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Quarter 2 – Module 5:
Family Legacies
Personal Development– Grade 11
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Quarter 2 – Module 5: Family Legacies
First Edition, 2020
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Directions: Read the questions carefully and choose the correct answer. Write your
answers on a separate sheet of paper.
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5. Which family legacy should we have in order to prosper the needs of our
children to endure and nurtured the sense of security and stability into a safety
and loved environment?
a. Spiritual legacy
b. Emotional legacy
c. Psychological legacy
d. Social legacy
6. What family legacy should our children learn more than management
techniques, accounting, reading, writing and geometry?
a. Spiritual legacy
b. Emotional legacy
c. Psychological legacy
d. Social legacy
7. Which family legacy is overlooked by many but we should adopt the attitudes
and beliefs about spiritual matters from one source or another?
a. Spiritual legacy
b. Social legacy
c. Emotional legacy
d. Psychological legacy
8. Which family legacy should children prosper and need to learn in order to gain
insights and socials skills necessary to cultivate healthy, stable relationships?
a. Spiritual legacy
b. Social legacy
c. Emotional legacy
d. Psychological legacy
9. It is an exchange between two or more individuals and is a building block of
society?
a. Social life
b. Social media
c. Social interaction
d. Social attention
10.What key building blocks of children’s social legacy begin with themselves and
working out with other people?
a. Responsibility
b. Unconditional love
c. Respect
d. Rules
11.What key building blocks of children’s social legacy should be set concerning
how to relate to God, authority, peers, the environment and siblings?
a. Social interactions
b. Responsibility
c. Respect
d. Social boundaries
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12. Who should be the primary responsible for the spiritual upbringing?
a. Parents
b. Friends
c. Teachers
d. Classmates
13.What institution of the society is there to support parents in raising their
children spiritually but it cannot do the raising; only parents can?
a. Market
b. Church
c. School
d. Government
14. What do we need to require in developing a sense of emotional wholeness?
a. Space and time
b. Time and consistency
c. Effort and time
d. Time and love
15.What emotional legacy hinders our ability to cope with inevitable struggles of life?
a. Positive legacy
b. Negative legacy
c. Uncertain legacy
d. Irrelevant legacy
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Lesson
Family Legacies
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Family Legacies
No matter whom we are, where we live, or what our goals may be, we all
have one thing in common: a heritage. That is, a social, emotional and spiritual
legacy passed on from parent to child. Every one of us is passed a heritage, lives
out a heritage, and gives a heritage to our family. It's not an option. Parents always
pass to their children a legacy … good, bad or some of both
What’s In
F A C L E G A C Y R
R A E M O T I O N E
I S M T S T R U C S
E D T I J Y A D D P
N F T G L O V E X E
D G G N M Y L H J C
Y S O C I A L E A T
S T R U C T U R E V
Activity:
Direction: below are jumbled letters, read the definition of each jumbled
letters to reveal the right answer. Write your answer on the space provided and
then encircle the revealed word on the box.
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EVOL- It is a strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties.
_________________________
AILOSC- Relating to human society, the interaction of the individual and the group,
or the welfare of human beings as members of society. ____________________
NOITOME- A state of feeling. __________________
What’s New
Emotional Legacy Evaluation. Answer each question by writing the number that
best reflects the legacy you have received from your parents. Then add up your
score.
1. When you walked into your house, what was your feeling?
1. Dread
2. Tension
3. Chaos
4. Stability
5. Calm
6. Warmth
2. Which word best describes the tone of your home?
1. Hateful
2. Angry
3. Sad
4. Serious
5. Relaxed
6. Fun
3. What was the message of your family life?
1. You are worthless.
2. You are a burden.
3. You are okay.
4. You are respected.
5. You are important.
6. You are the greatest.
4. Which word best describes the “fragrance” of your home life?
1. Repulsive
2. Rotten
3. Unpleasant
4. Sterile
5. Fresh
6. Sweet
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5. Which was most frequent in your home?
1. An intense fight
2. The silent treatment
3. Detached apathy
4. A strong disagreement
5. A kind word
6. An affectionate hug
Results:
Social Legacy Evaluation: Answer each question by circling the number that best
reflects the legacy you have received from your parents. Then add up your score.
1. Which words most closely resemble the social tone of your family?
1. Cruel and abusive
2. Cutting sarcasm
3. Chaotic and distant
4. Non-communicative but stable
5. Secure with open communication
6. Loving and fun
2. What was the message of your home life with regard to
relationships?
1. “Step on others to get your way.”
2. “Hurt them if they hurt you.”
3. “Demand your rights.”
4. “Mind your own business.”
5. “Treat others with respect.”
6. “Put others before yourself.”
3. How were rules set and enforced in your home?
1. Independent of relationship
2. In reaction to parental stress
3. Dictatorially
4. Inconsistently
5. Out of concern for my well-being
6. In the context of a loving relationship
3. Which word best characterizes the tone of communication in your
home?
1. Shouting
2. Manipulation
3. Confusing
4. Clear
5. Constructive
6. Courteous
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5. How did your family deal with wrong behavior?
1. Subtle reinforcement
2. Accepted in the name of love
3. Guilt trip
4. Severe punishment
5. Discussion
6. Loving, firm discipline
Results:
Above 24 = Strong social legacy
19 – 24 = Healthy legacy
14 – 18 = Mixed legacy — good and bad elements
10 – 13 = Weak social legacy
Below 10 = Damaged social legacy
Spiritual Legacy Evaluation: Answer each question by circling the number that
best reflects the legacy you have received from your parents. Then add up your
score.
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5. What was the perspective in your home regarding moral absolutes?
1. If it feels good, do it!
2. There are no absolutes.
3. Let your heart guide you.
4. Dogmatic legalism
5. Moderate conservatism
6. Clear boundaries
Results:
What is It
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the nourishment and support needed for healthy emotional growth. It will require
time and consistency to develop a sense of emotional wholeness, but the rewards
are great. A strong emotional legacy:
Which characteristics would you like to build into the legacy you pass along
to your children? Even if you don't hit the exact mark, setting up the right target is
an important first step.
To really succeed in life, our children need to learn more than management
techniques, accounting, reading, writing and geometry. They need to learn the fine
art of relating to people. If they learn how to relate well to others, they'll have an
edge in the game of life.
In order to prosper, our children need to gain the insights and social skills
necessary to cultivate healthy, stable relationships. As children mature, they must
learn to relate to family members, teachers, peers and friends. Eventually they
must learn to relate to co-workers and many other types of people such as
salespeople, bankers, mechanics and bosses.
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The setting of social boundaries concerning how to relate to God, authority,
peers, the environment and siblings.
We all have good and bad parts to the legacy we have inherited. The key is to
move forward from here. For some, taking a closer look at the legacy they've been
given helps them assess the legacy they want to pass on. After considering your
past, here are some practical tips for the future:
You probably have things you received that are wonderful and need to be
kept and passed on. Other things may need to be thrown out. Or, perhaps you have
a weak legacy that needs strengthening.
Whatever you received, you can now intentionally pass along the good. This
isn't always easy. If you saw hypocrisy in your parents' lives, you may be tempted
to throw everything out even though much of what your parents modelled was good.
Don't. That would be like burning down the house to get rid of some bugs.
Realize that there is a being who can redeem even the "bad stuff" in your
legacy.
Unfortunately many of us have parts of our legacy that are weak or even
awful. Maybe one of your parents was an alcoholic or abusive or didn't provide the
nurturing you needed. In today's society, the stories of such families are common.
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You may be asking, "How do I give something I didn't receive? Nobody modelled this
stuff for me."
Hope is not lost. Consider the story of Josiah from the Old Testament in the
Bible. His father and grandfather were involved in many wicked things, including
idol worship that threatened the entire nation. But after 8-year-old Josiah became
king of Judah, he reversed that trend. He sought God and purged Judah of idols,
repaired the temple and saved a nation.
Like Josiah, you can choose which things in your legacy are no good and
throw them away. It's important to break the cycle of hurt by leaving bad things
behind and creating a new legacy. Legacies are not easily broken and always
benefit from His guidance.
Chart a new course as you begin a positive legacy for yourself and those you
love. Research suggests that most fathers will parent the way they were parented.
That means only a minority of fathers will change their parenting style — even if
their parenting is wrong! Today, you can take positive steps to design a new
heritage for yourself and your family
What’s More
Independent Activity 1
Prepare a plan on how to make your family members firmer and gentler with
each other. Below is the format to be use. Use another sheet of paper.
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Independent Assessment 1
Direction: Read the questions below and arrange the scrambled word to reveal the
answer. Write what you got on a separate sheet of paper.
_______1. What key building blocks of children’s social legacy begin with themselves
and working out with other people? ( ECTPSER)
_______2. The one that should always responsible for the transmission of family
legacy. ( SRPNTAE )
_______4. What family legacy should be passing to the next generations? (OPISEVTI)
_______5. Which family legacy should we have in order to prosper the needs of our
children to endure and nurtured the sense of security and stability into a
safety and loved environment? (LONAITEMO ELCYAG)
_______6. What family legacy should our children learn more than management
techniques, accounting, reading, writing and geometry? (ALTUPIRITS
CYLEAG)
_______7. Which family legacy is overlooked by many but we should adopt the
attitudes and beliefs about spiritual matters from one source or another?
(PSRIIAULT GLEYCA)
_______8. Which family legacy should children prosper and need to learn in order to
gain insights and socials skills necessary to cultivate healthy, stable
relationships? ( LOIACS GLEYCA )
_______10. What is this one thing in common that we have no matter who we are,
where we live, or what our goals may be? (EHERAGTI)
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What I Have Learned
What I Can Do
JOURNAL: Answer the following question and write it on another sheet of paper
composing with only 5 sentences
Based on what you have learned in this module. How do you plan to give a
legacy when you start your own family in the future?
_____________________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________
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Assessment
Direction: Read the questions carefully and choose the correct answer. Write your
answers on a separate sheet of paper.
1. What emotional legacy hinders our ability to cope with inevitable struggles of life?
a. Positive legacy
b. Negative legacy
c. Uncertain legacy
d. Irrelevant legacy
2. Who should always responsible for the transmission of family legacy?
a. Children
b. Parents
c. Friends
d. Neighbours
3. What is this legacy that is like a three-stranded cord?
a. Physical, Social, Mental
b. Social, Emotional, Spiritual
c. Psychological, Mental, Emotional
d. Mental, Physical, Spiritual
4. Which family legacy should we have in order to prosper the needs of our
children to endure and nurtured the sense of security and stability into a safety
and loved environment?
a. Spiritual legacy
b. Emotional legacy
c. Psychological legacy
d. Social legacy
5. What family legacy should our children learn more than management
techniques, accounting, reading, writing and geometry?
a. Spiritual legacy
b. Emotional legacy
c. Psychological legacy
d. Social legacy
6. What is this one thing in common that we have no matter who we are, where we
live, or what our goals may be?
a. Heritage
b. Wealth
c. Values
d. Money
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7. Which family legacy is overlooked by many but we should adopt the attitudes
and beliefs about spiritual matters from one source or another?
a. Spiritual legacy
b. Social legacy
c. Emotional legacy
d. Psychological legacy
8. Which family legacy should children prosper and need to learn in order to gain
insights and socials skills necessary to cultivate healthy, stable relationships?
a. Spiritual legacy
b. Social legacy
c. Emotional legacy
d. Psychological legacy
9. It is an exchange between two or more individuals and is a building block of
society?
a. Social life
b. Social media
c. Social interaction
d. Social attention
10. What key building blocks of children’s social legacy begin with themselves and
working out with other people?
a. Responsibility
b. Unconditional love
c. Respect
d. Rules
11. What key building blocks of children’s social legacy should be set concerning
how to relate to God, authority, peers, the environment and siblings?
a. Social interactions
b. Responsibility
c. Respect
d. Social boundaries
12. Who should be the primary responsible for the spiritual upbringing?
a. Parents
b. Friends
c. Teachers
d. Classmates
13. What institution of the society is there to support parents in raising their
children spiritually but it cannot do the raising; only parents can?
a. Market
b. Church
c. School
d. Government
14. What do we need to require in developing a sense of emotional wholeness?
a. Space and time
b. Time and consistency
c. Effort and time
d. Time and love
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15.What family legacy should be passing to the next generations?
a. Positive
b. Negative
c. Spiritual
d. Physical
Additional Activities
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What i know Assessment Whats In Independent Assessment 1
1. b 1. b Family 1. Respect
2. a 2. b Legacy 2. Parents
3. b 3. b Respect 3. Time and Consistency
4. a 4. b Friend 4. Positive
5. b 5. a Structure 5. Emotional Legacy
6. a 6. a Love 6. Spiritual Legacy
7. c 7. a Social 7. Spiritual Legacy
8. b 8. b Emotion 8. Social Legacy
9. c 9. c 9. Social Interaction
10. c 10. c 10. Heritage
11. d 11. d
12. b 12. a
13. b 13. b
14. b 14. b
15. b 15. A
Answer Key
References
J. Otis Ledbetter and Kurt, Bruner. From Your Heritage,
Retrieved from :https://www.safamily.co.za/bait_of_satan/
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