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Jay Shetty Live Your Purpose 03.06.20 V5
Jay Shetty Live Your Purpose 03.06.20 V5
C H A PTER 1
What is Purpose?
C H A PTER 2
How to Find
Your Purpose?
C H A PTER 3
How to Live
Your Purpose?
CH A PT E R ON E
WHAT IS
PURPOSE?
Man…sacrifices his health in order to
make money. Then he sacrifices money
to recuperate his health. And then he is
so anxious about the future that he does
not enjoy the present; the result being
that he does not live in the present or
the future; he lives as if he is never going
to die, then dies having never really lived.
DALAI LAMA
How happy are you? Have you ever asked yourself that
question?
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This list could stretch on for the length of this book
and still be incomplete. But when asked, the number
one thing people say they are unhappy about is their
occupation, their job, or their career — the thing they
spend more time doing than anything else. They say it
feels like drudgery and monotony.
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ELLEN GOODMAN
In a national survey, eighty five percent of respondents
claimed they did not like their jobs. We go into debt
to earn a piece of paper, then craft fake versions of
ourselves in our resumes, all to secure a job that we will
come to hate. Then we work for the weekend, or the
holiday, or retirement.
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We are never really away from work because we carry
it with us everywhere we go. Our checklists are always
in the back of our minds. Our Inbox dings and ticks in
our pockets or on our wrists. Quotas, quarterlies, and
quid pro quos haunt our dreams. We chase the wrong
things up the ladder of success and end up less happy
than when we started the climb.
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seem the most excited about being alive; that seem to
accomplish so much and are so happy while doing it. Do
they fit this mold? Do they seem imprisoned?
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Many people believe it is an occupation; that if they can
only find the right thing to do with their time, they will,
as Mark Twain said, “never work another day in their
life.”
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Then the second bricklayer responded, “I love my job.
I’m building a great cathedral.”
One sees only the task before them, and the other, the
purpose behind the task. What this parable doesn’t do
is recognize that no two people are identical with only
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one difference between them. We are complex. We all
have different strengths and weaknesses, interests and
aversions, values and beliefs.
And yet, some studies now show that people are most
susceptible to dying young in the first year of retirement
because they lack the purpose they felt while at their
career.
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Truly, the only reason they lack it is because they
never found it in the first place. The career was only a
placeholder for death.
“I’m not what I think I am. I’m not what you think
I am. I am what I think you think I am.”
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“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge
a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it
will live its whole life believing that it is
stupid.”
ALBERT EINSTEIN
All the money in the world cannot make a fish survive
out of water. It would be better to achieve half of your
true nature than to perfectly live up to the expectations
of someone else.
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CH A PT E R T WO
HOW TO FIND
YOUR PURPOSE
Learning there is a thing called
covery.
AUTHOR UNKNOWN
So many things are standing
fect note the first time they open their mouth to sing, or
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George M. Moore Jr. said:
purpose, but the reality is, there are fears and obstacles
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overworked. The hours fly by. Stress doesn’t build up
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your purpose is, nor is there likely to be one specif-
Now, close your eyes. Picture your life, your job, your
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your desk and the teacher just asked you, “What do you
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Is that what you want? Does that make you want to
be that that is the purpose for a fish, and you are a bird
slowly drowning.
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Now I want you to write down your answer to question
choose it? Spend some time and be honest. It’s only you
step to build into the next, but it’s a good checkpoint for
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The next tool I like to use is well known. It’s called the
top to bottom.
list of all the things that you love doing in that box. This
things down.
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what you like doing, only what you are good at doing.
let yourself feel guilty if you feel a little pride. Just get it
make a list of what you see missing from the world. This
and write all the things you can do right now that you
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Now stand back and take a look at what you’ve written.
is called “Mission.”
el? The reality is, most people spend most of their time
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areas of “Passion” and “Mission.” The ultimate overlap
the morning before the kids get up, whenever you can,
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QUADRANT OF SUCCESS
“Passion,” and write down all Bills,” and list all the things
the things you love to do and you don’t love but are good at.
List all the things you love but what you don’t love and are not
Tasks.”
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Step back from the paper again and take a look. You’ll
live to pay the bills and get things done, but not to stim-
sions.
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A big part of aligning with your purpose is also aligning
THREE E'S
ELEMENT
First is Element.
Remember the fish that can’t ENVIRONMENT
climb trees? Climbing isn’t its
element, swimming is.
Next is Environment.
That same fish can’t
live out of water either,
right? It would simply
die because it is the
wrong environment for
a fish.
ENERGY
of pressure.
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piece of paper and divide it up again into four quad-
reserved?”
Now let’s fill in the corners. In the corner of the page be-
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Outgoing and People write “I.” Between Reserved and
“C.” You should see that the letters in the corners make
DISC QUADRANTS
OUTGOING
D I
TASK PEOPLE
S C
RESERVED
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Now look at the numbers you assigned to your relative
D=Dominant
I=Inspiring
S=Supportive
C=Collective
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better.
That being said, generally, D’s are the “ready, shoot, aim”
ability to get the work done. These people are great mo-
great focus.
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C’s might be the most focused on the work at hand. They
people are going to fit neatly into any one of these trait
categories.
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In that way, these are more like archetypes and less
down as you go. Now read back through the list with
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As children we are taught to fit in, to stand in line, to
planted goals.
purpose? The short answer is, do. The old saying, “You
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can’t catch a fish if your lure isn’t in the water,” applies
you’re unlikely to find it. Here are a few things you can
do to get started.
job, you probably have some time that you can spend
break.
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you conk out. Get up early and work on the code for
that app you think will change the industry. Plan it out
you, just don’t sit still. You’ll learn soon enough whether
person can only see from where they have stood. So, if
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When did everything just flow? Think about the envi-
vices for free. Most people won’t turn that down. This
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doesn’t have to just be charity work, though that is a
the partners.
aire, but when they learn what kind of life they would
point is, the result is not the purpose. You’ll never find
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card. It doesn’t work that way. You need to know that
tomorrow.
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A few more thoughts on finding your purpose:
thedral behind the bricks. You might find that you see it
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CH A PT E R T H R E E
HOW TO LIVE
YOUR PURPOSE
One thing you’ll learn quickly as
“DON’T TAKE CRITICISM
FROM SOMEONE YOU soon as you consider stepping
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will encourage you. Some will avoid you, and some will
most likely acting out of fear. They care about you and
they want what is best for you, but fear rarely gives good,
They will tell you about all the things that you haven’t
giving up.
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Once people see you living out your dream, they’ll start to
Some may even want to work with you or get your advice
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It is a great indictment on the still to see those that move.
what you love, you won’t worry about what they think
anyway.
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Stay internally aware. What do I mean by that? It starts
the emotion that made the most sense when it was super
System Two brain, on the other hand, is the one that takes
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whether there is a real and present danger and how to
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mean you no longer own anything, it’s that nothing else
owns you.
the one you’re supposed to. Most people that begin living
once said:
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gut, destiny, life, karma,
whatever. This approach
has never let me down, and
it has made all the difference
in my life.”
Keep refining
your purpose.
Once you have it,
tend it. Nurture
it. Check in on it
every day.
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what you can do now and move the ball down the field.
from the soil, roots and all. Do this every time they pop
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If your goal is to be a billionaire, redefine that as helping
is only a byproduct.”
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three tasks to do at the same time, compared to doing
in succession.
Not only that, but they also retain details about the tasks
from the first to the next attempt at the same task when
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else. Don’t allow your phone notifications to keep giving
Slow down. The reality of most tasks is that when you try
the job poorly. That doesn’t mean you won’t get faster,
slow to go fast.
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The more you can take your mind away from thinking
and passion.
Stop wasting your time. The most often used excuse for
is that they don’t have enough time, but that same person
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video games, etc.
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This will give you confidence in what you are sharing
serve the purpose that you have laid out for yourself and
competition.
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A positive competitive state says, “If I help that person, we
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Not everything
that counts can be
counted and not
everything that can
be counted counts.
ALBERT EINSTEIN
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They tried to bury
us. They didn’t know
we were seeds.
DINOS CHRISTIANOPOULOS
GREEK POET
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discinsights.com/disc-theory
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apa.org/research/action/multitask
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only-a-few-pass-it
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