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UNDERSTANDING

GRIEF

WHAT IS GRIEF? COMMON REACTIONS


Grief refers to the normal and natural TO GRIEF:
reactions (thoughts, feelings, or
behaviours) that people may experience • Shock or numbness
• Sleep difficulties
after a loss. These differ from person to
• Changes in appetite
person and can be influenced by the • Intense sadness,
nature and importance of the loss. tearfulness and
crying
Grief can be experienced as a result of
• Guilt, anger or
many different types of losses, for irritability
example the death of a loved one, the • Poor concentration,
death of a pet, a significant break up or procrastination
divorce, or moving to a different home.

It’s possible to go on, no matter how PROCESSING GRIEF:


impossible it seems, and that in time, Acute grief reactions can
the grief…lessens. It may not go away immediately follow and
completely, but after a while, it’s not last for months after a
so overwhelming. Nicholas Sparks loss, but will generally
ease and resolve over
time, decreasing in

IS WHAT I’M FEELING NORMAL? intensity and frequency.

As you accept the reality


The experience of grief is a personal, of the loss and begin to
unique journey. Therefore, people who resume daily activities,
have experienced the same type of loss, you may continue to feel
will not necessarily react in the same way. pain, but learn to cope
Some will recover quickly while others with it. Integrated grief
need more time. This is completely reactions may resurface
normal. Your grief experience is your own; around significant times
there is no “right” or “wrong” way to like special holidays,
anniversaries, or
grieve, and no predetermined timeline for
birthdays.
its start or end.
WHAT STRATEGIES CAN HELP ME GETTING FURTHER
COPE WITH GRIEF? SUPPORT NEEDED:
Around 1 in 10 people may
need professional help or
treatment to ease
Express your thoughts and prolonged reactions that
feelings have developed into
Try talking to family or friends; or complicated grief,
writing in a journal or diary to depression, or anxiety.
process the loss.

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Avoid harmful substances
People may use substances such as
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alcohol to self-medicate and numb
emotional pain, but this can lead to a
pattern of behaviour that is
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Remembering the person
who has passed
Honour memories in a tangible way,
for example through creating a SOURCES & MORE
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their birthday or anything special The South African
that makes you feel close to the Depression & Anxiety Group
person.

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