The document discusses how people can have different reactions to the same event based on their interpretation of it, rather than the event itself. It argues that one is disturbed not by what happens, but by one's own thoughts about what happens. As an example, it notes that people had varying reactions to 9/11 based on their own mindset. It stresses the importance of analyzing situations through the lens of scripture to avoid degrading reactions rooted in passion and ignorance. The document advocates for self-introspection to recognize when one acts wrongly without realizing it, due to a lack of humility and clarity.
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Forgiveness and the Need to Introspect - Part 1 Mahatma Das
The document discusses how people can have different reactions to the same event based on their interpretation of it, rather than the event itself. It argues that one is disturbed not by what happens, but by one's own thoughts about what happens. As an example, it notes that people had varying reactions to 9/11 based on their own mindset. It stresses the importance of analyzing situations through the lens of scripture to avoid degrading reactions rooted in passion and ignorance. The document advocates for self-introspection to recognize when one acts wrongly without realizing it, due to a lack of humility and clarity.
The document discusses how people can have different reactions to the same event based on their interpretation of it, rather than the event itself. It argues that one is disturbed not by what happens, but by one's own thoughts about what happens. As an example, it notes that people had varying reactions to 9/11 based on their own mindset. It stresses the importance of analyzing situations through the lens of scripture to avoid degrading reactions rooted in passion and ignorance. The document advocates for self-introspection to recognize when one acts wrongly without realizing it, due to a lack of humility and clarity.
00 important because i can i can guarantee you that 0:06 the behavior of one person could cause many different reactions in this audience right now 0:15 and i'll give you an example this is quite interesting 0:21 9 11 when it happened remember how you when you heard the news 0:26 how were you feeling were you angry were you depressed did you want to join the military and 0:33 fight terrorism were you screaming at um 0:39 people muslim people were you scream you know what was your reaction were you sympathetic to them did you understand 0:46 why they might have done this we all had different reactions to one event 0:53 right isn't that interesting so 0:58 we say i'm angry because of this but that's not actually 1:04 the reason you're angry that you're angry because you're angry 1:10 that's a profound statement right you're angry because you're angry 1:17 yeah and so levante brahman is saying 1:24 you're not disturbed by the event you're disturbed by your reaction to the event 1:30 and i'll explain this a little a little more deeply this is a very interesting point i didn't know this until about a 1:36 year ago um i i started discovering 1:42 that that material life i didn't discover that material life is traumatic just you know 1:48 taking birth is quite a trauma in and of itself and so life in general is a bit traumatic right 1:54 but some people go through very traumatic events like what's happening in ukraine 2:00 now uh war is very traumatic or 2:05 um uh sometimes we even find that parents reject their children 2:13 uh they say i don't want you i don't love you i don't like you or or the parents are alcoholics or 2:19 their fathers in and out of jail you know it's just these are traumatic events 2:25 and there's a story about a man who was in and out of he was 2:31 an alcoholic a criminal and in and out of jail and he had two sons 2:38 and one son ended up in jail just like his father and one son ended up the 2:43 total opposite he was very stable very responsible and materially quite 2:50 successful and so it was interesting to study these two people because 2:58 karmically they had the same karma they were twins they were born a minute apart 3:04 so the stars don't change that much in a minute i mean they could but generally not 3:10 so they had the same karma identical karma and 3:15 they were in exactly the same situation and they came out completely differently 3:21 and the interesting thing is when they were interviewed and asked why 3:26 did your life end up like this they both gave the same answer so now i have you bewildered 3:33 right i was like how how could they give the same answer and they ended up in the same situation and you know what 3:39 their answer is they say how did you end up in jail or how did you end up so successful they said my father because 3:46 of my father and so the guy in jail that makes sense well because you know his father didn't 3:51 take care of him he wasn't raised well that makes sense to us more than 3:57 the other one but the other one said well when i saw the way my father was living i decided i'd never want to be like that 4:05 so so it's not the situation it's the response to the situation that 4:11 affects us but later on i studied i i do a lot of counseling 4:17 not i didn't sign up for the job i just ended up doing it people come to me 4:22 and i started to see that many many many people devotees and non-devotees 4:29 are dealing with some kind of trauma in in their past that's affecting them now 4:34 uh everybody we're all like i said life is traumatic i mean prabhupad left us that was huge trauma 4:41 we became devotees our parents disowned us in some cases yeah we go through these traumas but some traumas affect us 4:47 more and one of the world experts on trauma 4:52 said the exact same thing you are not traumatized by the event you are traumatized by your interpretation 4:59 of the event how do you see it 5:04 interesting isn't it so 5:12 so we we of course are taught in krishna consciousness to see through the eye of shastra and so this verse is so 5:18 important for us because vanti brahman is saying it's it's your mind it's what your mind 5:25 is telling you that's happening your interpretation of it not necessarily 5:31 what happened is the cause but what you're telling yourself that happened is the cause you ever worry 5:38 about something and there's no need to worry about it 5:43 yeah but what if what if this happens it's like the possibility of that happen 5:48 happening is like infinitely impossible but sometimes the 5:53 minds but what if it happens and now we're worrying and i'm stressed out why well 6:00 what if you know what if the war comes to california it's not coming to california 6:06 at least not tomorrow don't worry about but what if it does you know 6:11 so we we as devotees are meant 6:18 to process information through shastra 6:25 so there are many ways to look at look at situations through shastra which would 6:31 cause us to not degrade ourselves with a reaction 6:36 that is entangling less in passion and ignorance a reaction more like the sadhu well this 6:42 is my reaction well it's my karma i deserve it what can i say or krishna's giving me when someone 6:50 criticizes you bhakti siddhanta says well now krsna's is helping you become humble 6:56 because we're all proud right so i need someone to criticize me once in a while 7:01 just to keep me humble that's how a devotee thinks otherwise when you're criticized you become angry you become 7:07 depressed you become discouraged you criticize back all behaviors which are contaminating 7:15 and not appropriate for a devotee correct 7:20 these are the yeah and and and i want to go back to this other point all behaviors that sometimes 7:27 we would justify on the basis i chant a good round today and went to mongolia 7:33 so i'm i'm a good devotee i'm a good here here's the problem sometimes we think i'm a good devotee 7:40 even when we're not a good devotee i'm getting angry at somebody i'm mistreating somebody but i chant a good 7:46 rounds today they're from a good devotee so because of the china good rounds i have the right to get angry 7:53 i have the right to chastise i have the right not to be forgiving it doesn't make any sense at all doesn't 7:59 it yeah and so take it one stage further because i'm a good devotee i have the 8:04 right to chop people's heads off who aren't devotees you know like it obviously it's not going to go there but 8:11 that's the thinking that gets people there for god 8:17 we do this even though it's the wrong thing so i'm just saying these things for your 8:25 contemplation of meditation in your own life 8:31 have you ever acted this way before any of you out of character 8:38 have you acted out of character like a devotee doesn't do this 8:44 i'll give you the answer the answer is yes all the time and if you think that's not the answer 8:50 you're really an illusion and you have a problem and we need to talk 8:56 because because of this i went to a mongol 9:01 articulation of my rounds i think i'm perfect that covers us so we can't see 9:07 we can't see when we're acting out of character 9:14 have you ever had that realization like after a day after a week after a month after 9:21 some devotees have it 30 years after i have a god brother who 30 years later came back to a temple 9:28 he managed and he went up to everyone he said please forgive me they said he they said what for he said 9:35 well were you here in this temple 30 years ago they said yeah he said i must have offended you 9:41 i didn't realize it at the time but now i realize i must have offended you 9:47 so sometimes we don't realize it while we're doing it and that's a huge problem 9:52 and the reason is because i'm a good devotee good devotees don't misbehave so when i 9:59 misbehave i don't notice it because i'm a good devotee that is a a serious problem 10:07 it's a it comes from a lack of introspection clarity humility 10:16 but we all need to be introspective maybe we can give you you as as as homework 10:22 this will be very depressing homework make a list of everything that you've done 10:28 that wasn't right that you didn't realize until i asked you to think about it that wasn't proper 10:37 hey contact you ever get mad at somebody that ever happened to you never get angry 10:44 very often unfortunately you're a bona fide human being oh my god 10:49 how did that happen i thought you were a devotee so 10:57 we all do it have you ever done it and not paid attention like that was wrong 11:03 like like justified it this is righteous anger and so forth we all do that that's 11:08 the problem because then we don't notice it i am justified in you know in some cases 11:16 maybe with your children because it will help them or the guru may do that with the disciple 11:22 because it will help them but i'm talking about in ordinary affairs 11:27 we often don't even notice because we think 11:34 i don't know what we think well though here's the point because we don't think that's that's the answer 11:40 we do it because we don't think and so um and i think also 11:46 the beauty of talking about forgiveness or compassion or integrity 11:51 or tolerance or any of these qualities is it sheds light on the point that we don't think about these things enough 11:57 because we think if i just do bhakti the qualities will come so why do i even have to think about it and yes i i 12:05 became angry today but i'm in the process and someday i won't be angry and 12:11 that's that is only fifty percent true we miss the other fifty percent 12:17 what's the other fifty percent okay fifty percent if you as preliminary 12:24 says all good qualities will develop if you have bhakti all right that's the 50 the other 50 is you have to act on those 12:31 good qualities so that they so that they empower your bhakti so that you get 12:36 enough bhakti that they will actually develop in reality 12:41 let me give a simple example if i say all good qualities will develop 12:48 when you have bhakti i could decide never to take a bath again 12:54 and when i become krishna conscious then i'll start taking bath again and you're all laughing to go that's the stupidest 12:59 thing i've ever heard how is that any different than saying well i don't have to be humble now it 13:04 was when i'm krishna conscious i'll be humble i don't have to control my my anger now because when i become 13:10 krishna conscious i'll have all good qualities so 13:15 here's a little mantra for you that i came up with that to explain this the path to forgiveness is paved with the 13:22 practice of forgiveness and you can you can change any word you 13:27 want the path to non-enviousness is paved with the practice of non-enviousness 13:35 prabhupada said this do you know 13:40 that prabhupad said if you are envious of someone you should serve them do you know he said that 13:46 like like that's the last person you want to serve 13:52 on your list of people to serve the people you're envious of are not on that list i don't think 13:58 they're on the list of people you'd like to like to disappear from the face of the earth 14:03 isn't it not the ones you want to serve why did prabhupad say if you're envious 14:10 you should serve them because it's a practice that will remove the envy if i'm envious 14:17 how long is going to take me to be krishna conscious a long time if i can practice being non-envious i'm going to 14:23 advance and one day i will actually become non-envious so the practice doesn't mean 14:29 i'm over it just means i'm practicing to be appreciative and supportive 14:36 and honor people i envy because it it purifies me and they didn't do anything wrong 14:43 why are we envious of someone because they did something right you know what prabhupad said you know 14:48 why you're envious of someone he said because they have what they are or they have what you want 14:55 to be or what you don't have so it's actually a form of glorification 15:02 like like if i listen to akanta give a class and and the class is amazing and i 15:08 think i'm so envious of her what does that mean i want to be able to give a class like that 15:13 i once had a devotee come up to me and said she's and i knew this devotee and after i gave class she said i'm envious 15:19 of you i was like what did i do he said no i want to be able to give 15:24 class like that so that was honest that was honest 15:29 so we are only envious of people we actually appreciate and so prophet saying just acknowledge it 15:36 and serve so a lot of devotees are caught in the second half of the equation that if you 15:43 engage in devotional service all the good qualities will develop but 15:48 practicing those qualities is engaging in devotional service be humble whoa 15:54 i'm not humble well at least practice it be respectful don't criticize appreciate 16:01 honor well what if i don't appreciate the person appreciate them anyway that's the 16:07 practice of humility otherwise what do you want to do you want to wait till you become humble well how are you going to 16:12 become humble if you don't respect people now did you ever think ask that yourself 16:18 that question no problem i just chat hari krishna will come but what kind of chanting are you 16:25 doing if you're offending devotees how is how is it going to come if your 16:30 chanting is not respectful of other devotees and all living entities 16:37 do you know in the bhagavatam second kanto 16:42 chapter i think it's three verse 24 the still friend heart prabhupad said shan hari 16:48 krishna and respect all living entities that's how you do it you don't just chant hurry christian you have to chant 16:55 or or prophet said chant and don't offend devotees right but no i'll just chant and someday 17:02 i'll stop offending devotees until then i'll probably offend all of you not a good plan 17:08 it's not going to work you will never chant a pure holy name if you're offending devotees so the 17:15 first half of the equation is i'm not humble but i'm going to practice it i'm going to appreciate 17:22 i'm going to appreciate you i'm going to serve you i'm going to respect you 17:31 even if i don't appreciate you and i don't respect you and i'm not going to 17:36 criticize you that's my practice of humility and my practice of envy i'm going to support 17:43 you even though i'm envious of you right and tolerance 17:49 tolerance in the condition state is a is a practice it's not something that necessarily 17:56 is easy to do or comes naturally right never get upset and someone say 18:01 just tolerate tolerate tolerance i can't tolerate it i can't practice it just calm down okay i'm going to go home i'm 18:08 going to calm down it's a practice but when you're talking us do you think 18:14 you have to practice tolerance you know he's being defamed 18:20 he doesn't care there's nothing to tolerate he's beyond it he's beyond duality he's transcendental 18:26 right so how are you going to get there tolerance is a sadhana forgiveness is a 18:33 sudden isn't it virtu practicing virtue is a sadhana in 18:41 our movement that's been in some places it's been swept under the 18:46 rug a bit it's it's you know in the name of service we kind of think well as if i get the 18:51 service done if i build this temple to distribute these books or or 18:57 make these devotees then i don't have to be humble or tolerant or forgiving because i'm a successful devotee that's 19:04 wrong i'm not minimizing those activities we should do those things 19:10 but don't think those are replacements for developing vaishnav equality now 19:16 um let's read a few more the mind should be trained to think of the welfare of 19:22 others so if the mind is trained to think of the welfare of others um it doesn't sound like 19:28 resentment does it sounds like forgiveness doesn't it okay you mistreat me but i'm going to think 19:35 of your welfare can you think of the well think of somebody who has mistreated you right now think 19:42 of somebody if you can't think of anybody i i doubt there's nobody 19:51 any mistreatment any little thing i know and now think of that person and think i have to 19:56 become their well-wisher i have to think of their welfare that's also your assignment for today 20:04 i would like you to think and bless and pray for someone who hurt you 20:09 that's that's what it means to be a devotee doesn't it to pray for those who hurt us that's 20:16 what it means so and if you come back and say oh i can't do that 20:23 make a note of that that's a problem so write that down as your homework also 20:30 think of someone who's hurt you and pray for them 20:35 think of someone you're envious of appreciate them 20:44 this could be the most amazing exercise you've ever done i've done it i've done it myself i've 20:50 had devotees do it it's very transforming 21:01 okay so i want to what time do we end class 21:13 how much more time do we have supposed to end at 7 15 but we started a 21:18 bit late so i mean you supposed to end in five minutes is that right 21:24 yeah okay so i want to find 21:31 um [Music] there's a quote by bhaktivinoda taco 21:37 and i am going to have to paraphrase it because i i didn't have time to find it 21:49 he kind of gives i'm i'm giving my own analogy but he's creating a kitri out of 21:54 bhakti like what goes in the if you have bhakti what goes in the kitchen okay we want to make a pot of bhakti 22:01 what goes in well you put in the beans of compassion and the rice of humility 22:08 that's what he said these are the two ingredients humility and compassion 22:15 that's what makes a bhakti isn't that interesting and wherever you see bhakti you'll see 22:21 these two qualities won't you it's not that you'll see 22:26 oh here's a great devotee but he's not compassionate or here here's a pure devotee but he's 22:31 really proud i don't you don't see that right so again we're saying 22:39 these are these are things which we have to practice to get bhakti but when you have bhakti they come 22:45 naturally it's a byproduct in in the full sense then he said something interesting 22:50 when you when you you know if any of you are chemists you take two chemicals you mix them together you get something else 22:57 to come out of it right like hydrogen oxygen h2o two molecules of 23:02 hydrogen one of oxygen then you get water but i think if you take 23:08 three molecules or two molecules of oxygen you get hydrogen peroxide i'm not i forget that was like 23:14 over 52 years ago that i was last seen in the university 23:19 but you know you change one molecule right you isn't it and then you get hydrogen peroxide or then you get 23:25 alcohol so he said plus i was sleeping in my classes anyway 23:31 i wasn't that interested so you take compassion and you take 23:38 humility you mix it up in your chemical laboratory and he said 23:43 forgiveness comes out of it that's what you get so he said bhakti is made of 23:48 compassion it's made of humility and forgiveness that's the kitry of bhakti isn't that interesting 23:56 that that's like a real eye-opener like what does forgiveness have to do with anything and bhaktivinoda talk we're saying it's the kitri so i want to read 24:03 something he said 24:10 [Music] i just had it and lost it 24:17 this is what he said who am i to inflict punishment in the form of revenge upon others when this 24:24 attitude combines with compassion forgiveness begins to sprout so 24:29 we have two or three minutes bhaktivinoda takora said 24:36 in this context compassion means i don't want to see people suffer in this context humility means i don't 24:43 want to see them suffer on my account so like i don't want to see you suffer what to speak of suffer because you hurt me 24:50 and i'm going to take revenge so he said this compassion i don't want to see people suffer the humility nobody 24:57 should suffer in my account produces forgiveness that's the consciousness of a vaishnava 25:04 on a scale of one to ten grade yourself on that how much of that consciousness you have ten being you 25:11 have it fully and one being you have it you don't have it at all that's also your homework 25:16 [Laughter] you all might kind of get depressed tonight right from this homework 25:27 okay so we have three minutes if if anyone has a question 25:34 um you can ask a question i don't know people are watching on youtube if someone is monitoring that they can ask 25:41 a question am i supposed to be here tomorrow same 25:47 time same station or another day to give the second part i forgot 25:52 friday my am i giving class tomorrow with you 26:01 anyway you can send me an email yeah okay question put last time is that from you 26:06 yes very creative another problem in regards to what shiloh prophet often 26:12 said about people who are trying to cheat you and therefore cheating a person is a sin 26:20 but even being cheated is a sin too how'd you go around that one 26:26 yeah okay i'm glad you asked that question um i've been teaching forgiveness for about 20 years so i had to you know figure 26:32 this one out in my own head and what i realized was that 26:38 for a devotee whatever we do our heart has to be in the same place 26:43 so you're cheating me to defend my interest to defend krsna's interest i 26:49 have to deal with you because i say okay the lost is a cheater he's going to say he loves me but he just wants to get his 26:56 hand in my wallet and pull my so i'm not bringing my wallet when i go to his house i'm just going to eat his 27:02 prasada when he invites me over so in other words 27:08 i i want to maintain my humility my compassion my forgiveness and so forth 27:14 but i may have to act in a way that doesn't look like it just as arjuna you know he was just 27:20 doing his bhakti it didn't look like it to the average person it looked like he looked like he was 27:25 killing people why did it look like he was killing people because he was but what was going on inside 27:32 he couldn't kill until his bhakti matured which is interesting right 27:37 so okay so palasta has managed to while i 27:42 was at at at his house he he went to my house and got my wallet all right so now 27:48 we have to do something so like and i'm afraid palazzo's going to steal everyone's wallet so 27:54 i get a court order and now he's in jail and everybody's happy because he can't steal any wallet i don't hate him i 28:00 don't have any revenge i just did it to protect devotees and for his own good so he stopped stealing so my heart doesn't 28:07 change because in bhakti it's all about why are you doing something more than what you're doing so you can 28:13 do a bad thing with the right motive or you can do a good thing with the wrong motive i'm going to give a fantastic 28:18 class why because i want you all to think i'm great wrong motive right i'm going to put you in prison why 28:25 you're a devotee you can't do that well you need it it'll be good for you but it's not because i hate you 28:31 so if we separate those two then it's easy i just practically this is what i have 28:37 to do but the condition i'm not going to take you to jail because i hate you i'm going to take you to jail because i 28:43 think this is good for you and good for everybody else okay excuse the fact that we had to use you as an example 28:50 i don't for a minute believe that you are a thief or a bad person so but i just 28:57 you asked the question so i i chose you yeah um and and the other thing is 29:04 when you forgive you're not condoning what a person did some people think well if i forgive 29:09 they're going to do it again i'm going to steal my wallet again you don't have to condone you can create boundaries with people it doesn't it's 29:16 not always a tool for a relationship because if you tried to kill me i really don't want a relationship with you 29:21 because you could do it again but i can forgive you because i don't want to go to my grave holding on to resentment and have to come back and 29:27 take birth again to purify myself so like 29:33 um when we have to forgive another devotee i mean we take the humble position but at the 29:39 same time could we approach that person and ask why did you do it 29:45 you're forgiving the person understanding why if it helps you but it shouldn't be based on understanding it because then 29:51 you if you don't think his reason is good he won't forgive him you know it's like i give the example i 29:58 say i have some keys i give them to you and these keys represent 30:03 my forgiveness and why did i give them to you because i want you to apologize to me and you're thinking i didn't do 30:09 anything wrong i'm not going to apologize or why did i do it i don't know why i did it i'm crazy and so 30:14 you're holding on to the keys and i can't forgive you because i made a condition right 30:20 so that's not smart and and but besides that as devotees we're supposed to learn 30:25 um you know the mood of nitananda forgiveness the prophet said nitananda's forgiveness is unlimited 30:32 he lost the disciple the disciple went way off the deep end and they were trying to bring the disciple back and 30:38 the devotees gave up and prophet said don't give up you you don't understand nitana prabhu's forgiveness is unlimited 30:46 so you know these things are not talked a lot about we talk about them a little bit but when 30:53 you actually get into them you start to see that these are qualities that are very very very 31:01 difficult yet important for our hearts because that's you know you can't you 31:06 can't love krishna and hate everybody else it doesn't work that way 31:12 how i'm dealing with this way affects this relationship this relationship whoops this relationship is 31:19 affected by these relationships and and the reality is this relationship 31:26 with the krishna doesn't get better if this is going down this automatically when this is better 31:33 this is better they go together right and sometimes we you know we have to realize that not just with devotees with 31:40 all all living entities 31:45 and if the relationships get better this goes up or or if this goes up this goes 31:51 up they work together thank you 31:56 you're welcome i'm glad you asked that question because that's very important and confusing 32:03 for many and our hearts should be pure we deal with externals as necessary you 32:09 know like sometimes there's a divorce right but you'll say well we're still friends 32:15 so it wasn't a you know a violent divorce it was just you know it didn't work 32:20 and you know we have problems with one another but we we're devotees so we want to 32:26 maintain good relationships with everyone you know we didn't get along i was a temple president you didn't like 32:33 me but we want to maintain respect you know i'll share with you one thing 32:40 i've been teaching lately a lot about joppa and especially in relation to mahaprabhu 32:45 and i don't think we realize how much our japan is affected by our relationships 32:52 because i will find many devotees are different from me you will find many devotees 32:59 different from you and sometimes we tend not to agree with people or like people 33:04 who don't agree with us have you ever noticed that you like the people that agree with you more than the ones who don't 33:12 so there was people don't agree with us sometimes we say i can't understand why 33:17 they think this way like why would they want women to be gurus i can't understand that i can't understand why 33:24 wouldn't they want women to be gross it doesn't make any sense to me so whatever makes sense to me if it doesn't make 33:30 sense to you i think there's something wrong with your head you got you know it's screwed on backwards or something 33:35 and so it's very easy in that situation 33:41 to become critical or offensive many devotees i'm just going to throw 33:46 this out and this sounds like a criticism it's just trying to be objective many devotees 33:52 who are critical are not able to chant their rounds properly because of that and you might 33:58 know some of them and you might want to as a friend say how are your rounds doing 34:03 and they say oh i can't hardly finish my rounds i said maybe maybe 34:09 you shouldn't be thinking about vaccinations or anti-vaxx and all the bad things that are all the bad people 34:15 who got vaccinated or all the stupid people who didn't and you know whatever maybe you should think about 34:21 respecting devotees your joppa will be affected by it there are many devotees who say you know 34:26 my rounds have been bad for 10 years like maybe it has to do with your relationships but 34:32 you know it's interesting just i'll leave you with that thought that could be another homework 34:37 assignment you know how many divorce devotees did i offend yesterday how many in the last week 34:44 how many in the last month oh prabhu my my calculator doesn't have 34:49 enough zeros to calculate that oh that's so that homework assignment 34:57 will take me four weeks to finish you know there's too many people on the list anyway 35:03 so um thank you for listening i hope there's some help i just wanted to emphasize it 35:09 is part of our philosophy and it's a part that sometimes we 35:14 we see it in our books but we don't pay attention to it because it's not like always in the forefront of our lives 35:20 more service is more in the forefront okay we're going to go and i have a meeting in a few minutes also so 35:28 eating sleeping meeting and defending yeah that's what happens 35:33 sometimes okay krishna thank you you're welcome thank you very much 35:41 vih and kj do you know i used to be part of the vig in 1997 i was co-director 35:48 yeah those were the good old days okay hari krishna chai prabhupada English (auto-generated)