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cerinta:Describe an event or experience in the past 2 years that taught you a

lesson. What was that lesson? What do you do differently now because of this?

A few months ago, I started being friends with this girl. We would always stay up
late to chat while we were both preparing for our finals. Even though we should
have been studying, we couldn't resist the urge to talk to one another. Eventually,
we became super close friends and hung out a couple of times after our exams were
over. We always had a blast together.

However, everything changed when she started talking to a guy who felt strange to
me. I didn't want to interfere, but I told her that I didn't think this guy would
treat her right. Unfortunately, she got mad at me and wouldn't let me explain
myself. We stopped talking for a month, and it was a very tough time for me. I
missed my best friend, and I was worried about her getting hurt because she's such
a kind and caring person.

Luckily, I bumped into some of her friends at the mall one day, and they told me
that she had stopped talking to that guy because she didn't want anything to do
with him anymore. They told me to message her if I wanted to try to restart our
friendship because she told them she missed me. And that's what I did, messaged
her, and we started talking again. To my surprise, the guy actually cared a lot
about her, and she showed me some screenshots of their conversations.

I learned that you can't judge people before getting to know them better. Since
then, I have stopped judging people before I have a chance to understand them.
Although our friendship isn't the same as before, we are slowly but surely
rebuilding it.