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his week before Mother’s Day is a good time to look at some Glenn Grothman WI
biblical characteristics of godly women. Accordingly, I will Kevin Hern OK
attempt to exhaust passages from Proverbs related to godly Richard Hudson NC
Bill Huizenga MI
virtues, as well conduct a quick survey to the contrary of what Bill Johnson OH
I call “The Eight Bad Babes of the Bible.” Dusty Johnson SD
Jim Jordan OH
Doug Lamborn CO
If you are acquainted with her, the Proverbs 31 woman comes Nathaniel Moran TX
across as perfect and, in that regard, everyone (male and female) Kevin McCarthy CA
Gary Palmer AL
struggles with some of the character deficiencies found in the August Pfluger TX
other eight women. Therefore, this study could prove quite Bill Posey FL
intimidating or come across as misogynistic. Cathy McMorris Rodgers WA
David Rouzer NC
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Accordingly, may I suggest that you receive this study in the spirit Glenn Thompson PA
in which it has been prepared. In that we all desire to be more Tim Walberg MI
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like Jesus, let us all study Proverbs 31 in that light. Since she Daniel Webster FL
emulates the perfect lady, no one will ever quite measure up to Bruce Westerman AR
Brandon Williams NY
her standards in this lifetime. So let’s give each other some grace; Roger Williams TX
indeed, she’s a tough act to follow! Joe Wilson SC
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PUBLIC SERVANT ENDORSEMENT Only through the power and timing of the indwelling Holy Spirit can any of us, male or
female, attain Christlikeness. In theological language, attaining Christlikeness is called
progressive sanctification about which I have written other studies. So rather than look
Joni Ernst at these forthcoming passages as a legalistic measuring stick demanding immediate
U.S. Senator, Iowa performance, view this study as a tool God can use in His own way and timing to help
mature you in Christ, bringing you into a more intimate, personal relationship in which
these virtues are borne and honed.

Read on, my friend.

Ralph Drollinger

“Getting together with my Senate I.  INTRODUCTION female’s leadership in the State! Accord-
colleagues for Bible study is a ingly, and most specific to the passage, if
highlight of my week. It’s a time Proper interpretation of the Old Testament you are a public servant yourself or the wife
where we can shut out all the (OT) book of Proverbs demands keeping in of a governing authority, take note! More
partisan noise and focus on what mind the tightest context the book. Prov- broadly, these are transcendent qualities
matters most, our faith. Without erbs is about a king (Solomon, the writer that God desires for every grandmother,
the work of Capitol Ministries, and editor of nearly all of the book of Prov- mother, and daughter. As a young woman, a
erbs) preparing his young son (Rehoboam) married lady, or a grandmother, what are
this wouldn’t be possible. This
for political leadership over a nation. In that the virtues of female godliness? What spe-
important ministry helps creates cific qualities should you continue to seek
an environment where we can specialized, tight context, the future king’s
some-day-not-too-far-off selection of a wife after, polish, and emulate?
come together to build unity
is deemed extremely important. The heir-
over divisiveness and reminds us
to seek and maintain harmony
apparent need choose (or by way of broader 
II.  LEARN THE CHARACTERISTICS
application of the passage, be) an excellent OF A GREAT WOMAN
within our families, friendships, chayil (“elite, noble, valiant”) wife (cf. Prov-
communities, and nation.” erbs 12:4 and 31:10). Herein then (in the The following “Ten Characteristics of a
tightest context of the passage), the Bible Godly Woman” are found in Proverbs and
does not omit nor diminish the importance other passages in Scripture.
of a political leader’s wife over the course of
a nation. Scriptures in the book of Proverbs A.  SHE IS INDUSTRIOUS
that address women most specifically relate
to a woman who will be or is married to a The wise woman builds her house, but the
governing authority. This contextual insight foolish tears it down with her own hands
explains why the Proverbs 31 woman is of (Proverbs 14:1).
the highest caliber, i.e., why she needs to be
“excellent.” Indeed, she need be and sets a She looks for wool and flax and works with
higher standard—an example if you will— her hands in delight. She is like mer­chant
for the other women in the nation. ships; she brings her food from afar. She
rises also while it is still night and gives
In the same way that 1 Timothy 3 and food to her household and portions to her
Titus 1 need be and set a higher standard maidens. She considers a field and buys it;
for a male’s leadership in the Church, Prov- from her earnings she plants a vineyard.
erbs need be and sets a higher standard for a She girds herself with strength and makes

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her arms strong. She senses that her gain is women to love their husbands, to love their VERSE OF THE WEEK
good; her lamp does not go out at night children, to be sensible, pure, workers at ✚
(Proverbs 31:13–18). home, kind, being subject to their own hus-
bands, so that the word of God will not be Proverbs 31:30
She makes linen garments and sells them, dishonored.
and supplies belts to the tradesmen. Charm is deceitful
Strength and dignity are her clothing, Titus 2 is the New Testament (NT) parallel and beauty is vain,
and she smiles at the future (Proverbs passage to Proverbs 31 in the OT. Herein
31:24–25). listed are similar virtues depicting a godly but a woman who fears the
woman. One of the specific descriptors of a Lord, she shall be praised.
She looks well to the ways of her household, godly woman that appears in the shopping
and does not eat the bread of idleness list of Titus 2:5 is worthy of special men-
(Proverbs 31:27). tion. Many English translations (as above in
the NASB) state workers at home. The
All of these Proverbs share a common underlying Greek word in this phrase is oik-
theme: they condemn laziness! Certain cul- ourgos. This passage begs for particular atten-
tures, including America’s, increasingly tion because it is the basis of debate in the
embrace a lack of mental and physical exer- church today: How does one synthesize
tion. Characteristic slothfulness, by and workers at home with the aforementioned
large, explains the differences between pros- Proverbs, wherein a most excellent wife
perous versus failing nations. Entitlement (Proverbs 31:10) is often found in the mar-
cultures—socialism cultures more specifi- ketplace (cf. Proverbs 31:13–18)?
cally—especially portend personal slothful-
ness because industriousness is in no way A careful examination of the Greek word
rewarded. More about talk than task, idle- explains this moot issue. For the sake of En-
ness becomes an idol. The end result of glish readability in the Titus passage the
socialism is the creation of a climate that dis- preposition “at” is supplied in many English
enfranchises and disenables the perspicuous Bible translations but note that the preposi-
scriptural precept of industriousness. It is, tion is not present in the original compound A godly woman who
therefore, critically important that the wives Greek word, oikourgos: (the two roots of the invests in her family
of political leaders (if they are not in politi- compound are oikos: “home,” and ergon: “en- benefits not only her
cal leadership themselves) model this attri- ergy in the sense of deed, labor, work”).2 In
bute of godliness.1 that ergon carries the idea of energy manifest
husband and her children,
in deed, labor, or work (as is translated with but society as well.
The woman of Proverbs is capable, physically that specific meaning in other numerous NT What a high calling!
able, business smart, and prosperous. Notice passages such as Ephesians 2:8b–9 wherein Praise God for His design!
the following passages in contrast to the Paul states, relative to one’s salvation, it is
“Miss/Mrs. Industrious” of Proverbs: not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as
a result of ergon, so that no one may boast),
At the same time they also learn to be idle, the English-supplied preposition “at ” is an
as they go around from house to house; and inapt, unsupportable addition in English
not merely idle, but also gossips and busy- translations given the absence of such in the
bodies, talking about things not proper to underlying Greek construct. The literal
mention (1 Timothy 5:13). Greek word, therefore, means “home-
energy.” Why is this translation so import-
Now note and synthesize the above simple ant? The English translation workers at
contrast with Titus 2:3–5: home tends to incorrectly connote where the
woman is supposed to be. But oikourgos does
Older women likewise are to be reverent in not contain this geographic qualification.
their behavior, not malicious gossips nor
enslaved to much wine, teaching what is The Proverbs 31 passage serves to further
good, so that they may encourage the young support this understanding: the excellent

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Patrick Henry wife is often in and engaged in the market- shown in the exercise of reason, forethought,
place! Perhaps the more accurate (to the and self-control.” A godly woman pushes
analogy of Scripture), better English- herself. She uses her mind to think ahead and
supplied preposition in the Titus passage for prepare. Her proper prior planning is a pre-
the sake of readability should be a preposi- ventative to poor performance. With these
tion that serves to underscore that a godly qualities from our Heavenly Father, the pru-
woman does energetic deeds, labor, work dent wife is deemed a gift from the Lord.
for the home (cf. Genesis 2:18; 1 Timothy
2:11–15). How she goes about the prioritiz- 
C.  SHE IS WISE AND
ing of her energy that is displayed in deeds, UNDERSTANDING
labor, work for the home does not necessar-
ily mean she works at home all day long. By wisdom a house is built, and by under-
Again, given what Proverbs 31 states about standing it is established; and by knowl-
her and what descriptors connote her excel- edge the rooms are filled with all precious
lence, this seems to be the better biblical and pleasant riches (Proverbs 24:3–4).
understanding.
The Bible says the primary role of the wife in
Accordingly, is it not a bit marriage is to build and establish the family/
legalistic to state home while the husband works outside as the
breadwinner. They are coequals in the sight
“The great pillars of all emphatically that a wife
of God, but have different roles assigned to
government and of social life should not work at all? them by Him in the marriage. This role is
[are] virtue, morality, and indubitable3 if one believes that all Scripture
religion. This is the armor, More in accord with is inspired by God (2 Timothy 3:16–17) and
scriptural teaching is this that the forthright instruction of Paul in
my friend, and this alone, Titus 2:3–5 is part of the Bible, which it is.
that renders us invincible.” question: is the highest
Whereas both husband and wife are of simi-
priority of her industrious lar value before God and society, they func-
— Patrick Henry, American Revolutionary
War general, legislator, “The Voice of
heart to build up her family? tion in different capacities, teaming to build
Liberty,” ratifier of the U.S. Constitution, the kingdom, their country, their marriage
governor of Virginia. The latter is the heart issue that will govern and the next generation. A symbiosis of hus-
the former. (You probably know of legalistic band and wife is necessary, indeed
Patrick Henry, Patrick Henry: Life, churches where the elder’s wives are forbid- demanded, in order to achieve all of the
Correspondence and Speeches, William Wirt den to work. They are characteristically
Henry, ed. (New York: Charles Scribner’s
above. A godly woman is wise, understand-
Sons, 1891), Vol. II, 592, to Archibald Blair
busybodies.) However a husband and a wife ing of her role, and knowledgeable of God’s
on January 8, 1799. work out this conundrum, the point here to blueprint and design. A wife’s knowing all
be underscored is that a godly woman is this and fully accepting it is how God created
industrious and that industriousness is most man and woman and how He made mar-
importantly manifest first and foremost in riages and families to function in order to be
the building up of her family. most effective as the foundation of society.

B.  SHE IS PRUDENT To attempt in any way


House and wealth are an inheritance from
to change this basic
fathers, but a prudent wife is from the biblical construct of
Lord (Proverbs 19:14). marriage—and how He
designed it to best
In contrast to a lazy wife who is unprepared,
sloppy, not thinking ahead, a busybody, char-
function—is to interfere
acterized by excuses, and an overall lack in with the inherent
excellence, prudence (sakal) means “wisdom foundation of a nation.
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When the Owner’s manual is followed, the This passage reflects the outwardly mani- G.  SHE IS TRUSTWORTHY
figurative results are rooms …filled with all festations of a godly woman’s heart. A godly
precious and pleasant riches. Accordingly, woman does not dress in public in ways The heart of her husband trusts in her, and
Solomon is saying in the context of the the- ungodly, suggestive, slovenly, or slipshod. he will have no lack of gain. She does him
sis of Proverbs, to Rehoboam, to you, to me, Her outer adornment reflects her inner good and not evil all the days of her life
and to our nation that a wise man will demeanor. (Proverbs 31:11–12).
marry a wise woman who has her high
calling, role, and function in marriage set- She girds herself with strength and makes This passage aptly summarizes what a man
tled in her mind. Solomon was saying, her arms strong (Proverbs 31:17). should look for in a wife, and what a
“Rehoboam, marry a woman who is knowl- woman who desires to be married should
edgeable, wise, and understanding of this strive to become. Here is a woman who will
role.” Any marriage partner who enters mar- Strength and dignity are her clothing, and
attract respect in her own right as well as
riage wherein this wisdom and under- she smiles at the future (Proverbs 31:25).
complement her husband’s path; she will
standing is not already agreed to by both not detract, but substantively foster a
parties, thinking, I can change my mate is Her appearance and dress reflect internal blessed marriage all the days of her life.
involved in a very high-stakes gamble. decorum, discipline, and dignity, meaning
she gives thought and care for the occasion
and with a view of her husband’s position.
Every woman should strive
D.  SHE IS COMPASSIONATE to develop these seven
She’s not distractive nor does she fight for
She stretches out her hands to the distaff, the limelight. qualities,and every man
and her hands grasp the spindle. She should seek to find these
extends her hand to the poor, and she Because she is habitually and characteristi- qualities in his wife.
stretches out her hands to the needy (Prov- cally industrious, wise, understanding, giv-
erbs 31:19–20). ing, and a good steward of their resources, How does this description apply to you—
fine clothing is affordable and an appropri- especially if you are called to public service
A godly woman is selfless. Not only does she ate priority. Such sensitivities telegraph the as a young, unmarried man?
prioritize care for her husband and children, evidence of God’s blessings and grace
not only is she knowledgeable, wise, and bestowed as a reward for faithfulness, self- H.  SHE IS VALUABLE
understanding of God’s specific call on her lessness, and the care of others who are less
life, but she invests far more time cognizant fortunate. She has class. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and
of those God-ordained purposes than “play- obtains favor from the Lord (Proverbs
ing,” or being self-absorbed in trivial events F.  SHE IS KIND 18:22).
so prevalent in our society today (such as the
multi-faceted forms of entertainment avail- Knowing his son is destined for the throne,
able today). For her, it’s not about “me.” In She opens her mouth in wisdom, and the
teaching of kindness is on her tongue Solomon earnestly desired for Rehoboam
fact and in contrast, she is compassionate for to find an excellent wife. (I hasten to stipu-
those around her as illustrated by her care (Proverbs 31:26).
late that when the king penned this proverb,
for the poor and needy. She flatly rejects the he felt that way. Later in his life he would
narcissism of her culture and considers Kindness (kesed) is a rich Hebrew word not follow his own advice!) Such a quest
others as more important (Philippians 2:3). denoting deeds of devotion, favor, and love- and attainment—to make the right marital
In giving her life for others, she finds it liness. The word carries the OT idea of the choice—would be favorable in his father’s
(Matthew 10:39), and her husband calls her NT word for love (agapao), meaning eyes and God’s. Notice what often results
blessed (Proverbs 31:30). “unchanging, unconditional graciousness.” when a man marries a great, godly, support-
This woman’s speech is flavored with ten- ive woman:
E.  SHE IS CLASSY derness and mercy; others enjoy talking to
her for endless hours! She’s not rigid and Her husband is known in the gates, when
She is not afraid of the snow for her house- legalistic nor is her speech chock-full of he sits among the elders of the land (Prov-
hold, for all her household are clothed with self-centered comments, harsh, or gossipy; erbs 31:23).
scarlet. She makes coverings for herself; rather, she’s kind and gracious, easy, and
her clothing is fine linen and purple (Prov- genuine. As a result, she is a pleasure to The ages-old adage, “Behind every success-
erbs 31:21–22). be around. ful man there is a strong woman,” can be

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Noah Webster proven by examining many of the great A gracious woman attains honor, and ruth-
men of history; the precept is way truer less men attain riches (Proverbs 11:16).
than not. A wife with the aforementioned
qualities makes for a most valuable team- III.  LOOK OUT FOR
mate who enables the maximization of her NOT-SO-GREAT WOMEN
husband’s abilities. In a Jamesian sense, he
will not be a double-minded man. Solo- Scripture also teaches what woman should
mon desperately desired a highly valuable not be like. The following eight not-so-great
wife for his son. The following somewhat women of the Bible are what I call the “Eight
redundant Proverbs underscore the impor- Bad Babes of the Bible,” so to speak. Note
tance of this point: that these ungodly characteristics are equally
applicable to men as well.
An excellent wife, who can find? For her
worth is far above jewels (Proverbs 31:10). A.  LICENTIOUS WOMEN: THE
WIFE OF FIVE HUSBANDS
An excellent wife is the crown of her hus-
band, but she who shames him is like rot- Like the Samaritan woman at the well in
tenness in his bones (Proverbs 12:4). John 4 who, prior to her conversion to
Christ, had five husbands ( John 4:18), licen-
tious women are those who lack moral disci-
I.  SHE IS FRUITFUL
pline or sexual restraint. This kind of woman
is paraded in Proverbs more so than the
Give her the product of her hands, and let others who follow, perhaps because she is
“The Bible is the chief moral her work praise her in the gates (Proverbs so dangerous, especially to office holders.
31:31). Licentious people (male or female) destroy
cause of all that is good and
the best corrector of all that is marriages.
Once a man has learned the characteristics
evil in human society—the of a great wife, found and married her, he
best book for regulating the Adultery is one of the
had better not take her for granted! Lavish
temporal concerns of men.” surest ways to
the excellent woman with love and give her
more of everything desired; don’t be stingy. destroy a marriage
— Noah Webster, American Revolutionary
War soldier, judge, legislator, educator,
In addition, this Proverb teaches that good instantly and forever.
“Schoolmaster to America.” husbands foster, not stymie, their wife’s
talents and abilities. Help your wife to be all Notice how Solomon hammers away on sex-
Noah Webster, The Holy Bible … With that she can be! A husband should never ual temptation as it relates to those in
Amendments of the Language (New Haven: stop doing what he agreed to do when authority:
Durrie & Peck, 1833), v. he married. Men: continually over-deliver
throughout your marriage! Drink water from your own cistern and
fresh water from your own well. Should
your springs be dispersed abroad, streams
J.  SHE IS PRAISEWORTHY
of water in the streets? Let them be yours
alone and not for strangers with you. Let
Her children rise up and bless her; her hus- your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the
band also, and he praises her, saying: wife of your youth. As a loving hind and a
“Many daughters have done nobly, but you graceful doe, let her breasts satisfy you at all
excel them all” (Proverbs 31:28–29). times; be exhilarated always with her love
(Proverbs 5:15–19).
Make sure this is the “speak” in your home as
it pertains to you, the godly wife, and that So is the one who goes in to his neighbor’s
your husband is reinforcing that this is the wife; whoever touches her will not go
way the kids address their mother. unpunished (Proverbs 6:29).

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Like a bird that wanders from her nest, so world (cf. Luke 17:29–33). I can hear Lot’s a one for the Solomonic reasons stated. And
is a man who wanders from his home wife saying, “Lot, but I don’t want to if you are such and name the name of
(Proverbs 27:8). leave—it’s such a nice home!” Are you heav- Christ, you have no excuse and must stop
enly minded? Or are you attached to the such behavior. Not only are you driving
Sexual immorality of any kind will greatly, material things of this world? Seek first the your husband crazy, but you’re hurting the
irrevocably harm not only the marriage, kingdom of God (Matthew 6:33). corporate witness of the Body of Christ!
but the opportunity for public service—to The antithesis of contentious found in
say nothing of the impact this sin will have D.  CONTENTIOUS WOMEN: 1  Timothy 2:11–13 teaches that godly
on staff and all those around a morally- DAVID’S WIFE women will be submissive to their hus-
fallen individual. Is a selfish, lustful, momen- bands. Further, glean from this passage that
tary act worth such an enormously high, King Saul gave his daughter Michal to the basis for a woman’s submission is rooted
lifetime-tainting price? No matter how David to be his wife. Laden with sarcasm, 2 in the order of creation—meaning the prin-
“secular” the culture claims to be, God’s Samuel 6:20b records but one incident of ciple is timeless, not cultural (as if this truth
immutable, endemic moral principles are her lack of respect for her husband when were not applicable in today’s society). Do
violated with adultery, and there will she says to him, “How the king of Israel dis- not be contentious.
always be an enormous price to pay. And be tinguished himself today!” Michal is illus-
sure your sin will find you out (Numbers trative of a contentious woman. Solomon, E.  CORRUPTING WOMEN:
32:23b). in fact, is quite repetitious (four times!) AHAB’S WIFE
about a wife’s being contentious toward her
In addition to licentious women, the Bible husband—as if stating the actuality is In 1 Kings 16:31 Israel’s King Ahab marries
is full of other females who emulate a smor- insufficient:
Jezebel, the daughter of the king of the
gasbord of disgraceful behaviors. Beware of
Sidonians, a nation of Baal worshippers.
the following as well: It is better to live in a corner of a roof
Needless to say, Ahab made a huge mistake!
than in a house shared with a contentious
Jezebel illustrates a woman who corrupts
B.  DECEIVABLE WOMEN: woman (Proverbs 21:9).
others, leading her husband and others
ADAM’S WIFE astray (cf. 1 Kings 21:25). She is a leading
It is better to live in a desert land than
contender for the greatest of the not-so-
Second Corinthians 11:3 states the serpent with a contentious and vexing woman
greats; in fact, she just may be the worst
deceived Eve by his craftiness…. Deceived (Proverbs 21:19).
“Bad Babe of the Bible”!
(exapatao) means “to seduce wholly, to per-
suade into disobedience.” Eve is an example It is better to live in a corner of the roof
than in a house shared with a contentious F.  DISCOURAGING
of a woman who was persuadable to do
wrong. She did not possess personal spiri- woman (Proverbs 25:24). WOMEN: JOB’S WIFE
tual fortitude. Accordingly, when alone by
herself she was vulnerable. Is your faith your A constant dripping on a day of steady rain In the midst of life’s downturns, some
own? Don’t have a borrowed and depen- and a contentious woman are alike; he women fall apart. Lacking endurance in the
dent faith. who would restrain her restrains the wind, midst of a trial and unable to handle the
and grasps oil with his right hand (Prov- pressure, they incorrectly reason, “I didn’t
erbs 27:15–16). sign up for this!” Job’s not-so-great wife is
C.  MATERIALISTIC WOMEN:
indicative of such when she states to her dis-
LOT’S WIFE The Hebrew word for contentious traught-in-every-way husband, Curse God
(madon), which appears in each of these and die! ( Job 2:9b; contr. James 1:2–4). Be
Regarding Lot’s wife, Genesis 19:26 states, Proverbs, means “an often perverse and wea- encouraging!
But his wife, from behind him, looked risome tendency to quarrel and dispute.”
back, and she became a pillar of salt. Ear-
lier in verse 17, as Lot and his family G.  MANIPULATIVE
escaped the judgment of Sodom and
This woman is obstinate WOMEN: POTIPHAR’S
Gomorrah, the angel specifically told them: and argumentative, WIFE
Do not look back. Seemingly a small unrelenting in irritation.
instruction, the passage serves as a powerful In Matthew 14:3–8 Herodias seduced her
figurative illustration of someone whose She plays really close to the net in conversa- husband’s brother in order to get her way. In
affections are tied to the things of this tional tennis. Avoid being or marrying such this case that seduction meant the head of

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