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    This document outlines a "date blueprint" with 5 checkpoints for escalating intimacy on a date. [1] The checkpoints progress from establishing comfort to intimacy, with goals like getting out of the friend zone and pulling for sex/cuddling. [2] Each checkpoint provides conversation topics to use and things to avoid, like sexual content or coming on too strong. [3] Mirroring body language, pausing to let her speak, and calibrating based on her responses are given as tips to navigate the checkpoints.

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    This document outlines a "date blueprint" with 5 checkpoints for escalating intimacy on a date. [1] The checkpoints progress from establishing comfort to intimacy, with goals like getting out of the friend zone and pulling for sex/cuddling. [2] Each checkpoint provides conversation topics to use and things to avoid, like sexual content or coming on too strong. [3] Mirroring body language, pausing to let her speak, and calibrating based on her responses are given as tips to navigate the checkpoints.

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    3 Date-Blueprint

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    Christopher Torres Palomino
    This document outlines a "date blueprint" with 5 checkpoints for escalating intimacy on a date. [1] The checkpoints progress from establishing comfort to intimacy, with goals like getting out of the friend zone and pulling for sex/cuddling. [2] Each checkpoint provides conversation topics to use and things to avoid, like sexual content or coming on too strong. [3] Mirroring body language, pausing to let her speak, and calibrating based on her responses are given as tips to navigate the checkpoints.

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    Date Blueprint 
     
     

    Checkpoint  Checkpoint 1  Checkpoint 2  Checkpoint 3  Checkpoint 4  Checkpoint 5 

    Comfort  Escalate out of just friends  Future pacing you and her  Intimacy  Bounce 
    Goal 
    Sex  Pull 
    Cuddles 

    From the start  When you see she’s comfortable  When she’s comfortable in  When she’s comfortable in  When she’s comfortable in 
    When  Checkpoint 2  Checkpoint 3  Checkpoint 4 

    Lack of comfort  Possible resistance  Conversation gets intimate and she  Conversation gets intimate and she   
    Trait 

     
    is okay talking about romance.  is okay talking about a possible 
    future. 

    Sexual content  Sexual Content  Talk about sex in a creepy way  Getting too excited  Getting too excited or forcing her 
    Things to Avoid ‒ ‒
    ‒ Cursing   ‒ Cursing  
    ‒ Hard jokes  ‒ Hard Jokes 
    ‒ Hard tease  ‒ Hard Tease 
    ‒ Being cold and boring  ‒ Being cold and boring 
    Interview mode  Interview mode 

     
    ‒ ‒
    ‒ Do not show IOI  ‒ Do not show IOI 

    1. Storytelling  Show photos on phone.  If she is open to family, you very  What is good intimacy and  Gently pull or bounce without being 
    Things to Do gently speak about family and  connection to her. ​With conditions​.  too pushy 
    2. Emote  Use any variation: 
    future ​with conditions​.  Use sexual qualifiers 
    3. Genuinely care about who  By the way I wanna ask you 
    she is and what she’s about  something...  Qualify and disqualify on pretty  Slow and passionate; Not quick sex. 
    much anything you want in her 
    4. Force comfort by moving,  1. How is your dating life? 
    speaking slowly and smiling.    
    2. How is tinder treating you? 
    5. When you sit, lean back.  3. What are you looking for on 
    tinder? 
    4. What is the ideal date for you? 
    5. Worst date you been on? 

    Use “​ What is it like”  Your past relationships.  Qualities of your future wife.   How do you know when you  We could go for a walk, I'd like 
    Conversation  ‒ ‒
    have chemistry with a guy? 
    ‒
    to see the XXX nearby 
    ‒ City you live.  ‒ Her past relationships.  I want to meet someone… 
    ‒ City she lives.  ‒ Your Aunt & Uncle (marriage)  ‒ To share a home with  ‒ You seem to have a feminine 
    touch; that means you know 
    ‒ Her hometown.  ‒ Her openness to family.  ‒ Who will make a good  how to be sexual. 
    ‒ Your hometown.  partner. 
    ‒ For you, what is a good kiss? 
    ‒ Job.  ‒ Moral compass 
    ‒ Are you a good kisser? 
    ‒ Goals and Ambitions.  ‒ Patient and Loving 
    ‒ Can you give a good massage? 
    ‒ Siblings / Family.  ‒ Giving ​Personality 
    ‒ What Is Good Intimacy To You? 
    ‒ Pets.  ‒ Loyal 
    ‒ Stamina and stretching. 
    ‒ Music.  ‒ Someone to build a future 
    with  ‒ Where else do you wanna be 
    ‒ Hobbies.  kissed beside your lips. 
    ‒ Maybe kids someday 
    ‒ Food.  ‒ Can you give good tips on 
    dating, etc... 
    ‒ Favorite drinks 
    ‒ Travel 

    Points 
    1. Mirror body language. 

    a. When you mirror, keep eye contact. 

    b. Be behind her by 30 seconds. 

    2. Pause, pause, pause, allow 5 seconds between topics so she can speak. 

    3. At any point, you can bounce back and use the topics of checkpoint 1. 

    4. You constantly calibrate after whatever you say. 

    5. Avoid anything negative!  

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    ​ ideos​ for ​Checkpoints​.

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