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LIFE AND LOSS: A

GUIDE TO HELP
GRIEVING CHILDREN
BY LINDA GOLDMAN
"MANY CLINICIANS
"ONE OUT OF EVERY 20 RECOGNIZE THAT
DENYING OR IGNORING
AMERICAN CHILDREN GRIEF ISSUES IN CHILDREN
UNDER AGE 15 LOSES LEAVES THEM FEELING
ALONE AND THAT
ONE OR BOTH PARENTS ACKNOWLEDGING LOSS IS
DUE TO DEATH" (STEEN, CRUCIAL PART OF A

1998, P.54). IT IS
CHILD’S HEALTHY
DEVELOPMENT. REALLY
GRIEVING
ESTIMATED THAT IN A DEALING WITH LOSS IN
PRODUCTIVE WAYS,
CHILDREN
SECONDARY SCHOOL HOWEVER, IS SOMETIMES
BRINLEE MACKAY
OF 800 PUPILS, 24 EASIER SAID THAN DONE."

CHILDREN WILL
EXPERIENCE A DEATH
OF A FAMILY MEMBER
(KMIETOWICZ, 2000)"
HOW DIFFERENT
AGES UNDERSTAND 8 HELPFUL TIPS TO
DEATH HELP AGRIEVING SOURCES:
CHILD
Infants:
Write down memories, look at Helping grieving children and teenagers. (2020,
-No understanding of death
pictures, drawing pictures June 25). Retrieved March 15, 2021, from
-May ask or look for lost loved one
https://www.cancer.net/coping-with-
cancer/managing-emotions/grief-and-
When answering your child's questions
loss/helping-grieving-children-and-teenagers
Ages 3-6: about death, it is important to give
-Believe it is temporary honest and factual information
-Think they can bring back loved ones if they
are good enough Listen carefully to everything they Services, J. (n.d.). Wilmington. Retrieved March
-Can't put feelings into words
have to say
15, 2021, from

Understand and expect all their https://www.yasikfuneralhome.com/ten-ways-


emotions, provide them with an you-can-help-your-grieving-child
Ages 6-12: environment where they feel
-Understand death is final comfortable to express all emotions
-Interested in details
Spending time with children does
-May worry they are to blame for death wonders in helping cope with death Are We Meeting the Challenge?( July 2001)Teri
-Understands death happenes to everyone Busch and Cathy S. Kimble

Assure your child that they will be


safe and well taken care of
Ages 13-18: GOLDMAN, L. (2021). LIFE AND LOSS: A guide
-May question their understanding of the to help grieving children. S.l.: ROUTLEDGE.
Express your emotions with your child.
world Being open with them will encourage
-May deny support them to be open with you
-Can act out in anger
Respect your child and their opinion
as a valuable member of the family

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