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RQ1 So of course, uhhh TTOGFIDI3_Q1
physically my dad wasn't
there in our home so I
wasn’t really used to that
because I was used to
growing up na he was
always there right beside
me whenever uhhh I wake
up he was right there beside
me.
Ay katong una jud kay
kanang murag empty kaayo
mi kanang murag naa juy
kulang samoa, inganaman
jud na tapos kanang empty
tapos mao lang.
kuan dati lahi man gud ng
kuan naa kay parents kay
daghan kag experiences ma
cherish na mga moments ka
uban imong mga beloved
famiily labaw na og
complete nya buot nmo nga
love kaau ka sa imong
mama og papa pero sa
situa... situation jud nga
once sa isa ka parents
mamatay naa joy changes
na mahitabo which is
kanang mga experiences
nga nahitabo niya dili na ma
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So of course uhhh
physically my Dad wasn't
there in our home so I
was really used to that
because I was used to
growing up that he was
always there right beside
me whenever uhhh I
wake up he was right
there beside me and also
whenever uhh I wake and
then I go out in my uhh
out of my room uhhm I
always see him uhh
eating so I wasn't so used
that there uhh no longer
presence of him
physically, but I could still
feel that his still there
mentally for me.
TTOGFIDI7_Q1 At first it seems like we're
very empty, it's like there's
something missing, it's all
ready and then it's empty
and that's it.
TTOGFIDI4_Q1 Before it is really just
different when you have
your parents because you
will have experiences to
cherish moments together
with your beloved family
especially if you are a
complete family and you
both love your mother and
father but, in a situation,
when one of your parents
dies there are changes
that happen.
usab
Ahhh kuan te kanang ahhh TTOGFIDI5_Q1
sa kanang ang na change te
kay sa kuan every unsay
tawag gani ana sa everyyy
ahhhh unsa unsa gani
tawag ana weekend , every
weekends te kay gina kuha
ko sa akoang father to go to
tagum unya didto ko mag
stay unya if hapit na ang
kuan school days mga
sunday, sunday sa hapon i
hatod ko nila balik sa
mawab unya then ahhh kato
ang na change te wala nato
na hitabo ron
Ano….kanang feeling nako TTOGFIDI1_Q1
naay kulang kanang…
kanang.. feeling nako kay
kanang lonely ko ana gud,
kanang ma kanang ma in...
ma envy ko ko sa lain ba na
kanang completo sila ana
gud. tapos mao lang, mao
ra man wala nakoy ano.
Sige nalang ko'g ka... sige
ra ko ug kaguol dili na kaau
ko naga kaon, devastated
jud ko ba... Mao to kana
lang.
Wala kaayo koy nailhan nga TTOGFIDI6_Q1
nausab kay kuan kay bata
pa man gud ko te nga
namatayan kong papa 2
years old.
Ahhh, I understand. The
only thing that has
changed is every what do
we call that every what do
you call that veryyy ahhhh
what do we called that
weekend, every weekend
I used to go with my
father to Tagum and stay
there. Then, when it's
almost time for school
days, usually on Sundays
in the afternoon, I would
be taken back to Mawab
by them. Ahhh, those are
the things that have
changed which is no
longer happened now.
Uhmm.. I feel like
something is missing...
like... I feel lonely, and
uhmm... I envy others
because they're complete,
and then that's it. I don't
have something to add
TTOGFIDI2_Q1 I Always... I always feel
sad I don't eat a lot
anymore. I'm really
devastated... that's it...
that's all
I need to take care of this.
There's not much I've
known that has changed
because I was still a child
when my father passed
away at the age of two.
Maybe I was getting more TTOGFIDI3_Q1
independent kasi I was very
dependent uhh sa iyaha uhh
mostly sa dishes or sa
chores he was always the
one doing the house chores
so basically uhhmm I've
been improving lately and
uhhm I'm the one the things
he did uhh everyday before
uhmm ako na po ang
gumagawa non.
Ay kadtong pagkawala ni TTOGFIDI7_Q1
papa kay ang among
ginabuhat kay kanang mag
remain sa iyahang mga
moments nga kauban namo
siya.
E ano lang e remember TTOGFIDI4_Q1
nako tong mga happy
moments at the same time
habang ga remember kay
ako pong e love akong
mama nga hunahunaon nga
akong mama mao na sya
akong mama akoa na pud
syang papa weird siya
paminawon pero in ato jud
akong ginabuhat nga
adjustment sa akong sarili.
Actually ahhh murag wala TTOGFIDI5_Q1
walay adjustment nga
nahitabo mao rato.
Mga adjustment nako cguro TTOGFIDI1_Q1
kanang dapat kanang mas
mo sabot na lng ko sa
sitwasyon ana kanang mo
Maybe I was getting more
independent because I
was very dependent uhh
to him uhh mostly in
dishes or in chores he
was always the one doing
the house chores so
basically uhhmm I've
been improving lately and
uhhm I'm the one the
things did uhh everyday
before uhmm I'm the one
who do it now.
It's the absence of dad
because what we do is to
remain in his moments
when he is with us.
I just remember those
happy moments at the
same time while I
remember I also love my
mother that to think that
my mother is also my
father, it is weird to hear
but that's just what
adjustments I do for
myself.
Actually, ahhh, it seems
like no no adjustment has
been made, that's all.
My adjustments? Maybe,
you just have to
understand the situation,
like... Like... I'll just Make
adjust na lng ko bah na
kanang kanang kanang dli
lng pd gd cguro mag focus
sa kanang negative side
pero mag focus pud sa
positive side.
Sauna kay kadtung pagkuan TTOGFIDI2_Q1
ni papa kay cgi pa ko'g
motor 'nya pagkawala sa
akong papa kay ni undang
ko kay ga kuan ko kay siya
mn gud nagtudlo sa akoa
mao tong gi kuan nako to.
Kuan kanang, daghan, TTOGFIDI6_Q1
kanang mag kuan ko sa
akong mga responsibility
kay wala naman koy papa
so akong mama nalang man
te, four nga mag igsoon so
need jud nako nga mag
strong kay kanang si mama
lang ang gabuhi sa amoa so
kuan kanang ing ana pud
siya nga inahan kanang
wala nausab.
Maybe mainly my uhh my TTOGFIDI3_Q1
mother and my uhh sis-
sister? Uhh also my dog, my
pets but mostly my family
and friends because they
gave me the moral support
and uhh what I mostly
needed when I lost my
parent.
Kuan kanang makahuna TTOGFIDI7_Q1
huna lang ug happy
moments kauban akoang
papa ato nga ug kana lang.
Ay kuan sa akoa para TTOGFIDI4_Q1
mawala akong kaguol sa
an adjustment and let's
not just focus on the
negative side but also the
positive side.
Before when my father
was alive I always ride
motorcycles and then
when my father died I
stopped because uhmm...
because he's the One
who thought me how
that's why I stopped
There are many
responsibilities that I have
to handle because I don't
have a father anymore.
It's just my mother taking
care of us, and we are
four siblings, so I really
need to be strong. It's like
my mother is the only one
providing for us, and she's
still the same mother,
nothing has changed.
I can only think of happy
moments with my dad
and that's it.
For me, to relieve my
sadness about my father
akong papa kay ano lang is just... since I like
ako man gud na tao kay playing, I play video
hilig ko mag ano bah kana games. Actually, I always
get scolded by my father,
gong dula og video games
since I don't have my
actually pirminte jud ko gina parents anymore, I mean
kasab an sa akong papa just my father it seems
kay ....since wala na akong like I also lost my
parents, akong parents discipline, I cut my
akong papa ra diay buang classes before in junior
akong papa murag nawala high school and then
come back home for
pud akong pagkadisiplina sa
about 10 pm in the
akoa ba ako pud naga evening are what I do to
cutting pud ko dati sa kuan get rid of pity or
sa highschool nako sa junior depression because I find
high nako unya mo uli kog amusement for myself to
balay kay mga alas dyis kay not think about my
mao to akong ginahimo para father's death.
mawala tong kuan gud
kanang kaluoy nako bah
kanang depression kay
ginapangita na ko akong
self nga malingaw ko di
nanako mahuna hunaan
tong namatay na akong
papa.

Mag kuan ko te mag ahhh TTOGFIDI5_Q1 Actually, ahhh, it seems

mag dula ko og kanang like no no adjustment has
ahhhh unsa gani tawag ana been made, that's all.
oy games te

Ano kanang mama kanang TTOGFIDI1_Q1 Uhmm mom like... like...

kanang kanang kanang like for example we talk
kana ganing mga nang about random things, that
halimbawa mag storya mi helps me to ease my
og kanang random na emotional pain ah char
butang maka ano nana sya hahaha. Then uhmm..
sa akoa maka hupay nana friends like for example
sya sa akong kanang when I'm here at school,
kasubo ahhh charr yeah friends. We're
hahahaha then ano friends before and the
friendssss kanang pain in my heart would
halimbawa dri ko sa just go away because my
skwelahan kanang ohh friends are here and
friends gani. Kay ano they're crazy and that
amego man mi ani dati ba helped me with the grief
tapos kanang mawala ang that I'm feeling
akong ka kanang kasubo sa
akong kasingkasing ahhh
charrr hahahahaha kay
syempre naa man gd cla
kanang mga lukaluka kaau
sila bah makawala mag gd
sya og kanang kanang
ingon ana grief
Akong kuan, akong mga... TTOGFIDI2_Q1 My uhmm... My....
Cousins they're the one
Ig-agaw sila ang naga kuan
who comforts me
sa akoa(comfort)

Kanang mahimong TTOGFIDI6_Q1 That can make one

happy.
malipayon.

Maybe kanang mag uhhh TTOGFIDI3_Q1 Maybe when uhhh uhh

uhh when I forgot when I
forget to bring my lunch uhh
sometimes my Dad usually
when I forgot when I
forgot to bring my lunch
uhh sometimes my Dad
usually uhh just one call
away so he usually bring
uhh just one call away lang ut to me... that is and
sometimes likd when
si Daddy so he usually
before I go to school no
kanang ginahatod lang goodbye kiss anymore,
that's it.
niya... ana and sometimes
like kanang before ko mu
adto sa school no goodbye
kiss anymore, ganon po.
Ay katong nawala siya kay TTOGFIDI7_Q1 That's just going on and
murag, ay kanang dati man on because they don't
gud kay naanad mi ba nga want us to suffer.
kanang ginasundo gani
karon kay kanang wala na.

tinga ko namatay akong TTOGFIDI4_Q1 when my father died,

papa bago ning lala tong when I was in grade 6 my
focus was not on
grade 6 wala ka sa wala
education that time....that
gyud ko sa mood sa was a big change
education wala ko ka focus because when my father
was still alive they
masyado sa education ato
motivate me to study well
na time tong ....... mao to even though my grade is
dako syag changes kay gina a line of 8 or 9 at least he
is still happy like that, that
habang buhi pa akong papa
was the changes.
gina motivate ko nila ay niya
nga mo skwela og tarong
even though line of 8 or line
of 9 akong grado atleast
happy na siya ana so mao
to mao to akong changes.
Kuan te murag wala te TTOGFIDI5_Q1 It seems like there is no
walay nag change sa change, nothing has
changed in my routine.
akoang routine - It seems
like there is no change,
nothing has changed in my
routine
sukad atong na wala akong TTOGFIDI1_Q1 The moment my father
died? Ahh maybe I'm not
papa? Ahhhh cguro kanang
really..... I'm unmotivated
dli na kaau ko na ano because my father was
always the one who
unmotivated na kaau ko ba
cheered on me... My
kay syempre akong papa father was the one who
always cheered on me
man gd ang kanang tig
with my academic my
cheer jdt sa akoa more on mother doesn't really care
char hahahaha. But
papa man gd jdt ang tig
uhmm... Uhmm... since
cheer sa akoa academic my father died I became
unmotivated because I
akong mama kay wala may
have no one to show my
pakialam charrr hahahaha grades... Like that.
pero kanang kanang sukad
atong nawala siya is kanang
kanang unmotivated nako
ana gd kay wala nakoy
pakita istoryahan sa akong
ano grades ing ana..

Mas nikuan pa ko kay mas.. TTOGFIDI2_Q1 I uhmm... That's what my

father had said that focus
mao man gud na ang ingon
on your studies, so I
niya nga mag tarong daw ko focused with my studies.
eskwela so.. akong gi kuan
nag tarong ko ug eskwela

Wala kay mao raman TTOGFIDI6_Q1 It's still the same.

gihapun.

Uhmm tong ahh nung TTOGFIDI3_Q1 Uhhmm when ahhh when

namatay akong Daddy uhh
basically my my grades
went down kasi well I can't
say that I was I was
depressed that time though I
was very sad and I for me
that was like
disappointment that
kasi I was also I was
uhhhhh I was achieving a lot
lately that time and then uhh
what shock me mentally kay
nawala man dayon siya that
time then basically ni baba
directly and like mao na siya
Ay ano kanang sa academic TTOGFIDI7_Q1
jud kay wala man gud, wala
jud. Kanang murag mao
lang gihapon.
Para sa akoa pursigido TTOGFIDI4_Q1
gihapon ko magstudy at the
same time katung last day
katung before naingon man
sa akong papa nga,nga try
something better kay lain
man gud na
pernaminte,normal
people..normal kid lang ka
ba kanang wala kay igo ra
ka study,what if magtry kag
lahi na ano kana gung
activity sa inyong school na
kanang related gihapon nga
dili ma-apektuhan ang
my Dad died uhh
basically my my grades
went down because well I
can't cay thag I was I was
depressed that time
though I was very sad
and I for me that was like
a disappointment that
time because I was also I
a was uhhhhh I was
achieving a lot lately that
time
time and then uhh whag
shock me mentally is that
he was gonr too soon that
time then basically it went
down directly that's it.
What is that about
academics because there
is nothing, there is
nothing. That seems to be
the same.
for me I was still
determined to study at the
same time on the last day
before, my father told me
to try something better
because it is undesirable
to just stay like a normal
person..normal kid that
just does study, what if I
try to enter another
activity in your school that
is still related, that it
doesn't affect your studies
my father told me........
imong pag-eskwela ana ana
akong papa atu na time....

wala walay nag change te TTOGFIDI5_Q1 There is no change, none.

wala

ahmmmmmm dli jdt ingon TTOGFIDI1_Q1 Uhmm... I can't really say

that my grades are failing
nga ni baba jdt ang grado
because uhmm....
kay kanang kanang usahay Uhmm..... I feel sorry for
my family and that
pag ma luoy man pd ko sa
motivates me to study
akong ssss sa family nako hard because at least I
can make it up to them...
mas ma motivate gd ka og
Like that
kanang paningkamot ba
kanang mas motivate ka og
kanang study kay para
makabawi ka sa ilaha ana
gd

Permi ko late TTOGFIDI2_Q1 I'm always late

Wala man pud. TTOGFIDI6_Q1 Nothing has changed

either.

ahhh daghan man ahh family, TTOGFIDI1_RQ2 Ahh a lot... Ahh family,
friends, cellphone kanang friends, cellphone like for
halimbawa kanang mo gawa example if I wanted to
kanang gusto ka makalimot sa
imong problema mag wattpad
na lng ka ana na lng
Gi.. kuan...one day ni kuan TTOGFIDI2_RQ2
nalang ko nga gidawat nalang
nako nga wala na akong papa...
Mao to... Wala lang nadawat
nalang nako
Uhmm when I I I sometimes TTOGFIDI3_RQ2
when I not alone I am with my
friends and I enjoy my time
and spend time with them and
when I'm alone I usually paint
or sometimes just scroll on my
uhh social media po
kanang ginabuhat nako para TTOGFIDI4_RQ2
mawala na siya nga stress or
anxiety kay wala lang,magread
kog mga poems online unya
kuan pod attend mass kana
gung holy mass ,muattend
man ko amang holy mass noh
akong ginapray akong father
ana at the same time ga kuan
pod ko kanang ga akong gina
adlaw-adlaw dili siya kada
sabado at dominggo ha kanang
kada adlaw-adlaw ako jung
ginaremember akong papa nga
siya gyud ang pinakabest nga
tawo,kusog kaayo
makamotivate nako aside from
others so akong mga
ginabuhat na activity kuan
gung mga kuan lang mga busy
thing,ginabusy nako akong
sarili,kuan para mawala jud
forget my father I'll just go
to Wattpad, like that...
. I... Uhmm.... One day I just
accepted it that he's no
longer here, that's it... I just
accepted it
Uhmm when I I I sometimes
when I not alone I am with
my friends and I enjoy my
time and spend time with
them and when I'm alone I
usually paint or sometimes
just scroll on my uhh social
media
What I do to make my stress
or anxiety disappear is just
nothing, I just read poems
online and then I attend
holy mass, when I attend
the holy mass I pray for my
father at the same time I
remember my father every
day not just Saturday or
Sunday that he is the best
person, he is my great
motivator aside from others
so the activities I do is to
keep me busy, I keep myself
busy to get rid of it.... to
forget it but not forgetting
like just being disappeared,
just forgetting that I will not
think that my father died
because I get emotiona- I
would sometimes cry
because I also miss him.
siya .......,nga makalimtan lang
gyud nako siya pero dili nako
siya makalimtan nga kanang
mawala na gyud kanang
kalimtan lang ba nga dili sa
nako hunahunaon nga
namatay akong papa kay
muemotion- muhilak na jud ko
ana panagsa kay mag-kuan
mingawon pod ko.

nag kuan rako te kanang TTOGFIDI5_RQ2 I was looking for time to

nangita kog time nga maka relax te.
relax ko.

Kanang murag akong TTOGFIDI6_RQ2
giatubang? Kuan ra kanang
mga hehehe, akong i explain
kuan ra siya kanang if kanang
naa koy makita nga kanang
mga bata or ana ba nga kuan
kanang parehas sa generation
natu run, uban biya batabga
tubag tubag sa iyang parents
or sa ilang papa ana, makuan
lang ko sa ilaha kay kuan man
gud kanamg unta malipay sila
ba like naa pa sila nya dili nila
gina respect ilang parents.
It's like I'm facing this alone.
It's just me explaining, it's
like if I see children or
something like that, who are
similar to our generation
now, sometimes they
answer back to their parents
or to their father like that, I
can relate to them because I
wish they would be happy,
like if they still have their
father, and they don't
respect their parents.

Kuan lang katong mao ra TTOGFIDI7_RQ2 We are still the same ones
gihapon kanang maghuna who only think about
huna lang ug mga moments moments when dad is there.
nga naa si papa.
ahmmmm charrrr hahahahah
g unsa nako pag kanang
kanang overcome cguro
through prayer, prayer lng jdt
mao jdt na ang pinaka the best
para ma cope up jdt nmo
imong g bati na ka bug at sa
imong kasingkasing ana. Prayer
amen
Nag focus ko sa akong mga
kuan... Nag kuan ko sa akong
mga kuan cgi na ko'g uban sa
akong mga ig-agaw mag cgi mi
ug laag, mao tong... Para
makalimtan nako akong papa,
makalimtan nako na wala na
siya
Uhmmm I mean the pain can't
really just go away somehow
still uhh naa paman gihapon
though my coping ways the
family itself po like the person
who I lost is so the one who I
get my strength from
kanaang kuan maovercome
nako kay ano lang icherish nga
naa imong pamilya at the same
time make yourself busy ang
then kung mingawon ka sa
imong parent kay adtuon nimo
siya sa cemetery kung asa siya
gilubong or magdona-
maghatag kag flowers or
candle or maghimo ka ug
gamay or small ano ceremony
nga novena para sa imong
kuan parent nga namatay and
then sa akoa kay mubo rag
sentence akong mahimo kay
ginahimo nako na siya kay taga
TTOGFIDI1_RQ2 Uhmm char hahaha how did
I overcome? Maybe through
prayer, just pray that's the
best way to cope up with
the heavy emotions in your
heart, just like that. Amen.
TTOGFIDI2_RQ2 I focused with my... I always
tag along with my cousins,
we always go out, to forget
about my father, to forget
that he's no longer here.
TTOGFIDI3_RQ2 Uhmmm I mean the pain
can't really just go away
somehow still uhh here
though my coping ways the
family itself like the person
who I lost is so the one who
I get my strength from
TTOGFIDI4_RQ2 I overcome it by cherishing
that I have a family at the
same time making myself
busy then if I miss my parent
I go to the cemetery from
where his grave is or dona-
give flowers or candles or
make a small ceremony or
novena for your parent that
died and then since I only
make short sentences I do
that every all saints day or
all souls day or the days to
remember, that is what I do
to overcome.
ano lang kana gung mga all
Saints day or mga kanang all
souls day or kanang mga adlaw
nga kanang mga domdom mao
na ang gina himo nako para ma
kuan siya ma overcome.
ahmm gi, ana man to si sila TTOGFIDI5_RQ2
kuan tito nako nga dawaton
daw nako nga namatay na daw
akong papa unya mao to so
unya unsa may ano ha kanang
kay every tao mamatay man
jdt na sila unya niabot na to
nya time so dawaton nako nga
namatay na akong papa nya g
dawat nako.
Kuan lang kanang.. wala.. may TTOGFIDI6_RQ2
ano lang ko ahh. ako lang
buhaton ang akong gusto kay
para, ana.
Balik balik naman ni oy haha TTOGFIDI7_RQ2
pero mao ra japon kanang
maghuna huna sa nga
moments, kanang mga gipang
isturya niya saamo, kanang
mga kanang basta kanang mga
sturya nga maka learn mi.
cguro ahmm dli lng pd jdt TTOGFIDI1_RQ2
cguro kanang imo lng jdt
kanang kanang dibdibon tanan
ba kanang dli ka mag more on
overthink jdt sa situation kay
bisag nahitabo na sya dli ingon
na kanang ahhh wa na give up
ahmm,, they said my uncle
said to me to accept that my
father died then that's it
then what do you call that
because every person dies
they will die and then the
time has come so I accept
that My father died.
I just meant, well, I have
something to say, I'll just do
what I want because, you
know.
It goes back and forth,
haha, but that's the only
way to think about those
moments, those things that
he talked to us about, those
things that are just those
stories that we can learn
from.
Maybe uhmm... let's not
take everything seriously,
let's not overthink the
situation because even
though it happened, it
doesn't mean that "ahh I'll
give up, my situation is
na kuan na ingon ani na
kanang dapat mag padayon lng
jdt kanang keep up lng sa
kinabihi kay dli lng man dira
taman naa pa may mo abot na
maau na butang.
Cgi ko'g... Mao to cgi ra ko ug TTOGFIDI2_RQ2
laag para ma kuan para
madawat nako
Uhmmm from time to time TTOGFIDI3_RQ2
whenever I have emotional
breakdown sometimes I go to
my dog or or my family to me
and sometimes we comfort
each other because we are the
one's
para maovercome nako ni kay TTOGFIDI4_RQ2
murag kuan lang para
maovercome ang pain wala
lang think positive para
mahimo lang happy, mangita
kag something better nga
makahappy sa imoha unya ano
weird ko pero mugakos kog
unlan ana para
mahuna..mahunahunaan nako
na mao na akong amahan kay
dati grade 5 pko kay hilig jud ko
maggakusgakus sa.. niya mu
ulig balay gakos,amen,ulig
balay so kumbaga ..pero since
muhilak mn jud ko kay sakit
mn jud mawad an ug amahan
akong ginabuhat kay mu-
hu..ako lang siyang gina-hug.
hard" we should.... We
should continue and keep
up with life because it
doesn't end there, there are
good things that will come
to you in the future.
I always... I always go out
for me to accept it
Uhmmm from time to time
whenever I have emotional
breakdown sometimes I go
to my dog or or my family to
me and sometimes we
comfort each other because
we are the one's
to overcome this, like to
overcome the pain is just do
nothing, just think positively
for you to be happy, and
find something that makes
you happy this is weird but I
hug a pillow thinking that it
was my father because
before when I was in grade
5 I like to hug him when I
get home, bless, and then
come back home.. but since
I cry since it really hurts
when you lose your father I
just hug it.
 kalimtan nako te TTOGFIDI5_RQ2
Kuan lang ako lang ipagawas TTOGFIDI6_RQ2
kuan paagi sa pag hilak, ing
ana lang ko, mag breakdown
everytime if kanang
makahuna-huna ko nga wala
nakoy papa.
Kuan lang, ay katong una jud TTOGFIDI7_RQ2
atu kay kanang lisod man gud ,
tapos pagkadugayan kay
kanang na accept ra namo ang
kamatuoran nga knang wala
na, pero okay naman ron.
RQ3 Uhhmm never to depend on TTOGFIDI3_RQ3
them ahh never always to
expect that they would be
always there for you on your
whole life
Kanang ang isa jud ka tao kay, TTOGFIDI7_RQ3
kanang basta accept jud nga
mawala jud sila maong i
cherish jud ang adlaw nga naa
ka sailaha.
Ang pinakadako nga leksyon TTOGFIDI4_RQ3
kay keep moving forward even
though ang isa ka tawo ....... so
akoa pod kay ako pung akong
nakat unan dili pernaminte
magstay ang mama ug papa
natu so kumbaga imagine
i will forget it
I just release it through
crying, that's it, I break
down every time I think that
I don't have a father
anymore.
It's just that, that's the first
thing because that's really
hard, then after a while we
just accept the fact that he's
gone, but it's okay.
Uhhmm never to depend on
them ahh never always to
expect that they would be
always there for you on your
whole life
That's the same person
because, as long as you
accept that they will be
gone, I will cherish the day
that you are with them.
The biggest lesson is to keep
moving forward even
though a person... so I, too,
because I have experienced
it, our mother and father
cannot always stay, so
imagine having your father
having father and mother died
together unsaon na lang ka
kung dili ka maglihok so ikaw
maka-ingon jud ka ay
kailangan nako mag-trabaho
para sa imong sarili kay para
naa pod kay ma comply sa
akoa nga kwarta,pero sa akoa
jung thought kay ano lang
keep moving forward even
though lisud siya ,lisud siya nga
hunahunaon pero kailangan pa
if imove atung sarili sa mga
consequences, obstacles nga
adtuan kay wala mn tay laing
maduolan kundi atung sarili or
atung mga parents nga nabilin
man or mother man atung
nabilin or father ,para sa akoa
ang best thought kay every
challenges,every obstacles
everytime tanan kay.. tanan
nga kalisud maovercome na
siya kauban imong sarili ug
katung mga tao nga gasuporta
nimo even though patay na
kag parent...patay kag mama
or papa or both,imong ano
lang, imong bestow ana kay
wala lang do you best nga
mabuhi aning kalibutana nga
cruel kaayo nga unta nga
tanan kalisod kay
ma..masuklian siyag kalipay
nga mawala na imong mga ano
things sa mga ano.
kuan ahhh life lessons every TTOGFIDI5_RQ3
person has one life.
ahmmm cguro ano learn to TTOGFIDI1_RQ3
and mother die together,
what will you do if you don't
take action? So you can
truly say that I need to work
for myself so that I can also
have something to comply
with my needs. But in my
own thoughts, it's just that
you should keep moving
forward even though it's
difficult, it's difficult to think
about, but we still need to
move ourselves towards the
consequences, and
obstacles that we face
because we have no one
else to rely on but ourselves
or our remaining parents,
whether it be the mother or
father. For me, the best
thought is that every
challenge, every obstacle,
every time, everything can
be overcome with yourself
and the people who support
you even though your
parents are dead... your
mother or father or both,
it's just that, your bestowal
is that you just have to do
your best to survive in this
extremely cruel world
where hopefully all the
hardships will be rewarded
with the happiness of losing
those things in life.
ahhh life lessons every
person has one life.
Uhmm... Maybe learn to
value things ana kanang
kanang diha na man gd ka
maka realize bah nga kanang
wala na wala na sila kanang
diha na nmo ma value ang
kanang ang ilang presence ba
si dapat lear to value jdt sa tao
Kanang dapat naa pa sila TTOGFIDI2_RQ3
nagbinuotan ka unya dili nimo
tubagtubagon imohang kuan...
Imohang ginikanan kay wala ka
kabalo nga pagkasumod diay
adlaw kay mawala na sila sa
kalibutan
Kuan wala koy ma kuan te, TTOGFIDI6_RQ3
kanang dili mobuhat og butang
nga ikasakit nila kay sakit
mawad an og parents.
Uhhmm maybe because he TTOGFIDI3_RQ3
was sick so we spend a lot of
money and maybe because he
was also time that uhmm
maybe because it was a
burded to my Mom and uhmm
of course to my Dad he would
finally rest po yun lang -
Uhhmm maybe because he
was sick so we spend a lot of
money and maybe because he
was also time that uhmm
maybe because it was a
burded to my Mom and uhmm
of course to my Dad he would
finally rest that's all
Kuan lang, ay katong una jud TTOGFIDI7_RQ3
atu kay kanang lisod man gud ,
tapos pagkadugayan kay
value things like that ....
Because that is when you
realize that.... They're not
here anymore and yet you
just realized the value of
their presence so learn to
value things.
Uhmm.... We should be
good to them and don't talk
back to your parents
because we don't know that
maybe next day they'll be
gone
I won't do anything that will
hurt them because it's
painful for them to lose
their parents.
Uhhmm maybe because he
was sick so we spend a lot of
money and maybe because
he was also time that uhmm
maybe because it was a
burded to my Mom and
uhmm of course to my Dad
he would finally rest po yun
lang -Uhhmm maybe
because he was sick so we
spend a lot of money and
maybe because he was also
time that uhmm maybe
because it was a burded to
my Mom and uhmm of
course to my Dad he would
finally rest that's all
It's just that, that's the first
thing because that's really
hard, then after a while we
kanang na accept ra namo ang
kamatuoran nga knang wala
na, pero okay naman ron.
.akong masabtan kay kuan TTOGFIDI4_RQ3
mga masabtan nako kay dili
lang dapat ta mag-ano,kung
mao toh siya ang nahitabo sa
imoha nga gikuha na siya sa
ginoo lagi kay nahimo na
siyang but an diri sa
kalibutan ...... para sa akoa kay
lisud siya masabtan kay
mahunaan man nimo kay sa
tanan tanang tao,tanan tanang
lalaki ngano siya,ngano siya
mn juy gipili so habang
marealize nimo nga nga tanan
tanan tawo naa jud tay sala
naa mn jud tay mga,mga sala
nga dili natu mawala so atung
sarili,akong maunderstand ani
kay unta nga kanang mga
things nga nahitabo sa akoa
kagaya sa nahitabo sa akong
papa kay dili pa nako siya fully
understand hantud karon kay
ako gihapon gina..gina-
question akong sarili nganong
siya nga namatay so mao tung
akong maingon kay lisud siya i-
understand.
kuan ahhh understandings TTOGFIDI5_RQ3
actually wala koy ma tubag ani
murag na understand nako nga
ahhh pagkapatay sa akong
papa te ang kuan na na
understand nako nga wala na
diay koy papa.
just accept the fact that he's
gone, but it's okay.
My understanding is.. I
understand that we don't
need to..if that is what
happened to you that
he/she was already taken by
God for the reason that
he/she already became kind
in this world ....for me it is
hard to understand because
you will think that of all
people, of all men, why
does it have to be him, Why
is it he was the one who was
picked, so while you realize
that all people have sins
that we cannot get rid of by
ourselves, I understand that
the things that happened to
me just like what happened
to my father is, I still cannot
fully understand up until
now because I still question
myself why does it have to
be him, to be dead, so that
is just what I can say
because it is hard to
understand.
ahhh understandings
actually I don't have an
answer to this I seem to
understand that ahhh when
my father died that's when I
understood that I don't have
a father anymore.
akong understanding cguro TTOGFIDI1_RQ3 My understandings? Maybe
ano, naay hangganan ang uhmm..... Life ends,
kinabuhi jdt naay hangganan happiness ends char hahaha
ang kalipay charrrr ha ha ha ha but it doesn't really mean
kanang ano pero dli mn jdt that he's no longer here
kanang ingon na wala nana sya then your happiness ends
diha lng taman imong here right? Happiness is still
happiness diba naa jpon dira there maybe it'll come
ang happiness cguro mo abot
rana pero murag wala ka wala
ka g takda ana

Mas .... Mas ni kuan pa ko ni.... TTOGFIDI2_RQ3 I... Uhmm..... I'll study hard
Naningkamot ug skwela kay because I know that my
kabalo ko na si mama nalang mom is the only one who
nagabuhi sa amoa maong raised us... That's all to help
nagatabang ko sa iyaha para her.
maka ... Mao lang makatabang
sa iyaha

Nadawat nako tanan nga wala TTOGFIDI6_RQ3 I've accepted that I no

na akong papa unya kanang longer have a father and I
dawat rapud nako nga kanang have to accept that God
gikuha na jud sa Ginoo kay took him away because he
kuan man pud siya tiguwang was already old and had
na siya gamay unya naa man vices.
pud guy siyay bisyo bisyo

Kuan lang laban ra permi ana TTOGFIDI6_RQ3 Just keep fighting, be a

kuan, be a strong person kay strong person because it's
dili man sa inhon nga not the end just because
namatyan kag papa mao najud you lost your father. Just
ang katapusan, dawaton accept the truth, that's it.
nalang jud ang kamatuoran,
katu lang.

Kuan .. keep going kang TTOGFIDI2_RQ3 Uhmm.... Just keep on

padayon lang jud sila dili sila going, keep on going and
magpadala sa ilang gibati kay..
kay maabot man jud ang time
nga mawala ang inyuhang
ginikanan so daoat mag, move
forward ug mao ra
ano kanang dli lng cguro basta TTOGFIDI1_RQ3
basta mo give up kana gd dli
lng basta kanang mawalaan lng
gani ka og kanang mo guba
dayon ka ana gani huna
hunaon pd nmo na kanang naa
pay na bilin sa imoha ana gd i
appreciate nmo yong mga tao
nga naa pa sa imoha Kay
syempre focus sa katong naa
pa nya dli ingon nga kanang
kalimtan nato tong namatay so
ano lng kanag mag padayon
lng jpin sa kibahuhi ana gd
ahhhh advice ahhh understand TTOGFIDI5_RQ3
that every person has one life
so ahh mao na te, murag mao
raman guro na advice akong
na huna hunaan te.
akong matambag lang sa ilaha TTOGFIDI4_RQ3
kay ano lang don't lose hope,
ayaw lang ka lose sa imong
hope sa imong love sa imong
mga nabilin na mga relatives
or have faith in God kay kuan
man gud lisod siya i.. tawag
ani, lisud siya imotivate ang isa
ka tao once example ikaw wala
kay experience ana imo siyang
imotivate,dako siya nga
opportunity karon nga
naginterview ta kay gusto nako
iingon sa ilaha na kani nga
challenges sa kinabuhi ug
don't let your emotions win
over you , because time will
come that your parents will
die so move forward that's
all
Uhmm maybe just don't
give up easily, not like if you
lose something then you'll
brake, like that, remember
that there's still someone
for you. Appreciate those
people who's still with you,
it doesn't mean that you
should forget those who
aren't here.. so uhmm just
continue with your life
ahhhh advice ahhh
understand that every
person has one life so ahh
that's all, I guess that's the
advice I'm thinking of.
My only advice for them is
don't lose hope, don't lose
hope in your love for your
remaining relatives, or have
faith in God because it is
hard to.. what do you call
this, it is hard to motivate a
person once, for example,
you, you don't have
experience and you are
going to motivate, it is a big
opportunity to have this
interview now. After all, I
want to tell them that these
challenges in life and our
pagsulay natu nga wala tay
parents dako kaayo siya nga
lisud nga sa atung ka ..lisud sa
atung sarili pero gaan lang siya
kung muingon sila ,unta
makaya nila nga ing ani nga
failures kay in the other
day ,kinabukasan man sila na
pod magtagumpay and then
kabalo na sila kung unsa na
kasakit mawad an ug parent
sila may imong mga amahan or
inahan man or sila man mga
anak mao ra toh.
Kanang ano kanang padayon TTOGFIDI7_RQ3
lang tapos padayon lang
padayon haha kay diman gud
sila gusto pud nga magsuffer
ta.
I can't say that you don't have TTOGFIDI3_RQ3
really depend on them
because you are still a child so
I would say na always just love
them until you can until the
end of the ahh the end of both
of your life po
Nakadepende po, if your an TTOGFIDI3_RQ3
extrovert and introvert hehehe
uhmm I would say uhmm I'm
and ambivert so I cope up with
both uhhm I go out with my
friends and I start to heal with
God and my Family and
uhhmm uhh well when I'm
alone I also try to uhhm maybe
my coping mechanism is to
write to paint what I feel
ganon.
hardships that we don't
have a parent is a big
hardship in our..hard for us
but easy for them from
what they say, I hope we
can overcome these failures
because in the other day,
they will become our
success and then they will
know how painful it is to
lose a father or mother or
the son or daughters.
That's what it's just going on
and on and on haha because
that's they really wouldn’t
want us to suffer.
I can't say that you don't
have really depend on them
because you are still a child
so I would say that always
just love them until you can
until the end of the ahh the
end of both of your life
It depends, if your an
extrovert and introvert
hehehe uhmm I would say
uhmm I'm and ambivert so I
cope up with both uhhm I
go out with my friends and I
start to heal with God and
my Family and uhhmm uhh
well when I'm alone I also
try to uhhm maybe my
coping mechanism is to
write to paint what I feel

Ay kanang maghuna huna ug TTOGFIDI7_RQ3
mga happy moments nga
kauban ang mga tao.
Akong masuggest lang kay TTOGFIDI4_RQ3
kuan, kuan make yourself busy
and treasure every moment
you have with you mother
kung mother or father man or
both ba sila mga dinhaa,mao
ra akong masulti sa ilaha nga
unta nga ..nga dako silag kuan
problema mafulfill gihapon nila
ilang self of needs ilang
academic ilahang
extracurricular or sports man,
art or any field pero unta nga
katu ilang mga challenges sa
ilang kinabuhi,ilang challenges
sa ilang kinabuhi kay ma ano
mafulfill nila even though lisod
siya makuan buhaton ang
akong best suggestion lang
gyud kay make yourself busy
and mao lang.ayaw lang
kalimta ang ..kalimta na ang
tanan ayaw lang jud ang taong
namatayan man sa imong
kinabuhi kay lisud siya i ano.
kuan ahhh probably ahhh TTOGFIDI5_RQ3
suggest nga dli kaau sla mag
huna huna about sa ilahang
ahhhh parents nga nag past
away kay parehas sa akoa wala
wala na man nako to g, tagsa
na lng nako to gina huna
hunaan kay inig ma huna
hunaan nako to syag balik kay
ma makahilak man so murag
ingon ato te ang suggestion
that's it.
Think about happy
moments with people.
I can only suggest, is to
make yourself busy and
treasure every moment you
have with your mother or
father or both, that is what I
can only say to them that I
hope, even though they
have a big problem they can
still fulfill their self needs,
their academic, their
extracurricular or even
sports, art or any field but
also hoping that those
challenges in their life, they
can still fulfill even though it
is hard to be done. My best
suggestion is to make
yourself busy and that's
it..and also you can forget
anything just not those dead
people in your life because
it is hard to.
ahhh probably ahhh suggest
that you don't think about
their ahhh parents who had
past away because it's the
same as me, I don't even
have it, I just think about it
each time because if I think
about it, it can make me cry
so it seems like this is my
suggestion
nako.
So ano kanang dli kaau mag pa TTOGFIDI1_RQ3
mag hunahuna sa ano negative
side dli kaau kanang mag
overthink ba na kanang hala
wala na siya unsaon namo ni
ani kanang dli lng dapat
kanang ing ana dapat kanang
be positive lng always ing ana
lng magpadayon lng sa
kinabuhi tapos mao rato.
Dapat mag Kuan... Mag focus TTOGFIDI2_RQ3
sila sa ilahang pag eskwela
tapos dili sila... Dli sila mag
pabadlong sa ilahang ginikanan
unya mas tabangan nila ilang
ginikanan para dili sila mag
lisod mao ra
Kuan lang kanang, magtarong TTOGFIDI6_RQ3
lang, mag tarong lang og
skwela hehehe.
So uhmm don't think about
the negative sides don't
overthink like "oh no he's no
longer here, what're we
gonna do?" don't be like
that everytime, be positive
always and continue living
your life, that's all
You should..... Focus on your
studies and don't.... Don't
be a bad kid to your parent
and we should help them so
that they won't experience
so much hardship
Just be good, behave well in
school. Hehehe.