I am a nice friendly lady who like meeting new people who share

  similar interests. The more two people think the same the better the

  match.

  My name is sandra smith  . I was born in wiscousin, on  june 4, 1981.

  I have lived in Virginia Beach since I was four. I am the only

  daughter of the family and i struggle to survive on my own . I got a

  brand new Escalade jeep when I turned 22 . I have always been a very

  active person. I cheered for six years, danced for five, before i got

  into catering job .I have a daughter  (Isabella) of 4 years old living

   good with me.i have been single for about 2years and i never find a

  true relationship after  i got seperated with the father of my

  daugther. I met him when i was in school and i do care for him alot

  and later things went well for us not till after we live together as a

  couples before i knew they type of Guy he was.

  I have been hurt alot in past and even i dont like to remember this

  silly story but i like to tell you part if it because i am seeing you

  as a caring and truthful fellow to talk to .

  I got a catering contract in Germany for about 6months and i left

  there to work not just to be lazy.After i got work done i was payed

  about 100,000USD i never knew this wiill happen and i sent him

  70,000USD to get new house for us and we start a good business

  together ..I did not tell him yet when i was comming home yet just

  because i have been hearing ssome rumors about him .My flight arrived

  at night that day and i have to wait till morning before i get home

  and on my getting home i caught him Red handed with my Friend Mary the

  same apartment we rented having sex and i fainted spent about 3days at

  hospital before i wake up and after then Our relationship not working

  out well again .so we have to put a stop

  can you tell me little about you as well and your relationship ?

  I lost my father in a fatal accident july 26th 2008 and that has been

  a bad day for me..sad sad sad remembering this and after this me and

  my mother struggle hard to survive because my mum had cancer for about

  14years i lost her as well february 9th 2012.i know what cause her

  death was becaus of my late Father family they treating us alot

  because they want all Dad properties from us and my mum said no they

  can only get part of it not all.

  well I will say my Father was the Best man i have ever Loved he is so

  caring,loving,Godfearing,respectful and responsible father but i

  trusted and Believe in God and I know God is Doing is Things In his

  Own way. i have learn To be a Strong woman have hard working.as well

  as my mum.

  What do you do for living ?

  what do you do for fun?

  how do you find it easy to live alone with no woman with you ,who did

  cooking and home cleaning

  For me i have not been finding it easy again now to live alone because

  i like to see someone i love beside me and share feelings and talk to

  ..you know what i mean..

  I enjoy exercising daily which either involves weight training or

  aerobics. I think it is important to exercise and eating very healthy

  meals. I love to go out dancing, to nice romatic dinners and shopping

  at large malls like the Mall of America. I enjoy romantic music and

  slow dancing as well an fast dancing. I prefer romantic, attractive,

  affectionate men. I believe that romance is a very important part of

  the relionship. I enjoy men who are confident with themselves and are

  not afraid to express themselves in a diplomatic way.

  I think it is very important that two people want the same thing in a

  relationship. I believe that this should be discussed and communicated

  clearly when two people first meet. I do not believe in wasting my

  time or the other persons time because life is too short.. I believe

  each person should be allowed to be who they are and to be free to

  give their best for each others mutual benefit. I do not like

  controlling men who do not communicate well and have agendas or

  excessive previous baggage. I like men who I can have a good

  conversation with and we can communicate in a mutually benefitial way.

  ....

  I like men who are interested in exercise and physical fitness. I like

  men who read to improve themselves and find value in self help books.

  I also like men who are either spiritual but not necessary religious.

  I also enjoy attending a good church that leaves you feeling better

  about yourself when you leave..

  I have been on lots dating site but i dont think i will ever do that

  again i met a guy from Netherland never know he only want my money

  after he told me lot lies and later i sent him money to come here also

  he told me want to get new truck that i should send him some money to

  add up and promise to send back to me in some weeks and after i did

  that his not talking to me again even am still in debt here trying to
  get loan payed because i have to get loan for him because of the love

  i have for him..

  I have been in serious problem here with still with late Dad because

  his family still want to get all from me ..since i dont have anyone

  again to help ..

  What do you like to meet in a woman ?

  what do you seek in a realtionship ?

  are you willing to have another woman if you find any good one ?

  i dont even want to get married again or go into any relationship

  because i dont think there is anyone real again to help all just want

  money and sex no one ready for a serious relationship..

  Are you a christian ?

  do you believe in God ?

  How often do you go to church?

  what do you like doing at leisure time?

  I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners.

  I enjoy movies, television, music, traveling, the desert, the

  quietness of the mountains, the ocean, sunrises and sunsets.I am a

  very outgoing person, who loves to dine out travel and enjoy the

  simple life. Im a hopeless romantic and very affectionate. I have a

  good sense of humor and I like to make you laugh.I like to chill out

  with a good book or watch and movie and its even more fun when you

  have a special someone to do this with. Im very easy to get a long

  with and a very good listener.. I love To share My Time with People I

  Love and care..

  what i hope to find in a man

  I am looking for a special, loving relationship with a unique Man who

  is affectionate, Handsome, with a shapely figure, sincere, easygoing,

  with interests and characteristics similar to mine...someone who wants

  a meaningful, serious, long-term relationship...not just a few dates.

  Are you that special Man?

  I am looking for someone who has a great sense of humor and big heart,

  is curious about new things that would like to share new experiences

  or old habits.

  I am looking for someone who believes that a true intimate partner

  looks out for the other and vice versa. While navigating life

  together, we are caring and concerned for each other's well-being

  because we make each other so happy and we love each other very

  much.But i dont think anyone again can make this happen again for real

  I got something to tell you but i am scared if you truely honest with

  me not like others i meet here ..please are you safe there talking to

  me or i wait till maybe we meet for real because i think that is the

  best way to discuss private issue.

  Dont worry i will tell you about this later am scared ..

  ok wait am telling you now

  PLEASE DONT LET ANYONE KNOW THIS IF YOU CAN PROMISE ME I WILL TELL

  My father had some investment in Nijeria me and mum only knows about

  this and he told not to tell anyone about this because its meant for

  me when i get married so i can have a good living with my family just

  because the love he have for me not knowing death will take him young

  so sad cryiing here...

  Already his family sold all he has even 6 acres of land he has in

  florida including his properties even house all they knows about and

  they did not give us a penny out of this.The thinking take away the

  life of my mum

  So you can see i have been struggling hard to survive

  wish i can find a man that will make me and and my daughter happy and

  forget all this past

  He got a lawyer there that has all documents and details how am going

  to get all is investment out for me and i tried to talk to him but all

  is say is NO because My dad told him before is death he should only

  claim all this for me after am fully married with my mariage

  certifaicate and others so i can make something out of this

  That heartless Guy i meet from netherland already get out of this we

  plan to talk to lawyer with fake certificate and we claim to be

  married together if not God that safe me he will have get all and run
  away.

  i just need to trust you more and think maybe we plan for meeting and

  know each other better and know if things will work out for us i dont

  just want to get hurt again please ..

  How sure am i if you truely ready for a good relationship not like others

  i just need someone that will help me out get this even just a friend

  not relationship and i will give him some of it ..I have tried all way

  to talk to lawyer to help me out between me and him but he said No he

  want good for me as the promise he make to my father before is death..

  if you will help me out i can talk to him and you also talk to him as

  husband and wife we just have dont let him know we live far away

  ..just please you have to be truthful with me ..

  after i talk to him i give you his contact or email so you can talk to

  him please be honest with me and dont let anyone to know about this

  just because of Dad family they may try to get this again..Thanks for

  the honest and caring..