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Emotional Intelligence:
The Key to Personal and Professional Excellence!
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About Us
EmpathyWorks Psychological Wellness is committed to promoting psychological
wellness of individuals. We believe that each person has an inherent unique value,
and is worthy of being regarded with compassion, authenticity, respect and empathy.
related workshops and talks for schools, companies, social organizations and other
Empathy – the ability to share and understand another person's feelings and emotions
Our Services
Contact Information
✓ Counselling support (individual or small
Joy Hou
group therapy)
Founder/ Principal Psychologist • Depression
• Anxiety
Mobile: +65 96182788 • Emotional management (eg anger,
stress)
Email: joy@empathyworks.sg • Self-esteem issues
✓ Talks/ workshops on mental wellness
(for schools, corporate and community
organizations)
✓ Parenting talks/ workshops
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About Our Founder/ Principal Psychologist
Joy Hou
MA (AppPsych) (NTU-NIE)
BSc (Psychology) (University of Southern Queensland)
BSc with Dip Ed (NTU-NIE)
Registered Psychologist (Singapore), Full Member (S’pore Psychological
Society) Principal Psychologist/ Founder, EmpathyWorks Psychological
Wellness
Associate Trainer, Performance Leadership
Associate Trainer, Fullerton Healthcare
Joy holds a Master of Arts (Applied Psychology) from NTU and had been
conferred a Bachelor of Science with Diploma in Education from NIE, NTU. She
also has a Bachelor of Science (Psychology) from the University of Southern
Queensland, where she received the Dean’s Commendation for Outstanding
Achievement. A Certified Behavioural Consultant in the DISC profiling system,
Joy has also attained an NLP Practitioner Certification from the American
Board of Neuro-Linguistic Programming.
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Emotional Intelligence: The Key to Personal and Professional Excellence!
Emotional Intelligence (EI), a set of skills that help us perceive, understand and
manage emotion, is a strong predictor of the level of success one can achieve
in life. Studies have shown that an individual’s EI, instead of IQ, is a better
indicator of success, mental and physical wellness, attainment of personal goals,
as well as overall happiness.
Reflection
• How are you feeling currently? (on a scale of 0-10, rate the intensity of this
emotion) What makes you feel this way?
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2. Self -Regulation – the ability to control or redirect disruptive impulses and
moods, and the propensity to suspend judgment and to think before acting.
- Anxiety
- Sadness
- Disappointment
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3. Motivation – includes our personal drive to improve and achieve,
commitment to our goals, initiative, or readiness to act on opportunities, and
optimism and resilience.
Reflection
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Don’t say Do Say
Reflection
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5. Social Skills – encompasses a wide range of relationship and interpersonal
skills. These range from leadership through to influencing and persuading,
and managing conflict, as well as working in a team.
• On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate your current social skills in
general?
- Trust
- Respect
- Honesty
- Kindness
- Empathy
- Appreciation
- Communication
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Communication
- Open posture
- Appropriate distance
- Eye contact
- Relaxed
- Smile!
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Listening actively
o Give our full attention to the person (eye contact, nodding, open
posture), observe the person’s body language, tone, and words.
o Clarify - Eg “I’m not sure that I understand. Can you tell me some more
about that?”
o Paraphrase - Eg “So what you are saying is…….Have I got that right?”
o Reflect feelings - Eg “It sounds like you are feeling very disappointed
about this…. “
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Active Listening Skills
Closed questions Can be answered easily with a “Which day did this happen?”
“yes” or “no” or a short phrase.
“Are you ready to stop this habit?”
Paraphrasing Use your own words to explain “What I’m hearing is…… is that
your understanding of what the correct?”
person is saying,
“It sounds like….”
Use slightly different words that
have the same meaning. “I hear your saying……”
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Languages of Appreciation
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□ Languages of Appreciation (how can you show these languages of
appreciation at work or at home?)
➢ Words of affirmation
➢ Gifts
➢ Quality time
➢ Acts of service
➢ Appropriate touch
Recommended Books
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If you have signs of distress that do not decrease over time, do seek professional help or
advice.
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