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Sobriety most commonly refers to refraining from using drugs or alcohol. However, it
can also be applied to a person’s emotional well-being. It involves being able to see
clearly and deal with difficult and negative emotions that a person previously used drugs
or alcohol to hide from. A person who lives a sober life must be prepared
psychologically to examine issues from the past that they are now viewing in the light of
sobriety. In addition, they must have the tools to face new situations and emotions that
What Is Codependency?
The concept of codependency received an official name in the 12-step group Alcoholics
Anonymous. The phrase was coined due to the prevalence of people who were
can exist between spouses, partners, a parent and child, other family members, and
friends.
unhealthy relationship that has its basis in the first person putting themselves in the role
of a rescuer. They take it upon themselves to devote their energies to trying to save
When the codependent person focuses on someone suffering from an addiction, they
will often make excuses for them and take responsibility for the other person’s actions.
They put that person’s needs ahead of their own, at the expense of their own lives and
responsibilities. While believing they are helping their loved ones, they are taking away
behavior. This allows them to take the necessary steps to curtail them. This lesson
situation. Once this happens, they can make the decision to step away from them.
important both in the days after sober life begins and in the long haul. Someone with an
addiction, even if they are in recovery, may find the codependent person’s actions and
attitude to be triggering. If the individual returns home from treatment and picks up the
codependent relationship where they left off, this jeopardizes their recovery.
Once people begin breaking the codependent factor in their relationship, they must
make a consistent effort to keep at it. It takes a while to establish new patterns. This
makes it important for both people to be aware of their own actions. It’s also important
to grow awareness of the other person, in order to avoid backsliding into old habits.
Becoming emotionally sober is one of the most effective ways to stay sober and keep
sober as opposed to under the influence of drugs or alcohol. When sober, the situation
and emotions are crystal clear and the person will be able to remember them. Their
them, they will be more adept at identifying and understanding them. They can process
their emotions and make healthy decisions about how to handle them. The haze of
alcohol and drugs offers a haven to hide from not only the painful parts of life but also
the joyful times. Emotional sobriety brings a person fully back into life and an ability to
Because of this, many programs offer therapy that addresses this situation. The person
in treatment can receive individual therapy. They may also access treatment together
The codependent person may be surprised to learn how they have enabled their loved
one’s addiction and be eager to learn how to break that cycle. They learn how to
separate their own identity from their loved one’s. They also let them take on
responsibility for their past and their recovery. If the two people are married or
partnered, they can also attend couples counseling after formal addiction treatment has
ended.