Back Street

According to the idiom dictionary, the American Heritage actionary of idioms, backstreet has two
meanings, namely the literal meaning of a stret that is not the main road. For example, a small street
or an alley. While the other meaning is backstreet, which is an illegal or hidden deal. For example
doing activities secretly.

If the relationship with dating then backstreet is a relationship that is not approved by parents. So the
courtship is through the back road or secretly.

According to some sources backstreet is a short term for a secret relationship,which means of course
keeping a relationship a secret from people so that the relationship runs as it should. Basically this
backstreet is very tiring for couples because they have to stay alert ans can not just open up with other
people. They keep this relationsip tighly so as not to be found out. Backstreet couples are prone to
problems because they cannot freely seek solutions from others due to hiding their relationship.

Here’s why people do backstreet :

1. Required to obey the family

For someone who should be serious about education and focus on pursying achievements,
Dating is usually something that is strictly forbidden by the family. With a backstreet
boyfriend he wants to be abodient to his parent and maybe at this time he is still excel even
though he already has a girlfriend.

2. Want to keep friends

Boyfriend or best friend is a difficult choice if we have to choose between the two. He ay not be ready
or afraid of losing his friend because of going out with you.

3. Keep you away from bullying

Backstreet is a fairly natural thing to do when we are dating someone who is quite popular.
There are many feeling of admirer to be guarded. More importanty he wants to keep you
from being hurt by people who admire him because they are jealous of you.

4. There’s someone else in her heart

You are not the only person in his heart is another reason someone backstreet. Even though
it’s bitter but in reality someone might have agreed to date you but in his little heart he is still
not sure and wants to compare yourself to the person he likes to.

According to Ajeng Raviando, a psychologist from friend on counseling days, backstreet

dating has more negative impacts then positive impacts. One of them is being prone to
conflict both with yourself, with your partner as well as with your parents.
Here are some reasons why you shouldn’t be dating backstreet:
1. Your dating relationship is so uncomfortable
For example, when you go for a walk, you are afraid that someone will se you.

2. You will aften make up lies

To make your backstreet dating smooth. You have to lie to the people closest to you, the
little lies that you often tell eventually become a habit.
3. If there is a problem with your partner you can not tell.
If there is a problem with your relationship then you can not tell. Even though telling
stories is very important so you don’t get stressed and depressed.

4. No one reminds you of your dating relationship.

5. If your parents find out they will be disappointed and find it hard to believe in you.
If your parents find out that you are lying, they will be very disappointed in you and they
may lose their trust in you

6. After all, the blessing of parents is everything

Apart from that all parental blessing is everything for the smooth running of your
relationship.

A message for all of us, especially teenagers focus first on your goals and dreams.
Because classy love will come after we veach our goals.