You Deserve What You Desire

YOU SEE, IN EVERY MOMENT, YOU HAVE A CHOICE. TO EITHER HONOR THE PART
OF YOU THAT CRAVES SOMETHING MORE OR TO CONTINUE SQUEEZING INTO A
ROLE THAT DOESN’T FILL YOU’RE CUP.

For most of my life, I didn’t know I had this choice. After all I got married at the age of
19. Although it felt painful at times, I believed that I had to try my hardest to
“measure up” to the cultural rules set before me:

To be a good Indian girl by marrying and having children, instead of pursuing higher
studies

To be a submissive and obedient housewife who rolled a perfect chapatti, instead of

a woman who had an exciting and abundant career

And to always attend to the desires of my husband, family, and friends before even
considering my own

For my entire life, I lived in fear of disappointing others, and I believed there was
something wrong with me in the moments I failed to meet their wishes. I battled with
the part of myself that wanted to do things differently and carve my own path. I had
dreams of climbing Mount Everest, enjoying in Spain, and seeing the Eiffel Tower in
Paris.

Instead,

In 2004, I made some not-so-smart decisions and found myself drowning in anger,
fear, depression and resentment, facing multiple autoimmune dis-ease and the
possibility of being mentally ill.

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After first spinning my wheels in confusion, self-sabotage, and general “I-have-no-

idea-what-I’m-doing-with-my-life”-ness, I decided enough was enough and I was
going to get my act together.

The only problem was I didn’t know how.

So shortly after all the “stuff” hit the fan in 2009, I ended up going to my son's school
where I met a counselor who introduced me to the book, “You Can Heal Your Life”.

While I thought the book was kind of wonky at times (it does get a little weird in
parts, I’m not gonna lie), there was one part of the book that stopped me dead in my
tracks. In a passage in the a chapter, author Louise hay, outlines exact steps one
needs to take in order to “heal their life”.

Every week or so, I humbly started practicing them

And after 3 grueling years, I got rid of a toxic relationship, all of my health issues,
established multiple 6 figure businesses, got in shape, bought a house, got my
dream car, and even got married to the most amazing man who supports and loves
me totally.

Impressed by my transformation, more people began to flock to me, looking for

advice on how I was able to…well, “heal my life”!

I LOVE helping individuals reach their personal and professional goals!

“That’s why I created… This Book, this book is all about what I did to make my life
happier and better.

I wish the same for you and I hope this helps you find the same happiness that it did
for me.

To Your Happiness…

Nneihaa Vvikas

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Deserve-ability
Sometimes, we refuse to put any effort into creating a good life for ourselves because we
believe that we don't deserve it. The belief that we are not deserving may come from our
early childhood experiences. Maybe the belief came from our early toilet training. Perhaps
we were told that we could not have what we wanted if we did not eat all of our food, clean
our room, or put our toys away. We could be buying into another person's concept or opinion
that has nothing to do with our own reality,
Deserving has nothing to do with having good. It is our unwillingness to accept that gets in
the way. Allow yourself to accept good, whether you think you deserve it or not.

So Let’s Begin…!!!

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EXERCISE: Deserve-ability
Answer the following questions as best you can. They will help you
understand the power of deserve-ability.

1. What do you want that you are not having?

Be clear and specific about it.

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2. What were the laws/rules in your home about deserving?

What did they tell you? "You don't deserve." Or "You deserve a good smack.”
Did your parents feel deserving? Did you always have to earn in order to
deserve? Did earning work for you? Were things taken away from you when
you did something wrong?

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3. Do you feel that you deserve?

What is the image that comes up? "Later, when I earn it?" "I have to work for it
first." Are you good enough? Will you ever be good enough?

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4. Do you deserve to live?

Why? Why not? Did they ever tell you, "You deserve to die"? If so, was this part
of your religious upbringing

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5. What do you have to live for?

What is the purpose in your life? What meaning have you created?

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6. What do you deserve?

"I deserve love and joy and all good." Or do you feel deep down that you deserve
nothing? Why? Where did the message come from? Are you willing to let it go? What
are you willing to put in its place? Remember, these are thoughts, and thoughts can
be changed.

You can see that personal power is affected by the way we perceive our
deserve-ability. Try this treatment. Put most simply, treatments are
positive statements made in any given situation to establish new thought
patterns, and dissolve old ones.

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DESERVE-ABILITY TREATMENT
I am deserving. I deserve all good. Not some, not a little bit, but all good.
I now move past all negative, restricting thoughts. I release and let go of
the limitations of my parents. I love them, and I go beyond them. I am
not their negative opinions, nor their limiting beliefs. I am not bound by
any of the fears or prejudices of the current society I live in. I no longer
identify with limitation of any kind.
In my mind, I have total freedom. I now move into a new space of
consciousness, where I am willing to see myself differently. I am willing to
create new thoughts about myself and about my life. My new thinking
becomes new experiences.
I now know and affirm that I am at one with the Prospering Power of the
Universe. As such, I now prosper in a number of ways. The totality of
possibilities lies before me. I deserve life, a good life. I deserve love, an
abundance of love. I deserve good health. I deserve to live comfortably
and to prosper. I deserve joy and happiness. I deserve freedom to be all
that I can be. I deserve! more than that. I deserve all good.
The Universe is more than willing to manifest my new beliefs. And I accept
this abundant life with joy, pleasure, and gratitude. For I am deserving. I
accept it; I know it to be true.

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About The Expert:

Nneihaa Vvikas is an international
transformational coach, for 'You Can Heal Your
Life' workshops and a business coach.
Nneihaa is passionate about helping men and
women worldwide to heal their lives and
relationships (with themselves and/or others),
flourish financially (in their career and/or
business) and being healthier in mind, body
and soul with fast, easy and effective applicable tools.
She did her training and certification in Australia and got her license from
the USA to globally present her work.
Finding her zone of genius by combining a strong metaphysical
background, which includes advanced healing modalities, with creative
vision, works at the intersection of mind and matter, giving her clients
everything from practical research-driven systems and strategies, to
creative original and intuitive solutions.
Apart from this in February 2019 Nneihaa won the title of Mrs. India
2019. She has been featured on zee TV for her exceptional life story and
has been fortunate enough to write articles in Hindustan times, DNA and
many more.

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