Complete Step by Step

process from meeting her to

sleeping with her:
- Your Mindset
- Female Psychology
- Conversations
- Enhancing Comfort
- Bringing the Conversation Forward
- Objection Handling and Framing the
Pull
- The Pull
- The close
 Your Mindset
You can’t be jealous, clingy or insecure or afraid
that she will leave you.

Live a good life, don’t just sit in your room all

day and do nothing. Enjoy it to its fullest. A
rejection is just a Feedback and remember to
never take things to personally in this game.
Focus on improving your Body and Social Skills.
Have a good time with her, have fun and give
her the opportunity to see more of you.

 Get yourself into positions where you feel

nervous or a little anxious.

If you find a woman attractive, approach her.

No excuses, just do it.

Know that you are worth it and don’t put

every woman on a pedestal.

Don’t show any reaction to her shit tests.

Look people in the eyes when you are talking

with them.
 Female
Psychology
Women have been socially conditioned to act
as if they dislike sex, so take the weight of
her shoulders by giving her an excuse to
return to your place.

Coffee, viewing a "cool" portrait or something

you did, an after-party, etc.

Women are always living in the moment, lead

her emotions.

Change her mood rather than her thoughts.

Conversations
First, set your Standards.

What kind of women do you want to sleep

with?

This is now a recommendation. Of course, you

can use some girls as "warm-up sets," getting
comfortable and having fun with them so that
you won't feel stifled when the proper ones
come along.
When the right one comes up, follow the
3-millisecond rule.

Don't give your brain any chance to delay the

open, or it will never happen.
 Opening
Always Open the Girl and not the Group

By this I don’t mean to ignore the group, just

Acknowledge them. Smile when you are
talking to your Target. If they try to cockblock
you, game them a little and then return to THE
girl.

Remember always, that how you say things is

always more important than what you say.
Most girls won’t even listen what you say,
they will mostly look for subconscious signals
about if your body language is high value or
not, Or if you’re needy, or if it shows that she
is just another girl who is no big deal.
When you are beginning to talk with her, have
a very strong eye Contact. Speak with a
commanding tonality initially, to grab her
attention. If people can understand what
you’re saying from 2-3 meters away, then
you’re loud enough. If not, increase your
volume.

Some good openers:

- "I saw you from across the road and you

seemed pretty chill"
- "Cute mask"
- "Totally random, but you seemed pretty chill
so I came to say Hi"
 Socially calibrated openers:

- " Crazy party. I saw this guy XYZ( something

interesting or funny that happened)

- "Hey, I wish I had the confidence you have

wearing that dress" ( I really like this one-
because it can mean that the dress is
terrible, or that it's so hot that it takes
confidence to wear it)

- "Is that (XYZ brand)?

No opener is as good as a great body

language, great tonality, and Confident eye
Contact. If you get this 3 on point, you can say
the dumbest shit and a girl will still be
attracted to you.

Attraction is not a choice, she doesn’t care

about your opener. Just don’t be a creep and
she won’t dismiss you.
 Building
Comfort
The most Important thing is that you are self-
amusing.

Don’t try to be witty or clever. She will sense

that. Speak with women like you would with
your friends but add some flirts and sexual
remarks. Do and say what comes to your mind,
show an expressive face and maintain an
open body language.

Don’t be worried about how she would

respond, remember that you are the Screener
and she should be worried about how you
respond to her behavior.

You should move the conversation forward

and behave the way you know how to. Worry
about her negative response only after it
happens.

How to respond to her negative response:

calibrate, show her that you understand her,
and change the subject. Only re-acknowledge
it if you
can tell she isn't over it. This applies
throughout game.
Important Tip:
Always make more statements than you ask
questions

When you are asking to many questions, she

becomes stifled because it **appears** as an
Interview. And all women HATE interviews.
You should be focusing more to let her open
up and talk about herself by being a good
listener.

Focus more on the *why* instead of the

*what*
 For example:

- WHY you do what you do.

- WHY you keep going even after so many
struggles
- WHY she is pursuing that course.
- WHY you loved that particular time.

"What" is limited

"Why" is limitless

Keep the conversation positive, don’t deliver

much bad news. If you disagree with her, tell
her.

This way you both know whether you're

compatible or not. This is beneficial in the
long run.
 Moving the
Conversation
As you are escalating the conversation you
should either receive support or resistance
as a feedback. Keep moving the conversation
forward as long as she's complying, but take a
step back if and when she resists. When she
starts to resist, you need to continue building
comfort and the vibe. Realize that she isn't
"warmed up" enough. Don't bring up that
awkward moment again, just hold your frame
and focus on fun, casual, non-judgmental
vibe.

You will encounter Real and Superficial

Resistance, so it's important to know the
difference between the two.
Real Resistance is when she is clearly telling
you to stop the escalation, and she is no
longer comfortable. Here you must
completely back off but not behave weirdly.
It's normal. Keep building up the vibe. Make
her relaxed and more "into it"

Superficial Resistance is when she is just

playing hard to get or saying you something
but her actions don’t align with what she says
(kidding etc.)

Example: She says "We should totally not be

doing this" as she kneels down to open your
jeans and give you some head. Here, you both
want it and she is just saying it as an anti-slut
defense.

Then, you agree and say "We should totally

not" as you move her head back and forth
onto your dick.
 Effective Screening Techniques are early on,
being physically intimate with the girl,
touching her shoulders, upper arms, thigh,
etc. and making casual sexual comments.

This will make her know what’s going on, and

if she's interested this will turn her on. If she's
not, you will know and both of you save a lot
of time and energy.

Remember, your end goal is always to get her

to your place. Keep moving her around,
farther away from her friends and closer to
the location where you plan to fuck her.

Good ways to escalate her are giving her

hugs, pulling her closer as you speak into her
ear (saying something sexual or funny) Then
go for the make-out. If she complies, say
nothing- grab her hand and lead her towards
the exit, towards your place.
 If she is getting hold back from their friends
then its probably not going to happen tonight,
so get her number and keep her in the funnel.

Always give her a reason for the movement

that she can tell her friends there or later, as
an anti-slut defense.

Example: "I got this cool __ at my place. "

"There's this bar down the road that

(something special about that place)"
 Objection
Handling
You should tell her about the pull within the
first 5-10 minutes of the interaction. This is
the place where sex should take place. This
way, you'll know if he has concerns about
going home with you.

Even if she doesn't seem receptive right

away, keep the seduction going and bring it
closer to the sex.

This is done to make her open and

comfortable with the idea of going home with
you. She won't be surprised when you go in for
the pull, and it removes the other girls.
Be prepared for objections. Most of the time,
it's slut defense that needs to be handled
carefully while also making her feel at ease.
Be well-versed in the logistics so that you can
respond to her concerns quickly.
These concerns can be related to:

- Being seen as a slut by her friends

- Logistical issues for traveling back home
- Being away from home too far
- Missing her plans for the night.

What she's really trying to say is " I really want

to come but _____ (objection) “

Help her make the decision and come up with

an excuse. Don't give them special
importance or she will sense neediness. Treat
her as if she's crazy and ridiculous.
 Sarcasm is extremely beneficial. "Yes, but
we're going anyway." "Oh, I forgot you were
the group's mom." If she still doesn't agree,
then use logic, and tell her the logistical
solutions.

*OBJECTION:* My friends won't let me leave!

*SOLUTION:* I know. we're just going to have 1

drink and come back

*OBJECTION:* Who else is going to be there?

*SOLUTION:* Just us and a couple of really chill

friends I want you to meet"

*OBJECTION:* " I have an early morning"

**SOLUTION:** If she says she has to get up at

7:15, Say that " I have to get up at 6, so that's
not even an issue."
 *OBJECTION:* " How far do you live?"

*SOLUTION:* " Just 5 mins!” (if you live far

away, reduce the time to a little less, say 20
becomes 10, etc)

*OBJECTION:* I'm not going to have sex with

you

*SOLUTION:* ( Smirk in your head because you

know it's going to happen.)
"Don't worry, I'm not in the mood either. We're
just going to have a drink"

NOTE: She often insists on bringing her

friends along. You must find out how many
cockblockers she will have and arrange for
wingmen for her girlfriends so that nobody
can ruin your vibe.
 Logistics and
Landmines
This is critical for understanding the girl's
logistical scene and assisting you in moving
forward. For example, if she's leaving
tomorrow, you know you have to go for the
pull as soon as possible.

Landmines are unidentified pieces of

information that may harm the pull. You'll
have a nightmare if you pull her and then
realize she lives with her parents and has to
be home early.

How should this be handled? Insert these

questions while establishing comfort and
being playful. Do not ask them in a row or the
interaction turns serious.
 Every situation is unique, and it's difficult to
predict these, but here are some common
questions that will help you avoid potential
landmines early on.

"Who are you here with? | How do you all know

each other?"

It is essential to know her group dynamic. If she's

with somebody close who might judge her, you're
going to have to isolate her from them, and if that
does not happen.

"Who do you live with?"

SOLUTION: It's crucial to know this. If she lives

with family ,ask her if she's allowed to have
guests over. If not, you will have to pull her
somewhere else or go for it.

 "When do you have to be home?"

If she has to be home early, tell her she should go

since it's way past her bedtime (reverse psychology
+ disqualification + non-neediness), that will buy
you some time. If it doesn't, screen the date for
another day, or else move on.

"What does your week look like?"

If the pull is unlikely, you will have to screen her

week for the date. If she has a busy schedule, and
it's unlikely you'll see her soon, cut it short. Don't
waste your time.

"What part of the city do you live in?"

This is crucial if you're taking her home. If she lives

too far, you will have to work out the logistics, or
perhaps move on.
 The Pull
Time for the close only after you're noticing that
she's sexually receptive to your advances. As
previously discussed, tell her you're going to your
place and invite her. Take her hand in yours and
lead her to the exit, to your house.
Your location is always better because you have
the logistics under control, and it shows
dominance. 
The average pull takes about 35 minutes, but if
you use these strategies, you should be fine.

Beware of Last minute resistance, that she gives

after she's agreed to go home. This will occur at
the club exit, before you enter a taxi, and so on.
These aren't things to be concerned about; she
just wants reassurance of your previous promise--
that you're a fun, chill, sexual guy with whom she'll
have a great time. Convey that.

 Example: You will drop me back to my friends,

right?

You: “Yeah, don't worry. We'll have a drink and head

back.”

You: “Yeah, you're my responsibility now.”

Choose the quickest mode of transport. The shorter

the distance, the less time she has to back out or
raise more objections because the vibe will
eventually die down.
To avoid this, keep the energy up and keep building
comfort. You could even ask her some personal
questions and tell her about your personal life now
that she is unquestionably coming home with you.
This will make her feel at ease and comfortable.

You can make out at regular intervals, but only

for a short time because you want to be a tease
and keep the tension and excitement high.
There will still be times when her resistance is
too strong, and you will have to take it slowly.
 Detailed Pull
This will take much time and energy, don’t get
stressed out if it doesn't work the first few times.

One way is to ask her to "come meet my friends"

near the exit of the venue.

You obviously won't be able to find them even after

trying hard, so you go outside to check if they're
there. You get hungry and tell her about this burger
joint just next block, and on the way you remember
you have some at home along with some shots of
tequila, which is just 5 minutes away.

See what just happened here ?

 Closing her
The location has changed, but the atmosphere
should not. Great music is required. Purchase the
Alexa speaker and make a playlist. You will thus
only need to tell Alexa to play the playlist, which
will make things infinitely convenient. Make a
playlist called "bedroom music" as well.

Women appreciate it when men are well-prepared.

Bring out the alcohol and cigarettes, and create a
relaxed "after-party" atmosphere.

The close will be you giving her a tour of the room

(either immediately or later), coming to your
room, and then looking into her eyes and going for
the close. Of course you should also have a clean
and organized house.
 Maintain a clean bathroom have toilet paper,
hand towels, air purifiers, and air fresheners.
Many guys have told me about how their pull blew
when she went to the bathroom, only to be
horrified by the conditions. Its a big turn off

If you don't want the room to close, build up to it

gradually.
Make her sit next to you, begin with one arm
around her and the other on her thigh, then gaze
into her soul and kiss her.

Neck bites make women go crazy with pleasure. I

prefer to kiss women on the neck rather than the
lips because the tease makes them go wild.

If she backs off at any point, return to building

up the vibe, change the song, light color, and
avoid bringing up the moment again. Check that
the resistance is not just on the surface.

 She's at your house because she wants to fuck.

She's just not warmed up enough. She needs
further information about your life before she can
trust you as a person.
 Countering
Resistance
Take away the pressure from her and assure her
that she is not required to do anything she does
not want to do.
If things get bad, the nicest boy line is "I don't
want to sleep with you if it means I'll never see
you again."
Change the focus to connection-building-tell
some personal childhood stories or recent ones
that stand out and show you in a positive light. It
also communicates to her that you like and trust
her, which she will reciprocate.
Pay attention to her body language and
emotions. If enough comfort has been
established, don't open up any further, go for the
close.