Don’t allow the other side to reopen issues that have
already been settled. For example, if you’ve already agreed on the price, the timing of the sale, and other terms, don’t allow the other side to reopen any of those issues as you draft the final document. This is why it’s a good idea to write down agreements on issues as they are resolved. If the other side insists on reopening one issue, take that as your right to reopen all issues to negotiation. Neither party should have the right to pick and choose. ‘‘If you weren’t happy with the price, you should have said so earlier, before we agreed on that point. But if you insist on renegotiating the price, then that will affect the terms and timing of the sale from our per- spective since we see these as a total package. Is that what you want?’’ Make it official. Either a verbal restatement of the agree- ment, a handshake, or a meticulous formal contract is in order, depending on the situation. But written agreements are always best. Even deals between family members benefit from written agreements. Include enforcement mechanisms. Many negotiations in- volve promises. ‘‘I’ll do this if you’ll do that.’’ But what if someone fails to make good on his promises? Your agreement should spell out the consequences: ‘‘If interest and principal is not paid as scheduled, the entire outstanding balance of the loan will be due.’’
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