First Task

Write a reflection about a dilemma and how you dealt with it.

What is your most memorable personal dilemma?

What was the issue? I was bullied by my classmate when I was in 4th grade because of my scar and I'm fat.

Who was involved? My bullied classmate is a boy

What were the options or choices available? My parents told me that I am strong enough to handle these bullly
What did you do? I approach him and ask him what he will get he continuously bully me
What happened? He stopped bullying me and said sorry for what he's done
Given what you know now about Ethics, how would you change it? What would be your new response? What would be the option you would
Original/old decision or choice I choose to defendchoose?
myself from my bullying classmate
Edited/new decision or choice I will stand in my decision for fighting for what is right and wrong for what he was done to me

Grade Comments of the professor

AOS (Areas Of Strength)
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What is your most memorable personal dilemma?
AFI (Areas For Improvement)
What was the issue? My
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What did you do? I chose option C. I defended my bullied classmate.
- Under a scholarship program; does not have lunch money
What happened? My friends stopped their act. However, since I was not diplomatic, our relationship turned sour.
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Option C: Side with my bullied classmate. Defend him.

Diplomacy will help me communicate my position more. Through diplomacy, I will be able to
encourage both the bully and the bullied to see each other and give each other a chance to be
friends.