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Well I think it means that we all tend to view things not as they truly are, but within the context of our
personal preconceived notions and prejudices. We measure everything and everyone by our
impressions, beliefs and values – our previous experiences usually affect our expectation of future
realities. We only see what we are prepared to see.
A Harvard research has shown that 90% of the errors in thinking are errors of perception. When
companies advertise their brands, it is to your perception of their brand that they appeal to. It is not what
is, but what you think it is. Little wonder advertising and media communication remains big business.
Truth be told…Your perception is your reality.
If perception is such a big deal, I need to know, “How can I in my daily conversations, address and
respond effectively, to the “meanings and nuances of conversation of the next person?”
It all begins with clarifying, understanding and interpreting your values. If you are not clear on your
values, on what’s most important in your life, what you truly stand for; if you ever find yourself in a
situation where you have a tough time making a decision about something – it is because you have a
values conflict – what this means is that all decision making comes down to values clarification.
Your true values, someone said, are the principles you live by in your life. They are the behaviours and
activities you are naturally drawn to. Your true values define who you really are. Too often, we find it
hard to identify what is really important to us. Instead we pursue goals which are out of alignment
with our values and wonder why we feel unbalanced, dissatisfied and why things are not working out.
(Just like a car with the engine in perfect condition but with tyres out of alignment).
It is only when you are being the best you can BE (which points to personal development), that you
can DO what it takes to HAVE what you want in life.
Peer Mentoring
What you do next is to post your new values at home, at work – anywhere they will be seen; particularly
by people who can hold you accountable to the new standard. Commit to a peer mentoring process in
order to make this a reality. Jim Rohn said, “I wish to pay fair price for every value. If I have to pay for
it or earn it, that makes something of me. If I get it for free, that makes nothing of me. All values must
be won by contest, and after they have been won, they must be defended.”
All of this will cause you to change the way you look at things; causing the things you look at to change
for you.
Every time a value is born, existence takes on a new meaning; every time one dies, some part
of that meaning passes away. Joseph Krutch.
Here’s to your success!
“We can be depended on to tell you what you don't want to hear, to help you see what you don't
want to see, so you can be who you have always known you could be” Executive Toolkit