Approach Blueprint   
This is the blueprint for approaching single or couple women during the day [Grocery store, Cafe].
Watch the ​complete video training​ to make sure you apply it right.
Check the ​list of things to avoid​.

Checkpoint  Checkpoint 1  Checkpoint 2  Checkpoint 3  Checkpoint 4  Checkpoint 5  Checkpoint 6 

Notice  Approach  Open  Transition And Hook  Mid-Game  Close 

Goal 

When you see her  Right after you notice her  When she’s comfortable in  Right after opener  Once it’s hooked  Once you see enough 
When  Checkpoint 2  attraction [​list is here​] 

Avoid  
Things to  Staring  
The list 
Waiting   
Every second you wait, it gets 
harder and in a few short 
seconds your mind will take 
over, she’ll feel hesitation, your 
The list 
Do NOT eject too early 
The list 
Do NOT eject too early 
The list 
Do NOT eject too early 
Avoid lines like: 
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Give me your 
phone number 
What’s your 
number 
value drops, it becomes  ● Can we exchange 
impossible.  numbers? 

 
The list 

Just approach  Walk up to her  1. Open from shoulder  1. Constantly remember  Speak naturally as if you’re  When the interaction is at 
Things to Do There is no way to 
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● As you walk up to her,  2. Very strong tonality  that she does not know  speaking to your cousin,  a high point and you can 
justify it logically. The  scan the surrounding  3. Move from opener  who you are and may  friend or someone you know  clearly tell she’s interested, 
problem is most guys  quickly [fraction of a  asap  be shy, insecure and  for years.  use one of these: 
wait and calculate  second] and find  4. Start by pointing at the  uncomfortable. She will     
risk. They wait for the  something to use as the  item and use one of  adapt to your rhythm.   
perfect opportunity  opener.  these lines below  2. If she starts talking let  Watch​ this example​ for mid 
game convresation.  ● You know what, you 
which never comes.  a. What did you  her talk.  seem friendly, we 
  get?  3. If she doesn’t talk, keep  can be Whatsapp 
Since we always [99%  b. What do you  talking.  friends. 
of the times] start  think?  Examples:   
indirectly, even if  a. You: ​What did  ● You know what? You 
she’s with someone it  c. Excuse me, what  you get? 
do you think  have good vibes, we 
will be fine.  Her:​ Latte  can be Whatsapp 
about this?  You: ​ummm, ok! I  friends. Maybe one 
d. Which one is  can see how that  day we go grab a 
that?  could work…   coffee or juice… who 
O actually last  knows we might like 
e. Excuse me, is 
week I tried  each other. 
this really good 
double espresso   
because I am 
with coconut  As you say this, 
looking for 
milk... it gives u  hand her your 
something really 
the best kick.  phone. 
good and last 
By the way you 
time I got it was 
look friendly, I’m 
not nice. 
Ben. 
f. You know what  Her: Emili 
that reminds me  You:  
of?   
 
5. Micro-calibrate fast 
6. Move to transition 
 

Things to avoid:
1. Weak tonality 
2. Breaking the eye contact 
3. Facing her 
4. Too serious face 
5. People pleaser smile 
6. Waiting for her 
7. Low energy 
8. Waiting 
9. Ejecting too early 
10. Thinking and getting into your head [Losing focus] 
11. Being cheesy and stereo typical 

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