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The truth is, you’ve probably collected all the clues you need already. If you look closely at your
relationship, the answer might be clearer than you’d think. Ready to find out if you’re dating
Allison N.
your soulmate? Click “Start Quiz” now. Sep 28
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9. Do you like who he is now or are you in love with his potential?
A. I’m definitely hoping that he’ll start treating me better.
B. I don’t know him well enough to say for sure yet.
C. I love him, but part of me hopes he’ll become a better partner over time.
D. I love him exactly as he is—faults and all.
12. Can you trust him to tell you the truth and treat you well?
A. Definitely not.
B. I don’t have any reason not to trust him I guess.
C. Usually, but I might not have 100% faith in him.
D. There isn’t a doubt in my mind. I can definitely trust him.
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Is just one person the one? “Soulmates” are rooted in ancient philosophy. The idea is that
somewhere out there, one person’s soul is a perfect match for yours. And when you two are
united, you’ll become whole, together. Soulmates are all about romantic fate and they promise
personal fulfillment through true love—but whether or not soulmates exist can’t be proven.
Some people swear by their “second half,” and others feel certain that there’s more than one
person for everyone. At the end of the day, it’s up to you to decide where you fall.
The problem with “soulmate” ideology: Over the years, “soulmates” have been criticized by
notable names in philosophy. Plato, for instance, says that we shouldn’t rely on someone else
to complete us in life. After all, to assume a person’s fragmented until they find that special
someone—that’s a pretty limiting idea. In fact, relationship experts typically say the opposite;
the more independent and confident you are in yourself alone, the happier you tend to be in
romance.
Co-creating your dream relationship: It might make sense to adopt a more flexible
perspective on finding and maintaining love. Maybe soulmates are more forged than
discovered. You can find someone amazing, but then, the relationship that follows is built
through hard work and commitment. Ending up with “the one” might take a little work—open
dialogue, active appreciation, and genuine respect. Deciding that true love doesn’t just happen
to you, but is something you make happen gives you control over your own destiny. Once
you’ve found someone who makes you feel all the feels, how can you create that next-level
romance? Try these tips below:
Communication. Make open dialogue a norm in your relationship. When you discuss
important feelings or events with your partner, remember that you’re on the same team,
working to improve the same partnership. Avoid name-calling and intentional hurt; aim to find a
compromise, no matter the situation.
Trust. Set boundaries and norms in your relationship and then hold them sacred. Trust is the
bedrock of any healthy partnership. Strive to be an honest and faithful partner, and if you do
break each other’s trust, take the healing process seriously.
Connection. Intimacy is key to romance, so even when things get busy, you should always
prioritize your time together. Plan exciting dates, surprise each other, and if it’s important to
both of you, maintain your physical connection too. Especially in long-term relationships, put in
effort to keep the spark alive.
Support. In a healthy relationship, your partner should bring you closer to your ideal life and
self—not distract you from it. The most satisfying relationships allow room for mutual growth, so
be sure to encourage your partner’s individual goals and dreams.
For more information about love, relationships, and soulmates, check out these awesome
sources...
https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-behind-lust-attraction-
companionship/
https://healthcare.utah.edu/the-scope/shows.php?shows=0_q6d390u8
https://humanities.byu.edu/plato-and-soul-mates/
https://www.amherst.edu/campuslife/health-safety-
wellness/counseling/self_care/healthy_relationships/10_tips_for_health_relationships
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