Haines
insurgentmedia.tv

#1: “You have a beautiful smile.”

Is the girl smiling when you see her? Or did she smile at you after
you approached her?
Say this.
This is a powerful compliment and it goes deeper than you’d think.
A lot of women are ashamed of their smile, and think it’s ugly—or,
just not “beautiful”. You’d be surprised how common this insecurity
is, even among pretty girls.
Smiling makes you feel good. When you tell her her smile is
beautiful, it will subconsciously triggers her to want to smile, and
this will make her feel good.
I realize what I’m saying sounds incredibly simple, almost stupidly
simple, and it is. That’s why this openers works so well.

#2: “I like your dress / shoes / ear-rings / [other aspect of her

personal style]”
Compliment her on something she’s wearing.

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Some item of clothing… shoes.. jewelry… or even the way she’s
done her hair that day.
Here’s the key thing:
You’re NOT complimenting her body. You’re complimenting her
TASTE.
Women put an intense amount of effort into putting their “look”
together — choosing her outfit, her shoes, what necklace to wear
with that shirt, what hair style matches that dress, etc.
You probably don’t think about this — but women spend an
enormous amount of mental energy on this stuff.
When you compliment her on it, it creates an instant feeling of
“rapport” and lowers her defenses a lot.
(For context — think of something you spend a HUGE amount of
time working on, and now imagine that a random person gave you a
meaningful compliment about it. Feels good right? In that moment,
that stranger could probably ask you to do something, and you
would do it. That’s the power of a meaningful compliment.)

#2b: Compliment her eyebrows

For reasons that I cannot understand, young women in 2018 are
obsessed with having the perfect eyebrows.
This is something I learned only by having a girlfriend.
My girl is constantly talking about how good or bad her brows look,
and commenting on other girls’ brows.
Me personally — the eyebrows may as well be invisible to me. My
eyes are looking at other parts of women’s bodies.
But for women, having nice brows is a big deal.

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So compliment her on that — assuming her eyebrows look nice. If
they look crappy, you’ll just be drawing her attention to an insecurity.
But if they look good, tell her they look good.

#3: “You girls seem fun. You have a really good energy”
We’ve all been there:
You see a stunning girl but she’s with a group of her friends.
Somehow, you’ve got to get past the defenses of the GROUP
before you can get in with the girl.
Use this line.
“You guys seem fun, I really like your energy.”
Why does it work?
It’s a nice compliment… and somewhat original… even if it’s
meaningless.
Everyone wants to have a “good energy”, right? Whatever the fuck
that means…
Beats having a “bad energy”, I suppose.
And importantly, it gives you a PRETENSE for why you came over
to talk to them.
You’re not here to swoop down on their pretty friend like a predator.
Well, actually you are, and on some level, they know you are — but
it’s nicer for everyone involved if there’s at least some pretense that
you’re not just here to fuck.
This is a nice line to get your foot in the door and disarm defenses.

Works just as well on a girl who’s on her own, by the way.

“You seem fun, I like your energy”

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Who could object to that?

#4: “You look like somebody I want to meet”

This one comes courtesy of David Deangelo.
Simple. Direct. To the point.
To pull this off, you need to be standing up straight with your
shoulders back, head up, eyes looking directly into hers.

#5: “Are you as interesting as you look?”

This is powerful because it’s vaguely complimentary…. while also
containing a subtle hint of arrogant challenge.
The implicit frame here is: “Prove yourself to be. Prove to me why I
should like you. Go ahead. You have 30 seconds.”
If you said those words outright, the girl would laugh in your face.
But by conveying that message implicitly, this line is very powerful.
It puts the girl off balance, and gets her seeking your validation.