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Uts The Looking Glass Self
Uts The Looking Glass Self
” –
Charles Horton Cooley
Author’s background
Charles Horton Cooley born on August 17, 1864 and died in May 7, 1929 is an American sociologist mainly
associated with the University of Michigan where he studied Economics and Sociology. He was the founding
member of the American Sociological Association in 1905. Best known for his concept of "Looking-Glass
Self".
Cooley proposed three steps to how interactions with others form self-identity:
1. We imagine how others see us.
2. We imagine how others assess/judge us.
3. We develop our self-views through these judgments.
Involves:
Action
Appearance
Behavior
Explanation: during social interactions they reflect on these and they began to evaluate how they are presenting
themselves to others.
In this second process Cooley said that we imagine how others assess or judge us. We don’t actually know how
others see or think about us because obviously we can’t read other peoples mind, but we imagine how they
judge us, we imagine how they think about us, about our opinion, outfit, our actions and everything that we do.
In result, the way we view ourselves, is often influenced by the feedback and judgments we receive from others.
Examples:
Pumunta ka sa mall and usually wala ka naman paki sa mga tao but according to Cooley, may something
sa atin na nag urge na ayusin yung galaw natin, ayusin yung lakad natin, yun pagsasalita natin dahil
ayon nga dito sa pangalawang process ay na-imagine natin na may nasasabi sila kahit wala naman, or
naiisip natin na i-judge nila tayo kapag hindi tayo maayos maglakad, or yung outfit natin, diba bago tayo
umalis we always check ourselves muna kasi iniisip natin na baka sabihan ka nilang mataba, payat, or
something bad dahil sa suot mo.
You’re preparing for a job interview at a reputable company for weeks. You’ve researched the company,
practiced answering common interview questions, and dressed professionally. As you walk into the
interview room and sit down with the interviewer, you can't help but imagine how the interviewer is
assessing you. You notice that the interviewer is making quick glances at your attire and grooming. You
hope that your choice of a neatly pressed suit and polished shoes makes a positive impression. You
wonder if the interviewer thinks you look professional and put-together.
Nagrereport ka Infront of your classmates and you are prepared naman at alam mo lahat about dun sa
topic na nirereport mo but according to Cooley may something sa atin na parang sinasabi na ayusin natin
yung pagrereport natin na baka jina-judge na nila tayo because of how we discuss our topic na na-
iimagine natin because of their expression na may mali sa pagsasalita natin.
People imagine how others feel about them based on the judgments they make - And how individual responds to
those perceived judgments.
For example: The teacher mark full of red inks of the student, because she thinks that the student has a potential.
How might student interpret and feel to this? The student will feel she/he is a failure or not intelligent. And the
student is acting the INCORRECT PERCEPTION of what the teacher beliefs. We all know that attitude can
influence our behavior, the student will put less effort instead of what teacher originally wanted.
Here comes the INTERACTION, it can also influence. If the student try to ask the teacher why it happen and
that point the teacher will able to explain in the additional of INTERACTION the student will able to revise
his/her perception.
The critical to this theory is that is Cooley believed that " We are not influenced by the opinion of others but
instead we are being influenced by what we imagine the opinion of other people to be."