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with
David Shade
ADAM
Welcome
everybody!
My
guest
today
is
the
very
well-‐known
–
if
you
haven't
heard
of
him
you
will
understand
why
when
people
hear
him
they
get
very
interested
in
what
he
has
to
teach
–
his
name
is
David
Shade.
David,
welcome!
DAVID
Hello
Adam.
It's
a
pleasure
to
be
speaking
to
you
and
it's
an
honor
to
be
speaking
to
your
clients.
ADAM
Thank
you.
You
and
I
have
known
each
other
probably
about
five
years
and
I've
got
to
say,
David
is
unparalleled
specifically
in
the
area
of:
voice,
confidence,
and
how
to
–
I
use
the
word
"dominate,"
not
"domineer,"
but
"dominate"
–
how
to
be
a
dominant
male
and
bring
a
woman
into
an
amazing
sexual
experience.
Did
I
summarize
that
well?
DAVID
Oh,
that's
very
good.
Yeah,
let's
hear
it
for
dominant!
[laughter]
ADAM
[laughter]
Well,
let's
talk
about
that.
Now,
a
guy
who
hears
this
–
I
remember
when
I
first
started
dating
and
I
had
no
idea
how
to
date
and
I
had
just
been
divorced
–
when
I
heard
a
word
like
"dominant,"
I
felt,
"Well,
I
don't
feel
very
dominant.
I
don't
feel
particularly
confident
in
my
life
right
now.”
I
had
just
gotten
divorced,
you
know,
broke
in
every
possible
way!
And
so,
what
if
you
don't
feel
particularly
super-‐confident
because
of
something
that's
going
on
in
your
life?
How
can
you
still
bring
yourself
fully
to
a
woman
with
that
kind
of
dominance?
DAVID
Yeah,
I
know
all
about
your
situation
–
you
and
I
have
talked
about
that
–
and
I
had
the
same
situation:
I
also
was
divorced,
broke
in
a
lot
of
ways,
feeling
very
defeated,
alone;
a
very
low
point
in
my
life.
ADAM
Yep!
2
DAVID
What
gets
you
there,
what
gets
you
where
you
need
to
be
is
having
the
goal
to
get
there,
having
the
will
to
get
there,
and
having
a
burning
desire
for
its
achievement.
Period.
Do
whatever
you
have
to
do
to
get
there.
It's
a
matter
of
working
on
yourself.
That's
what
you
need
to
work
on.
You
need
to
be
working
on
yourself.
But
you're
going
to
get
there
because
you
have
to
get
there.
ADAM
The
gun
to
the
head
model.
You
know,
it's
the
same
in
business;
when
people
say,
"You
can't
pay
your
mortgage
this
month?
You
own
your
own
business."
If
I
put
a
gun
to
your
head
or
to
your
kid's
head,
what
would
you
do?
You'll
think
of
something,
you'll
get
to
your
goal!
DAVID
You'll
fucking
get
it
done!
ADAM
Exactly!
So
that's
number
one.
So,
it's
desire
to
get
there.
And
obviously
anyone
here
who's
listening
has
invested
in
themselves
to
help
get
there.
So
let's
talk
about
what
that
feels
like
for
a
woman
because
one
of
the
things
that
I've
discovered
over
time
is
if
a
woman
gets
a
feeling
she
wants
a
man,
she
doesn't
really
care
what's
happening
inside
the
man.
Unless
they're
married
or
it's
a
long-‐term
relationship;
she
wants
to
feel
the
way
it
feels
with
a
confident,
dominant
man.
So
where
would
you
start
with
someone
who's
walking
around
and
meets
a
woman?
How
can
he
have
a
woman
feel
that,
just
by
the
use
of
his
voice
and
what
he
says?
DAVID
It
is
true
that
a
woman
dates
a
man
not
because
of
what
he
looks
like,
not
because
of
other
attributes.
She
dates
him
because
of
how
he
makes
her
feel.
It's
all
very
mental.
It's
all
about
how
you
make
her
feel
–
and
that
starts
with
understanding
what
do
women
need
to
feel?
So
start
by
educating
yourself,
what
does
a
woman
need
to
feel
–
and
why?
It's
really
a
matter
of
understanding
your
subject
matter.
ADAM
Yeah,
let's
talk
about
that.
I
mean,
in
my
formulation
a
woman
needs
to
feel
safe,
special
in
some
way
–
that
you've
noticed
something
special
about
her,
unique
–
and
sexy.
That's
my
little
triumvirate
that
I
work
on.
What
might
you
add
to
that?
DAVID
Yeah,
those
are
all
absolutely
very
true.
Let
me
cover
what
I
tell
guys
are
the
four
things
that
women
absolutely
have
to
have
–
and
this
is
in
the
context
of
a
3
relationship.
Now,
when
you're
just
starting
a
relationship
you
work
on
these
things
one
at
a
time
and
you
work
on
conveying
the
fact
that
you're
capable
of
making
her
feel
those
four
things.
But
the
four
things
that
a
woman
absolutely
has
to
feel
are:
number
one,
she
has
to
feel
special,
and
appreciated,
and
unique
and
all
those
things.
Number
two,
she
has
to
feel
a
deep
emotional
connection
with
her
man.
She
needs
to
feel
that
she
can
communicate
within
her
emotions,
she
can
emote
with
him;
that
she
knows
that
he
can
emote
with
her.
She
derives
a
great
deal
of
emotional
reward
by
communicating
with
him
emotionally.
Number
three,
she
absolutely
has
to
feel
beautiful,
feminine
and
sexy.
To
make
her
feel
beautiful,
feminine
and
sexy
is
going
to
require
a
man
who
is
masculine
because
what
brings
those
feelings
out
in
her
is
being
with
a
man
who
is
masculine.
Your
masculinity
complements
her
femininity.
And
the
fourth
thing
that
she
absolutely
has
to
have:
she
has
to
have
hot
passionate
sex
–
and
it
has
to
be
hot.
That
is
extremely
important
to
women.
Now,
ninety-‐nine
percent
of
women
are
sexually
submissive;
they
highly
respond
to
a
man
being
sexually
dominant.
Extremely
important
for
women.
Extremely
important.
I
cannot
stress
that
enough.
That
is
why
you
absolutely
must
be
dominant.
Okay,
those
are
the
four
things.
ADAM
Let's
talk
about
how
to
communicate
that
dominance
right
away.
So,
the
first
would
be
–
let's
talk
about
"special:
make
her
feel
unique,
special,
seen…"
DAVID
Right.
Now,
we
can
understand
these
four
things
by
looking
at
the
cases
that
she
has
been
through
in
her
life.
Like,
for
example,
let's
say
she's
been
with
a
"nice
guy."
We've
all
used
the
term
"nice
guy"
to
describe
a
guy
who's
really
nice,
but
he's
a
doormat,
he's
a
pushover.
Well,
with
him
she
can
feel
special,
she
can
feel
pretty,
appreciated.
She
can
feel
that
which
she
needs
to
feel.
And
she
may
have
an
emotional
communication
with
him.
But,
because
he's
not
very
masculine,
she's
not
going
to
feel
feminine,
beautiful
and
sexy.
And
because
he
has
absolutely
no
concept
of
being
dominant,
there's
not
going
to
be
hot
passionate
sex.
Now,
on
the
clear
other
side
of
the
scale
is
the
"bad
boy."
Now,
the
bad
boy
is
definitely
very
masculine,
makes
her
feel
very
feminine,
beautiful
and
sexy,
and
he's
absolutely
very
dominant.
So
he
gives
her
really
hot,
passionate
sex
–
which
she
absolutely
becomes
addicted
to.
But
there's
nothing
about
him
that
makes
her
feel
unique
or
special.
For
one
thing,
he's
cheating
on
her!
He
doesn't
treat
her
in
a
way
that
makes
her
feel
appreciated,
but
she's
already
addicted
to
the
sex.
4
Now,
what
happens
a
lot
in
marriages
is
a
woman
will
be
married
to
a
nice
guy,
but
she'll
go
out
and
she'll
have
an
affair
with
a
bad
boy.
Now,
with
her
nice
guy
husband
she
gets
to
feel
niche
one
and
two,
but
with
her
bad
boy
lover
she
feels
numbers
three
and
four.
So
she
gets
all
four
things
that
she
needs
but
it
requires
two
men.
There
are
a
lot
of
women
who
do
that.
Ideally,
a
woman
would
like
all
of
that
in
one
man
–
and
that
takes
a
man
who
is
capable
of
doing
all
the
things
that
the
nice
guy
does
right
and
avoids
the
mistakes
that
the
nice
guy
makes.
And
doing
all
the
things
that
the
bad
boy
does
right,
but
avoids
the
mistakes
that
the
bad
boy
makes.
ADAM
Well,
let's
get
practical.
Let's
talk
about
some
of
those.
So,
I
know
you
love
meeting
women.
So,
when
you
approach
a
woman
you're
able
to
communicate
that
kind
of
dominance
and
trustworthiness
at
the
same
time.
So
why
don’t
you
run
us
through
an
example
of
how
you
might
approach
a
woman;
what
you
might
do
with
your
voice,
how
you
might
lead
her
into
interest?
DAVID
Well,
I'm
not
a
teacher
of
pick-‐up.
I'm
not
a
specialist
of
pick-‐up.
I'm
no
pick-‐up
artist.
ADAM
No,
but
you
have
an
amazing
hypnotic
quality
about
you.
DAVID
Hmm,
that
came
about
by
educating
myself
after
my
divorce;
doing
a
lot
of
introspection
–
and
dating
women.
You
know,
I
went
out
there,
I
tried
–you
know,
you
try
enough;
eventually
some
of
them
are
going
to
go
out
with
you!
You
know,
you
and
I
both
started
small
after
our
divorce
–
right?
We
didn't
know
what
we
were
doing.
But,
you
know,
some
of
them
were
going
to
go
out
with
you.
ADAM
Sure!
DAVID
And
I
just
make
(made?)
it
work.
I
just
started
trying
stuff.
I
just
started
doing
what
I
knew
I
had
to
do.
Well,
one
thing
I
did
is
I
studied
the
bad
boys
–
so
I
started
doing
what
the
bad
boys
were
doing.
ADAM
Specifically,
what
are
some
of
those
things?
DAVID
5
What's
interesting
about
the
bad
boys
is
they
appear
to
women
as
being
very
masculine,
but
in
actuality,
women
find
out
that
they're
machismo
assholes.
They're
sexist.
They're
male
chauvinists.
They're
not
masculine
–
they're
machismo.
Women
like
that
bad
boys
are
very
protective;
women
love
to
feel
protected.
But
they
later
find
out
that
the
bad
boy
is
actually
being
very
possessive
because
he
doesn't
want
her
to
be
stolen
away
from
some
other
bad
boy-‐
just
like
he
stole
her
away.
Women
love
the
fact
that
bad
boys
are
very
confident.
They
appear
to
be
very
confident.
However,
the
woman
eventually
learns
he's
actually
very
paranoid
because
he
knows
there
are
other
bad
boys
out
there
trying
to
do
the
same
game
on
her
that
he's
doing.
He
lives
in
a
world
of
constant
paranoia
–
because
he
lives
a
lie.
Women
are
attracted
to
the
fact
that
he's
very
independent,
masculine,
strong
–
but
they
eventually
find
out
that
he's
the
biggest
apron-‐hugging
momma's
boy
there
is!
He
calls
his
mom
every
day,
he's
over
to
her
house
every
other
day;
he
may
even
live
in
his
mother's
house!
They're
big
momma's
boys!
Now,
when
you
look
at
the
things
that
the
bad
boys
are
doing
right
–
confidence,
protective,
masculine
–
start
forcing
yourself
to
be
those
things,
knowing
that
you
have
to
be
those
things
and
knowing
that
you
actually
want
to
be
those
things.
First
of
all,
you
have
to
do
them
because
that's
what
women
want.
So
if
you
want
women,
you
have
to
attract
them
with
what's
going
to
make
them
feel
these
things.
You
also
want
these
things
in
yourself.
A
man
wants
to
feel
confident.
He
wants
to
feel
masculine.
ADAM
Sure!
DAVID
He
wants
to
protect
his
woman.
He
wants
to
make
her
feel
special.
He
wants
to
give
her
hot,
passionate
sex.
He
wants
to
make
her
feel
beautiful,
feminine
and
sexy
–which
makes
him
feel
masculine.
ADAM
Sure!
DAVID
So,
he
knows
he
has
to
do
these
things.
So,
it's
a
matter
of
being
educated
–
such
as
talking
to
you
and
me
–
right?
ADAM
Alright.
Well,
let's
get
to
some
practical
education.
I
like
to
give
real
super-‐practical
tips.
So,
when
a
woman
meets
you
or
talks
to
you,
what
are
some
of
the
signals
that
you
teach
guys
to
give
in
terms
of
how
you
speak
or
what
you
speak
about,
or
how
you
6
touch
or
move
her?
-‐Anything
along
the
lines
of
confidence,
masculinity
–
those
things
that
we
were
just
mentioning?
DAVID
Well,
I'm
not
a
pick-‐up
expert.
But
it's
about
–
what's
critically
important
that
I
want
to
communicate
is
how
you
feel
about
yourself,
which
is
going
to
be
communicated
subconsciously
in
everything
that
you
do.
You
absolutely
have
to
do
these
things
if
you're
going
to
have
any
hope.
You
have
to
feel
masculine.
You
have
to
feel
confident.
You
have
to
feel
that
you
are
comfortable
with
sexuality.
ADAM
That's
the
key.
That's
the
thing
that
I
think
you
bring
better
than
almost
anybody.
So
let's
leave
the
realm
of
meeting
women
and
talk
about
sexuality,
and
how
to
create
dominance
–
you
know,
"enlightened
dominance"
I'll
call
it
because
it's
obviously
not
bullying
or
anything
like
that.
How
do
you
create
dominance
as
you
start
leading
into
the
sexual
moment?
DAVID
Yes,
it
is
absolutely
imperative
that
a
man
becomes
confident
with
his
sexuality.
Now,
the
bad
boys
certainly
are.
They're
very
comfortable
with
their
sexuality
–
except
for
the
fact
that
most
of
them
have
the
Madonna/Whore
syndrome.
But
generally,
my
clients
who
are
basically
mentally
healthy,
don't
have
that
kind
of
problem
going
on.
But
we're
also
raised
with
social
programming
that
restricted
us
from
feeling
confident
and
comfortable
with
our
sexuality.
But
we
absolutely
have
to
feel
comfortable
with
our
sexuality
in
order
to
feel
comfortable
with
hers
–
and
she
wants
her
man
to
feel
comfortable
with
her
sexuality.
Now,
we
were
all
born
sexual
creatures.
We're
naturally
sexual
creatures.
It's
natural
in
us.
It's
social
programming
that's
screwed
it
up.
So
we
have
to
understand
what
really
is
the
truth.
Well,
truth
is
found
in
reality.
In
reality,
you
find
that
the
truth
is
that
women
are
highly
sexual
creatures
despite
social
programming.
Social
programming
has
been
misleading
us
all
along.
But
women
are
actually
highly
sexual
creatures.
They
want
their
man
to
be
comfortable
with
their
sexuality
and
only
then
is
he
going
to
be
able
to
lead
her
sexually.
So
he
absolutely
has
to
be
comfortable
with
his
sexuality.
Now,
that
doesn't
mean
that
when
you're
talking
to
a
woman,
you
start
talking
about
sex
things!
Not
at
all.
She
also
wants
you
to
be
discreet
because
so
long
as
you
conform
to
social
norms,
everything
is
okay
–
but
you
must
conform
to
social
norms.
You
cannot
violate
social
norms.
So
long
as
you
do
not
violate
social
norms,
you
can
do
anything
sexual
with
her.
And
later
on
in
the
bedroom,
you
can
get
down
and
dirty
with
her
and
you
can
bring
out
that
raging
slut
in
her,
just
so
long
as
nobody
knows
about
it;
nobody
hears
it,
nobody
sees
it,
nobody
is
ever
told
about
it
–
and
thus
it
7
does
not
violate
social
norms.
You
can
do
anything
in
the
bedroom
because
it
does
not
violate
social
norms
and
because
she
wants
to
be
a
sexual
creature.
So
when
you
first
meet
her,
of
course
you
don't
talk
explicitly,
but,
because
you
are
comfortable
with
her
sexuality
and
because
you're
comfortable
with
your
sexuality,
then
that
is
going
to
be
communicated
in
your
body
language.
What's
important
is
your
apprehension
about
sexuality
will
not
be
communicated
in
body
language.
Now,
you
wanted
to
discuss
the
matter
of
confidence.
When
you
go
into
an
interaction
with
a
woman,
you
know
that
the
reason
that
you're
talking
to
her
and
the
reason
she's
standing
here
listening
to
you
is
because
people
are
looking
for
sex!
That's
at
the
core
of
everything!
Why
do
people
go
to
the
nightclubs
to
talk
to
each
other?
Because
they're
looking
for
sex.
They're
looking
for
somebody
to
have
sex
with.
And
in
any
relationship
–
I
don’t
care
what
relationship
–
at
the
very
core
of
the
relationship
is
sex.
When
the
sex
is
gone,
the
marriage
is
over.
Period.
ADAM
Uh-‐huh.
Been
there.
DAVID
Yeah.
Same
in
a
relationship:
when
the
sex
is
gone,
the
relationship
is
over.
You
have
to
understand,
when
you're
talking
to
a
woman
she
knows
you
came
up
and
talked
with
her
because
you
want
to
have
sex
with
her!
Of
course
you
don’t
talk
blatantly
like
that
–
but
she
knows
the
deal.
You
know
the
deal.
And
you
have
to
be
comfortable
with
that
–
and
the
way
that
you
get
comfortable
with
that
is
by
understanding
that
women
actually
want
to
have
sex.
ADAM
So
it's
a
frame
that
you
approach
her
with;
you
understand
that
she
wants
sex.
It's
not
something
unusual,
or
weird,
or
bad.
DAVID
Exactly!
Of
course
you
don't
approach
her
talking
about
sex.
ADAM
No,
of
course
not.
DAVID
Oh,
I
don't
know
–
some
pick-‐up
artists
have
got
some
pretty…
[laughter]
ADAM
Yeah,
I've
heard
some
crazy
things!
8
DAVID
It's
funny,
you
know.
They
work
in
very
specific
cases
–but
we'll
just
paint
with
a
very
wide
brush
here,
okay?
ADAM
Alright.
What
we
really
want
to
talk
about
is
what
specifically
guys
can
do
to
really
communicate
that
kind
of
confidence
or
masculinity
–
specifically
as
we're
getting
toward
the
bedroom,
you
know,
and
when
things
start
escalating.
DAVID
Alright.
When
things
start
escalating,
let's
say
you
get
her
out
on
a
date.
You
go
out
and
do
whatever;
you
end
up
back
on
the
sofa
in
your
living
room
–
so
you've
already
made
one
critical
transition
from
wherever
you
guys
were
out
that
night
back
to
your
house.
You
got
her
as
far
as
the
sofa.
So
you've
successfully
made
one
very
important
transition.
You
don't
say
to
her,
"Let's
go
back
to
my
place
and
have
sex."
Of
course
not.
You
say,
"Hey,
let's
go
back
to
my
place
because
I
have
this
piece
of
artwork
that
I
got
from
this
group
of
American
Indians
in
Arizona
and
it's
really
cool.
Come
on
back
–
I'll
show
it
to
you."
She
knows
exactly
what
the
hell
is
going
on!
She
knows
you're
bringing
her
back
to
your
house
and
hopefully
you'll
have
sex.
She
knows
what
that
the
hell
is
going
on!
But,
you
know,
she's
going
for
it:
"Yeah,
I
would
like
to
see
that
American
Indian
artwork
you
got
in
Arizona."
[laughter]
She
knows
what
the
fuck
is
going
on!
But
you
did
not
violate
social
norms
–
right?
You
did
not
embarrass
her
by
saying,
"Let's
go
back
to
my
house
and
have
sex."
But,
more
importantly,
you
do
not
give
her
any
of
the
responsibility.
What
you
did
is
you
assumed
–
you
must
at
all
times
assume
all
responsibility
for
the
sexuality.
ADAM
Yes.
DAVID
When
you
say,
"Let's
go
back
and
I'll
show
you
this
artwork,"
she
can
agree
to
that
then
she
has
not
assumed
responsibility
for
anything
that
happens
sexually
because
you're
just
going
back
to
look
at
fucking
artwork!
ADAM
Right.
DAVID
Okay,
so
you
looked
at
the
artwork,
you're
sitting
on
the
sofa
–
okay,
looking
at
the
artwork
took
like
a
half
a
minute
–
"Oh,
whoopi
doo!"
–
right?
But
you're
there
at
your
9
house,
you're
sitting
on
the
sofa.
Now
you
have
to
escalate
things
sexually.
You
absolutely
have
to
take
responsibility
for
everything
that
happens.
You
cannot
give
her
any
responsibility
–
even
though
you
know
she
wants
to
have
sex
–
I
mean,
she
came
back
to
your
house
after
the
date
to
look
at
your
fucking
artwork!
You
know
what's
going
on.
It
doesn't
necessarily
mean
that
she
wants
to
have
intercourse,
but
she
does
want
the
relationship
to
progress.
And,
hey,
you
may
not
get
her
in
the
bedroom
the
first
time
you
bring
her
back
to
the
house
–
but,
you
know,
don't
disappoint
her
and
not
try,
right?
[laughter]
I
mean,
that
would
be
an
insult!
But
you
do
have
to
do
it
such
that
she
is
not
responsible
for
anything
that
happens
sexually.
You
must
assume
responsibility
for
everything
that
happens
sexually.
A
woman
needs
to
know
this.
And
you
convey
that
because
you
are
a
leader.
You
lead.
That's
part
of
being
dominant.
ADAM
Yes!
DAVID
A
critical
part
of
being
dominant
is
that
you
lead;
anything
to
do
with
sexuality,
you
lead.
ADAM
Yes.
DAVID
Anything
to
do
with
romance,
by
the
way,
anything
to
do
with
romance,
you
lead.
Anything
to
do
with
what
is
different
about
men
and
women
you
must
lead.
Like
when
you're
walking
down
the
sidewalk
to
the
restaurant,
you
hold
her
hand
and
you're
basically
pulling
on
her;
I
mean,
if
you
really
want
to
be
dominant,
you're
working
slightly
in
front
of
her
and
you're
kind
of
pulling
on
her.
If
you
want
to
be
really
dominant,
when
you
get
to
the
restaurant,
you
throw
the
door
open
and
you
walk
in
and
you
pull
her
through
–
and
she'd
damn
well
better
get
through
that
door
before
it
comes
shut
again.
ADAM
And
she'll
feel
that
if
you
pull
her
through.
She'll
feel
that
tug,
you
know?
And
if
you
do
it
eye
to
eye,
it's
very
powerful.
DAVID
Exactly!
ADAM
Very
nice.
So
it
starts
early.
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DAVID
Or
you
ignore
her
while
you
throw
the
door
open
and
go
through.
You
just
ignore
her.
You
just
yank
on
her,
right?
She'd
damn
well
better
make
it
through!
ADAM
Or
you
can
take
the
Family
Guy
approach
and
say,
"Come
on
through
the
door,
bitch!"
DAVID
Don't
listen
to
Family
Guy.
ADAM
Yeah,
I
wouldn't
either.
They
have
a
great
parity
(parody?)
we
were
talking
about
earlier
of
really
bad
pick-‐up…
DAVID
Really
bad!
[laughter]
ADAM
Yes,
so
there
are
very
small
signals
–
and
I
tend
to
be
a
very
big
fan
of
that.
I
tend
to
be
a
lover
leader
rather
than
a
physical
leader.
DAVID
Now,
I'm
only
doing
extremes,
Adam.
ADAM
Yeah.
What
I
do
works,
too,
but
I'm
very
forward
in
my
physicality.
Like,
if
I'm
talking
to
a
woman
and
it's
going
where
I
want
it
to
go,
I'll
just
lean
over
while
she's
talking
and
push
her
hair
behind
her
ear
without
a
second
thought
–
that
kind
of
thing.
That's
not
dominant
but
it's
"claiming"
behavior,
which
is
something
related.
DAVID
Yeah,
"claiming
behavior"
–
that's
a
very
good
term
for
it.
I
like
that.
ADAM
I
like
to
claim
them.
And
I
assume
it.
And
I
think
we
both
assume
something;
it's
very
much
like
sales
where
you
assume
the
close,
right?
When
someone
comes
into
a
car
lot,
the
best
salesmen,
their
mindset
is
they're
assuming
that
they've
already
sold
the
car
to
this
person
and
now
they
just
have
to
explain
why.
It's
very
different
than
trying
to
sell
something.
So
we're
both
approaching
it
from
that
"claiming"
standpoint,
which
I
really
like.
Now,
there
are
things
that
I
say
sometimes
that
are
also
very
claiming
–
such
as,
"I'm
going
to
take
you
upstairs
and
I'm
going
to
kiss
you."
Just
tell
her
that
–
you
know,
look
her
in
the
eye
and
say,
"I'm
going
to
take
you
upstairs"
–
that
kind
of
thing.
Tell
her
what's
going
to
happen.
11
I'll
also
kind
of
inflame
her
imagination
a
little.
I
may
describe
what
it's
going
to
feel
like.
And
you're
a
master
of
words
too,
in
terms
of
inflaming
her
imagination.
So,
how
about
some
tips
for
the
guys?
DAVID
Oh,
that's
a
really,
really
good
one.
You
know,
men
need
to
understand
that
female
sexuality
is
entirely
mental
and,
oh,
inflaming
her
emotions
is
very
important.
And
you
can
start,
you
know,
actually
I
highly
recommend
that
you
"Fuck
her
mind
before
you
fuck
her."
ADAM
I
love
that.
DAVID
That
is
so
powerful
for
her.
By
then
she'll
be
dripping
wet
and
begging
you
to
fuck
her.
ADAM
And
how
do
you
do
that?
DAVID
What
you
described.
You
describe
what's
going
to
happen.
Now,
here's
a
great
one
that
let's
say
you
two
are
on
your
sofa
–
now,
I'm
not
recommending
this
for
a
first
night;
I'm
only
illustrating
an
example.
It
might
not
be
the
first
night.
You
could
do
this
down
the
road.
I've
done
this
and
my
top
clients
have
done
this.
It's
fucking
lethal.
And
some
have
done
it
on
the
first
night
that
they
met
the
woman
and
actually
gave
her
an
orgasm
with
just
their
voice.
But
what
you
do,
when
you're
sitting
on
the
sofa
–
and
I'll
kind
of
continue
with
my
story
from
before
–
you're
sitting
on
the
sofa;
it's
kind
to
escalate
things.
What
you
do
is,
well,
you
can
do
like
what
you
said,
"claiming"
and
you
assume
responsibility
for
anything
that
happens,
and
you
take
the
lead.
And
also
I
would
add
that
you
blame
her
for
it.
And
what
I
mean
by
that
is
she
is
so
attractive
to
you,
you
cannot
help
yourself.
Of
course
you
don't
do
that
in
a
caveman
way
–
at
least
not
until
the
bedroom
–
but
still
on
the
sofa,
you
can
blame
her
for
it.
You
can
start
with
romance
and
emotion.
You
start
by
–
I
like
to
go
to
romance
and
then
emotions
because
romance
is
the
context
in
which
sexuality
can
happen.
And
then
an
emotional
connection
is
the
lubricant
on
the
slide
to
sex,
okay?
So,
first
you
start
with
something
romantic.
I
didn't
prepare
this
–
I'm
just
going
to
throw
stuff
out.
ADAM
Sure!
12
DAVID
"I
feel
really
good
with
you
tonight.
You
look
so
adorable
to
me."
You
have
to
own
it;
You
can't
just
say,
"You
look
beautiful;"
you
have
to
say,
"You
look
beautiful
to
me."
ADAM
I
like
that!
Good
touch!
DAVID
Yeah,
because
you
have
to
own
it.
If
you
just
say
she's
beautiful,
you've
only
objectified
her.
ADAM
Good!
DAVID
What
you
can
do
is
you
can
reward
proper
behavior.
You
know,
she's
spent
two
hours
getting
dressed
and
doing
her
make-‐up
to
go
out
with
you.
You
can
say,
"I
appreciate
how
you
look
so
good
for
me
tonight."
So
you
reward
proper
behavior
but
you've
also
communicated
that
you're
lusting
for
her
–
without
being
inappropriate.
ADAM
Yes.
I
like
the
touch
of
"for
me"
instead
of
"to
me."
That's
beautiful.
Beautiful.
DAVID
Yeah,
because
later
in
the
bedroom
you
can
tell
her,
"Come
for
me."
[laughter]
ADAM
Yeah,
because
you
actually
teach
that
in
your
programs.
DAVID
Oh,
very
much,
man.
ADAM
Which
program
is
that
in,
by
the
way?
DAVID
That's
pretty
much
all
of
them.
I
certainly
start
with
the
program:
Give
Women
Wild
Screaming
Orgasms.
ADAM
Gee
–
what's
that
about?
I'm
kidding!
[laughter]
DAVID
[laughter]
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ADAM
I
do
recommend
his
stuff
because,
you
know,
sometimes
when
I'm
writing
a
program
and
I
get
to
the
point
of
how
to
speak
to
a
woman
in
the
bedroom,
sometimes
I'll
just
say,
"Go
read
David
Shade's
product"
because
it's
amazing
stuff.
We've
talked
about
it
in
the
past
–
you're
in
my
program
called
Erotic
Mastery
–
and
what
you
teach
about
how
to
verbally
lead
women
into
orgasm
and
then
deeper
into
orgasm,
and
then
pull
her
out
of
it
is
really
unmatched.
So
we're
not
really
covering
all
that
today,
but
I
like
that
you're
getting
to
the
point,
"You
look
so
beautiful
for
me."
Now
we've
shifted
from
pure
objectification
–
"You
look
beautiful"
to
kind
of
claiming,
"You
look
beautiful
to
me"
to
"You
look
beautiful
for
me."
That
she's
actually
doing
it
for
you.
That's
beyond
"claim."
DAVID
Yeah.
And
this
only
works
when
you
have
rapport,
and
this
only
works
when
you
know
that
she
is
considering
a
sexual
relationship
with
you.
You
cannot
do
this
kind
of
stuff
if
she
is
not
yet
seriously
considering
a
sexual
relationship
with
you
because
that
would
just
be
self-‐vocation.
She's
already
gone
back
to
your
house
to
see
your
stupid
artwork!
[laughter]
ADAM
Or
in
my
case
the
view
with
the
hot
tub.
DAVID
Whatever
–
okay?
Some
guys
say,
"You've
got
to
see
this
YouTube
video
I've
watched…"
[laughter]
ADAM
Whatever
–
right?
[laughter]
DAVID
Okay,
so
you
get
her
back.
You
know
that
she's
somewhat
interested
in
possibly
escalating
or
possibly
following
your
escalation
–
right?
Because
she's
waiting
for
you
to
lead.
Don't
disappoint
her.
Don't
insult
her
by
not
leading.
Now,
saying
things
like,
"I
appreciate
how
you
have
made
yourself
look
so
good
for
me
tonight"
–
you
don’t
want
to
be
doing
that
kind
of
stuff
until
you
know
that
she's
considering
having
a
sexual
relationship
with
you.
We're
talking
about
escalating.
You
want
to
set
up
a
romantic
frame,
which
is
the
context
in
which
sexuality
can
happen
–
and
typically
the
date
has
already
done
that;
even
if
you
guys
just
go
to
a
wine
bar,
right?
The
fact
that
you
went
out
for
a
date
at
a
wine
bar
sets
the
romantic
context.
Then
when
you
get
back
home,
then
you
reward
her
good
behavior
for
looking
so
good
for
you.
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ADAM
Love
that.
DAVID
Then
you
start
introducing
the
emotional
connection
and
you
simply
say,
"I
feel
very
close
to
you
right
now."
Now,
she
has
to
validate
that
in
some
way.
She'll
say
that
she
feels
very
close
to
you
or
something
to
that
effect.
Once
you
know
that
she
feels
that
emotional
connection
that
is
going
to
be
a
lubricant
on
the
slide
to
sex.
Then
you
can
start
doing
that
thing,
like
you
said,
where
you
claim
her,
where
you
can
simply
pull
her
hair
back
away
from
her
ear
and
–
a
really
good
one
–
you
know
how
you
start
narrating
things?
You
simply
take
the
hair
at
the
back
of
her
head
and
just
hold
it.
Don't
pull
on
it
–
not
yet
–
that's
for
the
hardcore
bedroom
stuff.
Don't
pull
on
it.
Just
hold
the
hair
at
the
back
of
her
head
and,
if
you
have
to,
lean
her
round
slightly
towards
you.
But
bring
your
mouth
close
to
her
ear
and
talk
very
softly
in
her
ear,
and
say,
"I
love
the
way
you
smell
right
now…"
I'm
going
to
borrow
a
line
that
you
used
a
minute
ago:
"Right
now
I'm
going
to
kiss
you
and
I'm
going
to
let
you
feel
my
lips
against
your
lips.
I'm
going
to
kiss
you,
and
then
I'm
going
to
kiss
you
passionately.
I
want
you
to
feel
that
excitement
when
we're
kissing."
But
your
mouth
is
still
next
to
her
ear
and
you're
speaking
in
a
very
low
and
soft
voice
and
you're
talking
slow,
making
it
obvious
that
it
is
escalating
towards
sex.
And
she's
actually
going
to
feel
the
tingle
in
her
lips.
Her
mind
will
start
feeling
that
sensation
in
her
lips
of
you
kissing
–
and
that's
what
you
want
to
happen;
you
want
her
mind
to
start
making
real
the
sense
of
these
things
that
you're
describing.
You
want
her
mind
to
make
real
the
sensations
that
you
are
describing
to
her.
Then
you
say,
"And
then
I
want
to
kiss
the
side
of
your
neck."
But
you
don't
kiss
the
side
of
her
neck;
you
just
breathe
out
of
your
nose
so
that
the
air
slides
down
the
side
of
her
neck
–
and
she'll
get
a
super
tingle
and
her
mind
will
start
making
shit
up.
She'll
start
getting
really
excited
about
how
her
mind
is
making
these
sensations
real.
You
have
to
speak
very
confidently,
of
course.
There
cannot
be
a
crack
in
your
voice,
man!
There
cannot
be
a
hesitation
in
your
voice
or
it
will
not
be
believable.
You
have
to
lead.
Then
you
would
say,
"You
skin
feels
so
soft
to
me."
You
take
ownership.
You
say,
"I
love
how
your
skin
feels
so
soft
to
me."
Then
you
take
one
hand
–
and
let's
say
that
her
forearm
is
laying
on
her
lap
and
she
has
a
short-‐sleeved
shirt
–
then
you
lightly
stroke
(I'm
just
making
shit
up
here,
right?)
ADAM
Yeah
–
there's
no
formula!
That's
perfect!
15
DAVID
You
very
lightly
slide
your
fingertips
up
the
inside
of
her
forearm
–
the
sensitive
skin
by
the
veins
and
the
tendons
–
very
lightly
slide
your
fingers
up
and
say,
"I
would
so
love
to
feel
your
body.
I
would
so
love
to
lightly
stroke
your
body
all
over."
And
she's
going
to
start
to
feel
that
tingle.
Now,
there's
a
great
line
in
that
movie
Don
Juan
DeMarco
in
the
bit
where
he's
decided
he's
going
to
commit
suicide
but
he
sees
this
hot
redhead
and
he
says,
"Oh,
wait
a
minute
–
just
one
more!"
So
she's
sitting
at
a
table
in
a
fancy
restaurant
waiting
for
her
idiot
boyfriend,
her
asshole
Wall
Street
bad
boy
boyfriend
who
hasn't
shown
up
because
he
treats
her
like
shit.
So
Don
DeMarco
gets
the
perfect
opportunity,
you
know?
So
he
goes
up
to
the
table,
sits
down,
starts
talking
to
her
–
and
then
he
takes
her
hand
and
he
says,
"Oh,
some
women,
they
have
hands
that
are
sensitive
and
like…"
and,
you
know,
holds
her
hand
and,
"Oh,
like
the
knuckles
are…
her
fingers
are
like
her
legs,
and
her
knuckles
are
like
her
knees;
oh,
and
this
soft,
fleshy
part
is
the
soft
skin
of
her
thighs."
Then
he
says,
"And
then…"
and
he
pulls
her
hand
towards
his
mouth,
he
sticks
his
finger
between
her
fingers
and
licks
it
while
he's
looking
at
her.
It's
so…
he's
basically
fucking
with
her
mind
–
right?
He's
touching
one
part
of
the
body
but
insinuating
that
it's
a
different
part
of
the
body
–
and
she'll
actually
feel
it
in
that
different
part
of
the
body.
So
then
they
seal
the
deal
–
right?
She's
sunk.
She's
all
for
it.
So
you're
doing
the
same
thing
when
you're
lightly
touching
the
inside
of
her
arm.
And
you
continue
to
describe
things
as
if
what
you're
doing,
you
yourself
are
vividly
imagining
her
lying
naked
on
your
bed,
and
the
things
that
you
are
going
to
do
to
just
totally
turn
her
skin
electric.
You
continue
to
escalate
things
while
you're
rubbing
the
inside
sensitive
part
of
her
forearm
and
–
I
like
that
line
–
"I'm
going
to
make
your
skin
electric."
ADAM
I
love
that.
DAVID
"Your
skin's
going
to
tingle
all
over.
That's
right
–
feel
your
skin
tingling
all
over
as
you
feel
me
lightly
brushing
your
skin.
It
tingles
all
over."
Alright,
well
she
knows
where
this
is
going
and
she's
loving
that
you're
making
her
skin
tingle
all
over.
And
you
know
where
that's
going
to
end
up
concentrating
-‐
you
and
I
know
that's
going
to
end
up
concentrating
in
the
clitoris.
"Oh,
yeah,
and
I
want
you
to
feel
that
tingle
concentrating
even
stronger.
Oh,
yeah,
feel
that
tingle
concentrating
even
stronger,
even
stronger."
And
the
whole
time,
she's
just
sitting
there
listening
to
you.
She
is
not
saying
anything.
And
that's
actually
a
good
thing.
Well,
it'd
be
a
bad
thing
if
she
said,
"Stop
that!
I'm
leaving!"
[laughter]
Game
over!
But
actually,
you
know
it's
working
when
she
just
shuts
the
fuck
up
and
she's
listening
to
you.
16
You
continue,
"Yeah,
feel
it
even
stronger,
concentrating
even
more,
even
stronger,"
while
you're
just
lightly
stroking
the
inside
of
her
forearm.
You
just
pick
a
place
on
her
forearm
and
you
just
start
with
one
finger
rubbing
it
up
and
down,
"Even
stronger.
Yeah,
even
stronger.
That's
right."
And
she'll
actually
feel
that
on
her
clitoris.
Her
mind
will
actually
shift
that
to
her
clitoris
and
she'll
get
excited.
Now,
when
she
starts
moaning
and
she's
getting
breathless,
you
can
tell
she's
getting
highly
aroused.
First
of
all,
you
know
it's
working
–
and
once
that
happens,
once
she's
slightly
aroused;
she's
moaning,
she's
breathing
deeply,
she's
like
losing
her
breath
–
that's
when
you
get
hardcore
sexual.
"That's
right.
yeah.
Now
feel
me
licking
it.
Feel
me
licking
it."
You
haven't
even
used
the
word
"clitoris."
"Yeah,
feel
me
licking
it.
Feel
it
vividly.
That's
right.
Licking
it.
Feel
it
vividly.
Oh
yeah.
Even
more."
And
she
is
supposed
to
become
even
more
aroused;
the
idea
is
you
actually
make
her
mind
feel
her
clit
being
licked
by
you.
"Even
stronger.
Even
stronger."
And
then
you
can
really
drive
it
home
by
saying,
"Yeah,
and
now
feel
me
suck
you
into
my
lips.
That's
right.
Feel
me
suck
you
into
my
lips
as
I
hum
on
you,
and
I
push
it
back
out
and
suck
it
back
in;
push
it
back
out
and
suck
it
back
in,
suck
it
back
in,
push
it
back
out."
You
haven't
even
used
the
term
"clitoris"
yet.
She'll
actually
feel
that.
That'll
blow
her
fucking
mind.
You
keep
saying
that
over
and
over,
repeating
that
exact
thing
over
and
over
and
over
again
–
and
she'll
have
a
fucking
orgasm
right
there.
ADAM
You
actually
teach
how
to
give
a
woman
an
orgasm
without
touching
her.
That's
fantastic.
DAVID
Yes.
ADAM
That,
by
the
way,
gentlemen,
is
confidence
[laughter].
That
is
like
going
for
what
you
want
to
create
and
not
letting
anything
stop
you.
DAVID
But
it's
so
easy
to
do.
Women
are
such
highly
sexual
creatures.
It's
a
mental
thing
for
them.
For
women,
sexuality
is
entirely
mental.
All
you
need
to
do
is
understand
this
and
just
simply
describe
what
you
would
do
in
the
bedroom.
She
will
have
an
orgasm
right
there
-‐
and
then
she
will
be
begging
you
to
fuck
her.
ADAM
On
that
beautiful
note,
I
am
going
to
close
because
that
is
the
process:
How
to
really
use
your
imagination,
how
to
use
all
your
tools
–
your
mind,
your
words.
This
isn't
about
pushing
people
around
and
this
isn't
about
tricking
anybody.
It's
about
creating
an
ambiance
with
how
you
talk
to
her
and
how
you
use
your
own
imagination.
And
if
17
you
don't
have
imagination,
David's
work
obviously
provides
a
lot
of
templates
for
how
to
do
exactly
what
you
just
said.
That
is
really
the
core
of
this
program:
how
to
enact
confidently
even
if
you
don't
feel
it
a
million
percent
inside;
that
you
can
still
set
your
goal
and
act
on
it
–
and
I
think
you've
demonstrated
some
great
methods
today.
And
I
love
that
you
just
made
it
up
on-‐the-‐spot;
obviously
when
I'm
online
dating,
I'm
doing
the
same
thing
with
women.
You
know,
because
we've
studied,
we've
put
our
time
in,
we've
tested
a
lot
of
things,
we
have
a
sense
for
what
actually
works.
So,
you
don't
have
to
have
something
memorized.
I
want
to
actually
encourage
guys
not
to
try
to
memorize
other
people's
words
–
but
take
David's
samples
from
his
work
and
make
them
your
own.
I
know
why
I
did
that
with
you
and
that's
a
whole
other
story
–
but
having
studied
your
work
–
God,
four
years
ago,
I
started
–-‐
gave
me
an
incredible
vocabulary
and
palette
to
work
from
with
women.
It's
been
unbelievable.
It
has
created
more
wonderful
sexual
experiences
than
any
human
being
deserves
to
have.
So
I
will
thank
you
personally
for
that!
And
I
will
thank
you
for
taking
the
time
and
I
will
send
everybody
a
way
to
find
your
stuff.
Really
great
things:
Give
a
Woman
Wild
Screaming
Orgasms
is
a
great
place
to
start.
You
have
something
else
called
I
think
Erotic
Hypnosis
–
is
that
right?
DAVID
Right.
What
I've
described
with
the
woman
on
the
sofa,
I
teach
that
in
my
program
Give
Women
Hot
Phone
Sex;
where
I
introduce
how
to
give
women
orgasms
with
just
your
voice,
and
you
can
do
it
over
the
phone.
But
the
exact
same
words
you
can
do
in
person,
just
like
I
described
on
the
sofa.
ADAM
Beautiful.
I
love
it.
Thank
you
so
much
my
friend.
I'll
send
everyone
a
link
to
his
stuff
so
you
can
find
his
different
programs
–
obviously
highly
recommended.
He's
put
a
lot
of
work
into
mastering
these
things.
David,
thank
you
so
much
–
and
I'm
going
to
see
you
here
in
the
sunshine
soon,
right?
DAVID
Absolutely.
Thank
you
very
much
Adam.
It
was
an
honor
to
be
speaking
to
your
clients,
Sir.
ADAM
Oh,
they're
good
people.
Thank
you
so
much,
David.
DAVID
Thank
you
Adam.