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REFLECTION PAPER: COMMUNICATION PATTERNS ASSIGNMENT 2
The central point in Petersen’s book ‘Why Don’t We Listen Better?’ is that
communication can be improved when listening improves and that effective communication can
strengthen intimate interpersonal relationships across public and private contexts. Effective
communication and healthy relationships are just but different parts of the same coin. Catalyzed
by effective listening skills, Petersen (2015) writes to anyone who wants to improve his/her
listening skills using practical techniques. The author used humorous terms such as the Flat-
Brain Theory of Emotions, the Flat-Brain Syndrome, and the Flat-Brain Tango to describe it
use any of our emotions to build or destroy. If we recognize and accept them, we can choose to
act on them in compassionate, responsible, constructive, and creative ways, making a more
hospitable world,” emotional control when communicating is unnegotiable. Across our personal
and professional contexts, these words manifest themselves clearly as our communication
Reflection
Emotions bags when one experiences a flat brain theory, a great deterrence to effective
communication. Individual communicators can act right to build effective communication when
they accept that emotions can sometimes attack them and have an impact on others. When I
experience flat brain theory, I bang objects surrounding me while I walk away. This is
detrimental because I have a couple of vital things I have broken, including my laptop. What I
have now developed is the self-awareness to avoid damaging or hurting things and people in my
environment. In reading the text, I can notice when I am becoming emotional and try to take
REFLECTION PAPER: COMMUNICATION PATTERNS ASSIGNMENT 3
steps to manage it. Every time I am faced with emotional scenarios that trigger anger, I take a
deep breath to cool down. This way, I am able to control and cool any possible impulses.
able to differentiate between thoughts and feelings. Uniquely you (2017) report differentiates
between the two terms. The opinions, mostly prior prejudice we hold towards others are thoughts
while feelings are the modifications answers of those thoughts. Petersen’s (2015) presentation
has equipped me with numerous insights. One change I have achieved is the stability of my
personality by being able to control my emotions. Being quickly annoyed when people do not
side with my opinions is a character I held for so long. Today, I communicate with people and
manage my expectations based on the results of the conversation and inmate feelings held about
the person. This way, I have been able to manage my conversations and create very stable
compassion for myself and others (Bakhtiar et al., 2018). Mindfulness is achieved by breath
control and sensory relaxation to quiet the tempest generated by emotions inside my head and
generate good energy for what I am doing. In the process, I receive good energy, which aids in
Listening more is a crucial skill to manage emotions during the conversion process. In
my private and public settings, the book has taught me to engage in active listening when dealing
with people to avoid prejudice in judgment and to stay focused on the goal of communication.
Previously, the objective of my listening process was majorly based on what I already know
about the person and the message. As a result, I experienced mixed effects at the point my
listening curve was altered. Even in more engaging conversations today, I don’t experience brain
fallouts as a have strived to create a clear sense of clear mind characterized by more active
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listening. One thing I will never forget is the burnout I experienced during my first year. Two
members of my group withdrawn at the time when our professor required us to present a project
within a day. As the group leader, I have to recruit others or take their roles in the lengthy
project. As a result, I held a meeting with the rest of the members, listened to their views, and
decided on the most viable. We thus subdivided the roles among ourselves and completed the
project. Active listening is powerful. Chowdhury (2020) underlines that active listener’s embrace
careful thinking and clear adoption of ideas to deal with emotions as they erupt.
This kind of communication behavior roots a defensive attitude to the listener making them
ready to interrupt back. This kind of situation diligently kills communication patterns by causing
a tense and emotional scenario. Part of a strong personality is to develop friendly and
professional interpersonal communication when exchanging feelings and ideas across personal
and public settings. I ensure this by displaying strong moral and ethical values while
demonstrating strong professionalism. Throughout, this strong personality has helped me manage
myself and my relationships. Among my close friends and family, I strive to make them
understand me by opening up on what I think and feel. This way, I gain very honest emotional
support.
Conclusion
thoughts and feelings. My main point of concern is active listening. Active listening creates more
engaging conversations dealing with emotions to improve effective communication and ultimate
References
Bakhtiar, A., Webster, E. A., & Hadwin, A. F. (2018). Regulation and socio-emotional
13(1), 57-90.
Uniquely You (2017). Uniquely You, Inc. Leadership online profile professional expanded.
Chowdhury, M. (2020). What is Emotion Regulations? Emotional skills and strategies. Positive