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Seminar 2

Understanding Communications:
A Key to Effective Leadership

Lori Sundal
Georgia Institute of Technology

A seminar sponsored by EDUCAUSE

EDUCAUSE Southeast Regional Conference


June 2, 2008
Jacksonville, Florida
Understanding Communications:
A Key to Effective Leadership

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Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Agenda

•Introductions
•Communications – Definition
•Communication Channels and Types
•Effective Communications
•Communication Styles
•Active Listening
•Summary and Wrap-Up

Breaks each hour and from 10 – 10:15


Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Introductions

Exercise:

Partner with your neighbor:

Tell your partner something about yourself – unusual, hobby,


goals, or just something you enjoy. Describe it fully. Then
switch and repeat.

Share with all participants.


Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Introductions

Exercise:

Each table will come up with a their definition of


communication.

Then, we’ll take the elements from all tables and we will
develop our common definition as a group.
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communications Definition

The exchange of ideas, messages, or


information, as by speech, signals, or
writing.
Webster’s Dictionary

The art of passing information and ideas


from one person to another.
Successful Communication – Ken Lawson,
M.A., Ed.M.
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communications Definition

As leaders, we communicate to:


• Get things done
• Pass on information
• Obtain information
• Reach decisions
• Achieve understanding between individuals
• Develop relationships
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communications Definition

Sender Blah,
blah,
blah
Message >>>>> Method >>>>>>

<<<<<<<< Feedback <<<<<<<<<<<

Receiver
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Communication Definition

Role of the Sender


–Sender has clarity about the message and how it should be
communicated.
•Meaning is clear
•Understand your audience
•Message is believable
•Solicit feedback
Role of the Receiver
–Receiver is attentive and “truly listening”
•Hears the words
•Interprets what is said and not said
•Provides feedback for clarification
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communications Definition

It takes two to speak the truth, one to


speak, and the other to hear.

Henry David Thoreau


Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communications Definition

KEY 1 –
“It Takes Two”
Marvin Gaye and Kim Weston

Understand your
role as a sender and
a receiver
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communications Definition

Jot down one thing you


learned in this section.
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
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Communication Types and Channels

Channel – medium chosen by the sender to deliver


a message

•Direct Channels: Obvious and easily recognized,


under direct control of the sender
– Verbal: words, spoken or written
– Non-verbal: body language, gestures, color,
sound
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Types and Channels

•Indirect Channels: usually recognized subliminally,


not under direct control of the sender

– Non-verbal: body language, gestures, facial


expressions, etc.

High risk of being misinterpreted!


Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Types and Channels

Unders tanding the Meaning of Com m unication

7%

Words
38% Tone
55%
Body Language
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Types and Channels

Verbal Communications

•Spoken word – speed and convenience, (face


to face - either 1 on 1 or group, phone,
interviews, meetings)
– Face to face is strongest means for building
relationships and trust with peers, employees,
customers and constituents
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Types and Channels

Verbal Communications

•Written word – more permanent and orderly,


(email, reports, letter, proposals, minutes, etc.)

Strive for 6 things:


• Accuracy
• Relevance
• Brevity
• Structure
• Clarity
• Audience
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Types and Channels
Type of Communication Example Usefulness

Written Word Letters, Memos, Reports, Permanence and


Proposals, Notes, Contracts, Accessibility
Agendas, Minutes, Plans, etc.

Spoken Word Conversations, Interviews, Meetings Immediacy


Debates, Announcements, Speeches,
etc.

Symbolic Gestures Gestures, Facial Expressions, Actions, Unconsciously


Tone of Voice, Silence, Stance, Affect Others
Posture, Movement, etc.

Visual Images Pictures, Drawings, Illustrations, Powerful conscious


Charts, Videos, Logos, Graphics, etc. and unconscious
messages
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Types and Channels

Email

Get out of your Chair!


Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Types and Channels

Non-Verbal

•Body Language – can enhance the spoken word


– Complementing
– Reinforcing
– Emphasizing
– Substituting
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Types and Channels

Non-Verbal

•Body Language / Gestures – can contradict


the spoken word

– Hands
– Body
– Head / Face
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Types and Channels

Exercise:

I need 3 volunteers from the audience.


Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communications Definition

Do I contradict myself? Very well


then, I contradict myself, (I am large, I
contain multitudes.)

Walt Whitman, Song of Myself


Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Types and Channels

Exercise:

Take 5 minutes to talk about how non-verbal communication can


enhance vs. contradict communication.

Share.
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Types and Channels

KEY 2 –
“Heard it through the
Grapevine”
Gladys Knight & the Pips

Use appropriate channels


for maximum
effectiveness
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communications Definition

Jot down one thing you


learned in this section.
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
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Effective Communications

Goal – to achieve clarity

• Must be clear in your own mind

• Must have a succinct deliver

• Ensure the message has been clearly and correctly


understood
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Effective Communications

Benefits
• Improve our effectiveness and our job
satisfaction as leaders
– Relationships (employees, peers, superiors,
customers, etc.)
– Management
– Selling
– Counseling
– Coaching
– Mentoring
– Conflict Management
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Effective Communications

Business and Technical Communications

•Know your audience


•Talk less about technology and more about
how technology services affect those using
them
•Talk about how technology can enable the
delivery of business process and services
•Beware of technical jargon and acronyms!
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Effective Communications

Questions
Who, What, When, Why, How
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Effective Communications

Types of Questions

•Open
•Closed
•Fact Finding
•Follow Up
•Feedback
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Effective Communications

“Nothing in life is more important than


the ability to communicate
effectively.”

Gerald Ford
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Effective Communications

“ I keep six honest serving-men


(They taught me alI I knew);
Their names were What and Why and
When and How and Where and Who”

Rudyard Kipling, Just So Stories


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Effective Communications

KEY 3 –
“Return to Sender”
Elvis Presley

Question and
provide feedback for
clarity
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Effective Communications

Jot down one thing you


learned in this section.
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Styles
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Styles

Analyticals

•Quantitative – like facts, figures, numbers, details


•Perfectionists – see themselves as experts
•Critical thinkers – don’t like people to break rules
•Analyze – need time to process information and
make decisions, cautious, adverse to risk
•Inflexible – often resist change
•Reserved – want everything in writing and in detail
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Styles

Amiable

•Responsible – take it all on, hard for them to


delegate
•Reserved – don’t need the spot light
•Multi-taskers – can juggle multiple tasks
•Cooperative – great listeners and team players, but
get hurt feelings or can be offended easily
•Patient – generally nice people, value others and
friendships
•Persistent – want to be treated fairly
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Styles

Drivers

•Accomplish – get things done, action-oriented


•Poor listeners – brief, get to the point, afraid of
wasting their time
•Quick decisions – don’t want all the detail, will make
decisions on incomplete information
•Judgmental – always right, highly opinionated,
brusque and abrupt
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Styles

Expressives

•Talkers – love to talk and socialize, difficult to keep


on task, easily distracted
•Creative – never meet a stranger, abstract thinkers
•Enthusiastic – very articulate and able to influence
others
•Verbal centric – don’t like detail or paper
•People Centered – don’t like working alone
•Poor listeners – say the same thing in three different
ways because they are always thinking and revising
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Styles

So, what happens when different styles


communicate without understanding style
differences?

Analytical vs. Expressive


Driver vs. Amiable
Driver vs. Expressive
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Communication Styles

What do you do?

•Understand the different styles and adjust your


communication to the needs of others
•Alter your behavior so that it fits better with
another person’s style; this is your leverage
•Don’t give up your point of view, opinions or
goals
•Remain flexible and understand communication
in another person’s comfort zone
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Styles

Exercise:

Complete the communications style questionnaire


and plot your style on the style grid.

What did you learn about yourself?

Share.
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Styles

Communicating with Analyticals


Do Don’t
Be prepared Be disorganized or messy
Be accurate Be informal or loud
Be direct Rush a decision
Present pros and cons Fail to follow through
Be specific Waste time
Be persistent Leave things to chance
Present timelines/actions Threaten or cajole
Use facts and evidence Use opinions as evidence
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Communication Styles

Communicating with Amiables


Do Don’t
Start with something personal Rush into business
Show sincere interest in them Make their decision
Listen and be responsive Force a response
Be casual and non-threatening Be demanding
Ask “how” questions Debate facts
Provide assurances Be patronizing or
abrupt
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Styles

Communicating with Drivers


Do Don’t
Be specific and brief Small talk, waste time
Stick to business Be disorganized
Be prepared Leave things unclear
Present information clearly Ask rhetorical
Ask “what” questions questions
Take issues with facts Speculate
Be directive or
make
their
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Styles

Communicating with Expressives


Do Don’t
Be fast and entertaining Legislate
Leave time for socializing Be cold or aloof
Talk about their goals Press for solutions
Deal with the “big” picture Deal with details
Ask for their opinions and ideas Be dogmatic
Offer incentives or rewards Talk down to them
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Communication Styles

You can have brilliant ideas, but if


you can’t get them across, your
ideas won’t get you anywhere.

Lee Iacocca
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Styles

What we’ve got here is a failure to


communicate.
Frank. R. Pierson

The problem with communication is the


illusion that it has occurred.
George Bernard Shaw
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Communications Styles

KEY 4 –
“Thank you for
lettin’ me be myself”
Sly and the Family Stone

Understand how to
communicate with styles
other than your own
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Communication Styles

Jot down one thing you


learned in this section.
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Active Listening

Why do we listen?

•To obtain information


•To understand
•For enjoyment
•To learn

We remember 25-50% of what we hear!


Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Active Listening

5 Elements of Active Listening

•Pay attention, not just to the words, but body


language as well
•Show you are listening, mirroring
•Provide feedback
•Defer judgment
•Respond appropriately
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Active Listening

Listening Modes

•Competitive or Combative

•Passive or Attentive

•Active or Reflective
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Active Listening

Using Listening Skills

•Empathizing – listening from the perspective of the


speaker

•Analyzing – using analytical questions to get at the


full meaning of the speaker’s message

•Reflecting – paraphrasing what has been said to


show the speaker you have heard and understand the
message.
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Active Listening

Exercise:
SOLER
Face the speaker Squarely
Adopt an Open posture
Lean
Maintain good Eye contact
Try to be Relaxed

Teams of 3 – Listener, Speaker, Observer


Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Active Listening

Feedback

Effective feedback has to be:


• accepted by the person receiving it
• must be constructive
• must not be critical
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Active Listening

Speaker
•Factual, specific and about what has happened
•Addresses the behavior and the effect
•Take into account needs of receiver as well as you
•Make it well timed
Receiver
•Listen carefully to what is said
•Try not to be defensive; mentally note questions or
disagreements
•Paraphrase what you think you heard
•Ask questions for clarification
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Active Listening

Barriers

•Physical Barriers
•Perceptual Barriers
•Emotional Barriers
•Cultural Barriers
•Language Barriers
•Gender Barriers
•Interpersonal Barriers
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Active Listening

Exercise:

SOLER with Barriers

Teams of 3 – Listener, Speaker, Observer

Barriers will be provided to either the speaker or


receiver. Do not share your specific barrier with your
team.
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Active Listening

The most important thing in communication is to


hear what isn’t being said.
Peter Drucker

When people talk, listen completely. Most people


never listen.
Ernest Hemingway

We have two ears and one mouth so that we can


listen twice as much as we speak.
Epictetus
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Active Listening

KEY 5 –
“Listen to What the Man
Said”
Paul McCartney and Wings

Truly hear and see what’s


being communicated to
you
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Active Listening

Jot down one thing you


learned in this section.
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
____________________
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Summary and Wrap-Up

Sender Blah,
blah,
blah
Message >>>>> Method >>>>>>

<<<<<<<< Feedback <<<<<<<<<<<

Receiver
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Summary and Wrap-Up
Message <<<<< Method <<<<<<

Active listening Channels

Receiver
Eye contact Written and
Spoken word

Watch body language Gestures

Pay attention Body


Language

Mirror speaker
Turn toward person Clarity
Sender

>>>>>>>>> Feedback >>>>>>>>>>>


Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership
Summary and Wrap-Up

1 Understand your role as a sender


and a receiver

2 Use appropriate channels for


maximum effectiveness

3 Question and provide feedback for


clarity

4 Understand how to communicate with


styles other than your
own

5 Truly hear and see what’s being


Understanding Communications:A Key to Effective Leadership
Summary and Wrap-Up

The art of communication is the


language of leadership.

James Humes
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Summary and Wrap-Up

Development of
effective communication
skills is a life-long process.
As a leader, you must
practice and work at
improving these skills.

“The long and winding road”


The Beatles
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership

Thank you for your attendance!


Questions?
Understanding Communications: A Key to Effective Leadership

Contact Information

Lori Sundal, Director – Enterprise


Information Systems
Office of Information Technology
Georgia Institute of Technology
404-894-5348
lori.sundal@oit.gatech.edu
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Reference Information
Heller, R. (1998). Communicate Clearly.
New York: DK Publishing, Inc.

Lawson, M.A., Ed.M., K. (2006) Successful Communication.


New York: Axis Publishing Limited

Taggart, B. M. (2006). Communication and Self-Discovery.


Boulder, Colorado: Educause Institute

Trubitt, L. and Muchane, M. (2008). In Plain English, Please: Effective


IT Communications. Educause Quarterly

Internet Resources:
http://www.jenniferwebb.com/communicate.htm
http://www.hodu.com/barriers.shtml

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