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Affairs of the Heart,

Affairs of the Soul
Soul Mates
My Little Story

For years, I dreamed of a man that I was to be with later on in my

life. I knew that he would have brown hair and blue eyes. As time
passed, I knew that this person would be from Montana. I knew
that he was a rancher or a farmer; I could not decide which one it
would be, but I knew that it was one of the two, and I knew that
he would have a child. When I first dreamed about him, I knew
that he was already married, but that he would become divorced.
As time drew near for our first meeting, I knew that he would be
driving an old blue and white truck and that his child was a young
boy. For some inexplicable reasons I could not reach the man di-
rectly. It was through the dreams of the little boy that I attempted
to reach him, to have him tell his father that I was coming. For
years, I had intermittent dreams of becoming a great female wolf
and running with a pack. In the form of this wolf, I would run into
the little boy’s dreams. In this form I would attempt communicate
that I was coming to see his father someday. The recurring dreams
terrified the little boy and he would wake up screaming and crying.
These dreams went on for some years with no success at commu-
nication. It was not until years later in 1997 that I met this man.

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From my dreams, I would always call him my guy from Monta-

na. I asked the Creator time and time again, what his name was, but I
was told simply that he was my “guy from Montana.” In my waking
hours, I would tell my friends about the kind of man that I wanted,
hoping that my man from Montana was the “one.” I was having a di-
scussion with one of my friends. I realize now that I was manifesting
for my soul mate, because I began to specify to her just what I needed
in a man or I was going to give up. I told her that I wanted a man that
was tall with blue eyes and brown hair. I told her that he had to be sta-
ble and I wanted the man that I dreamed of, my man from Montana.
In 1997, I met a man whose name was Guy Stibal. (Get
it?) Stibal sounds like stable.) When I saw my friend again
she heard Guy’s last name and said, “Boy, can you manifest!”
Guy was a farmer and a rancher. He farmed on the family farm
in Idaho and he worked on the ranch in Montana in the sum-
mer. He told me that his son had dreamt for a long time about
wolves that kept coming into his dreams and waking him up.
I had seen this man in such detail that when I met him, I thought the
Creator was playing a joke on me, for certainly it could not be this easy.
To this day, I know that the Creator gives you all the answers
you need. My husband’s name is Guy and he is from Montana- “My
Guy from Montana.” He is a partner with me on this journey, sup-
porting me completely in the creation of ThetaHealing as we travel
to different places in the world-teaching people. This story is de-
dicated to my husband, and to remind you to trust your intuition.

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Soul Mates

Many people are confused by the phrase “soul mate.” Most of this
confusion is caused because there is more than one soul mate for
each person on the earth. A soul mate is anyone that you have known
from some other place in time, such as the pre-existence. Soul mates
are sometimes compatible and sometimes not, but your heart will
instinctively remember and love them. A soul mate has a magnetic
pull that makes your heart beat faster and your palms become swea-
ty. A soul mate has something special inside. Your heart is excited to
see them, and when you are apart, you cannot wait to see them again.
I believe that since the year 1998 more soul mates are finding
each other than at any other time in history. Because of the change in
the electromagnetic pull of the earth and the spiritual development
we are attaining, it is a time when we are beginning to love ourselves.
When you can truly love yourself, you are ready for a soul mate. A
soul mate can make you happy or tear you apart, depending on how
you feel about yourself. If you have not arrived at a point in time
when you can truly love yourself, a soul mate relationship will drag
you over the coals. As soon as you commence to love yourself, there
is an interesting energy that opens in the heart chakra. This energy
triggers your sexual chakra which also calls to your soul mate. When
you begin to call for your soul mate, you will find that you draw other
people to you who are attracted to your energy. Not everyone that
is going to be attracted to you is your soul mate. It is very important
that you bring to you the right mate to walk with you through life.
When asking the Creator for a soul mate, make sure you ask
for a compatible soul mate. Always be specific when asking the
Creator for a soul mate, and ask for one that is compatible to you.
Some people are confused and ask the Creator for a twin flame.

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A twin flame is someone who is exactly like you, and unless you
truly like yourself, most people will not find this match compatible.
A soul mate only completes you. Another person cannot
make you complete; you must first be complete on your own. If
you are not a whole person in and of yourself, then you have no-
thing to bring to the relationship. Be extremely careful when
you ask for a soul mate; know exactly what you are asking for
so that you will recognize that person when you find them.
Soul mates are part of the evolution of the earth. As true part-
ners, a couple can evolve and change together. Part of the evolution
of human beings is to learn to accept others for whom and what they
are. It is very important that you do not romanticize so much about a
partner that you do not see them for who they are. The term “love is
blind” applies to soul mates as well. It is imperative that when you
find your soul mate, that you accept this person for who they are.
Many people are generous by nature and have a tendency to give
all the time. Because of this they will draw soul mates to them that
are not generous and take from the relationship more than they give.
Be certain that you are ready for a soul mate to give you back the love
that you give. Always make sure that you can accept and receive joy,
and that you can accept and receive love if you are looking for a com-
patible soul mate. Energy Test for the Program that love hurts and re-
place it with the program that the Creator tells you to replace it with.

The best way to find out if you are ready for a soul
mate is with ThetaHealing Belief and Feeling Work, as ex-
plained in the book, ThetaHealing by Vianna Stibal.

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Energy Test For

“I believe I can be loved by another person.”

“I can receive love from another person.”
“There is no one out there for me.”
Download these Feelings from the Creator:
I know the Creators definition marriage.
I know the Creators definition of intimacy.
I know the Creators definition of trusting a soul mate.
I know the Creators definition of loving a soul mate.
I know I am worthy to have a compatible soul mate.
I know it is possible to be worthy of the love of a compatible soul
mate.
I know how to live without being jealous.

These Programs should also be present in the other person for

them to be your most compatible soul mate. In reading sessions, I see
women all the time that say, “There is nothing out there but rotten men.”
As a consequence, all they ever find are rotten men. I hear the same
thing from the men that I talk with. They say, “There is nothing out
there but women who use men,” Because this is what they believe, that
is all they find. Your subconscious will bring to you what it is told to.
There is a great deal of controversy evolving around whether
or not a person can love more than one person. I believe that a per-
son can definitely love more than one person. However, I also belie-
ve that the higher evolution of a being is to love one person totally
and completely. I believe that to say that you love more than one
person is a kind of cop out, because then you are not obligated to
knowing a person completely and committing to them as a partner.

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However, it is important to know that soul mates are out
there and are very likely searching for you. It is possi-
ble to find the perfect soul mate for your life’s journey.

What is Soul Mate?

If you believe you have existed before you were born, a soul
mate is someone you have known before. Perhaps it is someone you
knew in another time or place, or someone that you have been dre-
aming into life. A soul mate is someone that for some inexplicable
reason, knows you totally and completely. When you walk into the
room you will recognize them immediately as someone you have
known before, but you are not certain that you know why. This is a
feeling of déjà vu, as though you have experienced these circumstan-
ces before. You appreciate the way the person moves, you remember
the energy that flashes from their eyes, coming from another place
and time. You have a strong and intense attraction along with the
soul recognition of the person. The difference between a soul mate
and a soul family is that soul family members have particular spiri-
tual energies that you have experienced before in a non-sensual and
nonsexual familiarity with a brotherly or sisterly love. A soul mate
is different in that you have a sensual and sexual attraction, as well
as a mental and spiritual magnetism that is between you.

When do you find soul mates?

You can find soul mates all the time. Most people have more
than one. Do you have to have a soul mate to be happy? Of course
not! You can always create a new soul mate in this place and time.
However, many of us are looking for something that is already on a
deeper level.

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Many of us are looking for a love that is deep and unquen-

chable, something that was with us before we came here and
will be with us forever; a special someone to share our thou-
ghts and feelings with and still have the ability to share their
thoughts and feelings. We are looking for someone to walk
with us throughout our life and beyond, something lasting.

You probably have more than one soul mate. Some people have
many, but the important thing is when choosing a soul mate is that
you manifest for your most compatible soul mate.

Some people find their soul mate before they love themselves. The
best time to find a soul mate is when you love yourself and are proud
of whom you are. When you love and know yourself, this is when
you are ready for your most compatible soul mate. When you feel
like you do not need someone to make your life fulfilled, this is the
appropriate time to bring your most compatible soul mate into your
life. Many people believe that they cannot be fully complete un-
less they find their soul mate. To be truly compatible, both people
love themselves and are happy inside. This is what that makes these
energies truly compatible. Many people demand to have their most
compatible soul mate and they are not ready for this person.
Many people will sit down and write a long list of what they want in
another person. I know people that wrote down everything that they
could think of on their list, but forgot the most important thing. That
they were compatible to them and that they were in love.
Always ask for your most compatible soul mate in the highest and
best way when you send your message out to the universe through
the Creator of All That Is, and you have a much better chance of
finding one that is attuned to you, mentally, sexually, spiritually,
physically and emotionally.

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When you first meet a person, you should find out if the feelings that
you are having for the person are real or just physical attraction.
It is important when you find your soul mate that you do not chase
them off by being over exuberant towards them. I have observed in
many people when they first meet that they use the claim they knew
them in a past life and that they are their soul mate as a come-on. I
do not think there is anything more frightening than to have someo-
ne that you just met tell you that they are your soul mate.

Right before you find your most compatible soul mate you will have
this overwhelming and foreboding sense of loneliness. This is a good
indicator that a special someone is out there around the corner. I
know many people cannot find their soul mates simply because they
are looking so hard. There is a proper way to go about finding your
most compatible soul mate. That is by allowing them to find you,
and allowing the universe to serve you. Just because you are ready
for your most compatible, soul mate does not mean that the other
person out there in the universe is ready for you. We are all evolving
at different levels at different times. However, I believe that there is
someone out there for everyone.

Some people spend so much time taking care of their parents that
they never have a chance to find a soul mate for themselves. In
this case, they may have made some kind of unconscious vow. In
a strange sort of way, they are married to their parents and these
unconscious oaths and vows can keep them from finding their soul
mate as well. On some level, people sabotage themselves because
they are afraid of sharing their whole being with another person.
They are afraid of sharing their love, and afraid of letting someone
in to truly love them. We can comfortably say that their unconscious
mind is sabotaging them.

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Some people ask the divine, “When will I meet my soul mate?”
They are given a date and sometimes a time. The date and time pas-
ses, and they are unaware that they have met their soul mate and lost
the opportunity. When they asked the divine these questions, what
they are getting is possibilities of when and how they can meet their
soul mate.
I know of many people that were told by the divine that they should
move from the place that they are currently living in order to meet
their most compatible soul mate. However, they refused to move,
and guess what? They did not meet their most compatible soul mate.
Are you ready to take the actions needed to be with that special so-
meone? The divine can direct and guide us, but we have to take the
right actions to make things happen in our lives.

You should work on your issues of trust of the universe to bring you
together with your soul mate. There is nothing wrong with searching
for your soul mate, but when searching for your soul mate becomes
compulsive behavior, the search becomes the only goal and there is
no completion. It is like a mystical quest for the Holy Grail that has
no beginning and no end. It is the Quest that is the nexus of their
being, and not the conclusion. You can become so used to talking
about how you do not have a soul mate that this is all that you will
manifest. This is telling your subconscious mind, day in and day
out, “I can't find my soul mate,” and “There's no one out there for
me.” “Why haven't I found him or her yet, why have I been forgot-
ten?” All these words are sabotaging the universe from creating a si-
tuation so that you can meet that most important person in your life.

Here is another scenario I see in clients and students: “I want my

soul mate to love me for just me.”

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When someone people finally does find a soul mate, it is all about
you, and nothing about the other person. Both people should feel
free to be open share how they make a living, their likes and dislikes
and all the many facets of their personality in comfort and safety.
The couple should feel be free to share profound parts of themsel-
ves, otherwise the relationship will be built upon a façade. It will be
based upon the wants and needs of one or the other of the party and
not both. The truth is that everything should be talked about at face
value.

It is likely that once you begin to manifest for a soul mate you will
bring in more than one at the same time. This is because you will be
giving a signal out to universe that you really love yourself, and that
you are ready. When the signal begins to be sent out and broadca-
sted, it is likely that more than one soul mate will be brought into
your life to answer this call. Many people give up finding soul mates
and they believe it is wrong to wish for romance. This is too bad.
There is a special person out there for you and romance. Open your
eyes to the world around you and you will find them. A soul mate is
there to listen, to be with you, and vice-versa. Together the two of
you can be free from loneliness. You can be affected by the thoughts
of the people you are in close proximity with. The company you
keep is one of the most important things you can do for your heart.
The person that you are with should have a matching vibration to
your own. Communication with this person is important. You might
be with your soul mate and not know it, because you do not commu-
nicate with them. Many people do not know how to love their soul
mates because they have never been taught these feelings.

It is hard to attract a soul mate if you are unable to give back.

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Remember everyone will be in a different place with these issues.

A conflicting Belief System would be to manifest to be completely
independent and at the same time asking for a soul mate to share in
your life. These two Belief Systems conflict with one another.

What is Soul Mate?

Soul Families are our eternal support system and are drawn toge-
ther to do the work of the Creator. Soul Families descend to inhabit
physical families on this Plane. ThetaHealing is collecting the Soul
Families together to do the work of the Creator. ThetaHealing is de-
signed to bring the Soul Families together once again.
There is a difference between a Soul Family and a Soul Mate. Soul
mates have been in passionate love that spans through time and all
the Planes of Existence. Throughout time, there is always a lasting
passion between them.

The Principles of Soul Mates

• There are more soul mates to choose from now than ever be-
fore. One person may have dozens of soul mates, ranging in many
different ages, shapes and sizes. An individual has more than one
compatible soul mate.

• The individual must love himself or herself before calling in a

soul mate. Once you manifest for a soul mate, the level of evolve-
ment you have as a person will dictate the soul mate that you draw
from the All That Is energy.

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• People are drawn to one another for the negative that they have
in common as well as the positive. You should remove as many ne-
gative beliefs and do Feeling Work on yourself to draw to yourself
the best person you can.

• A twin flame is someone exactly like you. They mirror you

exactly and this may not be good.

• When you draw your soul mate to you through the Theta Tech-
nique or other manifesting techniques, be aware that you will attract
other people to you since your sexual chakra will be open. In the
command process, it is important to state, “I have my most compati-
ble soul-mate,” rather than saying, “I need my most compatible soul
mate”.

• You should specify that you receive the opposite or same sex,
depending upon preference. If you ask for a soul mate, state that the
individual is of the same species that you are, since you may receive
a dog for a soul mate.

• Make a list of the criteria for the soul mate you wish to draw,
and state the complete list in your command.

• A compatible soul mate will flow with you. You will mesh with
that individual with little or no friction. Usually you will have Be-
lief-work to do together.

• Life is about choices. If you wish to break up from your present

relationship, this is between you and God. Ask God if your relation-
ship could (or should) be saved and how; then decide to ask for a
new soul mate.

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• Do not ask for a perfect soul mate, since this person may be too
perfect. Instead, ask for your most compatible soul mate.

• Soul families and soul mates are people whose spirits we re-
cognize from other places and times. We seem to “know” them and
can read their minds easily. Soul families have a tendency to travel
through time together.

• If you have a preference as to whether or not someone is faith-

ful sexually, specify your soul-mate has a monogamy gene, which
not everyone carries.

• Soul mates are not hard to find, and you may not want them
once you find them.

• “Instead of manifesting that you want a most compatible

soul-mate, you want to ask for a most compatible life mate. If you
command for a most compatible soul-mate now, it starts pulling in
whoever is the most compatible person that has the closest to com-
patibility at this space in time.

• Moonstone for women: Brings your soul mate to you, encou-

rages lucid dreaming, enhances psychic abilities, calms emotions.

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Calling For Your Compatible Soul Mate

1. Center yourself in your heart and visualize going down into the
Mother Earth, which is a part of All That Is.
2. Visualize bringing up the energy through your feet, opening
each chakra to the crown chakra. In a beautiful ball of light, go out
to the Universe.
3. Go beyond the Universe, past the white lights, past the dark
light, past the white light, past the jelly-like substance that is the
Laws, into a pearly iridescent white light, into the Seventh Plane of
Existence.
4. Make the command, “Creator of All That Is, It is commanded
that my most compatible soul mate be brought to me, and that they
have these attributes (state attributes). Thank you! It is done. It is
done. It is done.”
5. Witness the call to your most compatible soul mate being sent
out.
6. As soon as the process is finished, rinse yourself off and put
yourself back into your space. Go into the Earth and pull the earth
energy up through all your chakras to your crown chakra and make
an Energy Break.
7. In some instances these feelings and memories will bring two
people together in matrimony (marriage) that were once part of the
same Soul Family when they where on the Fifth Plane. Because of
this, there is no lasting passion between the two people, as it is like
a brother and a sister marrying without knowing it. There is a dif-
ference between a Soul Family and a Soul Mate. Soul mates have
been in passionate love that spans through time and many Planes of
Existence.

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Here is my soul mate prayer

Creator of All That Is,

All that I can and will be today upon my request, I give a prayer to
thee.
I pray that I will find my person, the one that is for me.
The one that can join with me, and allow me to be free.
I pray that this person will be the one and only one.
The one that makes my heart feel grand, to become as one with me.
I pray to you, hear my plea and I will find the one for me.

Over the waters and over the sea, I know there is the one for me.
I pray that I will find them soon, and they will find me.
Then we will live our lives together as one in one to be.

With the knowing that being with another may not be the easiest.
With the knowing that being with another can be a challenge,
This is just the thing that fills me with glee.
I pray that I will find the one to share my life,
To watch the sunsets and laugh and play with me.

To grow together until we are very old,

Until the time to leave has come,
I pray that we will leave together for a higher plane,
This true love, I do deserve,
With this request, I now pray, that I will soon be served.

Vianna

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Energetic Divorce from Past Relationships

One hidden Program that many people have is that of still believing
that they are married to another person even when they are separa-
ted or physically divorced from them. If the person became deeply
attached to the person, it may not matter if they were married or not,
on an unconscious level they still believe that they are. Energy Test
the person to find out if they still believe that they are still married to
the person energetically. The Program that comes up is “I am marri-
ed to (Persons name).” You would be surprised at how many people
have not severed their energetic commitment to a past love.

1. Center yourself in your heart and visualize going down into the
Mother Earth, which is a part of All That Is.
2. Visualize bringing up the energy through your feet, opening
each chakra to the crown chakra. In a beautiful ball of light, go out
to the Universe.
3. Go beyond the Universe, past the white lights, past the dark
light, past the white light, past the jelly-like substance that is the
Laws, into a pearly iridescent white light, into the Seventh Plane of
Existence.
4. Make the command, “Creator of All That Is, it is Commanded
that (person’s name) is released from the commitment of this mar-
riage, in the highest and best way. Thank you! It is done. It is don0.,
It is done.”
5. Witness the energy of the bond that is between the two people
as it is sent to Creator’s light.
6. As soon as the process is finished, rinse yourself off and put
yourself back into your space. Go into the Earth and pull the earth
energy up through all your chakras to your crown chakra and make
an Energy Break.

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