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In this module our focus is on dispassionate thought. Strong emotions can cloud
thinking and impair judgment. Actual control of emotions is one focus of the
Strength skills module. Intelligence and Strength have to work together.
In emergency conditions, this problem solving can be so fast that the actor is not
even conscious of making a decision. Practicing problem solving repeatedly in low-
emotion circumstances will help strengthen this up-tempo thinking. Keeping one's
mind engaged is difficult for children who often need adult help mentoring them
through the steps. This "Stop and Think" is incredibly important when the
circumstances are dangerous. (See "Are there risks to heroism?" on the Q&A page.)
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Copyright � 1996-2005 Charles A. Smith. All rights reserved.
In this module our focus is on developing compassion and empathy for oneself and
others. Heroic behavior will not occur if a person does not care. Caring about
oneself is not the same thing as being selfish. Unlike selfishness, true self-care
is noble. A child who stands up to give a speech with trembling knees or admits to
a wrongdoing, knowing unpleasant consequences will follow, is motivated by self-
care. These children are essentially saying, "I want to be proud of myself and gain
recognition from others as an honorable, strong person." This behavior is quite
different from the child who gorges himself on cookies meant for the entire family
or steals money from his brother to buy something for himself. Both actions are
more an expression of self-hate than self-care.
Heroic behavior will not occur unless a person cares. Children learn to care by
having someone care about them. Indifference to suffering that originated in a lack
of love and care at home is extremely difficult, if not impossible to change in a
school setting. Schools provide a social laboratory in which children learn to
nurture and be nurtured by others outside of the family.
Of course, children will want to discuss heroic action when these matters are
raised. Keep in mind that we are gradually building a knowledge base that leads to
action. As much as possible, keep the focus on the elements of heroism that make
the behavior possible.
There are advanced concepts here that many children will find some difficulty
understanding. Consider this an introduction to these issues and have reasonable
expectations for their ability to apply what they are learning to their behavior.
Simplify concepts as much as possible but do not shy away from having great
expectations for what they can accomplish.
In this module our focus is on taking action, actually putting a plan into motion.
Since this emphasis tends to be on skill training, easy incorporation into the
typical classroom is going to be more difficult. Teachers and parents should work
together to ensure that children receive developmentally appropriate educational
experiences in first aid and self-protection. We want children to understand the
nature of heroism and to prepare themselves as best as possible to deal with
situations that might be thrust upon them.