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1. Philosophical Self
The history of philosophy is replete with men and women who inquired into
the fundamental nature of the self. Along with the question of the primary
substratum that defines the multiplicity of things in the world, the inquiry on
the self has preoccupied the earliest thinkers in the history of philosophy:
the Greeks. Raphael’s Fresco, The School of Athens – situated in Ancient
Greek, Agora or today, Anagora which is a marketplace but during the
ancient time, this is a place where thinkers gather to dialogue, talk to one
another and where citizens go to hear civic announcement and master
military defense. The Greeks were the ones who seriously questioned the
myths and moved away from them in attempting to understand reality and
respond to perennial questions of curiosity, including the question of the
self. The different perspectives and views on the self can be best seen and
understood by revisiting its prime movers and identifying the most
important conjecture made by philosophers from the ancient times to the
contemporary period.
A. Philosophers
Medieval Period
- St. Thomas and Augustine = who founded their doctrines and
philosophies in presocratic and socratic philosophers
Modern Era
- Rene Descartes = the father of modern philosophy; who gave primacy to
reason or intellect; known for his philosophy Cogito Ergo Sum (I think,
therefore I am)
Both Socrates and Plato believed in the duality of the self. The body is
imperfect while the soul is perfect. Plato’s rational soul is a reminder that
the human person is more than just about feelings and urges. The rational
soul, powered by the intellect, must take control in order for the human
person to attain the good life.
The concept of the soul was developed by the great medieval philosophers,
Augustine and Aquinas. For them, the soul must return to its own source,
the Divine. The finite physical body must be governed by this soul since it is
through the soul that the Divine reaches to the human person. Thus,
heeding the voice of the Divine is the surest way to for the soul to reunite
with the Source.
Though Descartes has his discussion on the Divine, he instead focused his
philosophy on the power of the human intellect or the mind. Through the
intellect, man has become the measure of all things. Because of the
rational ability of the human person, it is no longer nature who dictates
man, man dictates nature.
2. Psychological Self
“Know thyself” is one of the fundamental commands that aim at human
strength and happiness – Erich Fromm
Self-identity – composed of personal characteristics, social roles and
responsibilities, as well as affiliations that define who one is.
Self-concept – image of oneself. What comes to your mind when you are
asked about who you are.
In confidence or in an attempt to avoid further analytical discussions, a lot
of people say, “I am who I am.” Yet, this statement still begs the question “if
you are who you are, then who are you that makes you who you are?” As
mentioned earlier, there are various definitions of the “self” and other
similar or interchangeable concepts in psychology. Simply put, “self” is “the
sense of personal identity and of who we are as individuals.”
A. Psychologists
1. Carl Rogers
Other concepts similar to self are identity and self-concept. Identity is
composed of personal characteristics, social roles, and responsibilities, as
well as affiliations that define who one is. Self-concept is what basically
comes to your mind when you are asked about who you are.
Self-identity, and self-concept are not fixed in one time frame. For example,
when you are asked about who you are, you can say “I was a varsity player
in 5th Grade” which pertains to the past, “a college student” which may be
the present, and “a future politician” which is the future. They are not also
fixed for life nor are they ever-changing at every moment. Think of a
malleable metal, strong and hard and can be bent and molded into other
shapes. Think about water. It can take any shape of the container, but at its
core, it is still the same element.
Carl Rogers captures this idea in his concept of self-schema or our
organized system or collection of knowledge about who we are. Self =
Family + Hobbies + Religion + Nationality.
The schema is not limited to the example above. It may also include your
interests, work, course, age, name, and physical characteristics, among
others. As you grow and adapt to the changes around you, they also
change. But they are not passive receivers, they actively shape and affect
how you see, think, and feel about things.
For example, when someone states your first name even if they are not
talking about you, your attention is drawn to them. If you have provincial
language and you hear someone using it, it catches your attention. If you
consider yourself a book-lover, a bookstore may always entice you out of
all the other stores in a mall.
Theories generally see the self and identity as mental constructs, created
and recreated in memory. Current researches point to the frontal lobe of
the brain as the specific area in the brain associated with the processes
concerning the self.
TWO SUB-SYSTEM OF SELF
Real Self and Ideal Self. Real self consists of all ideas including the idea of
What I am and what I can do. Ideal self is the idea of what one should be or
wanted to be that include one’s goal and ambitions in life.
Normal (Congruent) – the closer the ideal self to the real self, the more
fulfilled and happier the individual becomes.
Neurotic (Incongruent) – the farther the ideal self to the real self, the more
unhappy and dissatisfied a person is.
2. Sigmund Freud
Several psychologists, especially during the field’s earlier development,
followed this trend of thought, looking deeper into the mind of the person
theorize about the self, identity, and self-concept, and in turn, one’s
personality. The most influential of them is Sigmund Freud. Basically,
Freud saw the self, its mental processes, and one’s behaviors as the
results of the interaction between the Id (pleasure seeking side), the Ego
(the “I” controls the id and can delay pleasure; the one who decides based
on the situation), and the Superego (conscience or moral judge of conduct;
strives for perfection rather than pleasure.).
However, as mentioned earlier, one cannot fully discount the effects of
society and culture on the formation of the self, identity, and self-concept.
Even as Freud and other theories and researchers try to understand the
person by digging deeper into the mind, they cannot fully discount the huge
and important effects of the environment. As in the above-mentioned
definitions of the self, social interaction always has a part to play in who we
think we are. This is not nature vs. nurture but instead a nature-and-nurture
perspective.
B. Psychological Concepts
1. Self-Awareness
There are times, however, when we are aware of our self-concepts; this is
also called self-awareness. Carver and Scheier identified two types of self
that we can be aware of: (1) the private self or your internal standards and
private thoughts and feelings, and (2) the public self or your public image
commonly geared toward having a good presentation of yourself to others.
Self-awareness also presents us with at least three other schema: the
actual, ideal, and ought self. The “actual” self is who you are at the
moment, the “ideal” self is who you like to be, and the “ought” self is who
you think you should be. An example is that you are a student interested in
basketball but is also academically challenged in most of your subjects.
Your ideal self might be to practice more and play with the varsity team but
ought to pass your subjects as a responsible student. One has to find a
solution to such discrepancies to avoid agitation, dejection, or other
negative emotions. In some instances, however, all three may be in line
with one another.
Self-awareness may be positive or negative depending on the
circumstances and our next course of action. Self-awareness can keep you
from doing something dangerous; it can help remind you that there is an
exam tomorrow in one of your subjects when you are about to spend time
playing computer games with your cousins, among others. In other
instances, self-awareness can be too much that we are concerned about
being observed and criticized by others, also known as self-consciousness.
At other times, especially with large crowds, we may experience
deindividuation or “the loss of individual self-awareness and individual
accountability in groups.” A lot of people will attune themselves with the
emotions of their group and because the large crowd also provides some
kind of anonymity, we may lessen our self-control and act in ways that we
will not do when we are alone. A common example is a mass
demonstration erupting into a riot.
2. Self-Esteem
Our group identity and self-awareness also has a great impact on our self-
esteem, one of the common concepts associated with the “self.” It is
defined as our own positive or negative perception or evaluation of
ourselves.
One of the ways in which our social relationship affects our self-esteem is
through social comparison. According to the social comparison theory, we
learn about ourselves, the appropriateness of our behaviors, as well as our
social status by comparing aspects of ourselves with other people.
The downward social comparison is the more common type of comparing
ourselves with others. As the name implies, we create a positive self-
concept by comparing ourselves with those who are worse off than us. By
having the advantage, we can raise our self-esteem. Another comparison is
the upward social comparison which is comparing ourselves with those
who are better off than us. While it can be a form of motivation for some, a
lot of those who do this actually feel lower self-esteem as they highlight
more of their weakness or inequities.
Take note that this occurs not only between individuals but also among
groups. Thus, if a person’s group is performing better and is acknowledged
more than the other group, then their self-esteem may also be heightened.
3. Self-Evaluation
Social comparison also. Entails what is called self-evaluation maintenance
theory, which states that we can feel threatened when someone
outperforms us, especially when that person is close to us. In this case, we
usually react in three ways. First, we distance ourselves from that person or
redefine our relationship with them. Some will resort to the silent treatment,
change of friends, while some may also redefine by being closer to that
person, hoping that some association may give him a certain kind of
acknowledgement also. Second, we may also reconsider the importance of
the aspect or skill in which you were outperformed. If you got beat in a
drawing competition, you might think that drawing is not really for you and
you will find a hobby where you could excel, thus preserving your self-
esteem. Lastly, we may also strengthen our resolve to improve that certain
aspect of ourselves. Instead of quitting drawing, you might join seminars,
practice more often, read books about it, and add some elements in your
drawing that makes it unique among others. Achieving your goal through
hard work may increase your self-esteem, too.
However, in the attempt to increase or maintain self-esteem, some people
become narcissistic. Narcissism is a “trait characterized by overly high self-
esteem, self-admiration, and self-centeredness.” They are often
charismatic because of how they take care of their image. Taking care of
that image includes interpersonal relationships thus they will try to look for
better partners, better acquaintances, as well as people who will appreciate
them a lot. This makes them a bad romantic partner or friend since they
engage in relationships only to serve themselves.
Sometimes, there is a thin line between high self-esteem and narcissism
and there are a lot of tests and measurements for self-esteem like the
Rosenberg scale but the issue is that the result can be affected by the
desire of the person to portray herself in a positive or advantageous way. In
case you want to take the test and find a numerical value or level of your
self-esteem, try to be honest and objective about what you feel and see
about yourself. And though self-esteem is a very important concept related
to the self. Studies have shown that it only has a correlation, not causality,
to positive outputs and outlook. It can be argued that high or healthy self-
esteem may result in an overall good personality but it is not, and should
not be, the only source of a person’s healthy perspective of herself or
himself.
People with high self-esteem are commonly described as outgoing,
adventurous, and adaptable in a lot of situations. They also initiate activities
and build relationships with people. However, they may also dismiss other
activities that do not conform to their self-concept or boost their self-
esteem. There is also a possibility that they may turn into bullies and
experiment on abusive behaviors with drugs, alcohol, and sex.
This duality in the behavior and attitudes only proves the above mentioned
correlation. Baumeister, Smart, and Boden in their research on self-esteem
concluded that programs, activities, and parenting styles to boost self-
esteem should only be for rewarding good behavior and other
achievements and not for the purpose of merely trying to make children feel
better about themselves or to appease them when they get angry or sad.
CONCLUSION
Self-concept includes those aspects of one’s being and one’s experiences
that are perceived in awareness by the individual.