RESEARCH THEMES RESPONSES WITH CODE ENGLISH TRANSLATION

QUESTIO
N
RQ1 EMPTINESS So of course, uhhh So of course, uhhh
physically my dad physically my Dad
wasn't there in our wasn't there in our
home so I wasn’t really home so I was
used to that because I really used to that
was used to growing because I was used
up na he was always to growing up that
there right beside me he was always
whenever uhhh I wake there right beside
up he was right there me.
beside me.
(TTOGFIDI3_Q1)

Ay katong una jud kay At first it seems like

kanang murag empty we're very empty,
kaayo mi kanang it's like there's
murag naa juy kulang something missing,
samoa, inganaman jud it's all ready and
na tapos kanang then it's empty and
empty tapos mao lang. that's it.
(TTOGFIDI7_Q1)

Ano….kanang feeling Uhmm.. I feel like

nako naay kulang something is
kanang… kanang.. missing... like... I
feeling nako kay feel lonely, and
kanang lonely ko ana uhmm... I envy
gud, kanang ma others because
kanang ma in... ma they're complete,
envy ko ko sa lain ba and then that's it. I
na kanang completo don't have
sila ana gud. tapos something to add
mao lang, mao ra man
wala nakoy ano.
(TTOGFIDI1_Q1)

Amoa kay ano, mingaw For us, it's just a bit

lang sa pagpangga sa lonely without the love
ginikanan. and care of our
(TTOGFFGD3_RQ1) parents.
UNVARYING Ay ano kanang daily life
namo or wala? Wala man,
wala, walay na change sa
amoa, ay dili man sa ingon
nga naglisod mi financially
pero kung unsay may dati
mao raman japun hangtud
karun, so mao ra.
(TTOGFFGD2_RQ1)
Ako wala may na bag o.
(TTOGFFGD5_RQ1)
Wala may na usab same sa
iyaha kung unsa ko sa ina
mao ra jpon karon honor.
(TTOGFFGD5_RQ1)
Sa akoa wala walay nausab
kung unsa ko sauna mao ra
gihapon ko hantod karon
kay ano dli nko gina focus
akong kaugalingon nga
huna hunaon ang mga
butang mas gina huna²
nako ang mga positive nga
butang..
( TTOGFFGD2_RQ1)
Same sa iyaha "Sa akoa
wala walay nausab kung
unsa ko sauna mao ra
gihapon ko hantod karon
kay ano dli nko gina focus
akong kaugalingon nga
huna hunaon ang mga
butang mas gina huna²
nako ang mga positive nga
butang".
( TTOGFFGD6-RQ1)
Oh, about our daily life
or lack thereof?
Nothing much, really,
there hasn't been any
change for us. Well, not
that we're struggling
financially, but what we
had before is still the
same until now, so
that's it.
I haven't had any
changes.
There hasn't been any
change either. I am still
the same as before
honor student.
For me, nothing has
changed much from
how I used to be. I am
still the same until now.
I no longer focus on
myself and instead, I
think more about
positive things.
It's the same for
him/her. "For me,
nothing has changed
much from how I used
to be. I am still the
same until now. I no
longer focus on myself
and instead, I think
more about positive
things".
 Wala may na usab same sa
iyaha kung unsa ko sa ina
mao ra jpon karon honor.

Walay poy na bag o sa There are no changes

akoa. for me.
(TTOGFFGD2_RQ1)

Sa amoa kay kuan wala For us, there hasn't

may nag change kuan lang been much change, it's
mao ra japun amlng kuan just the same as
sauna kay kung kuan since before. Since we were
pag kabata man gud namo young, we've been the
kami na ang naga kuan sa ones handling all the
tanan namong house ba financial matters in our
among mga pinansyal kay house because my
kuan akong mga brothers brothers have been
na ang nagtaguyod kay supporting us.
samoa.(TTOGFFGD7_RQ1)

Actually ahhh murag Actually, ahhh, it

wala walay adjustment seems like no no
nga nahitabo mao adjustment has
rato.(TTOGFIDI5_Q1) been made, that's
all.

TIME MANAGEMENT Kuan kanang, hmm, time You know, hmm, time
management like naanad management. I used to
man ko gud sakong mama be accustomed to my
sa karun murag nilahi na mom's way, but it
sya.(TTOGFFGD5_RQ1) seems different now.

Siguro kay na change sakoa Maybe for me, it

kay ano kay time changed in terms of
management pud kay time management as
kanang ano sauna si Papa well, because before,
may tigluto ana ana unya my dad used to take
kuan pod in terms sa care of cooking and
financial kay si papa man now it's like, well, in
breadwinner unya karun terms of financial
 mas nag doble kayod
among family para
masuportahan among
pamilya.
(TTOGFFGD4_RQ1)
INDEPENDENT Maybe I was getting
more independent kasi
I was very dependent
uhh sa iyaha uhh
mostly sa dishes or sa
chores he was always
the one doing the
house chores so
basically uhhmm I've
been improving lately
and uhhm I'm the one
the things he did uhh
everyday before uhmm
ako na po ang
gumagawa non.
(TTOGFIDI3_Q1)
Ay sa akoa kay same kay
kanang murag bali sa amoa
kay ako man kanang murag
kanang eldest na babae sa
amoa duha ra man mi so
kailangan jdt diay nato mag
kailangan nato
maningkamot para sa kuan
para sa atong family tas dli
ta magpaapekto sa katong
mga nakaraan na mga
kaagi so kailangan nato nga
bag uhon.
(TTOGFFGD7_RQ1)
matters, my dad used
to be the breadwinner,
but now our family has
to work doubly hard to
support our family.
Maybe I was
getting more
independent
because I was very
dependent uhh to
him uhh mostly in
dishes or in chores
he was always the
one doing the
house chores so
basically uhhmm
I've been improving
lately and uhhm I'm
the one the things
did uhh everyday
before uhmm I'm
the one who do it
now.
As for me, it's the
same. It's like, in our
family, I am the eldest
daughter, and there are
only two of us. So, we
need to support and
work hard for each
other and our family.
We shouldn't let
ourselves be affected
by the past. We need
to move forward.
 Kuan akong mga My adjustments made
adjustment kuan naging me independent, that's
independent ko mao ra. it.
(TTOGFFGD5_RQ1)

Kuan sukad nga pagkaano Since my father's

pagkamatay sa akong papa death, my mother
kay ginatudluan nami sa taught us not to rely on
akong mama nga dili him always, so I grew
magsalig sa iyaha permi so up being independent,
mautu nidako nako run nga that's it.
independent na, mautu.
(TTOGFFGD2_RQ1)
So ang mga kausaban nga So the changes that
nahitabo sa akong life happened in my life,
mautu akong ingon gaina it's like I'm doing things
nga naa koy mga butang that my parents used
nga nabuhat dati nga to do, but now I'm the
ginabuhat na sakong one doing them as a
parent karun pero ako nay responsible child.
nagabuhat karun as ano
kanang responsibility as
anak.( TTOGFFGD4_RQ1)

Kuan kanang, daghan, There are many

kanang mag kuan ko responsibilities that
sa akong mga I have to handle
responsibility kay wala because I don't
naman koy papa so have a father
akong mama nalang anymore. It's just
man te, four nga mag my mother taking
igsoon so need jud care of us, and we
nako nga mag strong are four siblings, so
kay kanang si mama I really need to be
lang ang gabuhi sa strong. It's like my
amoa so kuan kanang mother is the only
ing ana pud siya nga one providing for
inahan kanang wala us, and she's still
nausab. (TTOGFIDI6_Q1) the same mother,
nothing has
changed.
SOLACE Akong family katu nga time My family was there for
kanang gi damayan ko nila me when I comforted
mama, tas sila ang naga my mom, and they
ano sa akoa comfort. provided me with
(TTOGFFGD6_RQ1) comfort.
Katu nga time pagkawala
sa akong papa paghaya og
pag lubong, mga ano
midagan ang mga adlaw,
akong mga amigo og
pamilya, naa sila permi sa
akong kilid, gina aahh, gina
ingnan ko nila nga "okay
rana molabay ra tanan
kasakit".
(TTOGFFGD2_RQ1)
Kuan syempre akong ate,
igsoon akong mga
classmate, naga comfort
nako sa oras sa sa mga
kasakitan nako, mao ra.
(TTOGFFGD5_RQ1)
Actually katung pagkahaya,
during sa haya sakong
papa, family rajud akong,
kami ra ang
magtinabangay, kami rapud
ga comfort sa isa't isa unya
karun pud nga naay time
nga mingawon ko sa akong
papa, kana nga pain gud,
unsay tawag ana ug
mailisdan sa mga
kalingawan nha ginapa, nga
ginapa feel sakong mga
friends. (TTOGFFGD4_RQ1)
Maybe mainly my uhh
my mother and my uhh
sis- sister? Uhh also
During the time of my
father's loss and burial,
the days felt empty, but
my friends and family
were always by my
side, consoling me,
telling me, "It's going to
be okay, all the pain
will pass."
Of course, my older
sister, my classmates,
they comfort me during
times of distress, that's
it.
Actually, during the
funeral, it was just my
family, we supported
each other, we
comforted one
another, and there
were times when I felt
lonely for my father,
that's really tough,
what do you call that?
It's a struggle to find
joy in the things I used
to enjoy, the things my
friends try to make me
feel.

MESMERIZING MEMORIES OF THE
DECEASED
COMFORTS IN THE MIDST OF GRIEF
my dog, my pets but
mostly my family and
friends because they
gave me the moral
support and uhh what I
mostly needed when I
lost my parent.
(TTOGFIDI3_Q1)
Akong kuan, akong My uhmm... My....
Cousins they're the
mga... Ig-agaw sila
one who comforts
ang naga kuan sa me.
akoa(comfort).
(TTOGFIDI2_Q1)
Ay kadtong pagkawala It's the absence of
ni papa kay ang dad because what
among ginabuhat kay we do is to remain
kanang mag remain sa in his moments
iyahang mga moments when he is with us.
nga kauban namo
siya. (TTOGFIDI7_Q1)
E ano lang e I just remember
remember nako tong those happy
mga happy moments moments at the
at the same time same time while I
habang ga remember remember I also
kay ako pong e love love my mother that
akong mama nga to think that my
hunahunaon nga mother is also my
akong mama mao na father, it is weird to
sya akong mama akoa hear but that's just
na pud syang papa what adjustments I
weird siya paminawon do for myself.
pero in ato jud akong
ginabuhat nga
adjustment sa akong
sarili. (TTOGFIDI4_Q1)
Maybe mainly my uhh
my mother and my uhh
sis- sister? Uhh also
my dog, my pets but
mostly my family and
friends because they
 gave me the moral
support and uhh what I
mostly needed when I
lost my parent.
(TTOGFIDI3_Q1)
Akong family katu nga time
kanang gi damayan ko nila
mama, tas sila ang naga
ano sa akoa comfort.
(TTOGFFGD6_RQ1)
Kuan syempre akong ate,
igsoon akong mga
classmate, naga comfort
nako sa oras sa sa mga
kasakitan nako, mao ra.
(TTOGFFGD5_RQ1)
Actually katung pagkahaya,
during sa haya sakong
papa, family rajud akong,
kami ra ang
magtinabangay, kami rapud
ga comfort sa isa't isa unya
karun pud nga naay time
nga mingawon ko sa akong
papa, kana nga pain gud,
unsay tawag ana ug
mailisdan sa mga
kalingawan nha ginapa, nga
ginapa feel sakong mga
friends. (TTOGFFGD4_RQ1)
ENDURING CONNECTION Ahhh kuan te kanang
WITH THE DECEASED ahhh sa kanang ang
na change te kay sa
kuan every unsay
tawag gani ana sa
During the time of my
father's loss and burial,
the days felt empty, but
my friends and family
were always by my
side, consoling me,
telling me, "It's going to
be okay, all the pain
will pass."
Of course, my older
sister, my classmates,
they comfort me during
times of distress, that's
it.
Actually, during the
funeral, it was just my
family, we supported
each other, we
comforted one
another, and there
were times when I felt
lonely for my father,
that's really tough,
what do you call that?
It's a struggle to find
joy in the things I used
to enjoy, the things my
friends try to make me
feel.
Ahhh, I understand.
The only thing that
has changed is
every what do we
call that every what
everyyy ahhhh unsa
unsa gani tawag ana
weekend , every
weekends te kay gina
kuha ko sa akoang
father to go to tagum
unya didto ko mag
stay unya if hapit na
ang kuan school days
mga sunday, sunday
sa hapon i hatod ko
nila balik sa mawab
unya then ahhh kato
ang na change te wala
nato na hitabo ron.
(TTOGFIDI5_Q1)
Katu sunduon ko gikan
eskwelahan padulo- like
ihatod ko then
pagpadulong kay kuan na
pod kwaon ay i mean
pagpadulong then
sunduon na pod pauli mao
ra. (TTOGFFGD1_RQ1)
So sa akoa ang na change
sa akoang daily school
routine is kanang same pd
sa ilaha ginahatod ingon
ana-ana unya katong
pagkawala sa akong papa is
akong sarili na lng mo adto
sa skwelahan mag
commute nalang unya
kuan pud kanang if mag
mag... naay magluto
padulong sa schoo- mga
do you call that
veryyy ahhhh what
do we called that
weekend, every
weekend I used to
go with my father to
Tagum and stay
there. Then, when
it's almost time for
school days,
usually on Sundays
in the afternoon, I
would be taken
back to Mawab by
them. Ahhh, those
are the things that
have changed
which is no longer
happened now.
Before, I used to be
picked up from school
and dropped off, like
someone would take
me to school, and then
another person would
fetch me afterwards,
just like that.
So, the changes in my
daily school routine is
that it's still the same
as what they used to
do, like someone taking
me to school and
fetching me, just like
that. But the difference
now is that since my
father passed away, I
have to go to school by
myself, I have to
 balon nako padulong sa
skwelahan ako na poy ga
buhat ana so daghan jdt
kaayog na bag-o sugod
pagkawala sa akong papa.
(TTOGFFGD4_RQ1)
RQ2 COPING WITH LOSS Actually, karon panako na
realize nga sakit jud diay
mawad-an ug ginikanan.
Unya ever since ma
remember nako akong
papa, well hobby gud nako
siya. Dancing mao jud na
akong ginabuhat para
malimtan nako akoang mga
problema like makalimtan
nako akong papa nga ing
ani ang nahitbo, sayaw jud.
(TTOGFFGD1_RQ2)
Ako kay kaning ginahinay
hinay lang siyag dawat sa
pagkawala sakong mama
then naga communicate
nalang ko sa uban para
malingaw ko.
(TTOGFFGD7_RQ2)
FINDING SOLACE IN HOBBIES AND Actually, karon panako na
ACTIVITIES realize nga sakit jud diay
mawad-an ug ginikanan.
Unya ever since ma
remember nako akong
papa, well hobby gud nako
siya. Dancing mao jud na
akong ginabuhat para
malimtan nako akoang mga
problema like makalimtan
nako akong papa nga ing
ani ang nahitbo, sayaw jud.
commute. And
sometimes, if someone
cooks, I bring my own
food to school. I'm the
one who does it now.
So, there are many new
things that change
since my father died.
Actually, now I realize
that losing a parent is
painful. Then ever since
I can remember my
dad, dancing is what I
do to forget my
problems. Well it is my
hobby, like I can forget
my dad through
dancing.
For me, i slowly
accepting the loss of
my mother. I do
conversations or
communication with
others so that i enjoy
Actually, now I realize
that losing a parent is
painful. Then ever since
I can remember my
dad, dancing is what I
do to forget my
problems. Well it is my
hobby, like I can forget
my dad through
dancing.
 (TTOGFFGD1_RQ2)
Ako kay kaning ginahinay For me, i slowly
hinay lang siyag dawat sa accepting the loss of
pag6kawala sakong mama my mother. I do
then naga communicate conversations or
nalang ko sa uban para communication with
malingaw ko. others so that i enjoy.
(TTOGFFGD7_RQ2)
Ako kay kanang murag I'm the one who seems
ginadawat naman jud to be accepting that
namo nga wala na si papa dad is gone, that's why
so mao tu gina permente my cousins encouraged
lang namo and gina me to be a servant of
encourage lang pd ko the Lord, so i heal,
sakong mga cousin nga because of this. God
maging servant sa ginoo, helped me to forget
so mao tu siya akong the past.
nahimong healer bitaw
nako. Ang ginoo ang
nagatabang saako nga
malimtan tu nga mga kaagi.
(TTOGFFGD3_RQ2)
Kuan paghandle nako atu I handled it all by
kay ano, nagatan aw kog watching anime, I read
anime, nagabasa ko ug manga and webton,
kang manga ug kanang and it's the same to
webton then pareha pud that one participant i
kay ate naga sayaw sayaw danced also and I go
pud ko the naga laag laag out with my friends
kauban akong mga barkada because want to forget
kay aron malimtan lang tu her and I can't think
siya ug dli na nako about it anymore.
mahunahunaan.
(TTOGFFGD2_Q2)
EMBRACING SPIRITUALITY Ako kay kanang murag I'm the one who seems
ginadawat naman jud to be accepting that
namo nga wala na si papa dad is gone, that's why
so mao tu gina permente my cousins encouraged
lang namo and gina me to be a servant of
encourage lang pd ko the Lord, so i heal
sakong mga cousin nga because of this. God
maging servant sa ginoo, helped me to forget
so mao tu siya akong the past.
nahimong healer bitaw
nako.Ang ginoo ang
nagatabang sa ako nga
malimtan tu nga mga kaagi.
 (TTOGFFGD3_RQ2)
Kanang ginabuhat nako
para mawala na siya nga
stress or anxiety kay wala
lang,magread kog mga
poems online unya
muattend man ko amang
holy mass, noh? Akong
ginapray akong father ana
at the same time ga kuan
pod ko kanang ga akong
gina adlaw-adlaw dili siya
kada sabado at dominggo
ha kanang kada adlaw-
adlaw ako jung
ginaremember akong papa
nga siya gyud ang
pinakabest nga tawo, kusog
kaayo makamotivate nako
aside from others so akong
mga ginabuhat na activity
kuan gung mga kuan lang
mga busy thing, ginabusy
nako akong sarili, kuan
para mawala jud siya....nga
makalimtan lang gyud nako
siya pero dili nako siya
makalimtan nga kanang
mawala na gyud kanang
kalimtan lang ba nga dili sa
nako hunahunaon nga
namatay akong papa kay
muemotion-muhilak na jud
ko ana panagsa kay mag-
kuan mingawon pod ko.
(TTOGFIDI4_RQ2)
Spiritual Strategies Sa akoa kay kanang kuan
dli man gyud siya mawala
bisan unsaon nimog kuan
no, so mao to akoa nalang
gi enjoy ang akoang life na
mahimong kanang servant
kay god kay kanang murag
didtua ko malipay ug
mawala tanang mga
kasakit bitaw.
TTOGFFGD3_RQ2
What I do to make my
stress or anxiety
disappear is just
nothing, I just read
poems online and then
I attend holy mass,
when I attend the holy
mass I pray for my
father at the same time
I remember my father
every day not just
Saturday or Sunday
that he is the best
person, he is my great
motivator aside from
others so the activities I
do is to keep me busy, I
keep myself busy to get
rid of it.... to forget it
but not forgetting like
just being disappeared,
just forgetting that I
will not think that my
father died because I
get emotiona- I would
sometimes cry because
I also miss him.
For me, since the pain
does not fade, I just
enjoyed my life to
become a servant of
god because it is the
way that I can be happy
that all the pain would
disappear, that’s all
 Akoa kay ano kanang gina
pray lang nako siya,
nagasimba lang ko unya
kanang sometimes
ginalibang nako akong sarili
para lang di mahuna
hunaan siya usahay kay
mubalik balik man gud siya
usahay.
TTOGFFGD7_RQ2
ahmmmm charrrr
hahahahah g unsa nako
pag kanang kanang
overcome cguro through
prayer, prayer lng jdt mao
jdt na ang pinaka the best
para ma cope up jdt nmo
imong g bati na ka bug at
sa imong kasingkasing ana.
Prayer amen.
TTOGFIDI1-RQ2
Social Strategies
Nag focus ko sa akong mga
kuan... Nag kuan ko sa
akong mga kuan cgi na ko'g
uban sa akong mga ig-agaw
mag cgi mi ug laag, mao
tong... Para makalimtan
nako akong papa,
makalimtan nako na wala
na siya
TTOGFIDI2_RQ2
Ako kay para ma overcome
nako tu siya nga pain kay
during the pandemic kay
bag o paman gud tu
namatay akong papa gud
tung jud, pero dijud siya sa
pandemic nga time pero
bag o lang gyud siya
kadtong pag hit sa
pandemic bag o pa
namatay akong papa ato
then nag engage lang kog
mga activities like kanang
kuan kanang dli nako siya
coping strategy pero akong
For me I just pray, go to
church, and sometimes
I just do leisure things
so that I will not
remember it because
every so often it comes
back from time to time.
Uhmm char hahaha
how did I overcome?
Maybe through prayer,
just pray that's the best
way to cope up with
the heavy emotions in
your heart, just like
that. Amen.
I focused with my... I
always tag along with
my cousins, we always
go out, to forget about
my father, to forget
that he's no longer
here.
For me, so that I can
overcome that pain,
during the pandemic,
my dad recently died,
though not at
pandemic time like
when the pandemic hit,
my dad recently died,
so I just engage in
activities like reading
and so on, though it is
not my coping strategy.
The pain is still there
but now I can go
outside and can hang

Dealing with emotional breakdowns
by doing leisure activities
gibuhat atu kay nagbasa
basa , unya nag ana ana ,
kanang karon nga naa
japon siya nga sakit pero
makagawas gawas naman
kay ginatry nako mag laag
laag with friends ana, kay
since matabunan jud niya
ang kasakit nga nafeel nako
tung pagkawala sakong
papa.
TTOGFFGD4_RQ2
Ako kay kung maremember
nako akong papa no like
magkantang atung like Ma
Pa ug nana unsa tu katong
dance with my father again
kato. Oh kana masakitan
gyud ko kay pero wala
ginapasagdan ra nako ang
sakit like okay sakit siya
pero pagkataud taud kay
malingaw naman pud ko sa
laing butang makalimtan
napud nako mao na.
TTOGFFGD1_RQ2
Kuan lang kanang.. wala..
may ano lang ko ahh. ako
lang buhaton ang akong
gusto kay para, ana.
TTOGFIDI6_RQ2
ahmm gi, ana man to si sila
kuan tito nako nga
dawaton daw nako nga
namatay na daw akong
papa unya mao to so unya
unsa may ano ha kanang
kay every tao mamatay
man jdt na sila unya niabot
na to nya time so dawaton
nako nga namatay na
akong papa nya g dawat
nako.
TTOGFIDI5_RQ2
kuan, ang ako lang
ginabuhat kay nagaadto ko
sa facebook unya naga
out with my friends
since it can cover up
the pain that I felt
when I experienced the
loss of my dad
For me is that I would
remember my dad
when the music mapa
and dance with my
father again plays. I
would get upset, but I
did not mind the pain
like ok it’s painful but
after some time, I
would get distracted by
other things and forget
about it, that’s all.
I just meant, well, I
have something to say,
I'll just do what I want
because, you know
ahmm,, they said my
uncle said to me to
accept that my father
died then that's it then
what do you call that
because every person
dies they will die and
then the time has come
so I accept that My
father died.
For me, what I do is I
go on Facebook and
scroll through funny
scroll scroll ug mag search
ug ano funny video...
Funny video paghuman
ana ug dili pako ma
satisfied kay naga tan aw
kog anime or di kaya
nagabasa ko wattpad,
webtoon or manga. mao ra
jud na ang makakuan
stress reliever nako.
(TTOGEFGD2_Q2)
Ako kay nagatan aw kog
videos tiktok tas ano.
nagasulat kog ano kanang
kanang nagapraktis
Calligraphy ana. Ana lang
(TTOGEFGD5_Q2)
ako is ano nagapaminaw
kog kpop song tapos
matulog...In ana.
(TTOGEFGD6_Q2)
ako, akong ginabuhat lang
kay kanang maminawug
kanang mga kuan na mga
music. kanang makalingaw
sa imuha.. Favourite song
lang nako akong
ginapaminaw.
(TTOGEFGD3_Q2)
Ako kay kaning naga tan aw
ko ug tv or different
videos... kaning sometimes
naga communicate ko sa
akong mga friends.
(TTOGEFGD7_Q2)
Though naka try kog in ana
pero wala nako gina mind
kay you know.... akoa kay
music pero dili kanang
music na kanang yaya
gani.. Pang rock jud sya na
kanta. then, kung mapul an
ko tan aw kog mga horror
gani para masigingsigingan
gani ko like makuratan ko
ba. Ana gudt... mao na.
(TTOGEFGD1_Q2)
videos. After that, if I'm
still not satisfied, I
watch anime or read
Wattpad, Webtoon, or
manga. That's really my
stress reliever.
I watch TikTok videos
and practice
calligraphy. That's all.
I listen to K-pop songs
and then go to sleep...
like that.
Me, I listen to music
that makes me happy
and entertained. I
listen to my favorite
songs.
I watch TV or different
videos. Sometimes, I
communicate with my
friends.
Although I've tried
that, I don't really mind
it because, you know...
for me, it's music, but
not just any music. It
has to be rock music.
And if I feel down, I
watch horror movies to
get scared and feel
alive. That's how it is.
 Cgi ko'g... Mao to cgi ra ko
ug laag para ma kuan para
madawat nako
(TTOGFIDI2_RQ2)
SELF ADJUSTMENT Kuan rapud
kanang...mahimong
responsable, buhaton lang
jud ang mga gusto.
TTOGFIDI6_RQ2
Siguro kanang its a me
versus me nga ano gud na
challenge.... if it nothin if
mo visit tong mga negative
taughts sa akoa, akoa pud
isa ka side ang mo deal ato
na taught na kung
magpadayun kog.... kung
magpabilin ko nga down,
unsaon nam an nako akong
future... unsaon nako if ma
happy ba akong papa
magtana aw sa akoa.... in
ana gud... nahimo nako
siya nga... mauto
motivation, wala nako gina
let tong mga negativities
nga maka affect sa akong
daily nga activities... ingun
ana.
TTOGFFGD4_RQ2
Kuan Just like Taylor said.
It’s me hi im the problem
it’s me... hahahha. Just like
said (censored name)... nga
self-improvement lang
judt.
TTOGFFGD5_RQ2
Wala koy ginabuhat, cgi
lang ko ug pundo sa balay
unya one day nag kuan
nalang ko na nadawat na
diay nako na wala na siya.
Gina explain man sad na sa
akong ginikanan gud na
wala na siya nya kaylangon
nako na dawaton. Dawat
na nako.
I always... I always go
out for me to accept it
It's just about being
responsible, just do
what you want
Maybe it's that "it's me
versus me" kind of
challenge... if nothing
happens when these
negative thoughts visit
me, I have a side that
deals with those
thoughts when I
continue...if I remain
down, what will
happen to my future...
what will happen if my
father becomes happy
but asks about me...
like that... I have made
it... self-motivation, I
no longer let the
negativities that affect
my daily activities
bother me... like that
You know, just like
Taylor said. It's me, hi,
I'm the problem, it's
me... hahahha. Just like
(censored name)...
said... it's all about self-
improvement.
I don't do anything, I
always stay at home
and then one day I
accepted it that he's no
longer here. My parent
also explains it to me
that he's no longer
here and I need to
accept it. And I
accepted it.

Immutable in life
Family's guidance and advices
TTOGFIDI2_RQ2
Akoa kay kuan lang kanang
murag.... akoa lang..... naga
ano lang ko.... mga
nagaano lang ko sa akong
mga friends. Tapos kanang
murag.... ambot uy...
Kanang murag kapareha
ragudt kay ate... student
ragud na walay .... padayun
ragud.
TTOGFFGD3_RQ2
Start sa akong life... mao
raman gihapon bay,
estudyante gihapon ko...
like kanang though naay
nawala sa akoa pero.. mao
raman to... hey.... murag
walay pakabana sa papa
ba.... pero kanang wala
man gud koy makuan ba
kay nag start akong life
Bata pako wala na akong
papa mao nang.... mao
nato.
TTOGFFGD1_RQ2
ahhhh mao mao ra man
gihapon te kanang ohh
mao ra to gihapon, sa
akong life change katong
naa akong papa og wala
akong papa mao ra
gihapon ang kanang pag
start.
TTOGIDI5_RQ2
Ako kay gina advisan lang
ko nga ingon sila na i
accept lang daw ang
tinuod, then, mahinayhinay
daw nimo siyag ka accept
pero mahunahunaan lang
gihapon nimo siya
sometimes.
(TTOGEFGD7_Q2)
Kuan nako te kanang gi
For me, it's just like...
it's just me... I'm just...
I'm just wondering...
just wondering about
my friends. And then,
it's like... I don't know...
It's like being the same
as my sister... being a
student, there's no...
just continue.
Starting with my life...
it's still the same, I'm
still a student... like
even though something
was lost from me... but
that's just how it is...
hey... it's like there's no
concern from my
father... but you see, I
don't have anyone to
depend on because my
life started when I was
still a child and my
father was no longer
there, that's why...
that's how it is.
ahhhh it's still the same
ohh it's still the same,
in my life change when
my father is there and
my father is not there
it's still the same when
it started
For me, they just advise
me to accept the truth,
then, slowly accept it,
but still think about
him sometimes.
I accept it ahhh, my
 accept ahhh, ana man to
akong tito nga i hilak daw
nya i accept lng daw i hilak
daw nako i accept lng. Ana
ra sya so g hilak nako.
(TTOGFIDI5_Q2)
Akong mama, gi storya ni
ya na kailangan nako
dawaton kay... dili man
jud... Dili nato ma likayan
nga mawala ang isa ka tao
sa kalibutan mao nang,
mag start ko sa kuan na
wala na akong papa.
(TTOGFIDI2_Q2)
Kuan ra kanang kuan sa
akong mama isturya ana
nga wala najud mi papa,
dawaton nalang namo ang
tanan.
(TTOGFIDI6_Q2)
RQ3 INDEPENDENT mas mas kanang magtuon
nako sa mga bagay-bagay
nga ginabuhat sa mga
paren- ay sa akong papa sa
una like kanang wala nako
wala nako ga- though naa
gud gihapoy pagsalig
gamay sa ano kay syempre
ginikanan,anak gud ta gud
pero like kanang naay
kanang,mas dako sa nga
part sa akoa nga mas
naging somehow
independent ana mao na.
(TTOGFFGD4_RQ3)
Mas ni double akong time
karon nga nibag- o siya
unya mas ni-ano ko kanang
independent mao ra.
(TTOGFFGD5_RQ3)
siguro kung naa siya
magsalig jud ko sa iyaha
pero na- gitry lang nako
nga ma -magindependent
(TTOGFFGD6_RQ3)
uncle said that I will cry
and accept, I will just
cry and I need to
accept. That's what he
said so I cried.
My mom, she tells me
that I have to accept
because... We can't get
away with the fact that
one person will be
gone. I started with
uhmm.... My father is
not here anymore.
I just talk to my mother
about it, that we don't
have a father anymore,
we just accept
everything.
I focused myself more
on mysel-.. things that
my paren- ..my father
did before like I don't-
though there is still
depending a little on
our parents since of
course we are their
children but like a
bigger part of me still
became somehow
independent.
My time doubled now
that it has been
changed, and then I
became more
independent, just that.
Maybe if she is still
alive I would still
depend on her but I
just try to be
independent.
to(be) independent is a to be independent is a
must kay siyempre ana sa must because of course
akong mama nga dili jud my mother told me
pernaminte magsalig dili that we should not
pernaminte naa ko sa always depend, not
imong kiliran dili gyud ta always they are beside
pernaminte mag-uban so me, not always
dapat maningkamot jud ka together so we must
nga para sa imong sarili strive for ourselves.
katu. (TTOGFFGD1_RQ3)