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Dr J A Sykley
You’ve seen the films...
The Power of Action – This book can help people who are ‘stuck’ in one way of thinking and
The Power of Thoughts – It was awesome how you could take one of the best series of fiction and
compare it with real day life. I liked the way you talked about how everyone can turn their nega-
tive thoughts into positive ones. The Worry-Turner is brilliant! – Baden, 10 years old
The Power of Tragedy – Made me understand my own path in my life. No matter what happens
good or bad, you can make good choices. Never give up. – Heather, Fruit Picker
The Power of Animals – Admirable and worthy. Many young adults would jump at the oppor-
tunity to read a book that would offer them psychological tools to help them on their journey and
make healthy choices. – Erik Gorton, Secretary, Animal Liberation Victoria.
The Greatest Power – Valuable and helpful… I think someone from any age or background will be
able to take away some useful approaches. Dr Dilprasan De Silva, Consultant Psychiatrist
Dr Julie-Anne Sykley loves playing with parrots, listening to disco music, going to the beach,
and suppressing her crazy sense of humour – not! She is also a prize-winning psychologist
who has worked as a helping professional for more than 20 years.
Whilst Julie-Anne thinks she has some resemblance to a high-flying hippogriff, her friends say
she’s more like a small excited owl delivering big news to everyone in this book.
Dr J. A. Sykley
Brisbane
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Notes: Bibliography.
The author would like to thank the following people and organisations
for their part in the shaping of this book: Dr Linden Salter-Duke, the
Victorian Writers’ Centre, Frith Luton, Associate Professor James Levy-
Bennett, Dr Dilprasan De Silva, Dr Hugh J Wirth, Erik Gorton, Bill
Huntley, Jonty Bush, Judy Giger, Gareth J Davies, the Rostedt family,
Steven Mitchell, Emily Moler, the Northern Territory Writers’ Centre, the
Writers of Whitsunday, Anna Derham, Marianne Dey, Brad Love and
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Powers from the world of psyche
Tragedy Transforms
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The Power of Nature
Free Your Wildest Powers
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The Power of Tragedy
Can Tragedy Increase Power?
In Harry’s world, many tragic events, bad conditions and hurt things
invoke power. After all, didn’t a strike from a deadly serpent free
Harry’s courage, which called to a fabulous bird? Didn’t the right
magic words spoken in a cold spooky place underground shift apart
stone walls, carved with snakes, to reveal a secret chamber? And
didn’t a wounded key – the old one with crumpled blue wings –
help Harry to unlock a heavy door deep inside the heart of Hogwarts
Castle? It might seem strange that misfortunes should increase our
personal power. But they can – and do. Would you like to acquire a
Philosopher’s Stone in real life? Well, tragedy could help you find
one.
You see, a crazy and often overlooked side to tragedy in life is its
powerful flip-side. Adversity is a fierce force that bursts closed doors
wide open, bringing people in touch with their true inner selves. It’s
only when people stare for too long at the closed doors that they
miss all the other doors that tragedy has opened for them. There’s no
doubt about it. Big problems can free big personal powers that might
otherwise stay unseen, untapped, unknown and out of our reach…
forever.
Some people already know how to turn tragedy inside out, upside
down and all the way around to their advantage. Tragedy might
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break some people, but it sure makes others. As a wise Zen monk in
Anthony de Mello’s tale put it:
So if you really want to, you can find the best beauty, freedom and
power in the worst situations. Maybe you have suffered a tragedy. Or
maybe your life has been extra tough lately. Whatever hardships you
may have, there are sure ways to free your inner power.
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Finding Strength in Tragedy
The rumour is that Lily and James Potter are – are – that they’re – dead.
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 14
H arry Potter’s life begins with death. Harry is just one year old,
and he becomes an orphan when his parents are killed by
an evil wizard. In fact, much of Harry’s childhood involves
hard and lonely times:
·· Harry has to live with his mean relatives, the Dursleys. They make
Harry sleep under the stairs in a small cupboard full of spiders.
·· Uncle Vernon often gets angry with Harry, taking things out on
him all the time.
·· Harry is frequently punished – locked up in that stair cupboard or
ordered to do extra housework.
·· The Dursleys exclude Harry from many family activities.
·· Above all, the Dursleys never celebrate Harry’s birthday.
It may seem strange and curious, but pain, hurt and sadness in life
can actually help people to grow really powerful. Problems help us to
discover strengths like courage and cleverness within ourselves. As
the curious wand-maker Mr Ollivander remarks: “I think we must
expect great things from you, Mr Potter” (The Philosopher’s Stone, p.
65). In point of fact, the bigger the problems in life, the more a person
is likely to learn, grow and profit from those problems. If Harry had
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not been born against the odds, if he had not experienced the hard
times he did, he may never have developed the strong survival skills
he did. Harry may not have made the same powerful choices that not
only helped him to beat tragedy, but to rise far above it and become
a powerful wizard. It is helpful to remember that if you want to be
more powerful in life, the most important thing is not what happens.
It’s how you respond to what happens. What really, truly matters in
life is how you pick yourself up when you fall.
A tragic or difficult experience that I would like to deal well with is:
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Make Powerful Choices
Dear Mr Potter,
We are pleased to inform you that you have a place
at Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry.
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 42
Constantly saying “No! No! No!” can diminish your personal power
so much that it ends up destroying your whole world. Just as potions
master Professor Snape knows how to stopper death, saying no to
everyone and everything all the time is much like putting a stopper
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in life. The real tragedy in life is not how much people suffer during
tough times, but how much people miss once they close their minds,
shut their hearts, say no all the time and stop trying to relate to the
world around them.
Harry, however, didn’t say no. Despite the terrible death of his
parents and a terrible time with the Dursleys, Harry did not assume
that the rest of the world was terrible too. When Harry was invited to
attend Hogwarts, he opened his mind and chose to accept. Power is
when opportunity knocks and you answer yes. In psychology, ‘yes’
is considered to be an open response. It embraces open-mindedness
and invites power into people’s lives. When you think about it, yes
keeps doors, windows, options and opportunities open. After all,
fresh air, sunlight, a visit from a friend and positive energy can only
enter through open doors, right? The more people open their minds
and hearts, the more interesting and positive their life experiences
will be.
Just look at what happened when Harry said yes to Hogwarts. Not
only did Harry get to study new things at his new school, but he
also travelled to new places, learned about different cultures and met
other people, expanding and empowering his life experience. The
great poet e.e. cummings once wrote that:
Get it? Saying yes to one thing opens up a whole bunch of other
new things, opportunities and worlds for you. At Hogwarts, Harry
discovers he has a knack for flying broomsticks. Would Harry have
known he could handle handles, if he hadn’t said yes to Hogwarts?
No wonder Professor McGonagall gets excited: “The boy’s a natural.
I’ve never seen anything like it” (The Philosopher’s Stone, p.112). The
Sorting Hat also tells Harry: “You could be great, you know, it’s
all here in your head” (p. 91). Exactly! Yes is a choice that anyone’s
head can make. True power is not having as many material things
as possible. Many rich and famous people are loaded with clothes,
cars, houses and money. And many are unhappy. Check the facts out
for yourself. A bitter relationship break-up here, a drug overdose or
suicide attempt there, another trip to the drug rehab, or worse, a jail
sentence. Power isn’t having everything. Real power is making the
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most of anything that comes your way. Whatever happens in our
lives, everyone is free to make powerful choices. Just like Professor
Dumbledore explains:
‘It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than
our abilities.’
– Chamber of Secrets, p. 245
During Harry’s first year at Hogwarts, the Sorting Hat (which stands
for destiny outside our personal control) tells students: “I will tell
you where you ought to be” (The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 88). Harry,
however, makes his own choice.
‘Not Slytherin, not Slytherin.’
‘Not Slytherin, eh?’ said the small voice.
– The Philosopher’s Stone, pp. 90-91
Got it? It’s the choices people make about their situations, rather
than the situations themselves, that determine true power. Tragedy
doesn’t limit power. People’s reactions to tragedies do. Even rapper
Eminem encourages people to have a go in life in his hit song “Lose
Yourself”:
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You only get one shot, do not miss your chance
This opportunity comes once in life time
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Activity – Great Choice
I have the power to choose and control my reactions. To free my inner power
and create the best world possible, I solemnly swear that I will focus on and
follow these exciting ideas and actions:
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(Describe your power-attracting ideas here)
Great! Your new choices have just empowered your life in your
favour.
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Are You the Next Hero?
‘I wouldn’t be surprised if today was known as Harry Potter day in future – there
will be books written about Harry – every child in our world will know his name!’
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 15
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EXAMPLE: A boy called Ronald rose from tragedy to triumph in
real life. When Ronald was four years old, his father died in South
Africa. A few years later, his mother collapsed on the kitchen floor
in a diabetic coma, leaving Ronald an orphan at the age of 12 years.
He became one of the most famous writers in the whole world.
This boy, with a troubled background, grew up to reign as the king
of fantasy literature. You’ve probably heard of him – he’s J.R.R.
Tolkien, author of The Lord of the Rings! In a book called J.R.R. Tolkein:
Mastery of Fantasy, biographer David R. Collins described Queen
Elizabeth II presenting Tolkien with a special award of the British
Empire at Buckingham Palace for his distinguished contribution to
literature. Three of Tolkein’s books are among the 20 all-time best-
selling paperbacks. With forty million books in print in more than
40 countries, Tolkien, without a doubt, supports Simonton’s mind-
blowing social conclusion that to attain success of the highest order,
a person may have to suffer first.
There was a teenage girl I found living with a couple of mates in the
boot of an abandoned car in a rubbish tip some years ago. Do you
know what she’s doing now? Thanks to a Back to School program
and other support, she finished school, went to university and got
an arts degree. Another girl I got to know just after she became
homeless at the age of 15 has recently finished her PhD in science.
Morons? No-hopers? Lacking in skill or motivation? These are our
kids, they are our fellow citizens.
– The Herald Sun, 8 September 2004
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With the right support and a fair go, people with troubled back-
grounds can rise high above misery, poverty and tragedy. Already,
many young people have turned their lives around completely to
achieve enormous personal success.
No matter what happens in your life, you – just like Harry and his
friends – can find power in any situation. This is because you can:
Whoever you are reading this book, I don’t know you, exactly what
problems you might have, how badly you suffer, how much trouble
you think you’re in or how lonely you feel, but I do know this: despite
the odds you think are stacked against you, the hard evidence is that
you have incredible potential to be happy, healthy and powerful. If
you really want to, you can redirect your destiny – right here, right
now – to achieve great personal power. You can be the next hero. It’s
your choice.
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Activity – Message for a Hero
The words below describe some important personal qualities that powerful
heroes possess.
Each word needs a correct letter to complete it. To start you off, the first
word is already done for you. After filling out all the empty boxes, copy
each mystery letter into the spaces below by matching letters and numbers.
LO Y ALTY (5)
oNDERSTANDING (2)
HONoSTY (6)
oPENNESS (1)
COUoAGE (7)
oNTEGRITY (9)
KIoDNESS (3)
oONOUR (8)
oRANKNESS (4)
____ Y___ _____ ____
4766 5127 93367 867 1
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Discover Tragedy’s Treasure
A gleaming silver sword had appeared inside the hat, its handle glittering with
rubies the size of eggs.
– Chamber of Secrets, p. 235
Just like Harry and his friends, many people in the real world have
found great personal riches as a result of their tragic experiences.
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Activity – Treasure Hunt
……………………………………………........................…………………………
Rough times have made my life so much richer because I have learned to:
………………………………………………………………………………………
Even when things are really bad, my knack of looking for the positives
helps me to realise that a priceless advantage of my difficult situation is:
………………………………………………………………………………………
A brilliant plan I have developed to move forward is:
………………………………………………………………………………………
Suffering has made me appreciate the things that truly matter in life. The
things I now treasure most are:
………………………………………………………………………………………
Unlike others who may not have experienced hard times, I have become
smarter and stronger in these ways:
………………………………………………………………………………………
Really precious inner strengths that I have developed include:
………………………………………………………………………………………
………………………………………………………………………………………
Well done, treasure seeker! Now copy the first letter from each statement
above into the spaces below to reveal riches beyond compare. The 5th
space is done for you:
P S Y C H O L O G I C A L __ __ __ __ S __ __ __
sted and empowering sources of support:
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2.
3.
Explore Hippogriff Hope
A hippogriff helps Sirius Black to fly high and escape from Hogwarts’
West Tower. These magic flying creatures often rescue characters
from dire and distressing circumstances. After all, hippogriffs do
have large wings.
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‘Hope’ is the thing with feathers –
That perches on the soul –
And sings the tune without the words –
And never stops – at all.
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Hope Spreads Its Wings
“Hope is the belief that you can get there from here. It involves believing you have
both the will and the way to accomplish your goals, whatever they may be.”
– C.R. Snyder, Psychology Professor
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This gloomy mood that’s got hold of you will pass. It may be hard
to believe because you’re feeling so down right now, but things will
and do get better. Depression’s biggest weakness is that it never
lasts forever – so please, hang on.
There’s nothing so bad that it can’t be sorted out. For every problem,
there’s a whole bunch of solutions. Just as hippogriffs grab on to
their goals with strong steely talons, you need a chance to grab onto
some solutions. Talking to other people will increase your chances
of spotting good ideas.
Write down five good reasons why you should live. Write these in
your diary. Say them out loud to a friend.
If you didn’t want a best friend to kill themselves because you
really cared about them, what would you say to that friend to
encourage them to live? Now apply your helpful ideas to your
own situation.
Talk to a friend or someone else you trust. If you’re feeling really
troubled, chat to someone who will listen at places like Lifeline,
Kids Help Line or the Suicide Prevention Crisis Line. Check out cool
tools in psychological self-defence at websites like Beyondblue.
If you’re feeling suicidal but are too afraid to talk – text someone
about it, write someone a note. Get the suicidal ideas out there
and away from you. You deserve a chance to live, to be free from
suffering.
If you leave, people who know you will be heart-broken because
they will lose you forever. There are friends, people in your family,
and other people who really do care about you. That’s a strong
reason to live.
If you think that your problems are wrecking your life and stopping
you from being happy, be mindful that suicide is the ultimate life-
wrecker and life-stopper. Problems and miserable moods pass.
Suicide is forever.
Many troubled and suicidal people have shown that there are
powerful ways to break free from bad situations. The world is full
of wonderful things.
Follow your dreams, not the nightmares.
Hang on! Hippogriff hope is on its way. Once it touches you, it will
take you to a better and happier place.
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Just as a magic hippogriff flies into dangerous situations, psycholog-
ical hope dives down into a private world of suicidal thoughts. Just
as a bright beam of light infiltrates the darkest shadows, hippogriff
hope reaches into the deepest and darkest depths of despair, hunts
out those dire thoughts that trigger feelings of suicide, seizes them
with sharp psychological talons, soars high into the sky far above a
world of low feelings, and lifts sad people to happier places.
All these ideas attract hope into a hopeless situation and draw power
into a powerless situation. Every good idea you think of is a wing
beat of hippogriff hope that shifts your personal power from:
· Nothing to something
· Impossible to possible
· Hope-less to hope-full
So next time… when you’re really down and you can’t get up.
When you’ve tried so hard but you’re all out of luck. When you feel
downhearted and misunderstood – hang on to high-flying hippogriff
hope. And when and where will hope appear? When will you feel
the wind beneath hippogriff wings? Anywhere and anytime, of
course. And when hope does unfurl its magnificent wings, it will be
a brilliant Buckbeakish ride.
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Activity – Attract Hippogriff Hope
In the space below, sketch out your own picture of a hippogriff, then
write down a special message of hope that makes you feel truly
happy and free.
Keep this message with you always – in your pocket, in your wallet…
in your heart.
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Tragedy Transforms
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As Harry shows, strong stress kicks butt. Unexpected problems
reveal unexpected solutions. Sticky situations open up strange doors
– especially magic purple bus ones. When Aunt Marge got drunk
and disorderly, Harry raised a riot with his true inner power. Using
his newly found decisiveness, confidence and courage, Harry stood
up for himself and removed himself from an abusive situation. No,
Harry wasn’t hiding from his problems. Rather, Harry was seeking a
safer place to be (he’s a natural Seeker, remember?). Without a doubt,
Marge’s visit shows that toil and trouble doubled can trigger positive
psychological changes that lead to effective action. Tragedy truly
transforms.
Activity – Through the Door…
Before The Door of Change After
Describe how you might have What was your difficult Your experience has changed
been less wise or less skilled experience? Your big you considerably. Somehow
before you encountered a dif- turning point in life? it has opened your mind,
ficult situation. advanced your soul, and
elevated you to a much higher
place in life. Dr Robert Grant
says, “Only when people really
suffer, do they really wake
up.” Sooner or later, your new
powers will show themselves
and shine.
1.
2.
3.
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Let Darkness Light the Way
They left Eeylops Owl Emporium, which had been dark and full of rustling and
flickering, jewel-bright eyes. Harry now carried a large cage which held a beautiful
snowy owl.
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 63
A helpful way to look at tragedy is that it’s like a dark, dark shop in
Harry’s world full of great gifts. No matter how dark the night looks,
how bad things seem or how lonely the road of life feels, somewhere
a faint light flickers. It’s just hard to see at the time. Or maybe people
just don’t know how or where to look. Besides, it would be pretty
hard to see owl eyes glittering under the glare of a 300 watt light bulb
in broad daylight!
Many people are afraid of the dark and often associate darkness
with bad and evil things. In myth and psychoanalytical psychology,
however, darkness usually stands for mystery and the deepest
parts of the human mind and soul. Somewhere in that mysterious
darkness, we harbour inner psychological powers that can shed
bright light on all important matters. The only way to find the light is
to face our darkness. In fact, dark and difficult times often encourage
people to see things more clearly than ever before. No wonder the
wise Dumbledore likes the darkness: “It’s lucky it’s dark” (The
Philosopher’s Stone, p. 14).
Some inspiring quotes from the real world capture how dark times
reveal the light. A Latin phrase, In tenebris lucidior, means ‘the brightest
in darkness’. This suggests that difficult times help people to succeed
and solve problems. Obafemi Awolowo, a Nigerian lawyer says,
“There is radiance in the darkness, if we could but see. To be able to
see this radiance, all you need to do is cultivate the courage to look.”
This means that our darkest hour will reveal the best light, maybe in
the form of a bright idea or a brilliant solution.
Inside the darkest places on earth, where the sun and moon never
shine, you can find the most beautiful light. For example:
·· Glow worms produce light all by themselves. They illuminate
dark caves to look like a starry night sky.
·· Fireflies flash their lights at night in dark, dense rainforests.
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·· On moonless nights, tiny luminous marine organisms create an
effect called phosphorescence, leaving a trail of green-glowing light
on the surface of the sea.
·· Even Pink Floyd’s album cover for Dark Side of the Moon has an
enlightening message. Anyone can experience a colourful awakening
on the dark side.
·· Emily Moler, a 13-year-old Harry Potter fan from Massachusetts
USA, told me that the dark times are “a chance to see a bright Patronus
in a dark alley”.
A modern mystic from England, Poppy Palin, writes that “to find
our stars we need to go within, to the velvet dreaming depths of our
soul’s night”. She believes the dark times are:
Wonderful for the one who is not afraid to look beyond. I adore
twilight and shadows, and the desolate landscape, and its hard frost.
I love the deep dank cave, the cawing of crows over stubble-fields,
and that which is resolutely, unapologetically dark! I adore the
concept of the ‘dazzling darkness’, isn’t it so evocative?
If you are feeling stuck in dark and dramatic times right now, rest
assured. Sooner or later you’ll find the light, that powerful magic in
Harry’s world called Lumos!
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Activity - Lumos Magic
Whatever your tragedy or difficulty may be, what is its best and brightest
edge? What is your problem’s most brilliant advantage?
Next time you’re in a dark place, or maybe at night time, why not say, shout
or sing your special lumos ideas above as you also:
As a matter of fact, you would really impress a Defence Against the Dark
Arts teacher from Harry’s world.
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Alchemy’s Best-Kept Secret
‘A stone that makes gold and stops you ever dying!’ said Harry… ‘Anyone would
want it.’
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 161
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A stone and not,
A stone; a spirit, a soul, and a body,
Which if you do dissolve it, it is dissolv’d.
If you coagulate it, it is coagulated,
If you make it flie, it flieth.
So, the stone has a spirit and soul – signs of psychological life. And it
flies – just like hope and happiness are said to do. Sure enough, the
word psyche in psychology also means the soul or the very essence
of life, according to the ancient Greeks.
Express yourself
So you can respect yourself
Self-respect and the freedom to express yourself are far more valuable
than material things.
Harry’s magic world often shows us that tragedy is not just a bad
experience. Rather, suffering is an undesirable base element that
can later transform into something better, stronger and higher –
psychological power. In Harry’s case, every time he fights Lord
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Voldemort some of his old personal qualities dissolve as new and more
powerful qualities emerge. Harry’s fears are steadily replaced with
courage. His self-doubts make way for an increase in self-confidence.
Analytical psychologist Gail Grynbaum calls these evolving changes
in Harry’s personality “alchemical coagulation”. Clearly, Harry’s
world shows us that tragedy can produce pure gold – inner power.
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A Teen Alchemist
Despite her traumatic ordeal, Bethany didn’t keep herself down and
powerless. She didn’t keep asking herself depressing WHY questions
like: “Why did this have to happen?”; “Why do I have to suffer?”;
“Why me?”. Rather, Bethany boosted her psychological power by
asking really helpful WHAT, HOW and WHO questions. Questions
geared to increase her power like: “What do I need to do to recover?”;
“How can I get back into professional surfing?”; “Who can I ask to
help me?”. To achieve a powerful comeback, Bethany surfed every
day. Her dad also lengthened her surfboard by 18 cm and attached a
strap to it, which helped her to swim more easily through the waves.
Only 11 weeks after a shark tore off Bethany’s arm, she entered a
national surfing competition – and came fifth! “It was definitely fun,”
she said.
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At the moment, what sort of alchemist are you?
Are you holding back your mighty mind, moods and methods?
What powers do you keep stuck at the bottom of your burnt alchemist’s
pot?
If you are someone who has been beaten, bullied, troubled or unloved in life,
then you have the best chance to be a true alchemist. You, who have suffered
the most, may have the most to offer. You, who may not have received much
love early in life, may be the best person to show others, with your sincere
love, just how precious and necessary love truly is. If you feel you are in
a position of the least personal power, then you may well be in the most
powerful position to increase your power and show others what true power
is, what it isn’t, and the best ways to use it.
Treasure or tragedy?
Adventure or adversity?
Victor or victim?
Dare or die?
The greatest tragedy in life is never taking a chance, not having a go.
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·· Despite how difficult or terrible life seems, people can use really bad
experiences to increase their power
·· Tragedy is a mixed blessing in disguise; it can increase anyone’s power
·· The positive power that arises from tragedy may be felt for many years
or even generations to come
·· Tragedy can achieve outrageous fortune
·· Your biggest tragedy could produce your biggest triumph
In dark and difficult times, never give up looking for the things that really
matter to you. As La Trobe University’s armorial bearing eternally proclaims
in French:
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Activity – What’s Your Alchemy Symbol?
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The Power of Thoughts
How Thoughts Work:
Your Busy Pensieve
A shallow stone basin lay there… The silvery light was coming from the basin’s
contents, which were like nothing Harry had ever seen before… It was a bright,
whitish silver, and it was moving ceaselessly… It looked like light made liquid – or
like wind made solid – Harry couldn’t make up his mind.
– Goblet of Fire, pp. 506-507
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n this adventure, Harry falls into a dish of swirling silver thoughts
called a Pensieve. In Harry’s world, the magic Pensieve holds
thoughts poured from a person’s mind. As Dumbledore explains,
when thoughts are examined “at one’s leisure”, it “becomes easier to
spot patterns and links” (Goblet of Fire, p. 519).
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Pensieve, cognitions – thoughts – swirl around inside people’s heads.
Thoughts constantly evolve, revolve and dissolve inside your mind,
moving around ceaselessly just like the silvery Pensieve stuff.
There were still deep welts on his forearms where the brain’s
tentacles had wrapped around him. According to Madam Pomfrey,
thoughts could leave deeper scarring than almost anything else.
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 746
Just as the sticky brain tentacles marked Ron’s skin, the human brain
records and imprints everything we think. So if you think happy,
healthy and powerful thoughts, you will become an expert at good
thinking and feel much happier, healthier and more powerful. Your
thoughts have the power to drag you under and drown you in deep
despair. Or else your thoughts can lift your mood and send you to
the stars. If you want to boost your performance and achieve your
wildest dreams, think positive as often as you can. Just think, power
is only a thought away!
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Dealing with the Dementors
of Depression
The thing behind the hood, whatever it was, drew a long, slow, rattling breath…
An intense cold swept over them all. Harry felt his own breath catch in his chest.
The cold went deeper than his skin. It was inside his chest, it was inside his very
heart…
– Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 66
T
ake care! In Harry’s world, encounters with Dementors are
always depressing. As you already know, Dementors are dark
spirits who seek to destroy their victims with intense despair
and sadness. Professor Lupin explains just how demented they really
are:
‘Dementors are among the foulest creatures that walk this earth…
they glory in decay and despair, they drain peace, hope and happi-
ness out of the air around them… Get too near a Dementor and
every good feeling, every happy memory, will be sucked out of you…
You’ll be left with nothing but the worst experiences of your life.’
– Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 140
‘The Dementor only lowers its hood to use its last and worst
weapon.’
‘What’s that?’
‘They call it the Dementors’ Kiss… It’s what Dementors do to those
they wish to destroy utterly… they clamp their jaws upon the
mouth of the victim and – and suck out his soul.’
– Prisoner of Azkaban, pp. 182-183
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these gloomy spirits have even wreaked havoc and despair in other
worlds:
At times, everyone in the real world feels sad, down and depressed.
Sometimes, however, depression gets more serious when sad feelings
become strong or last for a long time. Famous people who have
suffered severe depression include movie star Marilyn Monroe, prime
minister Winston Churchhill and French conqueror Napoleon. Just
as Dementors lower their hoods in Harry Potter’s world, depression
lowers people’s moods, interests, energy and activity levels. Just as
Dementors force people to focus only on bad memories, depression
makes people dwell on sad and miserable things. Just as Dementors
make people want to die, severe depression can also make people
want to die or kill themselves. In fact, the dictionary says that
demented means to be “driven mad, crazy”. So, Dementors capture
the sad spirits and low mood of depression accurately.
When people suffer severe depression, they feel sad almost all the
time and they cry often. Really depressed people no longer enjoy
doing things they used to, so they become less involved in pleasant
and sociable activities. Important physical symptoms in depression
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include unhealthy appetite, unsettled sleep and tiredness. Depressed
people can also feel extremely guilty, blaming themselves for
problems that are not their fault. They also start believing that they
are worthless and no good. Sometimes the experience of depression
overwhelms people to the point that they feel nothing at all – they
just feel emotionally numb.
Depressed Mood
‘That was the terrible power of the Dementors: to force their victim to…
drown, powerless, in their own despair.’ (Goblet of Fire, p. 191)
‘Harry made no effort to speed up his packing. The very last thing he
wanted to do was to attend the Leaving Feast.’ (Order of the Phoenix, p.
755)
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Negative view of the future
‘He walked slowly and miserably back up through the empty castle,
wondering whether he would ever feel cheerful again.’ (Order of the
Phoenix, p. 759)
Low self-esteem
‘Got any ideas how you’re going to get past your dragon yet?’ said
Moody.
‘No,’ said Harry.
‘… play to your strengths.’
‘I haven’t got any,’ said Harry, before he could stop himself.
(Goblet of Fire, p. 301)
Depressed people believe that they are worthless and no good. Their self-
confidence and sense of competence plummet.
Change in appetite
‘A mass of filthy, matted hair hung to his elbows. If eyes hadn’t been
shining out of the deep, dark sockets, he might have been a corpse. The
waxy skin was stretched so tightly over the bones of his face, it looked like
a skull. His yellow teeth were bared in a grin.’
(Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 248)
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Problems sleeping
‘Mind spinning over the same unanswerable questions, Harry fell into an
uneasy sleep.’
(Chamber of Secrets, p. 22)
Depression definitely disturbs sleep. People who are depressed may have
trouble getting to sleep and staying asleep. Waking up too early is also
common in depression. With all those sleepless nights, it’s no wonder
depressed people lack energy and feel tired.
Depressing Thoughts
‘Yeh’ve no idea,’ said Hagrid quietly. ‘Never bin anywhere like it. Thought I was
goin’ mad. Kep’ going over horrible stuff in me mind… the day I got expelled from
Hogwarts… day me Dad died… day I had ter let Norbert go…’
His eyes filled with tears.
– Prisoner of Azkaban, pp. 163-164
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experiences often and they pay much more attention to sad things.
As negative thinking intensifies, the feelings of depression also
grow stronger. People tend to feel the way they think, so depressing
thoughts produce, maintain and strengthen the experience of
depression. Unhappy thoughts can easily flood the mind, triggering
strong feelings of depression and ongoing suffering. No wonder
mental health experts have developed special cognitive theories of
depression. As psychiatrist Dr Burns explains:
Your emotions result entirely from the way you look at things. You
must understand what is happening to you before you can feel it.
If your perception is twisted and distorted in some way, your
emotional response will be abnormal.
When you are depressed or anxious, your thoughts will always be
illogical, distorted, unrealistic or just plain wrong.
1) themselves
2) the world
3) the future
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To increase our understanding of depression further, Dr Martin
Seligman also identified a strong negative thinking style. There’s
a really downbeat thought style that tends to make people feel
really helpless, hopeless and depressed. Dr Seligman’s research
showed that depressed people were more likely to attribute blame
to themselves if something failed or went wrong. For example, a
depressed character in Harry’s world might think something like:
“I fell off my magic broomstick because I’m a completely stupid
magician”. Depressed people don’t give themselves much credit for
doing good things either. If something works out well, depressed
people don’t believe they made it happen. An example of such a
depressed attribution in Harry’s world might be: “I only passed the
Potions exam today because Professor Snape was in a good mood for
once, not because I’m good with herbs”. If people blame themselves
for failure and attribute success to things outside their control, then
they are much more likely to feel really hopeless and depressed. It’s
a pretty depressing way to think, says Dr Seligman.
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Top 10 Demented Thoughts
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As you can see, depressed people think to themselves in demented ways
that make them feel like powerless victims. Sad negative thoughts attract,
maintain and increase feelings of depression. No wonder Dementors love
‘em!
Sometimes deeply depressed people feel so bad that they start making plans
to hurt or kill themselves. When the Dementor’s icy kiss sets in, people start
to give up on life. If you feel suicidal, or you think you know someone who
is, then it’s important to get help straight away, before the Dementor-driven
feelings get worse. Here are five helpful ideas to increase your power over
depression and suicide, and make a bitter cognitive brew sweet.
STOP – Stop death just as well as Professor Snape can “stopper death” (The
Philosopher’s Stone, p102). To increase your power over suicide, simply
STOP putting suicidal thoughts into action. On your marks, get set… stop!
STOP listing reasons to die. STOP paying attention to bossy suicidal urges.
By halting suicidal actions and ignoring suicide’s brief and desperate pleas
(no matter how bad you feel at the time), you’re effectively “stoppering
death”.
WAIT – Just as Harry and his friends “Stupefy” oncoming harm with magic
spells, a really effective way to outsmart suicide is to stupefy and stall
suicidal action. Even when things look really bad, where’s the rule that says
you have to kill yourself this very moment? Wait an hour. Wait 24 hours. Wait
a week. Wait until you have talked to someone. Put a bit of distance between
yourself and those demanding suicidal thoughts. Suicidal thoughts always
try to trick people into thinking that they have to kill themselves right now
because really sad thoughts can’t stay strong for long. If you delay deadly
ideas, you’ll find that they will fade away and disappear completely.
EXPLAIN – Tell others you’re feeling suicidal. Talk, confide and build
yourself a “DUMBLEDORE’S ARMY” (Order of the Phoenix, p348). Just as
Harry grows strong by forming a secret network of supporters to fight Death
Eaters, build your own army of support against death-triggers by sharing
your suicidal feelings with people you like and trust. Suicidal thoughts are
cowardly; they love picking on people who are all alone. To weaken suicide,
reach out to another human being. Call a friend. See a doctor. Ring up a
counsellor. Go to Accident and Emergency at the hospital. The people there
really want to listen to you and offer support. Suicidal people often feel
much better after talking to someone. Talking relieves pressure – it’s a top
life-saver. Why not make an empowering verbal or written guarantee like
this one:
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When I start to feel suicidal, I will contact:
1 …………………………………….
2.
3.
Increase your power over depression and suicide by choosing thoughts and
actions that can only prove positive. If you like, photocopy this page for
yourself or someone else.
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Summon Your Happiest Thoughts
‘EXPECTO PATRONUM!’
A thin wisp of silver escaped his wand.
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No, I can’t do it Yes, I can do it
I’m miserable because… I’m grateful for…
I hate this situation How can I make things better?
Life sucks Life’s exciting
I couldn’t help it I’m in control of my behaviour
Oh no, what’s going to happen? What will I make happen?
Bummer, this is terrible Wow! Look at all the advantages!
I feel lonely Who can I reach out to?
There’s really no point trying Everything is worth a try
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Beating the Boggarts of Anxiety
Beware of Boggarts
A
s you know, in Harry’s world a Boggart is:
And the name Boggart is a good name for a scary spirit. In folklore,
boggarts, bogeys and bogeymen are frightening spirits. In England,
a land full of haunted castles, a nineteenth century English poet had
a boggart spirit breathe on him. Robert Louis Stevenson reports his
terrifying ordeal in Shadow March:
The really important thing about Boggarts and other scary spirits in
Harry’s world is that they help us to understand a state of fear in the
real world known as anxiety. The more we know about anxiety, the
more personal power we will gain to manage this emotion. Although
a little anxiety can be useful, too much anxiety can rob people of their
health and power. To increase your power over anxiety, why not slip a
few psychological ghost-busting tricks up your sleeve? Anxiety, after
all, is the most widespread mental health problem in the world.
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When is Anxiety Severe?
·· Fight
·· Flee
·· Freeze
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The body’s fight or flight response, if described in Harry Potter terms,
might feel like this:
Mrs Norris, the caretaker’s cat, was hanging by her tail from the
torch bracket. She was stiff as a board, her eyes wide and staring.
The term petrified means to be scared stiff, based on the Greek word
petra for rock. To petrify means to turn to stone; paralyse with terror,
as if you were made to freeze on the spot. Poor Mrs Norris!
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Fearful Thoughts
‘AAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRGGGHHHHH!
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!’
– Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 196
The Worrier is always watching out for any little sign of trouble. If a
Worrier visited Harry Potter’s world, he or she might have anxious
thoughts like these:
These thoughts crank the anxiety level right up. Up, up, up it goes!
With anxious thoughts like these, people don’t need Boggarts
jumping out of wardrobes to trigger feelings of fear. Fortunately,
there are powerful ways to fight fright and approach anxiety. Just
as witches and wizards use magic spells to fight frightening forces
in Harry Potter’s world, psychologists use cognitive magic to help
people beat anxiety in the real world. And it works.
‘The thing that really finishes a Boggart is laughter. What you need to do
is force it to assume a shape that you find amusing.’
– Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 101
· “Dementy-whatsits”
· “Dementoids”
· “Demenders”
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· “Demembers”
· “Dismembers”
– Order of the Phoenix, pp. 34-39
Health research shows that humour cuts stress levels in half, helps
your body to stay healthy and even destroys cancer causing cells.
No wonder one Australian hospital set up a ‘laughter room’ where
people recovering from illness, injury and surgery can joke around
and have a good laugh. Research shows that laughter improves your
health and speeds recovery from ill health. It is impossible to feel
stressed or scared when you’re laughing. A funny idea is sure to beat
fear – so long live everything ridiculous!
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Activity – Look for Laughter
Are you worried or anxious? If so, get ready to unleash your inner comedian.
Replace your most anxious thoughts with the most hilarious thoughts that
you, and perhaps your friends, can think of:
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Worry–Turning
Hermione was fumbling with the neck of her robes, pulling from beneath them a
very long, very fine gold chain
…
He saw a tiny, sparkling hour-glass hanging from it.
…
Hermione turned the hour-glass over three times.
The dark ward dissolved
…
‘It’s called a Time-Turner,’ Hermione whispered.
– Prisoner of Azkaban, pp. 288-289
· Paused
· Postponed
· Delayed
· Rescheduled
· Relocated
· Transported
· Turned Away
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Why must you worry here and now when you can – if you choose
to – worry later?
‘There are negative thoughts that plague me, that go around and
around in my head. I feel like I have no control over them. They
don’t do me any good, and they make me feel terrible’
– Copeland, 1992
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techniques. That is, people can postpone their worries and worry later
– and as such, turn their worries away. Many people who postpone
the worry sequence to a certain time later in the day often forget to
worry. Or else people decide they do not need to worry after all. This
breaks the worry pattern and helps people to increase their power
over worry dramatically. Some people are able to stop worrying
completely. Remember, the worry-turning approach does not focus
on worry ‘content’ (what people worry about), but the actual worry
‘process’ (the way people worry).
Worry-turning:
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Activity – Worry-Turning
Turn worry away by telling yourself that you will worry later.
1. Identify a worry that has been concerning you a lot lately.
2. Choose a time to worry about it (eg. 7pm).
3. Set a time limit to worry about the problem (eg. 5 minutes).
4. When the chosen worry time arrives, and only if you feel you really need
to, worry for the time you set (eg. 5 minutes).
5. If you do not feel like worrying – don’t.
6. If you chose to worry, replace your reason for worrying with a more
powerful reason NOT to worry.
7. Repeat these worry-turning steps for one to two weeks, until your feelings
of anxiety decrease.
8. Your worry pattern should lessen over time.
If you feel that your worry is too great or too serious to handle alone, then
‘turn your worry away’ by telling your worry to someone you like and
trust.
The more you practise worry-turning, the more you will weaken the worry
process. Your new powerful thinking style will shine and sparkle, just like
the gold Time-Turner in Harry’s world!
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Managing the Manticores
of Anger
‘A manticore savaged someone in 1296, and… everyone was too scared to go near it.’
– Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 164
T
he manticore mentioned in Harry’s world is an aggressive
creature found in myth. It is a good symbol for anger – a
potentially troublesome emotion. It is said that manticores,
angry and terrifying wild beasts, roam the wilderness of Asia and
India. The name manticore comes from the Persian martikhora, which
means ‘man-eater’. With a man’s face, three sets of sharp teeth,
shaggy ears, a lion’s claws and a deadly scorpion sting at the end of
its tail, you don’t want to mess with a manticore.
Some people in the real world can act like an angry manticore. Maybe
you’ve even heard phrases like: “I spit on you!”; “My boss just ripped
me apart”; “Stop shooting your mouth off all the time”; or “He’s a
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prickly person”. How about this favourite: “Watch out for that back-
stabber”. Ouch!
--- --- Do you get so angry that, just like Uncle Vernon, your
face turns bright purple and you find it DIFFICULT-
SPEAK-WORDS?
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--- --- If someone yells out “Hey, Ogre of Fury!” do you
immediately turn around to see who is calling you?
--- --- When you’re angry, do you shake so much that the
Weather Bureau thinks there’s an earthquake?
--- --- When you look into a mirror, do you see a fierce
manticore with three sets of gnashing teeth staring
back at you?
--- 1-2 You experience strong anger at times. You will benefit
from some anger management tips so that you don’t
go fully bezerk.
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So angry he could hardly speak. He managed to say, ‘Go – cupboard
– stay – no meals,’ before he collapsed into a chair and Aunt Petunia
had to run and get him a large brandy.
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 28
·· Jumping
·· Veins throbbing
·· Yelling
·· Spitting
·· Pounding
·· Face turning purple
·· Difficulty breathing
·· Difficulty speaking
·· Urgent need for alcohol
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Unfortunately, anger becomes a serious problem when it:
·· Is too strong
·· Happens too often
·· Lasts too long
·· Involves violence
·· Family fights
·· Bullying
·· Cruelty to animals
·· Violent computer games
·· Road rage, train rage, pub rage
·· Physical and sexual assault
·· Murder
·· Terrorism
·· War
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with home-made and imported guns. The frequent violence appears
to be fuelled by lots of pent up and unhealthy anger. When anger
isn’t managed well and angry feelings start to get out of control and
dangerous, human health suffers.
Angry Thoughts
The anger that had just flared so unexpectedly still blazed inside him… Serve them
right, he thought, why can’t they give it a rest… bickering all the time… it’s enough to
drive anyone up the wall.
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 213
In this scene, Harry’s mind seethes with angry thoughts, setting his
anger on fire. You see, angry thoughts intensify angry feelings. Some
people can get angry quickly and stay angry a lot longer than other
people because in their minds, these people:
Really angry people tend to have angry thought patterns. This causes
most events to trigger an angry reaction. For example, whenever
Harry uses the ‘M word’, this seems to trigger strong and instant
anger in Uncle Vernon. Although the word ‘magic’ doesn’t upset
most people, it probably reminds Uncle Vernon of angry ideas that
already exist in his mind like “Magic is stupid” or “There’s no such
thing as magic” – because he already hates magic. Angry thoughts
can pop into a person’s mind so automatically and fire up angry
feelings so quickly that people aren’t even aware that they’re getting
angry. Once angry thoughts form inside a person’s mind they, in
turn, bump up the level of physical arousal. Adrenalin is released,
muscles tense up, heartbeat increases and breathing quickens. Some
people describe the experience like this: “My blood is boiling” or
“I’m about to explode” – which Uncle Vernon often nearly does. As
for “veins throbbing” and “face turning purple”, these are loud and
clear physical signs that someone is extremely angry. All in all, anger
involves a chain of events:
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An event happens –> this triggers angry thoughts –> angry thoughts
arouse and aggravate anger.
How angrily people think about things will determine how angry
they will get. People who walk around wanting to fight, attack and
defend their personal territory all the time are already prepared for
battle and prone to anger, even when there’s no need to feel angry.
This is something Sir Cadogan the knight in Harry’s world shows
very well:
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People who often think angrily and don’t take personal responsibility
for their angry feelings weaken their personal power and risk ruining
their happiness and health. Angry thinkers are much more likely to
suffer heart attacks and stomach ulcers. Worse, angry thinkers will
never be content or satisfied, no matter what happens in their lives.
A restless, angry mind never sleeps – nothing is ever good enough.
The prickly and moody manticore mind is always out hunting, ready
to attack and destroy anything.
Even if other people are behaving badly towards you, you don’t
have to get angry back at them. Sometimes, people say mean things
because they’re trying to test you or provoke you. Maybe they have
never had a chance to learn good skills so they find it hard to control
their own feelings. Some examples are:
·· I hate you
·· Get lost
·· You make me sick
·· Go on, hit me
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Just as Professor McGonagall tries to help Harry in his world, health
experts in our world like to remind us that we have the power to
control our own thoughts and feelings. Despite copping the worst
anger-provoking insults and actions from other people, you don’t
have to get so angry that you allow your anger to harm you or others.
You can choose your reaction in any situation, even if it’s a really tough
or aggressive one. You can keep cool and just say something calm to
an angry person like “Whatever”, “No worries” or “See ya”. The last
thing an aggressive person expects is for you to go along with them.
Once you start ignoring nasty comments from other people, they
eventually get bored and stop their bad behaviour because there’s
no power struggle. They’re not getting any attention for their mean
behaviour either. You don’t have to let angry feelings stew and brew
inside your mind and overheat your precious Pensieve. Think about
something that makes you feel really calm and relaxed. Or walk away
from a hostile situation – even if it’s only in your imagination.
To be happy, healthy and more powerful in life, there are many great
ways to tame a rising temper and cool down hot and heated thoughts.
Just replace angry thoughts with cool-calm-collected thoughts – that’s
powerful cognitive therapy.
B Breathe
A Adapt
C Calm down
K Keep Cool
O Organise your thoughts
F Feel your feelings
F Forgive yourself and the person
Just like bomb experts defuse explosive devices and their detonation
sequences, this BACKOFF strategy defuses explosive anger sequences.
By breathing well and thinking calmly, people avoid walking through
a potential mine-field of angry thoughts in their minds.
Would you like to know how much your anger is hurting you? Then
ask yourself these things:
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·· Do you find yourself dwelling on some annoying thing that
happened hours or days or years before?
·· Are you paying too much attention to something that really makes
you angry, while ignoring the good things?
·· Do you find your enjoyment is being spoilt because you keep
thinking about something really irritating?
·· Are you feeling upset because something didn’t go the way you
expected it to?
·· Did you keep criticising yourself for making a really stupid
mistake?
· Did someone else mess up?
Harry is so sick of Ron and Hermione To reduce his angry feelings and
arguing all the time that he angrily distress, a healthier thought could
thinks: be:
“I don’t want my friends to argue
‘Serve them right… why can’t they give it a because I care about them a lot.
rest?’ (Order of the Phoenix, p. 213) Maybe I’ll call us together to work
out some things.”
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Harry gives himself a really unfair and Harry could put things into
hard time when he thinks: perspective and take the pressure off
himself by considering other possible
‘It was his fault Sirius had died; it was causes:
all his fault. If he, Harry, had not been “It’s not fair or helpful to blame
stupid enough to fall for Voldemort’s myself that Sirius died. In fact, it’s
trick...’ (Order of the Phoenix, p. 723) unfounded. Obviously, someone
else’s wand struck Sirius when he was
standing next to the magic archway.”
Harry’s angry outburst was triggered by To stop feeling like a walking time-
hot angry thoughts: bomb, a more soothing and powerful
way for Harry to think is:
‘”DON’T TALK ABOUT SIRIUS LIKE “Although the death of Sirius is
THAT!” Harry yelled. utterly devastating, I don’t want to
He was on his feet again, furious, ready take it out on Dumbledore. Maybe
to fly at Dumbledore.’ (Order of the I’ll sit by the lake for a while to cool
Phoenix, p734) down. Then I’ll talk to Dumbledore
and tell him how much I appreciate
him”.
·· Relax.
·· Take it easy.
·· I can handle this.
·· Don’t take this so seriously.
·· Keep calm. Continue to relax.
·· As long as I keep my cool, I’m in control.
·· There’s no point in getting mad.
·· Look for the positives.
·· Getting upset won’t help.
·· Take a deep breath.
·· Forget about that upsetting scene. Thinking about it will only
make me sick.
· Try to shake it off.
· Is there a way to laugh about this?
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Now you try…
An angry thought that troubles me: A cool thought that calms me:
And remember, a big anger trap is to blame other people and outside
factors for your angry feelings. People who say things like “It’s
not my fault”, “She made me hit her” or “I blame my family, they
made me like this” are also saying “I have no power over myself and my
reactions at all. I am completely under someone else’s control”. They are
giving all their personal power away to someone or something that
once made them upset and angry. Sounds like a very excruciating
curse to put yourself under.
Signed: ______________________
Date: ______________________
Once people stop blaming others, that’s the moment they become
really powerful. When you take personal responsibility, you achieve
instant personal power.
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We cannot change what happened to us. We must accept the fact
that it is not profitable to sit around year after year and cry about
our misfortunes and, at the same time, excuse our inability to help
ourselves on the basis of that same misfortune. All we can change is
what we are doing now.
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Activity - The Disappearing Manticore
If there’s a thought that makes you feel so angry that it causes problems in
your life, write it inside this picture of a manticore:
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Repeat these cool-calm steps until you feel better, as many times as you
need.
As your levels of anger climb down, imagine the angry manticore fading
away. As you feel more and more relaxed, imagine that the manticore – along
with your angry thoughts and feelings – has disappeared completely.
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The Power of Action
Guide Your Action
‘There is no good and evil, there is only power, and those too weak to seek it’.
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 211
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Goodness Achieves Greatness
This bird from Harry’s world is Fawkes, a magical phoenix. Not only
does a phoenix live forever, it is a symbol that celebrates good action.
In Harry’s world, Fawkes is always doing good, kind and helpful
things.
When times get really tough, Fawkes upholds goodness fiercely and
passionately:
Fawkes dived. His long golden beak sank out of sight and a sudden
shower of dark blood spattered the floor… the snake was spitting in
agony.
– Chamber of Secrets, p. 235
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So how can the phoenix increase our personal power in the real
world? As an everlasting symbol of goodness, the phoenix is always
there for us, guiding our actions in a good way and inspiring us to
take the most positive actions possible. The phoenix is a fabulous
psychological cue that an important ingredient of true power is
virtuous action. Since the phoenix is the only magical beast that
cannot die, its immortality suggests that the effects of good actions
are likely to be long-lasting. The striking phoenix, with its bright
plumage and loving heart, upholds a timeless message for everyone:
good values activate great behaviour. Good influences live on.
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We must learn to correct ourselves when we do wrong and credit
ourselves when we do right. If we do not act to improve our
conduct, we will not fulfil our need to be worthwhile and we will
suffer. Morals, standards, values or right and wrong behaviour are
all intimately related to the fulfilment of our need for self-worth.
This means that power – feeling fulfilled, feeling good about yourself
and loving others – comes from doing good things, just like the moral
mythical phoenix encourages. To be truly happy and powerful in life,
it pays to look at the world through loving phoenix eyes and show
kindness with a passion that burns like phoenix fire.
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Boost Your Moral Power
‘AVADA KEDAVRA!’
…
But the headless golden statue of the wizard in the fountain had sprung alive…
‘What –?’ cried Voldemort, staring around. And then he breathed, ‘Dumbledore!’
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 717
A man named Heinz had a wife who was dying from a disease that
could be cured with a drug manufactured by a local pharmacist.
The drug was expensive to make, but the druggist was charging ten
times the cost amount. Heinz could not afford the drug and pleaded
with the man to discount the drug or let him pay a little at a time.
The druggist refused, so Heinz broke into the pharmacy and stole
the drug for his wife.
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A well-known psychologist, Dr Lawrence Kohlberg, invented this
clever “Heinz does drugs” experiment to find out how people:
MORAL POWER
Which Actions in Harry Potter are Morally Powerful?
Moral Reasoning Theory Harry Potter Examples
LEVEL 1
- People are still learning what is “right” Learn Magic Laws and Rules
or “wrong”. All apprentice magicians must learn
- People’s actions are geared to satisfy and obey magic codes of conduct. For
personal needs. example:
- Children obey rules to avoid punish- - At Hogwarts, the third-floor corridor
ment. is out of bounds.
- Do not enter the Forbidden Forest.
- Anyone who slays a unicorn will be
badly cursed.
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LEVEL 2
- Social approval and outside consent Nastily Exhausting Wizard Tests
influence people’s actions. NEWTS are a higher Hogwarts quali-
- People try to follow “law and order” fication than OWLS. Students must be
in society. responsible and perform intelligent
- People start feeling guilty because magic – no misuse, thanks.
they fear punishment.
Ministry of Magic
The Ministry is the magic world’s offi-
STAGE 3 cial “law” enforcement agency. Its role
People seek good social feedback from is to ensure the proper use of magic –
others. “What you did was good”. monitor spells and charms, apply pen-
alties for magical malpractice.
Unforgivable Curses
STAGE 4 Students learn three terrible curses,
People obey official law and authority. which are morally guided. It is forbid-
“I do not steal because it is against the den to use these curses against humans.
law”. And there is no room for personal ex-
cuses, for to use the curses is “unforgiv-
able”. Penalty: Life sentence in Azka-
ban.
LEVEL 3
- The highest level of moral reasoning. Hagrid’s Big Entrance
- People express superior moral ideas. Hagrid smashes down the door of a
- Moral judgement involves creative hut, which surely wrecks other people’s
and complex thinking. property.However – Hagrid delivers an
important educational message, cele-
brated Harry’s birthday, and tells Harry
the truth about his parents.
STAGE 5
People’s actions show more concern for Ron’s Flying Car
the community. “I won’t throw rubbish Ron takes an enchanted flying car from
into the sea because this action pollutes the family garage without his dad’s per-
water and hurts marine life”. mission, which seems pretty disrespect-
ful. However, at a higher moral level,
Ron rescues Harry, who is locked up in
STAGE 6 his bedroom.
People guide their actions thoughtfully.
“I know that stealing medicine is wrong Hermione’s Time Travel
and against the law, but I desperately Dumbledore lets Hermione and Harry
need it and cannot get it any other way. use a magic time-turning device to help
I must steal the medicine to save my two special friends, which interferes
friend’s life, or else my friend will die”. with the natural flow of time. Howev-
Sometimes, breaking the law seems less er, time is modified only to perform a
harmful than obeying the law. higher moral action – to save the lives
of Buckbeak and Black.
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As you can see, the moral matrix shows how certain actions in Harry’s
world align with the most powerful moral level – level 3. For example,
Hagrid breaks down the door of a hut on an island, which does seem
like a disrespectful violation of other people’s property. BUT – not
only does Hagrid deliver an urgent message from Hogwarts and
celebrate Harry’s birthday, he rescues Harry from a prison worse
than Azkaban: a dreadful Dursley kidnapping!
On many occasions it seems that Harry and his friends are doing
small ‘wrongs’ to protect (less visible) higher ‘rights’. What is ‘wrong’
and ‘right’ is not always straightforward or black and white. In the
real world, many moral matters are complex.
Remember when Norbert the dragon just hatched out of his egg?
Well, that was a sticky moral predicament that Harry and his friends
had to think through:
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requires wise moral reasoning. And the right support and guidance
boosts moral power dramatically. Unfortunately, not everyone gets
the same moral head start in life. Dudley Dursley is a fine example of
how people’s moral power can get stunted or damaged early in life:
Harry, who could see a huge Dudley tantrum coming on, began
wolfing down his bacon as fast as possible in case Dudley turned
the table over.
Aunt Petunia obviously scented danger too, because she said
quickly, ‘And we’ll buy you another two presents while we’re out
today. How’s that, popkin? Two more presents. Is that all right?’
…
Uncle Vernon chuckled.
‘Little tyke wants his money’s worth, just like his father. ‘Atta boy,
Dudley!’
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 21
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Activity – Model Moral Power
If you want to achieve moral mastery, some helpful questions to ask might
be:
Or a great Auror?
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How to Motivate Action
‘Stop poking me –’
‘Dobby must poke Harry Potter, sir, he must wake up!’
…
‘It’s too late, Dobby,’ Harry said hopelessly. ‘I’m not doing the task, I don’t know
how–’
‘Harry Potter will do the task!’ squeaked the elf.
– Goblet of Fire, pp. 425-426
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model of change”. Their theory shows how to beat destructive
habits and harmful health problems. Anyone who knows about this
model is in a much more powerful position to stop getting too sad,
stressed, sick or stuck in life. Even if you don’t feel stuck right now,
getting to know this theory could save you from a prison worse
than Azkaban later in life. All around you, information that seems
unimportant now could later mean all the difference between life
or death, winning or losing, or being powerful or powerless. Not
only does this motivational model have a good scientific reputation,
many adventures from Harry’s world illustrate it. Check out the
Motivational Model – Potterised, which outlines the theory’s five
stages of change.
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A Motivational Model – Potterised
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3 Preparation • Reviewing themselves and their reality Neville’s Novice Debut
• Believing in their own ability to succeed
Deciding to do it • Starting to try new actions After some serious soul searching, Neville finally
makes a grand stand.
4 Action • Strengthening self-confidence The Dragon’s Message
• Mixing with supportive people
Doing it • Trading harmful habits for healthy ones If you want to deal with dragons successfully, there are
• Taking effective action, reaping rewards a few things you should know.
5 Maintenance • Repeating skills from the first 4 stages Prophets Always Profit
• Reinforcing positive behaviour
Still doing it • Predicting risk to prevent relapse Perhaps Sibyll Trelawney’s enthusiasm for
• Creating a strong & desirable self-image predictions is not all that grim.
− Maintaining personal power! –
Not Doing It (Pre-Contemplation)
Some people, like Professor Lockhart, don’t do what they say they do,
or what they could do, or what they should do. According to Prochaska
and DiClemente, these people are unmotivated and stuck at stage one
– pre-contemplation. At this stage, Lockhart the pre-contemplator
is not taking any powerful action whatsoever to manage monsters
or fight fantastic foes. Pre-contemplaters, like Lockhart, aren’t even
aware that they may have a problem or that their lack of action
keeps them powerless. Even if they’re really stressed and suffering,
pre-contemplating people say things like “What problem?!” or “I
don’t need to change just because my behaviour is killing me”. Even
British TV puppets know that zero motivation to change means zero
power. As Basil Brush the fox says to his boss: “How’s your wife, still
the same? Never mind, we all have our woes”.
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knickerbockers big enough for him any more” and he is “roughly the
size and weight of a young killer whale” (Goblet of Fire, pp. 29-30) –
then she is clearly pre-contemplating.
In the medical world, when specialists tell drug users, “Don’t do it. You
only get one brain, and it doesn’t repair itself”, they are only trying to
raise people’s awareness that drug damage can be permanent. When
health experts like Dr Claire Fox and Margaret Clark tell people, “It is
not possible to like yourself and do drugs at the same time”, they are
hoping to move people hooked on drugs from the comfortably numb
‘drugs are great’ stage to a healthier way of thinking. When vascular
surgeons say things like “Lose a habit, or lose a limb”, they’re trying
to empower people about the lasting damage smoking does to the
body. They are trying to move people from a powerless position of
cigarette addiction to a much healthier position in life. “I want you to
think about what’s happening here, every time you have a cigarette.
Every time,” says one Australian surgeon in a gory stop-smoking TV
ad. These health experts are giving people important information –
facts and figures that the drug dealers and cigarette companies would
never want you to know – to help people make more informed and
powerful choices.
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An 18-year-old chronic amphetamines user recently told me, “I don’t
have a problem. I’m going to use speed until the day I die”. But if you
give that person some medical information like “Speeding causes
bleeding inside your brain”, and that person thinks about how
drugs might harm their health – even if it’s only for a split-second
– then according to Prochaska and DiClemente’s model, you have
started to move that person out of harm’s way into a more powerful
state of awareness. An unhealthy person might act on your healthy
information some time later, if not now. Sometimes, the only way to
make a health message stick is to make it scary or comical.
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Activity – Best Bits Blitz
If you feel stuck in life, don’t despair. Everyone has special strengths lurking inside
them that can be activated anytime to bring out the best in them. Our top qualities,
once we get to know them, are magic motivational keys that can help us to achieve
incredible success. Using the list below, which personal qualities do you believe
really move you to take positive and powerful action in life?
When you’re ready, activate this quality to free your inner power. For example,
maybe your top quality is ‘curious’. You could bring curiosity to life by getting
stuck into some mind-boggling and soul-stirring information in the library’s secret
sections. Or maybe you would prefer to talk to someone who truly encourages you
to feel and do your best.
If ‘independent’ describes you well, you can activate your independence by making
a strong life-changing decision today. Or maybe you can take time out from your
usual routine to pursue those dreams that make you feel truly alive. Once you get
stuck into your positive qualities, you’ll get unstuck from negative situations. You’ll
start moving yourself to a more powerful personal position in life.
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Thinking of Doing It (Contemplation)
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one. In fact, liber, the source of the word library, means “to liberate
and set free” in French and Latin. New facts and ideas gleaned from
books liberate people from ignorance by providing information,
inspiration, freedom of choice, extra options and skills in critical
thinking. This motivates people to take more powerful action.
A radical 1928 novel called Death – based on historical fact and written
in its native Ukrainian language, which was forbidden at the time –
captured how the deliberate destruction of information destroyed
people completely. The brave author, Antonenko-Davydovych,
described how an oppressive government tried to exterminate a
whole nation, wipe out people’s motivation to fight back and shatter
the human spirit. How? By stealing information. The book’s hero,
Kost, mourns for his country’s knowledge, which was heartlessly
stripped and stolen by a cruel enemy:
Loaded carts creaked towards the centre of town for a whole week.
Beautiful oak desks, books in expensive bindings, cupboards, black
doleful pianos – all this was removed from imposing studies, cosy
lounge rooms, and rattled away over the damaged pavement to
some building… But it was far worse with the books. They were
unsystematically dumped on the floor of an empty room in the
public hall and here, on the dirty boards, countless titles from
various fields of knowledge, science and art found a long resting
place. Sooner or later the books would disappear… He grieved over
the books. They could alone secretly tell so much.
Knowledge is a top path to power. People can steal your car, burn
your house, use you, abuse you or dump you completely. But no one
can ever take away your freedom of choice or what you know.
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Activity – Info Shopping Spree
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Deciding to Do It (Preparation)
‘Go on then, try and hit me!’ said Neville, raising his fists. ‘I’m ready!’
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 198
To boost your motivational power and help you reach the preparation
stage like Neville did, Prochaska and DiClemente’s theory offers two
useful ideas:
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Neville also demonstrates ‘self-liberation’ because he:
·· Smoking is addictive
·· Smoking causes lung cancer
·· Smoking causes heart disease
·· Smoking kills
Although some people complain that these health warnings are bossy
or that the pictures of diseased brains, lungs and feet are gory, the
health experts are just trying to protect people and make up for lost
time. You see, when cigarettes were first introduced, this information
was not available. People didn’t know that cigarettes were such
deadly cancer-sticks. Today’s health experts argue that if we knew
how toxic, addictive and cancer-causing cigarettes were back then,
these deadly drugs would never ever have been allowed to go on the
market. So, by putting really bold messages on the packets, health
experts aren’t telling people what to do, they’re just presenting
eye-opening facts to motivate smokers to take healthy action. I’m just
using cigarette smoking as an example here, but whatever harmful
habits worry you or cause you pain, you have the power to gather
your own information, prepare yourself your way and make up your
own mind.
Just as Neville increases his power to be assertive, here are some small
but good ways to deal with cigarette smoking. If a heavy smoker cuts
back from 60 to 50 cigarettes per day, that’s preparation. If a smoker
gives up ‘morning smoko’ cigarettes from their daily routine, that’s
preparation. If a packet-a-day smoker replaces 5 cigarettes with
5 glasses of water, that’s preparation too. The preparation stage is
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the early stirrings of the action stage that comes next in the motives
model.
‘It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to our enemies, but just
as much to stand up to our friends. I therefore award ten points to
Mr Neville Longbottom.’
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 221
These ten points will go far to help Neville advance his personal
power, just as your fresh start will advance yours.
Do you have a harmful habit that has been causing problems or bothering
you lately?
To achieve instant power, why not tap into stage three of the motivational
model and star in your own psychology experiment? Consider this: What
can you do TODAY – no matter how small, simple or subtle your action
is – to start increasing your power over harmful habits in your life? Maybe
you can:
Go to this place (eg. friend’s, doctor’s, gym, new age shop): ………………
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Doing It (Action)
And there was the Horntail… crouched low over her clutch of eggs, her wings half-
furled, her evil, yellow eyes upon him…
And then she reared, spreading her great black leathery wings at last, as wide as
those of a small aeroplane – and Harry dived. Before the dragon knew what he had
done… he had seized the golden egg.
– Goblet of Fire, p. 309, p. 311
Harry’s world sure has some dangerous dragons. And, just as their
mighty wings unfurl, so does the dragon’s mighty motivational
message.
To achieve personal power – deal with your dragons and acquire the
treasure that dragons protect – it may help to apply strategies from
Prochaska and DiClemente’s action stage:
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the Phoenix. Don’t mix with untrustworthy drug dealers or Death
Eaters.
Reward Yourself – for making positive changes and taking more
powerful actions. A good example in Harry’s world is that the
Hogwarts houses receive bonus points whenever students take
positive action. Dudley Dursley rewards himself with ice-cream – all
the time!
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Activity – Action Fever
What’s your top motivational tip? You know, that really special action trick
that sets your passion on fire and keeps you going all day (and maybe all
night) long?
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These people give me ‘action fever’. They motivate me so much that I just
can’t get enough:
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2.
3.
To maintain healthy, happy and powerful action, I treat myself with these
amazing rewards (Come on, spoil yourself!):
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Still Doing It (Maintenance)
‘Good-day,’ said Professor Trelawney in her usual misty, dreamy voice… ‘And
welcome back to Divination. I have, of course, been following your fortunes most
carefully over the holidays, and am delighted to see that you have all returned to
Hogwarts safely – as, of course, I knew you would.’
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 214
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Shaquille O’Neill paraphrases the ancient philosopher Aristotle in
saying: “Excellence is not a singular act but a habit. You are what
you repeatedly do”. This is exactly what Professor Trelawney
demonstrates. No matter how much her Divination classes drive the
students crazy, no matter how off target her predictions are, she keeps
on crystal-ball gazing, she keeps on tea-leaf reading and she keeps on
predicting the future. She maintains her enthusiasm for Divination
no matter what. This makes Sibyll Trelawney a highly motivated
maintenance magician.
Which actions, when you repeat them often, help you to STAY happy, healthy
and in personal control of your life? For example, if you want to run well in
a marathon, it pays to run at least 60 minutes each day. If you want to get fit
and dance well, it helps to take dance classes on Monday, Wednesday AND
Friday. Or play your How-to-Break-Dance DVD five times a week. The best
way to get hot, hot, hot is to do more, more, more. Maximise motivation and
free your inner power by developing your own individual plan:
Monday:
Tuesday:
Wednesday:
Thursday:
Friday:
Saturday:
Sunday:
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2. Re-Invent Yourself
If you re-vamp your image in a positive way and see yourself as the
kind of person you want to be, it will help you to maintain powerful
action. In Harry’s world, Sibyll Trelawney’s self-image as a powerful
prophet would surely help her to maintain her power to recall the Lost
Prophecy. After all, the name “Sibyll” comes from myth. The Sibyls
were famous prophets who offered extraordinary visions. Sibyll
Trelawney is a sibyl in Harry’s world – someone who is a prophet, a
Seer, a sorceress. Professor Trelawney also presents herself properly as
a prophet in the way she dresses. With help from her huge spectacles,
an abundance of beaded necklaces and colourful free-flowing clothes,
Trelawney comes across as someone who possesses powerful insight,
an eccentric personality and a creative (and therefore unconstrained)
mind that can see far and wide. According to the motivation model,
Trelawney’s strong belief and image of herself as a strong Seer enable
her to be a strong Seer. In times of need, Professor Trelawney shows
daring Divination and pure prophecy power. Trelawney’s strong,
steady and sincere belief in herself as a proper prophet definitely
helps her to see all with her ‘Inner Eye’ and maintain incredible inner
powers.
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Activity – Who am I… really?
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Wearing clothes to make statements about who I am (e.g. hippy, punk, street-wise
rebel, disco-diva):
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Decorating myself and wearing stylish accessories (pink hair, punk hair, body glitter,
henna tattoo, natural-look shell necklace, cool sunglasses):
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Saying really helpful things about myself – to myself (“I will become what I believe”,
“Watch me dance to the top” or “When I run races, I rock”):
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Developing a lean, mean motto to motivate myself (“Jump high, reach the sky”,
“I’m grabbing my GOOAAALS!” or “When my stars guide, troubles hide”):
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Well done!
Off you go then – put the book down and go style crazy!
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3. Mix with the Good Sort
List your three most valuable, trusted and empowering sources of support:
1.
2.
3.
100 positive power points are instantly awarded to your ‘Social Support
House’!
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An assessment of the conditions under which a person was likely
to relapse and development of alternative responses for coping
with such conditions without responding to self-defeating and
pathological responses.
This simply means if you know where you’re likely to stuff up, and
you use clever coping tricks, then you won’t go backwards and stuff
up completely. Trelawney might put it this way: “Keep your eye on
the Grim, and things won’t ever get grim”. That’s prediction power.
It means steering clear of negative people, places and products that
you predict could have a harmful influence. For example, to be
powerful:
If you predict the times and places that you are likely to relapse – get
worse, go backwards or revert to bad habits – then you can prevent
power loss. Both the magic world and the real world can be tough
places. But if you plan, predict and persist, you can protect yourself
and increase personal power.
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Activity – Prediction Power
Are you ready to star-stare, gaze deeply into a crystal ball and have a
go at reading your own psychological tea-leaves? If so, try this…
Predict HARM: What’s a situation that could make you suffer, bring you
down or pressure you to take unhelpful action? For example:
“If I hang around with the neighbourhood gang, they will surely lead me
astray and pressure me to do bad things.”
“I’ve figured out that my weak spot, the thing that makes me get really
angry and lose it, is other people’s criticisms of me.”
So now you know some of the hottest motivational moves from the
field of psychology. Flippin’ fairies! Have you reached this part of the
book already? Then you are truly growing more powerful!
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Take Powerful Action
I
n Harry’s world:
Just as Harry’s world is highly active, it matters what, and how much,
action people take in the real world. Powerful people plan, apply and
refine their actions until their approach works well and they achieve
what they want. People who want to be cooks cook. People who
want to be dancers dance. People determined to survive – the desert,
city streets, war zones – increase their chances of survival when they
adapt their actions, gather provisions, protect themselves and do
whatever it takes. Not only do powerful people take lots of positive
action in line with their goals, but they do so persistently and with
passion. Great cooks love cooking. Great dancers practise until past
midnight. Many war survivors have performed extraordinary feats. A
main difference between satisfied, successful people and unsatisfied,
unsuccessful people in life is that the first lot of people do things.
They take powerful action. You only live once – life is not a movie
you can replay.
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Dumb and Dumber: Stop power loss – now!
‘You see that house upon the hillside, Potter? My father lived there. My mother, a
witch who lived here in this village, fell in love with him. But he abandoned her…
… and she died giving birth to me, leaving me to be raised in a Muggle orphanage…
but I vowed to find him… that fool who gave me his name.’
– Goblet of Fire, pp. 560-561
In Harry’s world, Voldemort blames the past for his present misery.
“My miserable feelings and evil actions are all daddy’s fault,” the
Dark Lord suggests. If Voldemort’s father really did abandon his
family, then this may have been an incredibly careless, neglectful and
‘dumb’ action. But if Voldemort is choosing to hold on to that idea,
stew over it relentlessly over time and intensify his painful feelings
for many years afterwards, then this action is even ‘dumber’.
In the real world, many people with miserable pasts tend to think in
the same way as Voldemort does. Many people do not mean to, but
they let dumb people who did dumb things to them steal all their
present power. It’s a bit like sacrificing yourself to a vampire from
the past, and just letting that blood-sucker feed on your new energy,
your current vitality. Here are some examples of this kind of power
loss:
·· It’s not my fault I’m so miserable all the time; my family never
loved me.
·· I can’t help smashing things up. My dad used to beat me up all the
time when I was a kid.
·· I use drugs because my first three boyfriends abused me.
·· I boss my girlfriend around because she should do whatever I tell
her – that’s how my family brought me up.
People who say things like “I can’t get ahead because of what
happened to me” or “I was treated badly by my family when I was
a kid” are causing a power shut down. “I can’t do that because my
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parents yelled at me when I was five” merely describes a bad time,
place and condition that happened long ago when that person was
five years old. The reality, however, is that this time has now passed –
gone forever. The more people dwell on history and replay their own
private horror movie, the more power they are surrendering to a bad
experience that doesn’t even exist anymore.
When people keep reminding themselves about how bad and unfair
life has been to them, they are plugging their precious power supply
into a miserable black hole. Personal power from the present gets
sucked down, down, down into that terrible time and place that those
people claim to really hate. They might as well let a Dementor kiss
them. It’s like they’re giving themselves a life sentence in Azkaban,
transporting themselves to a prison which they built all by themselves
using their worst ever memories.
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were difficult before. It is also a reality that you have the power to
take helpful and responsible action now, which will help you to feel
fulfilled and truly powerful. What are some positive actions you can
take right now to feel better and put things right?”
Whether you know it yet or not, now is the most powerful moment
of all. Whatever action you take right now will determine your future
and your future happiness. Bad circumstances don’t limit people,
people’s unhelpful attitudes to those circumstances do.
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Activity – The Real Deal
If you want to be more powerful in life and beat deadly blasts from
the past, why not be your own reality therapist and apply your
answers to your own situations?
“You had a bad past. What action can you take at this very moment to
improve things?”
“If you’re feeling unhappy, are you sure you are taking the most effective
action right now to move ahead?”
“You’re having trouble coming up with helpful ideas. Who can you talk to
for extra support?”
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The Full Monty: Top exposure tips
‘We need to know what it’s r-really like… facing him… facing V-Voldemort.’
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 293
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met one or practised on one before. Even Professor Dumbledore
supports exposure therapy:
When Harry tries to talk about Voldemort in his first year at Hogwarts
and falters, Dumbledore gives him some sound psychological
advice:
When you think about it, how can Harry, or anyone at all, overcome
something fearful, if they feel too scared to talk about it?
When feelings of fear and anxiety interfere with people’s daily lives
in significant and serious ways, then that fear is called an ‘anxiety
disorder’ or ‘phobia’. Some phobias that people experience include:
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·· To overcome a phobia of snakes, people can look at pictures of
snakes, then watch snake movies, and then maybe cuddle a harmless
python.
Slow and steady steps that suit your individual needs ensure that
exposure works. Here’s a real exposure plan to help people overcome
a fear of spiders from Trevor Powell’s Mental Health Handbook:
In case your feelings of fear ever get too overwhelming, it’s good to
know that something out there works well. And as Professor Lupin
surely knows, exposure treatment works best when:
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Fear-fighting exposure helps the fear to go away and stay away.
Of course, to deal with really strong fears and phobias it is best to
have professional support, especially from a psychologist, since they
specialise in exposure treatment. Just think, you could have a fear-
fighting lesson with your very own Lupin!
Imagine you’re the star of a strip-tease club… stop, stop, stop! Totally wrong
idea!
Catching a cold from flashing your naked X-Rated butt isn’t effective
X-posure!
To boost your personal power, write/draw just ONE good exposure trick
that you could use to beat something that makes you feel really anxious.
EXAMPLE: “I’m too scared to talk in front of everyone. But maybe I can
develop my speaking skills if I X-Pose myself in these ways: Talking in front
of a mirror, and then to a friend.”
Stuck for ideas? Then why not X-Pose your problem to the outside world by
asking someone to help you? This will both weaken the problem and help
you to free your inner power.
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The Power of One: How far can a little act go?
‘Wingardium Leviosa!’
The club flew suddenly out of the troll’s hand, rose high, high up into the air, turned
slowly over – and dropped, with a sickening crack, on to its owner’s head.
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 130
Although the ugly troll in the girls’ toilet is twelve feet tall, furious
and stinks, it provides a knock-out message for people in the real
world. What does the toilet troll teach? That taking just one small
action is powerful.
In the real world, one drive to another city changed everything for
one famous country music star. Shania Twain turned her whole life
around and upstaged hardship with her early solo act. Born to a poor
family in Canada, Twain’s childhood home often had no electricity
or enough food to eat. Her father deserted the family when she was
two years old. Speaking to an interviewer, Twain explains how one
action saved her and her whole family from a lifetime of misery:
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dad was gone. I said, “All you have to do is drive.” I don’t know
why she listened to me. We drove to Toronto and went to a shelter.
We finally got fed every day.
The turning point was when Twain convinced her mother to drive
to a new city. Once in Toronto, Ms Twain got a singing job and her
mother worked as a cook in the same club. Twain often worked two
to three jobs because she was determined not to be so poor again.
She was finally on her way to a music career, happiness and a more
powerful life. Even the name Shania means: ‘I’m on my way’. Now,
Ms Twain finances charities that support poor families like the one
she came from.
All it takes is one small action to get stronger, feel happier and make
your world better and brighter. One small action can go a long way,
if not all the way, and it’s all within your power.
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Activity – Stepping Out
A 1000 mile journey starts with just one step. To make a positive difference
to my world now and change my destiny for the better, one small action
I can take today/tonight is: (Draw a travelling footprint below and write
your answer inside it)
Dog
Giant
Phoenix
Homo-sapien (human)
Goblin
Cat
………………………………..
(Or conjure up your own footprint)
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The Power of Animals
Animal Attraction
There were cats of every colour, a noisy cage of ravens, a basket of funny custard-
coloured furballs that were humming loudly, and, on the counter, a vast cage
of sleek black rats.
– Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 48
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with the animal kingdom – meditating, chanting, singing or dancing
– our ancestors increased their power to survive and thrive in a tough
and unpredictable world. These old shamanic beliefs prompted ideas
about spirit animals and the Animagi magicians in Harry’s world.
When Hermione initially dismisses the idea of a ghost dog and plays
down animal spirituality, Trelawney delivers a divine warning: close
your mind and deny a possible spirit side to animals, and your own
spiritual power could suffer. In Hermione’s case, Trelawney detects
a weak aura, a sign of an under-developed spiritual state.
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animal in the real world has power, meaning and an important
message to help us.
Ant – the most awesome ability of the ant is its social behaviour.
Biologically programmed to care for and cooperate with each other,
ants are the most sociable organism on the planet. If Dumbledore’s
Army of magicians is anything like a highly evolved army of ants, it
will be a powerful force indeed.
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Dragonfly – this harmless insect has close links with the magic
realm. Able to live in water (as larvae) as well as in air (as a
winged adult), dragonflies have the power to transform. When
dragonflies hover, their wings make a low hum or droning sound.
According to psychologist Dr Doreen Virtue, these calm vibrations
clean, neutralise and transform harmful energy in the air. Also,
psychology studies show that people who listen to calm music and
drum rhythms, or who repeat nice words to themselves, can clear
the mind of unsettled and intrusive thoughts. These top meditation
tricks transform stressful and unpleasant psychological states into
peaceful and pleasant ones. The wise Dumbledore, who loves
humming to himself, is surely applying this powerful psychological
strategy.
Snake – many cultures have feared and revered snakes for centuries.
Since snakes bite, strike, squeeze or poison their prey to death,
they have developed a reputation for being aggressive. Slytherin
students, whose house bears the sign of the snake, often show
unhealthy aggression – they can be rude, arrogant and downright
bossy. Of course, if someone wants to squash your head with a
shovel, then snaky Slytherin aggression can be a bonus behaviour.
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Wolf – just as Professor Remus Lupin, with his wolvish name and
features, bonds with the Potters and helps to nurture Harry, the
wolf’s power lies in its ability to nurture, bond with others and
form sincere relationships. The wolf’s message: you will be more
powerful if you stick with the pack. The wolf is sacred to the native
people of North America and features in the Indian Medicine
Wheel. It is said that when brave warriors die, their souls turn into
wolves. The wolf’s eerie call of the wild beckons us to run free with
the group, making the wolf nature’s most awesome howler.
As these amazing animals from the land, sea and sky suggest, every
living creature on the planet has awesome abilities that have ruled
human hearts since the dawn of time.
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Activity – My Awesome Animal
1.
2.
3.
The animal you chose is supposed to represent your most positive image
of yourself.
The abilities/features that you have just described above point to qualities
that you strongly admire in yourself or desire to develop.
EXAMPLE: If you said you really admire lions because they are 1) confident,
2) independent and 3) rule their territory well, then this suggests that you
too value self-confidence, independence and feelings of personal control
in your own life. Who knows, you might have the so-called ‘big heart’ of a
lion as well.
If you want to free your inner power, you might need to shape up and
showcase your lion-like confidence and independence as much as possible.
Don’t just purr a little – ROAR!
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Shape-Shifting: What It Feels Like
Peter Pettigrew – is a magician who can turn himself into a rat named
Scabbers. The rat is a suitable animal for Peter to emulate as a spy
for the bad side, because this fits with the rat’s reputation in Western
culture as a cunning and corrupt creature. However, it may also help
to remember that rats are actually clever, skilful and sweet animals
who, just like us, are trying to survive in a world we all share.
Sirius Black – a good friend of the Potter family, Sirius Black can
transform into a black dog. Even the name Sirius happens to be the
name of a bright star in the sky known as ‘the dog star’. Disguised as
a dog, Sirius can roam freely in Harry’s world, guiding and protecting
his closest friends.
James Potter – Harry’s father can shift himself into the shape of a
stag. The nickname Prongs refers to the two antlers that grow out of a
stag’s head, which do look like a big pair of prongs. As a stag, Harry’s
dad could easily leap to safety and outrun dangerous enemies.
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Rita Skeeter – the smallest Animagus in Harry’s world may also be
the most cleverly crafted. As a nosy journalist who can change herself
into a “large, fat beetle” (Goblet of Fire, p. 631), both Rita’s name
and behaviour have special animal meanings. When Rita adopts
the shape of a small insect, she can listen to private conversations
without being noticed. In myth and magic, the beetle represents
renewal through decomposition because beetles change raw material
into new material. The dung beetle is famed for changing manure
into nesting material. Along the same lines, Rita the beetle collects
information for her stories, and then turns this raw material into a
new product she calls ‘news’. As gross as it sounds, just like a dung
beetle, Rita makes an awfully good living preparing dung.
Ancient Irish Celts were also into animal magic. A book called
Celtic Spirituality explains that nature-loving Augurs (wise men and
women) were:
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Once Puck used fairy magic to change a man’s head into that of a
donkey, which proved to be a shocking sight indeed. Similarly, Victor
Krum in Harry’s world could change his head into a shark.
Harry clapped his hands around his throat, and felt two large slits
just below his ears, flapping in the cold air… he had gills. Without
pausing to think… he flung himself forwards into the water.
The first gulp of icy lake water felt like the breath of life… He
stretched out his hands in front of him and stared at them. They
looked green and ghostly under the water, and they had become
webbed. He twisted around and looked at his bare feet – they had
become elongated… as though he had sprouted flippers.
The water didn’t feel icy any more, either… he felt pleasantly cool,
and very light.
– Goblet of Fire, p. 429
Growing gills and long webbed feet enabled Harry to swim easily
underwater.
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problems and resolve emotional distress. Thinking about a “majestic
eagle soaring freely” or “the beauty in the flight of a flock of birds”
are powerful ways to put yourself in a calm, confident and creative
mood, says Dr Fine.
Even the world of sport has filched animal power. “Mighty Richmond
Tigers!” “Brave Footscray Bulldogs!” “Good ol’ Collingwood
Magpies!” Australian Rules Football teams use and embellish
powerful animal images to boost the sporty spirit and performance
of their players.
Why not free your imagination and boost your personal power by
trying some Animagus-style magic yourself? Acquire and admire
your very own animal associate…
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Activity – Do-It-Yourself Shape-Shifting
If you are worried, feeling down, or you just want to lift your mood or confidence a
bit, why not connect to an animal in your imagination for a while, and see how you
feel? After all, if you really want to succeed at something, first you must see yourself
being successful in your imagination, just like top athletes do.
A good time to find an animal that’s right for you is when you’re in bed and ready for
sleep, as your body will be relaxed and your mind more open to creative suggestion.
Clear your head of worries and inner chatter. In your mind, picture yourself standing
in front of a still and silent lake. Let your whole body absorb the lake’s positive
and calm energy. As you look beyond the sparkling surface of the lake into its dark
and mysterious depths, ask for your powerful animal to reveal itself to you. Say
something in your mind like:
“I, ………..........….. (say your name), respectfully invite the animal deemed to be my
best guide to come forth and share his or her wisdom and power with me. May we
forge a true and trusty alliance, helping each other to be happier, healthier and more
powerful.”
Focus on this idea, keeping your mind clear of other thoughts. Make sure your heart
is sending out loving feelings, as spirit animals tend to shy away from negative
or unsettled energy. As you gaze into the darkness, an animal, maybe not clearly
formed yet, may appear. First, a pair of eyes. Then, a face and body. Your special
animal could be a mammal, bird, reptile, insect or something else. Notice the details
about this animal. What sort of eyes does it have? Are they bright, dark or soft? Is
your animal covered in feathers, fur or scales? Does it have a tail? Be sure to notice
your animal’s behaviour. Is your animal quiet, lively, friendly or fiercely protective?
Maybe the head is held high with pride, the tail is swishing happily or the animal is
crouched low – ready to pounce on an important goal.
Imagine yourself absorbing the power and personality of your animal, and going
on an important journey as that animal. Maybe you see yourself galloping across an
open field, soaring high above the cliffs or swimming under the water… whatever
you want to experience! Never be afraid – anytime you want to stop racing, flying or
swimming, simply look for the magic lake and imagine yourself standing back at its
tranquil edge once again. You never know… maybe your animal has left a message
for you to boost your feelings of confidence and well-being. Is there a special word,
picture or sign on the ground at the edge of the lake? Use this message to guide
yourself meaningfully should a special challenge arise in the future.
When all is done, bow before your new friend, humbly thank him or her for the
great experience you’ve just had, and set your animal free to the eternal safety of
the magic lake.
From now on, you will always have a special bond together as you have joined
forces with this animal and have discovered what it feels like to be one.
This activity was kindly co-written and shifted into shape with help from Erik Gorton,
Secretary for Animal Liberation Victoria.
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Whether you shape-shift into an animal as a magician or summon
animal power through meditation, one thing is for sure. Nothing else
comes close to that shape-shifting feeling.
Why must Hogwarts students bring animals like the owl or cat or
toad? Not only are these animals familiar to us, they also happen to
be famous familiars. A ‘familiar’ is a traditional magic creature.
·· Owls
·· Bats
·· Cats
·· Rats
·· Ravens
·· Snakes
·· Spiders
·· Toads
In the Middle Ages, most people believed that these animals had magic
powers. Cats, for example, were said to have the power to find lost
objects, diagnose illnesses and remove poison from humans. Other
creatures, such as owls and ravens, were said to perform Divination
– just like Professor Trelawney predicts things – or summon storms
as did the ancient gods. In return for performing magical services,
witches would reward their animals. A delicious food treat, like cake
or fruit, was never wasted. Many people who practised magic and
medicine had great love and respect for their precious familiars,
regarding them not only as equals, but as friends.
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Favourite Magic Creatures
Where in Harry Potter’s World? Magic Powers A Message to Increase Your Power...
Perception
Crookshanks – Hermione’s fluffy ginger cat.
Cleverness
C Mrs Norris – a scrawny cat with bright bulging eyes. Cats have superior vision. And their eyes change appearance when light
A Snowy, Tufty, and Mr Paws are cats that Harry’s neighbour Mrs Communication strikes them from different angles. It is said that this allows cats to see
T Figgs adores. Independence through deception and disguises in life, just as Crookshanks can see
Professor McGonagoll – is a powerful witch who can change Healing through disguises. If you strive to observe things carefully from different
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herself into a tabby cat. angles, you are bound to maximise your powers of sight and insight.
Protection
Quotes: ‘Meow!’ Flight
Curiosity
Scabbers – a fat, grey rat that has lived with the Weasley family. Cleverness
R Some people might trash your world and violate your space, but remember,
A Peter Pettigrew – a treacherous wizard who disguised himself as Productivity these are the very conditions in which the smart, industrious, and
T a rat. Disease adaptable city rat excels. From the rubble and the rubbish, the slick rebel
Destruction rat rises to power.
Quotes: ‘Squeak!’
The spider is the first creature that Harry has contact with in the
S story. Harry sleeps with them in his stair cupboard and pulls them Creativity
P out of his socks. Chemistry Spiders can help us to win big battles in life. When a Scottish hero
I Aragog – a giant spider in the Forbidden Forest. Intelligence named Robert Bruce was feeling down and despondent in his cave, he
D What’s the answer to the Sphinx’s riddle? ‘Spider’ – a creature you watched the persistent and patient efforts of a spider weave its web.
Industry
E wouldn’t want to kiss. This convinced him to keep fighting against enemy soldiers. Our creative
R Tarantallegra – a dancing spell in Harry’s world, named after the Aggression powers, especially when combined with spider-like determination, help us
tarantula spider. Luck to triumph.
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Life Cycle
Quotes: ‘Click’ go the pincers. ‘Click, click, click.’
Magic
Trevor is a toad that belongs to Neville Longbottom. Alchemy
T Although the toad is famed for producing hallucinogenic poisons in its skin
Transformation and is an “A List” guest at witch festivals, the main message of this creature
O Trevor was a gift from Neville’s Great Uncle Algie.
Transition (which many people view as ugly) is that real beauty is found on the inside.
A Get it? Toads live in dark damp places, where ‘algae’ grows. Still, Trevor could look really cool dressed in a tie and tiara – warts and all!
D Protection
Quotes: ‘Croak!’ Life Cycle
Hidden Beauty
In Harry’s world, there’s one character who loves animals and gets
familiar with just about any familiar or unfamiliar beast: the Care of
Magical Creatures teacher, Hagrid. His animal friends have included
freshly hatched dragons, unicorns, hippogriffs, giant spiders,
skrewts, flobberworms, nifflers and dogs – one-headed and three-
headed varieties! Hagrid doesn’t condemn animals just because they
bite, sting, scratch or poison. He seems to appreciate that animals are
naturally geared to do these things in order to survive and protect
themselves, and he cares for all creatures, great and small. This makes
Hagrid a giant animal ambassador. And just like Hagrid, people
everywhere in the world today are bonding really affectionately with
animals in ways that boost their power.
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Beasts Boost Power
‘Phoenix tears…’ said Riddle quietly, staring at Harry’s arm. ‘Of course… healing
powers…’
– Chamber of Secrets, p. 237
Fantastic Friends
Harry walked across the dark room, past Hedwig’s large, empty cage… he hoped
she’d be back soon. She was the only living creature in this house who didn’t flinch
at the sight of him.
– Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 10
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power. Leading animal experts prefer not to use the term ‘pet’
because this implies that humans own animals as possessions. Do
your parents own you? No. Does your girlfriend or boyfriend own
you? No. Does your boss own you? No way. So, why should we own
animals? It’s much more powerful to think of animals as our friends,
companions and equals, especially because they really, truly are.
That’s right! People who share their lives with animals and care
well for them are physically healthier and emotionally happier than
people without animal friends. According to Australian research
psychologist Jill Charker, simply looking at a fish swim around in
a bowl of water lowers a person’s pulse rate. Some recent research
on fish has found that placing aquariums in private homes and in
hospitals stimulates human appetite and reduces aggression in
people who need constant nursing care. Go, Nemo!
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The act of touching and stroking a bird like Fawkes comforts Harry
greatly. This activity promotes emotional healing because it’s sociable,
pleasurable and relaxing.
Speaking of birds, do you know how far beaks boost power in the
real world? According to a remarkable report, one feathered animal
settled down a whole institute of disturbed people. That’s right! A
special centre in Washington is supposed to be treating young people
with serious behaviour problems… except there aren’t any problems
every second Saturday. This is because children aged six to twelve
years are looking forward to a visit from their special friends: dogs,
cats, rabbits and guinea pigs. But the star of the show is Pickles – a
black Indian mynah bird with fierce orange eyes just like Buckbeak.
Pickles talks to the children, nibbles their clothes and buttons and
preens their hair. When Pickles isn’t working with people, she
cruises around in cars, listens to music and sings Italian opera for
her church.
As well as sight and touch, animal noises can also calm and soothe
humans. When budgies chirp, cats purr or wild dolphins splash
around at sea, these happy animal sounds comfort people. The call
of one creature gave Harry so much support that it helped him to
deal much better with a painful trauma:
The phoenix let out one soft, quavering note. It shivered in the air,
and Harry felt as though a drop of hot liquid had slipped down his
throat into his stomach, warming him, and strengthening him.
– Goblet of Fire, p. 603
Harry felt devastated after Voldemort murdered his school friend. But
the sweet sound of Fawkes the phoenix soothed Harry considerably.
This excellent example from Harry’s world illustrates just how
profoundly animals can help our health.
They wandered down to the lake and flopped under a tree. The Weasley twins and
Lee Jordan were tickling the tentacles of a giant squid, which was basking in the
warm shallows.
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 192
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In the real world, the chances of finding a magic octopus’s garden in
the shade like this one are pretty slim. But if you call ‘AAA’ – Animal-
Assisted Activities – you will definitely get something interesting.
An animal-assisted activity, or AAA, is an activity where an animal
assists a human. AAA animals give aid to people who are unwell,
injured, live alone or have special needs. In psychology, a formal
definition of AAA says that it offers “opportunities for motivational,
educational, recreational, and/or therapeutic benefits to enhance
quality of life”.
·· Emotion
·· Communication
·· Confidence
·· Friendship
·· Awareness of surroundings
·· Sensitivity to feelings of others
·· Physical coordination
·· Social skills
·· Spiritual fulfilment
·· Fun
In the real world, a dog called John, for example, helps to cheer up
sick children at hospital:
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John is a ‘therapy dog’ who has been visiting sick children for years.
He is part of an Australian program called Visiting Pets as Therapy.
This program involves volunteers who take their pets to hospitals
and nursing homes around the city of Melbourne. Scientific evidence
shows that hospital patients who interact with animals get better
sooner.
Let me tell you a story about a young man I know, who I will call
‘Ben’. Ben had a major psychotic illness and attended a mental health
centre where I worked. Due to the severe nature of his illness, Ben
showed very little emotion and he was very withdrawn. He never
looked anyone in the eyes or talked to anyone. When Ben came to
the centre, he just walked through the door, right past the reception
desk, and sat down in a lonely corner of the waiting room. One day,
however, Ben spotted something new – a small green parrot with
blue wings. Next time when I came down to take Ben up to my office,
the reception staff waved me over to them. Excitedly, they told me
that Ben had come right up to the reception desk – something he had
never done before. Ben approached staff himself to ask about this
funny green bird with a black face just like Zorro’s. “Dr Sykley, is that
your bird?” Ben asked. “Yes,” I replied. “Her name is ‘Jamaica’.” “Oh,
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she’s pretty. Can I hold her?” So I opened the cage and put Jamaica
on Ben’s hand. Ben kept still so as not to frighten her. Then, Ben did
something I had never seen before – he smiled. Jamaica climbed
up his arm and perched on his shoulder just as the Consultant
Psychiatrist walked past. “Oh, you have a new friend, Ben? That’s
good.” Ben smiled a bit more. And when Jamaica performed her
tricks – like waving hello with her foot and pulling toy cars across
the floor – everyone at the centre stopped and smiled. Over the next
few weeks, Ben attended every therapy group. He did not miss any
medical appointments and he took his medicine every day – just so
that he could see Jamaica. A friendly little parrot boosted the power
of a person with a debilitating mental illness. Sometimes, the best
therapy in the world for a lonely, hurt or unwell person is powerful
animal healing.
‘This cat isn’t mad,’ said Black hoarsely. He reached out a bony hand and stroked
Crookshanks’s fluffy head. ‘He’s the most intelligent of his kind I’ve ever met. He
recognised Peter for what he was straight away. And when he met me, he knew I was
no dog.’
– Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 267
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cute and crazy animals are pawing, purring or pecking their way into
the lives of people who have never had a friend before. Animals are
restoring trust, encouraging healthy habits and as a result, reducing
the risk of criminal behaviour. Animals seem to have an uncanny
ability to help, heal and empower even the most unresponsive and
seriously disturbed individuals, including troubled offenders. Why
do creatures lead the way as effective crime-stoppers?
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Rhino Rescue
‘I fell in!’ he said shrilly… ‘It was brilliant! And something in the water grabbed me
and pushed me back in the boat!’
‘Cool!’ said Colin, just as excitedly. ‘It was probably the giant squid, Dennis!’
– Goblet of Fire, p. 159
When Dennis falls into the lake, a sea-monster saves him. Whilst meeting
a magic mollusc the size of a submarine is highly unlikely in real life, some
people are having incredible life-changing experiences with other unusual
creatures.
Consider a black beauty like Bahkita. She is a rare Black Rhinoceros who
lives at the Western Plains Zoo in Australia. Thanks very much to a group
of low security offenders, Bakhita has a great new home. The New South
Wales Department of Corrective Services teamed up with the Zoological
Parks Board. The result? Rhino rescue! A small group of prisoners working
in mobile outreach teams visited the zoo. They modified Bahkita’s living
space and resurfaced the ground to make it more rhino-friendly. Now
Bakhita’s home is much more “comfortable [and] should encourage natural
behaviour like rolling and creating mud wallows,” said the Minister for
Justice, Tony Kelly. Gracing the cover of a magazine, Bakhita looks quite
content as she munches on some juicy leaves. Thanks, fellas! But wait.
Who’s really rescuing who? While prisoners were repairing and renovating
Bakhita’s naturalistic home, this one-horned one-off – a creature said to have
inspired the legend of the unicorn – was boosting the skills, confidence and
empathy of the prisoners.
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Why are animals such powerful crime-stoppers? I posit that beasts
beat crime on the inside – twice. First, animals get to go inside a top
secret prison world, past many physical barriers like the steel gates,
razor wire and securely locked doors. Second, animals get past even
tougher psychological barriers. They get inside a person’s head and
heart. Animals can change what people think, feel, do and value –
they strengthen inner power. Forensic psychologists call criminal
attitudes and anti-social behaviours ‘dynamic risk factors’. These
risky factors are dynamic because they can change. If people want
to, they can modify their thoughts and behaviours. When offenders
form close bonds with animals, the animals help to shape and shift
unhealthy criminal behaviour. Animals deactivate destructive habits
and they get through negative psychological build-up in emotionally
damaged individuals. Slowly and steadily, every pat, stroke or tickle
from an animal soothes deep hurt, chips away at hardened hatred,
neutralises noxious thinking and acts as an antidote for anger.
Animals can often reach many ‘hard to get to’ and ‘never before
touched’ places in the minds and hearts of people who have never
before experienced a healthy emotional relationship. Whether it’s a
fish tank or a possum pen next to a prison bed, animals are around for
support 24/7 – whereas people usually are not. As for baby animals
who need 24-hour care themselves and frequent feeding sessions,
studies show that these set-ups have improved behaviour even in
the most violent offenders. Animals teach toughened individuals to
respect and value life. A single peck can infiltrate the hardest emotions
that years of sticky-beak therapy may not.
Animals may be one of the most powerful ways to stop violence and
hate crimes in the real world. Professor Leo Bustad argues that people
are born to care and have a natural drive to nurture. If people haven’t
been nurtured well themselves or don’t have anything to care about,
then they struggle to adjust or be healthy. Animals are powerful
crime-stoppers because they teach people to consider the needs of
others. Prisoners who helped to care for animals at the Lotus Glen
Correctional Centre in Queensland, for example, reported feeling
happier and behaved less aggressively than prisoners not involved
in animal activities. Making wooden bush boxes for wild owls to
nest in and growing the right gum leaves for koalas to eat are just
two inventive animal-related projects this prison has started. Animal
programs develop valuable psychological powers because helping
animals has much more meaning than washing dishes or scrubbing
floors. As one offender once told me, “helping animals is different
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because it gets you to think and feel”. When people do something for
the greater good, they feel good – and that’s a really powerful way to
change behaviour for the better, for longer.
Perhaps the most special theory to explain why beasts beat crime is
one that credits the animals. Despite their fierce growls, steely talons
and gnashing teeth, animals are a lot less threatening than people.
“Shut up or I’ll smack you in the mouth”, “You’re hopeless, you
don’t do anything right” and “Why did you do that for, you bloody
idiot?” are things that you will never hear an animal say to a human.
Emotional bonds with animals are 100% abuse-free. Only one animal
– humans – inflicts widespread and deliberate emotional cruelty.
“As nonjudgmental, inexhaustible, fountains of love and loyalty,
animals were natural vehicles for penetrating the shell surrounding
the disturbed, the isolated, the mentally or physically disabled,”
says Dr Bernard Rollin. Since animals are innocent and do not have
malicious intentions, they activate our own uncorrupted innocence.
Animals treat us how we want to be treated, which brings out the best
in everyone. Fierce or fluffy, feathered or fanged, animals promote
healthy behaviour as top crime-stoppers.
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Top Creature Care
‘Years ago,’ said Aragog fretfully… ‘They believed that I was the monster
that dwells in what they call the Chamber of Secrets.’
– Chamber of Secrets, p. 205
As Harry’s world shows, all creatures great and small, strange and
scary, feathery and leathery, have feelings. From an owl’s delight as
it glides through the night, to the strong despair of a black dog on
the run, to the bold rush of anger that fires up an insulted hippogriff,
animals in Harry’s world express powerful emotions. The more
you understand and appreciate animal emotions, the happier and
healthier your own emotional world will be.
In the real world, scientific evidence proves that animals have rich
emotional lives. Dr Jaak Panksepp, a psychologist and neuroscientist,
has studied animal emotions for more than 30 years. Using cutting
edge scientific techniques like brain imaging, chemical analysis and
superior field observations, Dr Panksepp has gathered hard evidence
which proves that animals, especially warm-blooded mammals, have
feelings.
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telling the brain: “Hurry up and release those chemicals that are
going to soothe and comfort me. I need to feel better!” Altogether, Dr
Panksepp has identified seven emotional drives that both animals
and humans experience:
·· Fear
·· Anger
·· Lust
·· Need to get care
·· Need to give care
·· Grief
·· Joy/Play
7 Animal Emotions
1 FEAR – ‘The thing that lives in the castle,’ said Aragog, ‘is an ancient
creature we spiders fear above all others.’ (Chamber of Secrets, p. 206)
Aragog, the biggest spider in Harry’s world, experiences strong fear. If we
increase our awareness that animals feel fear, then we free our inner powers
to care and bond better with others. “We do a lot of bad things to animals
because we don’t believe that they feel anything. They’re afraid of death.
They’re afraid of injury. They’re afraid of being alone – like us,” says Mark
Bittner, an unemployed musician from San Francisco, in his film The Wild
Parrots of Telegraph Hill – the first longitudinal study of parrots and how
they bond. It can only help, not hurt, to appreciate that all creatures – even
slugs and spiders – retreat from danger, recoil from pain and have a basic
‘fear’ response.
2 ANGER – ‘What did you call us?’ shouted a wild-looking black centaur…
There was a great deal of angry muttering and tightening of bowstrings
around them. (Order of the Phoenix, p. 664)
Given that these magic creatures have such fiery tempers, it is definitely
unwise to stir up a centaur. If Professor Umbridge is going to provoke animals
and offend centaurs with names like “filthy half-breeds” and “uncontrollable
animals”, then it’s only natural that animals defend themselves from such
attacks. When Umbridge makes the going get tough, the tough centaurs get
going, letting their sharpest arrows fly. For all animals around the world,
anger is natural and necessary for survival.
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3 LUST – There was a funny spluttering noise from behind them.
Pigwidgeon was choking on an overlarge Owl Treat. (Goblet of Fire, p.
140)
It will be hard to beat Pig’s pig-out with a better example of gluttony, which
can be a lot like lust. At any rate, this scene helps to show that creatures, just
like people, can crave things they really like.
4 NEED TO GET CARE – ‘You bought that monster?’ said Ron, his mouth
hanging open.
‘He’s gorgeous, isn’t he?’ said Hermione, glowing.
…
‘Poor Crookshanks, that witch said he’d been in there for ages: no one
wanted him.’ (Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 50)
Even a cat that looks like ‘an orange monster’ needs to get care and love, as
Hermione points out. When an animal fails to get the care it is biologically
programmed to receive, the consequences can be tragic. In the real world,
an animal rescue worker recalls the fateful stormy night when he saved
‘Frankie’ – a blue and gold macaw. “I nearly cried for him, his wings had
been butchered and he was so stressed he had virtually plucked himself
clean.” When animals don’t get the nurture they need, they may hurt
themselves or stop eating. This means all animals need our best attention
and care.
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6 GRIEF – ‘You’re dead Harry Potter… Even Dumbledore’s bird knows
it. He’s crying.’
…
Thick, pearly tears were trickling down the glossy feathers. (Chamber of
Secrets, p. 236)
Fawkes the phoenix may be a magical creature, but animal tears are very
real. Field studies in Africa show that the highly intelligent elephant
expresses a sophisticated grief response. When an elephant dies, others in
the herd will grieve, cry tears, watch over the deceased and even cover the
body of the deceased with dirt, leaves and branches. Elephants also spend a
lot of time touching and holding pieces of ivory and bones from their dead.
No one knows why.
7 JOY/PLAY – Harry saw: a minute owl, small enough to fit into the palm
of his hand, whizzing excitedly around the room like a loose firework.
(Goblet of Fire, pp. 36-37)
Errol is so joyful that he becomes a one-owl Mardi Gras! Psychology
research shows that joy and play are important to many animals in real life.
Dolphins, for example, love to play. They swim next to boats, frolic in the
waves, chase each other, leap six metres out of the water and do somersaults
– just for fun. Scientists call the playfulness of organisms ‘neoteny’. On the
evolutionary scale, dolphins rank high in neoteny because they play almost
all the time, more than any other creature on the planet. When humans
have contact with dolphins and copy their happy, playful and worry-free
behaviour, this elevates the human mood significantly. Dolphins have a
serious message about fun for humans: lighten up! Life can be friendly and
fun for everyone.
As Harry’s world shows and the real world proves, animals show
deep and diverse feelings. If humans want to be more powerful, they
need to give animals the best possible attention and care.
When people appreciate how animals feel and give animals what they
need, then both people and animals can live the best lives possible
– happy, healthy, strong and free. A considerate and compassionate
attitude towards animals and how they feel maximises everyone’s
well-being and power.
‘It is a monstrous thing, to slay a unicorn,’ said Firenze… ‘You have slain something
pure and defenceless to save yourself and you will have but a half life, a cursed life,
from the moment the blood touches your lips.’
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 188
Just as S.P.E.W. helps elves, the real world provides admirable services
to improve the lives of animals. This, in turn, empowers everyone’s
capacity to survive, thrive and care. Some amazing animal agencies are:
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·· Australia Zoo
·· R.S.P.C.A. – Royal Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to
Animals
·· S.A.F.E. – Save Animals From Exploitation
·· W.W.F. – World Wildlife Fund
·· World Society for the Protection of Animals – an international
animal welfare syndicate, with more than 300 agencies in 70
countries.
‘Did Hagrid breed you, like the Thestrals?’ asked Dean eagerly.
Firenze turned his head very slowly to face Dean, who seemed to
realise at once that he had said something very offensive.
…
‘Centaurs are not the servants or playthings of humans,’ said
Firenze quietly.
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 530
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Animals We Eat – After visiting animal farms around the world,
even those hidden from public view, Jeffrey Masson had seen it all.
Pigs, cows, sheep, goats, hens, ducks and geese that live and die in
disgusting conditions. Farm animals that are cold, hot, sick, dirty,
locked up, crammed together, kept in artificial darkness, kept in
artificial light, confused, afraid, sad and eerily silent as they wait to
die.
Animals We Wear – Animals are bred, hunted and killed for their skins,
fur, wool and bones. In Australia, for example, sheep get treated badly
because they are sheared for wool during the cold winter months. In
Hungary, farmers rip feathers out of live geese to make pillows and
quilt covers. Vets, scientists and other experts argue that live feather-
plucking is brutally cruel and painful. As for crocodiles, their true
purpose on our planet is not to be a wallet, trophy or a crocodile-
skin handbag for Rita Skeeter leather-lovers (Goblet of Fire, p. 266).
As Australia’s powerful animal ambassador Steve Irwin would have
said, “Crikey! Crocs are gorgeous. They need our love.”
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In the local spotlight, there are powerful heroes like Adrian, who
achieved Letter of the Week in the youth section of an Australian
newspaper. Adrian is a young ambassador for sharks:
How Are You Now Brown Cow? – Harry’s world has a silver stag
called Prongs. Well, the real world has Horns – a brown and white
cow. Animal Liberation Victoria saved Horns “from the slaughter-
house along with 18 other cows. They are now living free in a grassy
paddock”, says this amazing animal welfare group.
The Magnificent Eight – Harry’s world has a red and gold phoenix
called Fawkes. Well, the real world has Millie – a chestnut-coloured
chicken. “When the animal rescue team found Millie crammed in a
battery cage she was severely defeathered and traumatised. Sick and
unable to reach food and water, she was being trampled and pecked
by the other birds in her small cage,” reports Animal Liberation
Victoria. Twenty hens were rescued from the battery farm one night,
but 12 had to be euthanised because their injuries were so horrific.
Millie is one of eight lucky girls who lived. She now enjoys freedom
in a sunny green garden.
Dog Star – Harry’s world has Fluffy, a dog with three heads. The
real world has Faith, a dog with two legs. A rare genetic disorder
stopped the growth of both front legs in this labrador-chow cross.
She was going to be put down, but a kind-hearted person called Jude
adopted the puppy. “We taught her to stand up in the snow. Her legs
got stronger and she started walking upright”. Siriusly, this dog is a
lucky star.
In all, the earth is millions of years old. Yet, in just 200 years or so,
human greed has destroyed the natural planet and its animals at a
shocking rate. One source reports that individual species are vanishing
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10,000 times faster than the natural rate. Animals are becoming
extinct at a rate faster than the dinosaurs. Why are beautiful animals
disappearing? Human greed and selfishness. Without a doubt, the
work of S.P.E.W. and many other animal liberating agencies is urgent,
admirable, important and empowering.
‘It is the decision of the Committee for the Disposal of Dangerous Creatures
that the Hippogriff Buckbeak, hereafter called the condemned, shall be
executed on the sixth of June at sundown–’
…
‘Come on, Buckbeak,’ Harry murmured, ‘come on, we’re going to
help you.’
…
The Hippogriff began to walk, rustling its wings irritably.
– Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 293
On the 6th of the 6th at about 6pm, just when you think that the
number of Buckbeak, an innocent beast, is up, Harry and Hermione
execute a brilliant rescue mission that saves a beautiful creature from
the evil executioner’s axe. Harry and Hermione prove to all of us that
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although human interference is the number one threat to animals,
human care is the number one solution. Anyone with a good heart and
a desire to make a difference can be a powerful animal ambassador.
Brad Love the basilisk is a long mythical snake. But he was rushed to an
animal hospital yesterday after being attacked by a human ‘monster’.
At the Reptile Recovery Ward, Brad – more than 20 metres long – was coiled
up, coiled up and coiled up under a warm hospital blanket – shivering from
shock.
Witnesses reported that Brad was dozing on a big rock in the sun when
a camper suddenly spotted him. Panicking like crazy, the mad mortal
yelled, “Snake! Snake! A snake is attacking me!” The camper grasped the
tip of Brad’s tail with a pair of greasy barbecue tongs, then flung the sleepy
serpent right next to a smouldering campfire.
Brad’s medical treatment included rubbing burn balm onto his tender
underbelly and wrapping his singed scales with more than 50 rolls of
bandages. His 12 children didn’t know whether to call him Daddy or
Mummy.
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The Power of Nature
Free Your Wildest Powers
‘It’s into the forest you’re going and I’m much mistaken if you’ll all
come out in one piece.’
At this, Neville let out a little moan and Malfoy stopped dead in his
tracks.
‘The forest?’ he repeated, and he didn’t sound quite as cool as usual.
‘We can’t go in there at night – there’s all sorts of things in there –
werewolves, I heard.’
– The Philosopher’s Stone, pp. 181-182
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The mere thought of visiting the forest at night petrifies Draco Malfoy
to the spot.
‘There!’ said Merry. ‘You have left the Shire, and are now outside,
and on the edge of the Old Forest.’
‘Are the stories about it true?’ asked Pippin.
‘I don’t know what you mean,’ Merry answered. ‘If you mean the
old bogey-stories Fatty’s nurses used to tell him, about goblins and
wolves and things of that sort, I should say no. At any rate I don’t
believe them. But the Forest is queer. Everything in it is very much
more alive, more aware of what is going on, so to speak, than things
are in the Shire.’
Some forests from literature are so sinister that they have traumatised
innocent wanderers completely – like the forest Dante walked into
in his masterpiece The Divine Comedy, Hell, Canto One. For him, this
place seemed worse than death:
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and cultivation. Deep in a forest, huge trees may be hundreds of
years old. Some plant species are even prehistoric, like an amazing
rainforest fern that grows on Fraser Island in Queensland. These wild
features make forests seem unsettling, unpredictable and dynamic
places.
Adding to the wild power of forests is their darkness. Since plant life
thrives in wild places, it blocks out the sunlight. The forest canopy
creates a thick organic curtain of darkness, which casts much shade
on the ground below. Since many people believe that darkness is
evil, the dark forest atmosphere is also seen to be evil, something
that surely opposes the good powers of the sun. Shade, shadows and
people’s fear of the dark have enhanced the forest’s dangerous and
menacing reputation. Dark and wild forces is why forbidden forests
rule.
Great forests are certainly revered in real life. There’s the famous
Black Forest in Europe, the great pine tree forests in Canada, bamboo
forests in China and the rich Amazon rainforests of South America.
However, one forest is especially fascinating. A permanent tribute to
this unique forest hangs in one of the grandest buildings in Australia.
Just as the walls and ceilings of the Great Hall in Harry’s world are
magnificently decorated, the Great Hall of Parliament House in
Canberra displays a marvellous tapestry – 16 metres high, woven by
over 1000 members of the Embroiderers’ Guild – that honours this
great forest. The woven words of Margaret Clarke from 1876 describe
an extraordinary forest:
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Activity – What’s Nature Telling You?
In Harry’s world, nature is alive, magical and powerful. All around the real
world, the wisest people on earth have viewed nature in no other way. The
happiest and healthiest cultures in history have listened to, looked after
and loved nature for thousands of years – keeping their environment safe,
healthy and whole. Now you can, too. Get in touch with nature. Awaken
your eco-insight… and re-discover the rich powers of nature!
You can do it now. Get up and go outside. If you can’t go outdoors, look out
through a window or find a nice picture of nature.
When you gaze at the natural scenery, which part of nature do you relate
to the most? What natural features seem to stand out and capture your
attention? Speak to you? Call to you? Is it:
The sky?
The trees?
The top of a grassy hill?
The clouds?
Or a babbling brook?
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Now smile!
It’s all-empowering to associate your happiest emotions with nature. This
positive link will help your mind, body and soul to remember that nature is
a beautiful and magical place where dreams blossom, the spirit thrives and
your personal power flourishes.
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Walk On the Wild Side
A loud, long note sounded, and a blaze of light flamed through the hollow.
Mr Weasley’s car was thundering down the slope, headlamps glaring, its horn
screeching, knocking spiders aside… The car screeched… The doors flew open…. The
engine roared… the car wound its way cleverly through the widest gaps, following a
path it obviously knew.
– Chamber of Secrets, p. 207
After lying low in an old garage, this fearless forest Ford charges
with a bold barrage and enough gold courage to beat the tyres off the
hottest four-wheel drive! Above all, the Forbidden Forest shows that
forests will empower those who choose to experience the wild side.
After the Weasley motor car crashes into the Whomping Willow,
drives itself off, camps in the forest for a while, and absorbs the
forest’s wild ways, the car itself turns wild. The Forbidden Forest
didn’t just have a ‘Please, start your engine’ effect, it performed a
complete psycho-mechanical makeover. Do you remember the times
when this meek mechanical device used to drive itself carefully into
Mr Weasley’s garage? And stay quietly parked there? Well, from
being a shy mode of domestic transport and one of the most docile
characters in Harry’s world, the Weasley car has grown into a super-
strong, spider-slaying, rescue tank! The Forbidden Forest in Harry’s
world not only proves itself powerful, but it helps others to grow
powerful too.
The Weasley wheels show that wild forest power is not always evil or
frightening. Forests empower those who like to hang around nature.
No wonder so many travellers and nature-lovers long to visit wild
places, just like poet Cecil Alexander, who constantly dreams about
finding magic in a wild forest far away in a 19th Century piece called
‘Dreams’:
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Unseen of a beholder.
Its fruits are all like rubies rare;
Its streams are clear as glasses;
There golden castles hang in air,
And purple grapes in masses,
And noble knights and ladies fair
Come riding down its passes.
This forest of dark green pine is not frightening at all, but a place
that boosts well-being and empowers the imagination, a place full of
beautiful things.
You can absorb nature’s power in the real world too. In Tandeerah’s
Diary, Daphne Rub describes the power she encountered in a wild
forest:
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trip to Hogwarts Castle reveals yet another striking and stunning
landscape:
The further Harry travels away from the city, the more nature
intensifies. In Harry’s world, nature is growing incredibly powerful.
As the Hogwarts Express transports Harry into darker and wilder
areas, the train trip is obviously a geographical journey. On a deeper
level, however, Harry is embarking on a new personal adventure –
the train trip is also a psychological journey.
Just as forests resemble the human mind, animals that live in forests
may represent our inner personal qualities. According to Dr Jung,
forest creatures can symbolise a person’s private ideas, natural
instincts and wild impulses. Forest animals can be good, dangerous
or neutral. This stands for good, dangerous or harmless parts of
ourselves. If a person, for example, dreams that they have made
friends with a unicorn, this may mean that the person has established
a positive strength in their own personality, perhaps a good quality
like honesty. But if people meet up with dangerous creatures in their
dreams, like wicked fairies or angry mountain trolls, then maybe
they have discovered some risky or angry part of themselves. A
dream about a good creature fighting a bad creature may really be a
psychological conflict between a good idea and a bad idea. Dreaming
about a fight between an owl and a dangerous snake might mean
that the dreamer is trying to choose whether to study really hard for
that final exam (wise owl/good idea) or stay out all night at a party
(sneaky snake/bad idea).
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If we apply Jung’s theory and psychoanalysis to Harry’s world, the
Forbidden Forest comes alive on a whole new level:
Ronan sighed. He flung back his head and stared at the sky. ‘Mars is
bright tonight.’
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p184
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At a psychological level, when Harry receives help from centaurs in
the Forbidden Forest, this may mean that he is starting to use his own
positive personal powers. For example, the first time Harry enters
the Forbidden Forest (his own mind) a white centaur (good personal
power) saves him:
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Eco-Therapy: Heal with Nature
Escape Outdoors
They found a perfect night for stargazing, cloudless and still. The grounds were
bathed in silvery moonlight and there was a slight chill in the air.
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 633
Ask anyone from the real world what their favourite activity is and
many people will tell you that they like to be involved with nature.
Activities that people really enjoy include:
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out there doing it – interacting with nature in ways that help and heal.
A journalist for Queensland’s Chill Magazine asked a young resident
called Moz what he likes to do for fun. Moz replied: “River rafting
on tractor tubes down Cedar Creek Falls when it’s pumping with a
bunch of mates”. That’s powerful eco-therapy – exciting, healthy and
nature-loving.
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‘Come, look,’ says my guide and in the spindly arms of a mangrove
tree shows me the bower of a fawn-breasted bowerbird.
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Activity – Eco-Getaways
Anyone can design a great eco-getaway and experience the positive influence
of nature. Want to try? Think of a nature-guided adventure that you would
love to experience.
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Imagine Your Own Oasis
Harry had never even imagined such a strange and splendid place… a velvety black
ceiling dotted with stars… bewitched to look like the sky outside.
It was hard to believe there was a ceiling there at all, and that the Great Hall didn’t
simply open on to the heavens.
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 87
Given the ease with which a parrot, acting as a physical cue, can
create island magic, it is not surprising that Harry likes these birds.
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Harry’s World
A pale and Owls hooting Nuts roasting Creamy but- Stroking an owl’s Looking at stars from the
pearly winter softly terbeer super-soft feathers highest Hogwarts tower
sky Aromatic herbs
Forest leaves in potions class Wild mint picked Dangling your Sitting next to a warm fire
Snowy moun- rustling in the at midnight feet in the lake on in the Gryffindor com-
tain peaks wind Sweet smelling a hot day mon room
woods and Bertie Botts’
A bright or- Haunting mer- spices burning Every Flavour The velvet surface An outdoors Hallowe’en
ange sunrise music in a phoenix Beans. Well, of moss-covered feast on the castle lawns
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nest maybe not every statues
A purple sky ‘Phoenix flavour! ‘Their robes billowed and
‘littered with song… ‘The delicious ‘Rain; Harry felt swirled around them as
tiny silver the most beauti- smell of baking ‘Pumpkin heavy drops fall they splashed across the
stars’ (Order ful pumpkin’ (The Pasties, Caul- onto his face’ flooded vegetable patch’
of the Phoenix, and welcome Philosopher’s dron Cakes, Li- (Chamber of Secrets, (Order of the Phoenix,
p675) thing’ (Goblet of Stone, p126) quorice Wands’ p127) p344)
Fire, p576) (The Philosopher’s
Activity – Ensnare Your Senses
Stone, p76)
smell and taste. Dare to ensnare your senses with help from the guide below…
people’s favourite activities often involve nature, people can make the most
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cliff top birds and lemon scents honey ants. Swimming in Douglas Hot
while walking Springs in the Northern Visiting the beach in winter –
Moonlight through a grove of ‘Quality Quandong Juice’ Territory, where you can windswept, dramatic
sparkling on the citrus trees (Janet Lloyd, Tongue Tied feel hot and cold water at
water in the Whitsundays) the same time! Dancing in the moonlight
Your World – You Choose
Sight Sound Smell Taste Touch Your Special Activity
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Don’t Break the Web of Life
‘What are you doing in our Forest?’ bellowed the hard-faced grey centaur…
‘Your Forest?’ said Umbridge… ‘I would remind you that you live here only because
the Ministry of Magic permits you certain areas of land –’
An arrow flew so close to her head that it caught at her mousy hair in passing…
centaurs bellowed… The sound of their wild neighing laughter echoing around the
dimly lit clearing and the sight of their pawing hooves was extremely unnerving.
‘Whose Forest is it now, human?’ bellowed Bane.
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 665
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A famous Aboriginal music group from Australia, Yothu Yindi, clearly
defies land ownership in “Treaty”, a song about inappropriate land
possession:
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Keep Nature Powerful
I arise to-day
Through the strength of heaven:
Light of sun,
Radiance of moon,
Splendour of fire,
Speed of lightning,
Swiftness of wind,
Depth of sea,
Stability of earth,
Firmness of rock.
This hymn, written 1,300 years ago by Saint Patrick of Ireland, means
“Thanks, nature. You free my inner power!” After all, who can forget
the colourful sunsets, full moons and wild winds howling in Harry’s
world? To keep ourselves powerful, it makes perfect sense to keep
nature powerful, too.
Although people might be the world’s biggest problem, the good news
is that people are also the world’s biggest solution. An organisation
called Earthwatch also believes this to be true. This means that the
Earth needs you. Why not take a moment to absorb an important
message from our planet? “Heeeeeellllllp!” Or in Draco Malfoy’s
supposed last words: “I’m dying, look at me!” (Prisoner of Azkaban, p.
90). This means that we – you, me, him, her, us and them – are critical
in keeping the dying web of life alive.
You can either work with nature or against it. Live in harmony or
destroy everything. Marvel at the life of a tree or just put another log
on the fire, baby. Take powerful action or watch the world die at your
feet. Only until people live thoughtfully and collaboratively with
nature can we live in peace, find inner peace and truly call ourselves
a powerful and intelligent species.
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Man… is no longer involved in nature. No river contains a spirit, no
reptile is the embodiment of wisdom, no mountain cave the home
to a great demon. No voices now speak to man from stones, plants,
and animals. His contact with nature has gone.
To help people manage their feelings and live well with the natural
environment, the field of psychology is trying to find:
This means that people and nature affect each other. If nature suffers, we
suffer. If we improve the planet’s health, human health improves. To help
everyone create a positive environment, the Australian Psychological
Society suggests many good things we can do. Think about these ways to
create a better world.
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Understand that environmental problems can bring up strong FEELINGS
like FEAR, ANGER or despair.
Know that millions of people all over the world want to HELP nature and
are working together so that the planet can be PROTECTED. There is much
HOPE.
Now find and colour in the key words written in CAPITAL LETTERS above,
which can appear up, down, left, right or diagonal in the grid below. Once
you have found all the words, write out the remaining letters in order (start
at the top and go left to right) to reveal a very important message to you
from the Australian Psychological Society.
Y E M I T F E A R O E
U F R Y R E G N A N R
G E E T J O I N V R U
N E P I A C T I O N T
I L A N H A R C T I A
D I P U O O N S M A N
N N S M N E L S K I K
E G W M E P A I D I F
P S E O F O E R D E N
S N N C C H E L P A E
T D E T C E T O R P Y
Great goblins! With you around, there’s no way Earth is going to end up
looking like Voldemort’s gross grave-drowned playground.
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The Greatest Power
Stronger than Hate
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hat could be the greatest power? What would make a
power so great in the first place? To get the top job, a great
power would surely have to be:
·· Positive
·· Lasting
·· Autonomous
·· Influential
·· Unlimited
·· Mysterious
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Why Do People Hate?
In the real world, scientific evidence shows that people are not natural
born killers. People aren’t born with an innate desire to hate. As Dr
Wayne Dyer explains, human babies “Love everyone… they’re in a
constant state of love”. When you were a baby, you were not able to
distinguish between yourself and the rest of the world. You used to
think that you and your busy surroundings were joined together as
one big happy adventure. The human brain needs time to figure out
that the ‘self’ – you – is different to ‘other’ – the outside world and
everyone else in it. It takes time and life experience to separate and
distinguish between different things in the environment.
·· Smiling
·· Crying
·· Clinging
·· Touching
·· Eye contact
A human baby, in its first year of life, displays these behaviours over
and over every day to attract a caring response from an attachment
figure like a parent, older brother or sister, or some other important
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carer. Just as humans are biologically driven to breathe, eat and sleep,
our species also has a built-in need to fish for affection. Getting care,
attention and affection increases our chances of survival and success
in the world. A warm smile, a friendly nod or a comforting cuddle is a
positive and soothing influence that helps people to grow into happy
and healthy adults. Just imagine – attachment-seeking behaviours
would occur hundreds of times in a week, thousands of times in a
year, millions of times in a person’s childhood. If attachment needs
are met, positive and healthy feelings of trust build up. But if natural
needs are not met, negative and unhealthy feelings of mistrust emerge
as early as the first year of life. The normal attachment bond becomes
strained and broken. The evil Lord Voldemort, who had no parents
to care for him and who was raised in an orphanage that made him
feel lonely and uncomfortable, may have stopped trusting others and
searching for care very early in his life.
To deal with the fear of not being loved, which Voldemort may
have done, some young children will show signs of non-attachment
distress. They will deliberately stop bonding with people who do not
seem to be very emotionally attached to them. For instance, infants
might stop smiling, laughing, crying and getting close to other people
to protect themselves from being hurt or rejected. Since humans take
a long biological time to reach physical and emotional maturity,
this makes them very complicated luvvy-duvvy beings. In order to
survive and thrive in the world, people need to bond strongly with
others so that they can feel safe and secure. In many cases, feelings
of hate develop when people 1) fail to get the attention and affection
they need, 2) are exposed to a harsh and hostile environment and 3)
deal with stress in unhealthy ways.
If you had a hard time early on and really hate a few people, you
might ask, “What’s the big deal?” The problem, says Dr Anthony
Kidman in his book Managing Love and Hate, is that if people hate:
Wars are waged, people are tortured, individuals are murdered and
hate and discrimination flourish.
Hate is a very big deal. Modern examples of staggering hate in the real
world which you most probably would have heard about include:
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·· September 11 terrorist attack on the World Trade Centre
·· Terrorists killing school children in Beslan, Russia
·· Genocide in Africa
·· Fighting in Iraq
·· Nuclear weapon threats
About half a century ago, one man mastered hate. The German
warlord, Adolf Hitler, promoted hate, violence and terror during
World War II. Historian Richard Tames captures Hitler’s worldwide
hate in a nutshell: “A world war that cost 30 million lives, his own
country divided and in ruins, and a hate of different races so strong
that it led to the organised murder of over 6 million people.” In
Harry’s world, Voldemort uses the same shifty strategies as Hitler
did. He uses hate propaganda against non-purebloods and organises
mass murders like the one that killed Harry’s parents.
Hate is...
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How Hate Spreads
Lord Voldemort’s gift for spreading discord and enmity is very great.
– Goblet of Fire, p. 627
·· Learning
·· Language, and
·· Law
If you get a feel for some of the psychological tactics behind these
three approaches, then you are in a much more powerful position to
protect yourself from hate in the real world. You will increase your
personal power to stop hate spreading in your mind and mood. Even
better, you can empower yourself with skills to stop hate spreading
in the hearts of others.
‘Kreacher did not see young master,’ he said, turning around and
bowing to Fred. Still facing the carpet, he added, perfectly audibly,
‘Nasty little brat of a blood traitor it is.’
‘Sorry?’ said George. ‘Didn’t catch that last bit.’
‘Kreacher said nothing,’ said the elf, with a second bow to George,
adding in a clear undertone, ‘ and there’s its twin, unnatural little
beasts they are.’
– Order of the Phoenix, pp. 100-101
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In Harry’s world, Sirius Black was mean to Kreacher at times. Once,
Sirius even slammed a door in the elf’s face. Even though Kreacher
was rude and behaved badly, Sirius Black’s harsh treatment would
only have made the elf feel and act worse. As Dumbledore explains
to Harry:
‘We wizards have mistreated and abused our fellows for too long,
and we are now reaping our reward.’
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 733, p. 735
So, Kreacher learned to hate others because others showed hostile and
hateful behaviour towards him. Unfortunately, he was also exposed
to a very harmful household influence. Someone else in the house,
a really horrible and twisted character full of hate, taught Kreacher
how to be horrible and hateful back:
‘Sirius, he’s not right in the head,’ Hermione pleaded, ‘I don’t think
he realises we can hear him.’
‘He’s been alone too long,’ said Sirius, ‘taking mad orders from my
mother’s portrait and talking to himself.’
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 103
Living in a big empty house all alone for many years, the only voice
Kreacher ever heard came from a bitter and twisted portrait. A
portrait that Sirius says “didn’t have a heart” and was full of “spite”.
Forced to live a lonely and miserable existence at Grimmauld Place
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with a hateful portrait, it is no wonder that the atmosphere in this
household has produced a ‘Kreacher’ that hates.
In the real world, scientific evidence proves that hate teaches hate.
To demonstrate this behavioural law, allow me to introduce you to
“Bobo” – psychology’s most famous doll. The distinguished American
psychologist Albert Bandura conducted a classic experiment in 1961
to study aggressive behaviour with help from Bobo – a five-foot high
inflatable toy. His compelling findings were published in a scientific
article called “Transmission of Aggression through Imitation
of Aggressive Models”. This significant experiment involved
watching children (one at a time) playing with toys in a room. An
adult (pretending to be aggressive) would enter the room and start
punching, kicking and hitting Bobo with a mallet, then leave. The
result? After witnessing this aggression, the children punched, kicked
and hit Bobo with a mallet, too. Poor Bobo! The experiment proved
without a doubt that aggression can be learned simply by observing
and imitating others – and that it only takes one occasion! Obviously,
young people from real life who observe adults being aggressive
end up copying this behaviour themselves because they grow up
believing that aggression is acceptable. People learn how to hate by
watching others hate.
‘You see it all the time with dogs. If there’s something wrong with
the bitch, there’ll be something wrong the pup –’
At that moment, the wine glass Aunt Marge was holding exploded
in her hand.
– Prisoner of Azkaban, pp. 24-25
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from an inferior “bitch”. Just as saying the magic word “Cruciatius”
summons excruciating pain in Harry’s world, many words in real
life are cruel weapons that hurt people a great deal emotionally and
injure their inner power.
In the real world, words are weapons that can help or harm, encourage
or discourage, empower or destroy. Here are some important
examples of harmful and helpful language from real life:
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Harmful Words Helpful Words
You’re stupid. You can do it.
What a slob. Great job.
You’re disgusting. You’re beautiful.
Clumsy failure! You tried. I’m proud of you.
You’re worthless. I couldn’t have done it without you.
I wish you were never born. I love you.
‘They thought Voldemort had the right idea, they were all for the
purification of the wizard race, getting rid of Muggle-borns and
having pure-bloods in charge.’
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 104
·· Pure-bloods
·· Mudbloods
·· Squibs
·· Muggles
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Good words (positive social labels) try to make one group of people
(like the pure-bloods) feel confident, in charge and power-full.
Meanwhile, bad sounding words (negative social labels) attempt to
sabotage the self-esteem, reputation and power of other groups (like
the Muggle-borns), by putting them down and trying to make them
sound inferior and power-less. Dr Lynn Richards, a sociology professor
in Melbourne, told me that this process is called “constructing a
dominant ideology”. This means that certain ideas, words, labels and
meanings are used to increase the power of a dominant group, while
decreasing everybody else’s psychological experience of power.
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Law: the Power of Hateful Decrees
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A notorious example of socially organised hate in the real world is
the Ku Klux Klan, a right-wing hate group and an extremely racist
and violent movement. They formed and sanctioned an organisation
to brutally hunt and kill African American people and other
minorities in the United States. Another deadly example of legislated
hate is the Khmer Rouge, a political guerrilla group in Cambodia
that brainwashed children and starved, tortured and executed two
million innocent people.
When laws are based on goodwill, justice and care, they protect
people’s power. The four Hogwarts Houses, for example, were
founded to encourage students to bond, mix, learn, achieve, work and
play sport together. The Houses weren’t designed to dictate, decree
or disempower people. But when laws and policies are designed to
divide and dominate people – and spread hate – like Dolores’ decrees
or the Black family’s political bills, then the spirit of law-making gets
trashed and undermined and the results are socially devastating.
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Activity – Disintegrate Hate
Eventually, I believe that we will all live in a world free of hate as long as we
keep doing these important things:
‘NO!’ Harry yelled. He ran forwards, placing himself in front of Pettigrew, facing
the wands. ‘You can’t kill him,’ he said breathlessly. ‘You can’t.’
– Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 275
One of the most powerful ways to stop a negative force like hate is to
replace it with an opposite force, as Harry’s world clearly shows:
Harry, grinning widely, said, ‘This is the best house I’ve ever been
in.’
What Harry found most unusual about life at Ron’s, however,
wasn’t the talking mirror or the clanking ghoul: it was the fact that
everybody there seemed to like him.
– Chamber of Secrets, p. 36, p. 37
You see, just as some things strengthen hate, other things weaken it.
Sure, Harry was raised in an emotionally deprived household at 4
Privet Drive. But the Weasley house offered Harry something new
and different, an atmosphere full of unconditional love. Not only did
Harry’s stop-over at the Weasley residence give him a chance to soak
up lots of positive attention and affection, Harry’s lovely experience
had the potential power to influence the rest of his life in a positive
way. For example, Harry discovered that not all homes are hostile –
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many other people and places are loving and caring. Harry might also
have realised that his miserable situation at 4 Privet Drive was only
a temporary one. Harry could, if he wanted to, fill the rest of his life
with loving people and lovely experiences – to create a place just like
the Weasley house. Just one visit to the Burrow had enough power
to discourage Harry from becoming a person who hates, but only
if Harry chose to think about his experience in a positive way and
then take powerful action to make good things happen. When Harry
internalised love and showed loving behaviour, instead of hate, he
felt good inside and enjoyed time with his friends – he increased his
personal power radically.
In a book called The Art of Happiness, the Dalai Lama says that the
only way to overpower hatred effectively involves developing its
opposite – a loving and peaceful view. “We need to actively cultivate
the antidotes to hatred: patience and tolerance,” he says. Similarly,
the late and great Mother Teresa didn’t go to anti-war rallies. She only
attended pro-peace parties. Meanwhile, a good Aussie hero I know,
Security Services Manager Gerard Raiteri from the Whitsundays,
trains security staff in Queensland to manage conflict peacefully with
this advice: “You don’t fight fire with fire. You put out fire with a fire
extinguisher!” In other words, you don’t respond to aggression by
being aggressive. All aggression does is fuel a fight – it makes things
worse. The best way to deal with aggressive human behaviour is to
stay calm and in control. The best way to eliminate hate and abuse
forever is to replace it with never-ending love and respect.
The real world has many powerful projects that de-activate hate and
encourage love. Martial arts superstar Jackie Chan, for example, is
turning back the tide of hatred at his special school. He set up an
international martial arts school for students from different countries.
The multicultural atmosphere of the school seeks to bond different
cultures, stop racial discrimination and prevent fighting between
countries. The school is striving to achieve world peace. Speaking
to an interviewer, Jackie Chan said, “If everyone knows everyone
background and culture and religion, there’s no more war. No more
fighting. No more hate. Why everyone hates everybody? I promote
peace, promote love, promote united.”
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Everything’s worth a try… and there’s a project I’m initiating that
I think might do some good. What I’m doing is buying 250 video
cameras and players and dividing them up, giving 125 of them to
Palestinian children, 125 to Israeli kids, so they can make movies
about their own lives – not dramas, just little documentaries about
who they are and what they believe in, who their parents are, where
they go to school, what they had to eat, what movies they watch,
what CDs they listen to – and then exchange the videos.
Spielberg wants Israelis and Palestinians (who have been at war with
each other) to get to know each other as people; as normal everyday
human beings. If people from different cultures can see that, deep
down, everyone is the same, then there is nothing to be afraid of or
hate anymore.
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Activity – R U Ready 4 Love?
Why not drive hate away by writing a funky song that encourages people to
“make love, not war”? To get you in the mood, here’s part of a well-known
hip-hop tune about love and hate:
Now you have a go, bro. Send lots of love and kisses, sisters.
Go on… I know you got the music in you:
Who knows? You might end up writing songs for famous bands like ‘The
Weird Sisters’ in Harry Potter’s world!
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Bolder than Death
W
hen a good and powerful wizard like Dumbledore
challenges an evil arch-enemy like Voldemort with the
view that death is not the worst possible experience in life,
he is sure to have a bold message.
As we all know, in the real world death is a natural part of life that
we must all experience. We also know that people die in different
ways. Some people die before their time and sometimes people die
in sudden and shocking ways. Losing someone you love to a violent
attack is especially devastating. At this time, people can sink into
the deepest despair because they feel as if their whole world has just
been shattered. What they really need is strong and sincere support.
Unfortunately, the modern world is not always so helpful. Modern
Western culture, in particular, is very good at discounting death and
denying the expression of grief. People, just like Harry, who have
lost family or friends to murder, are expected to move on and just get
over it as quickly as possible. Forcing painful feelings underground
too hastily, however, really messes up the healing process and harms
human health. For too long, death, especially murder, has been a
taboo topic that has left the living for dead.
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Just like Dumbledore, forward-looking agencies from the real world
also encourage us to open our hearts and minds: agencies like the
Queensland Homicide Victims’ Support Group, which specialises in
rebuilding the lives of those who have lost their loved ones to murder.
Chief Executive Officer, Jonty Bush, says that “when it comes to our
responses to death and dying – there are no rules. What’s to say that
death – and what lies beyond – is the final frontier”. In other words,
people are free to deal with death in any creative way they choose to.
Those who are willing to think about life, death and what it all means
are much more likely to deal with death effectively, heal and protect
themselves and support others. An inquisitive and informed mind is
much more likely to react in healthy ways and develop helpful views
about the world.
Death may be a bold event, but love – the greatest power – is bolder.
To be powerful in life, sometimes you have to go boldly where no
one else has gone before.
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Harry Grasps “A Grief Like No Other”
Cedric was lying spread-eagled on the ground beside him. He was dead.
For a second that contained an eternity, Harry stared into Cedric’s face.
– Goblet of Fire, p. 553
Death and murder, and how individuals react to them, are important
matters in Harry’s world. As people Harry likes or loves are
murdered, his reactions to their deaths are described in depth and
with an extraordinary accuracy to real life. This makes Harry’s world
special because it explores an emotional experience that the real
world often avoids. Although the modern world is obsessed with
murder – crime novels, movies, television and sensational media
stories every day – it does not provide nearly enough information
and support to show people how to cope effectively with murder or
ways to prevent it. Bill Huntley, a psychologist on the board of the
Queensland Homicide Victims’ Support Group, says that “there are
many bereaved people and kids out there who have lost someone to
murder – and they really need some support”. So if you have lost a
loved one to violence, I hope that you find some helpful ideas in this
special chapter.
‘Hang on,’ said Uncle Vernon, his face screwed up, a look of
dawning comprehension coming into his piggy eyes. ‘I’ve heard that
name… that was the one who –‘
‘Murdered my parents, yes,’ Harry said dully.
‘But he’s gone,’ said Uncle Vernon impatiently, without the slightest
sign that the murder of Harry’s parents might be a painful topic.
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 38
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Uncle Vernon’s response shows that when people have little
knowledge about the impact of murder – or worse, little heart – it
badly hurts the people who are missing their loved ones. Even
worse, Harry’s world shows that people in positions of authority –
professional people who are supposed to be helping us – can belittle
murder or just be plain cruel:
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After receiving a fatal blow from a Death Eater, Harry’s godfather
disappears behind a black curtain – death. As Harry’s world shows,
a violent death produces potent feelings of shock and anxiety.
As Harry shows, people who lose a loved one to murder can show
even stronger and more prolonged grief reactions, which health
experts call ‘post-traumatic stress’. Some people, just like Harry,
think about, dream about and remember the murder of their loved
ones clearly and vividly, sometimes for years after the event. Anyone
who increases their knowledge about such strong stress is in a much
more powerful position to conquer this stress and to understand what
other people are going through. Given that Harry’s story describes
realistic responses to murder, it gives people a chance to grasp this
experience. When you check out the table Murder – What Does It Feel
Like in Harry’s World? below, you will see how Harry’s experiences
fit with the American Psychiatric Association’s official guide to post-
traumatic stress.
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Murder – What Does It Feel Like in Harry’s World?
1. Traumatic Event
Traumatic events in Harry’s world include the murder of Harry’s parents
and godfather.
Feelings Of Shock, Horror, And Hopelessness
‘There was no hope… no help to be had’ (Goblet of Fire, p. 575)
‘It was still very hard to believe as he sat here that his life must include…
murder.’ (Order of the Phoenix, p. 754)
2. Re-Experiencing The Trauma
Intrusive Thoughts
‘Harry’s thoughts wandered back to his mother and father…
…Terrible though it was to hear his parents’ last moments replayed inside
his head.’ (Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 180)
Nightmares
‘I had a dream,’ said Harry. ‘A dream about Lord Voldemort.’ (Goblet of Fire,
p. 520)
Flashbacks As If The Trauma Is Happening Again
‘He came up with a strange vision: a blinding flash of green light’ (The
Philosopher’s Stone, p. 27)
Sights, Sounds, Dates, And Other Reminders Of The Event Cause Strong
Distress
‘When they get near me –’ Harry stared at Lupin’s desk, his throat tight, ‘I
can hear Voldemort murdering my mum.’ (Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 140)
3. Feeling Withdrawn And Fearful
‘It seemed impossible that there could be people in the world who still
desired food, who laughed, who neither knew nor cared that Sirius Black
was gone for ever.’ (Order of the Phoenix, p. 744)
Memory Loss
‘He couldn’t remember… when his parents had died.’ (The Philosopher’s
Stone, p. 27)
Less pleasure and interest in doing things
‘Harry gazed into the flames, feeling drained and exhausted’ (Order of the
Phoenix, p. 227)
Feeling Detached
‘The grounds around him were full of laughing people… even though he
felt as distant from them as though he belonged to a different race.’ (Order
of the Phoenix, p. 754)
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Feeling Stifled, Less Affectionate
‘He wanted to help whoever it was, he tried to move his arms, but
couldn’t.’ (Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 66)
No Sense Of Future
‘He walked slowly and miserably back up through the empty castle,
wondering whether he would ever feel cheerful again.’ (Order of the
Phoenix, p. 759)
4. Physical Problems
Sleep Problems
‘Harry fell into an uneasy sleep.’ (Chamber of Secrets, p. 22)
Concentration Problems
‘A whine of panic inside his head was preventing him thinking properly’
(Order of the Phoenix, p. 699)
Anger Outbursts
‘His temper, always so close to the surface these days, was rising again.’
(Order of the Phoenix, p. 304)
‘Harry felt the white-hot anger lick his insides, blazing in the terrible
emptiness, filling him with the desire to hurt Dumbledore.’ (Order of the
Phoenix, p. 726)
More Alert And Watchful
‘Harry listened closely to the silence around him. Was he half expecting to
hear the creak of a stair, or the swish of a cloak?’ (Goblet of Fire, p. 22)
Easily Startled
Harry awoke ‘as abruptly and completely as if somebody had yelled in his
ear’ (Order of the Phoenix, p. 112)
5. The stress lasts longer than a month
‘Harry had been picturing his parents’ deaths over and over again for
three years now, ever since he had found out they had been murdered,
ever since he’d found out what had happened that night.’ (Goblet of Fire, p.
191)
6. The stress affects school, work, and relationships with people
Lack Of Confidence
‘Play to your strengths,’ [said Moody]. ‘I haven’t got any,’ said Harry.
(Goblet of Fire, p. 301)
Difficulty Learning Or Working
‘The Dementors were horrible, but no one else collapsed every time they
went near one.’ (Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 137)
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Just like Harry, when Wanda Henry-Jenkins lost her mother to
murder, she experienced the same strong and strange feelings as he
did. In Just Us: Homicidal Grief and Loss, Wanda describes the shock
she felt right after her mother was gunned down by a stranger:
My mother was dead. Someone had destroyed her life and taken her
away from us. It did not make sense. My reaction to my mother’s
murder was confusion, numbness, smouldering rage, and a need for
justice. The intensity and instability of my emotions were unfamiliar
to me. I had experienced other losses, death included. Yet, the
impact of homicidal loss was different from anything I had ever
gone through.
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But Dumbledore did bring up murder. As I do. Why? To strengthen
– not weaken – your power to deal with death. Maybe, if you know
something about death today, then you won’t completely destroy
yourself with unhealthy ways of grieving tomorrow. Maybe, if more
people know about the heart-breaking impact of murder today, then
our world will be a safer and more peaceful place tomorrow. Death,
especially murder, may be bold. But the greatest power – love – is far
bolder. I dedicate this section to all the good people who have been
stolen from us by an act of murder, and hope that everyone frees
their great inner power to ease a “grief like no other”.
‘I would like you all, please, to stand, and raise your glasses, to Cedric Diggory.’
…
‘He was a good and loyal friend, a hard worker, he valued fair play.’
‘Remember Cedric Diggory.’
– The Goblet of Fire, pp. 625-626, p. 628
Did you know that a eulogy speech is one of the greatest forms of
storytelling? It is a real honour to give a eulogy speech about someone.
Terence Foley and Amanda Bennet say that if you are asked to deliver
a eulogy, “The most important thing to remember when delivering
a eulogy is that it is a gift. A gift for you to be able to speak about a
family member or friend.”
In the same way that Dumbelore says positive things about Cedric
and encourages his listeners to be the best they can be, if you have an
opportunity to talk about someone really special, then you might like
to use the same approach. Brook Noel and Dr Pamela Blair encourage
us to think about these kinds of things in our commemorative
speeches:
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·· What was your relationship like with the person who died?
·· What made that person really special?
·· What good and kind things did that person do?
·· What did you learn from that person?
·· What words of wisdom would the person want to tell us?
·· What might that person’s message be to the world?
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Mum, I want to tell you,
Just how much you mean to me,
Your loving touch, your gentle ways,
They’re never far from me.
You are my greatest friend,
On whom I can depend.
You know I’ll always love you mum.
Zoe was just seven years old when she wrote this poem for her
murdered mum. Someone told me that when Zoe read her poem out
in front of a big audience at an Australian charity event, she did not
leave a single heart untouched in the whole place. How magical and
powerful is that?
Always remember that when you tell your greatest story about a
person you care about, you are helping that person to live on. And
you increase your own power to bond with that person forever.
Although death ends physical life, it never ends a relationship. You
see, a person lives on after death in words, ideas, spirit and feelings
of love. A person who has died can even become a strong source of
inspiration to others.
Although we know that after such a loss the acute state of mourning
will subside, we also know we shall remain inconsolable and will
never find a substitute… And actually this is how it should be. It
is the only way of perpetuating that love which we do not want to
relinquish.
What Freud means is that grief is a special kind of eternal love. When
someone you love dies and you grieve for that person, this means that
you truly love that person. The love you shared will live on forever.
John Lennon, who was gunned down in a New York city street, still
shines on and still helps everyone else to shine on with a song called
‘Instant Karma’:
We all shine on
Like the moon and the stars and the sun
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Activity – A Great Story
In the old days – long before TVs and DVDs started wearing down our mental
powers – people often passed on important information by communicating
face-to-face – telling tales and sharing stories. When someone you know and
care about dies, it’s a chance for you to reclaim your creative powers and
express your true feelings by telling a great story. Creating a eulogy speech
about someone who has died will help you heal yourself and help others.
It’s a one-off occasion for you to process strong emotional information in a
healthy and productive way. Here are some ideas to get you started:
(write the first name or public name of the person who has died)
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Reflect Well on Life: Mirror Magic
When Harry looks into the magic mirror, he sees his dead parents
waving back at him. The magnificent Mirror of Erised, as high as
the ceiling, has the magic power to show you your heart’s desire. So
when Harry gazes into the mirror, he sees the thing that he wants
more than anything else in the whole world – his parents.
To find meaning from the sudden death of a loved one, Brook Noel
and Dr Pamela Blair offer powerful mirror-like advice:
Now is the time to look within. Remember and replay the positive
messages you heard from your significant other before they died.
Allow those former positive messages, coupled with your own, to
lift and inspire you. Think about your life with this person when
they were alive. What lessons did you learn? What purpose could
this person have been “sent” into your life for? We believe that
every opportunity, no matter how painful, offers growth.
What this means is that death gets you to take a good long hard look
at yourself – at your true self. The sudden death of someone you
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know or love pushes you out of life’s mundane lane and forces you
to travel at a suitable pace in your own unique highly personal lane.
If you let it, facing death gives you a chance to take a proper look
around and reflect on things that really matter to you. For example,
what does someone’s sudden death alert you to in life? What parts of
your life do you need to change? What’s stopping you from fulfilling
your dreams? What makes you happy, really? What can you do
right now to free your inner power? This kind of introspective self-
reflection following a death – looking inwards for special answers
– can help you to acquire good solutions and great personal power
sooner, rather than later.
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Activity – Visualise the Best You
If you are having trouble reading this, then polish up your “mirror magic”
skills now!
yllautirips dna lacigam meht sekam hcihw ,stirips hctac ot dias era srorriM
dnfi uoy pleh nac taht sloot lufesu era srorrim ,erom si tahW .lufrewop
etaerc dna flesruoy no llew tcefler uoy nehW .fles tsehgih dna tseurt ruoy
.efil ruoy otni sgniht evitisop tcartta uoy ,dnim ruoy ni segami evitisop
esuaceb rewop ruoy smargorp )eye s’dnim ruoy htiw gniees( noitasilausiV
ni tsefinam ot noisiv ruoy gnipleh ,uoy ot ygrene tnaveler eht sward ti
.teg uoy tahw si ees uoy tahw ,sdrow rehto nI .ytilaer
evah uoy fi neve ,dlrow retteb dna rethgirb a ecneirepxe ot ydaer era uoy fI
ylpeed ezaG .uoy ot noisiv evitisop ruoy nommus neht ,eno raed a tsol
elbissop tseb eht esilausiv dna rorrim a fo ecafrus knalb ro krad a otni
…uoy
.eb ot tnaw uoy erehw dna flesruoy fo egami siht evil ,no won morF
.uoy fo noisiv tseb ruoy hctam taht syaw ni tca dna kaeps ,knihT
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Don’t Miss Life: Free Your Spiritual Power
A narrow beam of light was now connecting the two wands, neither red nor green,
but bright, deep gold.
…
And then – nothing could have prepared Harry for this – he felt his feet lift from
the ground. He and Voldemort were both being raised into the air.
The smoky shadow of a tall man with untidy hair fell to the ground… straightened
up, and looked at him… and Harry, his arms shaking madly now, looked back into
the ghostly face of his father.
– Goblet of Fire, p. 575, p. 579
Two wands.
Two wizards.
Two worlds.
Harry fights for his life in a place of death. What does he discover?
Great spiritual power.
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Pretty spiritual stuff, huh? Maybe this graveyard brawl has a message
for people in the real world: spiritual power is far more important
and advanced than material power. When Harry makes contact with
the ghosts of his dead parents, this suggests that he is spiritually
powerful. Of course, Harry already has well-developed spiritual
strength. As Dumbledore likes to remind him:
‘You think the dead we have loved ever truly leave us? You think
that we don’t recall them more clearly than ever in times of great
trouble? Your father is alive in you, Harry, and shows himself most
plainly when you have need of him. How else could you produce
that particular Patronus? Prongs rode again last night.’
– Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 312
The silver stag, the spirit of Harry’s dead father, is a sign that Harry
has links to the spiritual world. Since the spirit of Harry’s father lives
on inside him, Harry can summon his spiritual power any time he
needs to.
‘What happens when you die, anyway? Where do you go? Why
doesn’t everyone come back? Why isn’t this place full of ghosts?
Why –?’
‘I cannot answer,’ said Nick.
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 759
When Harry asks a ghost what happens after you die, not only does
he show an interest in death, but he also shows a willingness to
contemplate the afterlife. Harry’s curiosity about life – and death –
boosts his spiritual power.
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Spiritual power is absolutely essential for a healthy and powerful
existence. As the National Aboriginal Community Controlled Health
Organisation (NACCHO) explains: “Mental health is not just the
physical well-being of the individual, but the social, emotional,
spiritual and cultural well-being of the whole community.” According
to Aboriginal law, this means that to be happy, healthy and strong,
people need to look after their spiritual side.
You might own a great big factory, oil wells on sacred land
You might be in line for promotion, with a foolproof retirement plan
You might have your money in copper, textiles or imports from Japan
But you can’t take it with you
Will all those textiles or imports from Japan increase your power to
deal well with death? No way.
Do not stand
At my grave and weep.
I am not there
I do not sleep.
Do not stand
At my grave and cry.
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I am not there
I did not die.
As this poem suggests, people only die physically – they live on and on
spiritually. With an open mind, an open heart and a belief in spiritual
stuff, you’ll be in a more powerful position to find the light and make
contact with that great spiritual realm that waits for everyone in the
end. That’s how Harry got to see his father (in the form of a spirit
stag). As Thornton Wilder explains, in the play Our Town: “There is a
land of the living and a land of the dead and the bridge is love.” The
worst thing you could do is to break your connection with spiritual
power and neglect your beautiful spirit.
In the real world, a family member of a young man who was murdered
wrote that: “Not a day goes by that I don’t feel sad and glad. Sad that
you are gone, but glad about where you have gone. I know without a
doubt that your beautiful smile (with your simple dimple) is dazzling
many in that special place where you are.” Without a doubt, he lives
on in a lovely spiritual place, which puts his spiritually rich and
powerful family at peace.
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most magical places in the universe and lives on inside any heart that
believes. Life is bewitching – then our spirits fly!
If you want to deal with life and death in the healthiest and highest
ways possible, be sure to free your spiritual power. Don’t despair –
people exposed to death are bound to profit spiritually. Dr Robert
Grant says that:
In your life, you can think spiritually and achieve spiritual power
in many different ways. Maybe you like the idea of a silver deer
cantering across the surface of a dark lake. Maybe you connect with
the concept that something whispers behind a black veil from the
‘other side’. Maybe you sense the protection of angels, the presence
of a guardian ghost or the magic of a fluttering phoenix. Or maybe,
you just want to keep your loved one with you, forever and always,
deep inside your heart. Whatever you do to free your spirituality,
always remember that in our doubts and in our dreams, in the lights
and in the shadows and in the places in between, spiritual power is
among us all. It’s in front of us, behind us, around us, inside us. It is
everywhere.
And how’s this for an inspiring story about spiritual awareness and
powerful strategies for coping with the death of a loved one? When
Steve Irwin, The Crocodile Hunter, died suddenly and tragically in
2006, some kids wrote to his son and daughter Bob and Bindi. “My
daddy died in January and it was very hard… When you want to say
hello to your dad, just look up into the stars and say hi,” said Cody
(11 years), Joel (nine years) and Joshua (one) (New Idea, 2006).
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Activity – Reach for the Stars
Reach for the stars and free your spiritual power. For example:
Keep your Inner Eye open for all positive signs. “True Seers are very rare.”
– Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 84
Play music that lifts your spirits. Even better, chant or sing.
Your idea:
If you like, put your best ideas inside a start and hang it in your favourite
place.
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Grief’s Great Gifts: Can You See Thestrals?
In Harry’s world, the invisible horses are Thestrals. Harry can see
them, whilst others cannot. “The only people who can see Thestrals,”
explains Hermione, “are people who have seen death.” (Order of the
Phoenix, p. 394)
The name Thestral suits a flying horse-like creature that can only
be seen by people who have faced death first-hand. Most probably,
the word THESTRAL = THETA + ASTRAL. Theta is a letter from the
Greek alphabet that symbolises death. And the word astral refers to
the spiritual plane. And spirits do tend to fly. So, a flying Thestral,
which merges these two ideas, is really a ‘death spirit’ in the shape
of a phantom horse:
A great, reptilian winged horse, just like the ones pulling the
Hogwarts carriages, with leathery black wings spread wide like a
pterodactyl’s, rose up out of the trees like a grotesque, giant bird. It
soared in a great circle, then plunged back into the trees.
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 254
‘It’s all right,’ said a dreamy voice from beside Harry… ‘You’re not
going mad or anything. I can see them, too.’
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‘Can you?’ said Harry desperately, turning to Luna. He could see
the bat-winged horses reflected in her wide silvery eyes.
– Order of the Phoenix, p. 180
In Luna’s case, she witnessed death when her mother died. Neville
can see Thestrals because he saw his grandfather die. It is as if death
has released or granted Harry, Luna and Neville with incredible
insights or visions.
Many ancient societies have always known about death and its great
gifts, especially the ability to see amazing things. The mythical god,
Pluto, for instance, who rules the world of the dead, has a name
that means ‘the power to see’. The Greek goddess Persephone who
married Hades (the master of the Underworld) also has a name that
means ‘great vision’ and ‘the power to see’. The first half of her name
means ‘dazzling brilliance’, whilst the last half of the word Persephone
means ‘to show’ and relates to light. (New Larousse Encyclopedia of
Mythology). So, Persephone’s encounter with a shadowy empire – the
world of death – enables her to be a powerful seer.
In the real world, many people who have lost a loved one to murder
demonstrate strong Thestral-like insight. A young person whose
father was murdered, just like Harry’s dad was, now sees something
new, powerful and truly magical in his life:
‘Yes the world has a lot of evil, cruelty, harshness, selfishness and
horror; but that’s not the whole world – much beauty, nobility,
wonder, joy, and love balance it out. Maintain the balance; the yin
and the yang; enjoy the fragrance of a rose; the beauty of a sunrise
or sunset and how the hues of sky change – it’s there for all to enjoy.’
Just as Harry and his friends can see Thestrals, this person from
real life can now see great beauty that he missed before in the small
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details of nature. As Brook Noel and Dr Pamela Blair confirm: “For
some, the bereavement process can bring a new appreciation for life,
for their relationships and for the world around them.” Grief can
develop and attract great gifts.
Two sisters from real life named Katrina and Elaine, whose brother
was murdered, saw something so special that one of the girls wrote
about it:
‘I saw a picture of beauty. I saw this teenage boy (whose mother was
murdered) reach his hand out to my mother who had lost her only
son. He stroked her arm, like they had been friends before this day. I
was mesmerized in this picture of compassion. I thought a scene like
that only happened in movies.’
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Activity – I See and Sense Thestrals
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Deeper than Mystery
D
eep inside the Department of Mysteries is a great power
that:
As Dumbledore tells Harry: “In the end… it was your heart that saved
you” (Order of the Phoenix, p. 743). What great power is stronger than
hate, bolder than death and dwells deep in the middle of mystery?
Love. It’s the greatest power of all.
Although Harry’s mother is gone, her love has not. And it never will
go. Love is the greatest power – invisible, invincible and evil-proof.
Just look all around you. Every wise belief system in the whole wide
world says that love is a great and mysterious power that conquers
all. Dumbledore’s message that love is more powerful than all the
forces of nature, for example, fits with the wisest philosophies from
the far enlightened East:
As you can see, Harry’s world relates to Hindu ways from India that
love is the greatest power.
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Dumbledore’s message that love is an unlimited and unknowable
power – completely surrounded by mystery – also fits with the richest
insights from the West:
This ancient Irish poem says that a great power like love is too deep
to know, which is exactly how Dumbledore describes love inside the
Department of Mysteries.
While some people in our world believe that “East is East and West
is West and never the twain shall meet”, Harry’s world suggests
that East and West can meet and merge under loving conditions.
Whether you choose to not harm others in a gentle, Buddhist way,
love your neighbour in a kind, Christian way, celebrate the wild
world in a mystical way, or conserve the earth in a scientific way,
love is all-encompassing and all great ways encompass love. This
means that love guides everything and bonds everyone. No matter
what your philosophy, religion, race or beliefs, love binds East and
West, North and South, past and future, left and right, and black
and white. In love’s bright eyes, there is no ‘us and them’ – only us.
To divide people and put each other’s ideas down is loveless and
useless because it hurts and threatens everyone’s power. Modern
philosopher Djalal ad-Din Rumi describes the great power of love in
alchemist terms:
Love is the energizing elixir of the universe, the cause and effect of
all harmonies. Anytime and anywhere, love comforts and conquers
all.
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Do you want to be really happy, healthy and powerful in life? Do
you seek the elusive Philosopher’s Stone in today’s world? Well
then, whatever you do, don’t doubt, deny, dismiss or disengage
from the greatest power. Without a heart, you will never find it. As
Dumbledore tells Harry:
‘You see, only one who wanted to find the Stone – find it, but not
use it – would be able to get it, otherwise they’d just see themselves
making gold or drinking Elixir of Life.’
– The Philosopher’s Stone, p. 217
Harry found the Stone because he used his pure and powerful heart.
Voldemort, however, failed to find the Stone because he used his
heartless lust for power. Get it? Most people look for the material
gold on the outside. To find great riches like a Philosopher’s Stone,
however, people need to experience life and dig deep for personal
gold on the inside. The greatest work of all in life is to make ‘gold’ out
of ‘poor’ materials, remember? That is, to create priceless personal
power using life’s raw deals and bad emotional experiences.
·· Love heals the deepest trauma. It helps you find your way, even
when you think you will always be lonely, lost and broken.
·· Love, in the form of positive thoughts and good intentions, attracts
real fulfilment.
·· Loving actions set you free from the past. Actions of love also set
up a favourable future.
·· Love’s light shines within all living things, in every single creature
in the universe.
·· Love’s power is as free as air, as deep as water, as bright as fire and
as strong as stone.
·· Love is stronger than hate – it brings people together in peace.
And for each individual, it brings inner peace.
·· Love is bolder than death. When someone dies – love doesn’t.
Love helps you to break through to higher spiritual ground. It takes
you to places where you truly long to be.
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·· Love is the highest natural science, the deepest magic and the
greatest power.
Life is a mystery and your heart is the key. Meanwhile, the Stone
is your best personal philosophy. Peak psychological well-being
is the gold that allows you the best possible experience of health,
happiness and harmony. How deep is your love? How good is your
philosophy? Well, that’s entirely up to you. If you develop a strong
love of life, then anything you do will be a positive and powerful
adventure. In Harry’s world, Dumbledore tells Harry: “When one
wizard saves another wizard’s life… This is magic at its deepest,
its most impenetrable.” (Prisoner of Azkaban, p. 311) Exactly! Only a
loving heart can free your inner power fully and create real magic.
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Activity – Your Mystery
Welcome to your ultimate mystery activity. Maybe you feel stuck, stressed,
dissatisfied, trapped, traumatised – POWERLESS – in life. If so, what is your
BIG QUESTION about it?
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Believe it or not, right here on this page is the four letter response to your
question: “L-O-V-E”.
To increase your power, it can only help you to be more open, caring and
loving. If you love yourself more, you’ll improve your emotional and
physical health instantly. If you love others more, you’ll boost your best
connections instantly. If you love the world more, you’ll make the most of
your world.
Design and test out your love-liest solutions. Write about something you
really love. Draw something you really love. Sing and dance on a moonlit
beach or a windswept hilltop to celebrate something really love-ly. Dare to
have a really positive psychological adventure.
If you guide your thoughts and actions in the most loving way possible,
then you will experience the best life possible.
What’s the greatest and most loving solution to your worst worries or
problems? Only you can answer that, dear friend, with love.
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Your thoughts, feelings and behaviour determine your world and
your power in it. To see a world full of infinite possibilities, to
live a life that embraces the highest good of all, and to experience
exceptional physical, mental, emotional and spiritual fulfilment,
strive to be loving. Your future is an unwritten mystery just waiting
to release as many exciting experiences as you choose to let it. With a
little love in your heart and a good Philosopher’s Stone tucked safely
in your pocket, you have the psychological magic to control your
destiny, make a difference and free your inner power.
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Other Prose @ IP
Sacrifice, LR Saul
ISBN 9781921479168, AU$32.95
Dr J A Sykley
You’ve seen the films...
The Power of Action – This book can help people who are ‘stuck’ in one way of thinking and
The Power of Thoughts – It was awesome how you could take one of the best series of fiction and
compare it with real day life. I liked the way you talked about how everyone can turn their nega-
tive thoughts into positive ones. The Worry-Turner is brilliant! – Baden, 10 years old
The Power of Tragedy – Made me understand my own path in my life. No matter what happens
good or bad, you can make good choices. Never give up. – Heather, Fruit Picker
The Power of Animals – Admirable and worthy. Many young adults would jump at the oppor-
tunity to read a book that would offer them psychological tools to help them on their journey and
make healthy choices. – Erik Gorton, Secretary, Animal Liberation Victoria.
The Greatest Power – Valuable and helpful… I think someone from any age or background will be
able to take away some useful approaches. Dr Dilprasan De Silva, Consultant Psychiatrist