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Fajer Al-kaabi
ASCC 289
12 August 2022
It all started that day when my father told me that my grandfather had passed away. I was
shocked; I never expected one day to hear about the death of someone who I love and lose him
forever. I wasn't ready for that; I wanted someone to wake me up from this nightmare. For a
second, I was paralyzed; I began to feel scorching hot, my heartbeat began to slow down, and my
warm tears started to fall involuntary. I tried to stop them by avoiding eye contact with my father
and looking upward and downward, but I couldn't. I stood up and tried to walk far away from my
father so he doesn't see me cry for the first time. It was hard for me to walk to my room as if I
was walking in quicksand. I don't know how long it took to arrive at my room. As soon as I
The next day I woke up with bloodshot and puffy eyes. I dressed in black and went to my
grandparent's house for the funeral. On my way to my grandparent's house, I was thinking about
what I was supposed to do. I don't know what I should do or say; it's the first time for me to
attend a relative's funeral, someone I know close. When I arrived at the funeral house, the
atmosphere was gloomy, seeing red eyes and noses. Hearing women's wailing and their
condolences to the family of the deceased. I went to my grandmother to say: "May God reward
you, may God have mercy on him and forgive him and dwells in his spacious heaven." After
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that, my grandmother hugged me tightly and started to cry, and I cried with her. My mother took
my sister and me to my grandfather's room where we should see him for the last time and say
goodbye before burying him. I entered the room and saw a stretcher where my grandfather lay; I
went toward him and opened the cloth from his face to kiss him on his forehead. He was cold,
his face was pale, and gauze was stuffed in his nose and ears. I felt that I couldn't bear to see him
anymore and I was going to cry, so I kissed him and immediately went to the room to cry alone.
I took a week off from school as well as my siblings so we could attend the funeral. On
the first day of the funeral, I ate my breakfast and went to my grandfather's house, where the
funeral was set up. I went first to see my grandmother, as always, to see if she was okay and how
she was doing. Afterward, I sat with my aunties and their relatives who attended the funeral.
Then my mother told me to return home; the end of term one exams was close, and I needed to
study hard for my last year of high school. I told her I wanted to stay for the funeral, but she
refused and said no, so I was forced to return home early and study with my twins. I returned
home and didn't have the potential and ability to study anything, my twins and I shared the same
feelings. The following two days went the same way, as I was forced to return home early from
the funeral to study. Clearly my parents were worried about us the three triplets and our studies,
but meanwhile they remained silent for most of the time since they were very busy with the
grandmother, who was still in pain. Every day, she wakes up and remembers her husband, who
left our world and went to a better place. It's weird; when someone loses who they love they
think their pain will not subside and they won’t be able to live anymore. whereas, the pain
reduces overtime and it just becomes a memory. After a week of absence, I finally returned back
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to school. When I arrived in class, everyone asked me why I was absent for one week, including
the teachers, and I explained why. I held myself very tight and hid the tears that were showing
from time to time between my eyes whenever I remembered my grandfather. Days passed, and I
didn't want to attend school, so I told my parents, and they understood my situation, but they told
me that I needed to study at home if I'm not attending school, and I accepted. The end of term
one exams was near. I had two weeks and a half to study for eight subjects, but there was one
problem. The problem was I didn't have the energy and ability to study, but I forced myself to do
so.
For the last two weeks and a half, I studied for all eight subjects but without putting all
my effort and energy into it. My parents were worried about me. They saw that I wasn't handling
it well, nor was I studying enough for my exams. They took me aside and asked if I was alright
and doing fine, and I said yes. I could feel them not being convinced, but they ended the
conversation for the sake of not stressing me. After a while, we finished our exams, the results
came out and it was impressive, so were my twins' results. Both of them were ahead of me by a
few percentages which made my father question me. He took me aside and talked to me. He said:
"are you okay? Are you sad?" I answered:" no, why should I be sad?" I told him: "no, I'm happy
my grades are good, although I didn't study well." Afterward, my father told me I needed to
study harder for the next term, so I promised him I would do that. He then told me about his
inspiring story of his education life in America. He graduated from a government school in
Qatar, and he only knew two words in English which were 'yes' and 'no,' because he had the
potential and desire to study, he made it. He took courses in English to improve his language and
studied electrical and communication engineering, and now he has a bachelor's degree in
electrical and communication engineering. He also told me that there were few of his friends
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who didn't complete their education because they didn't have the desire to study and know they
are still searching for work. And his last sentence was: "don't forget your degree is your
weapon."
This sentence brought me back to life; it motivated me to put more effort into my studies
and study harder than I did in the first term. In the last term, I focused more on my studies,
worked hard and went to my exams with all my confidence. When the results were out, I was
very nervous to see my grades. Bad thoughts came to my mind while waiting for the results. But
when I saw the results, I cried involuntarily, also known as tears of happiness. My brother's
grades and I were impressive. It was not just remarkable. It was outstanding. And now, I'm
studying at Hamad Bin Khalifa University, majoring in computer engineering. So I want to thank